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PapiNick:
I have always been a fan of this forum and I enjoy always reading peoples stories and comments. I figured out it will be nice to share my story with all of you guys.

Since I was young I normally hear that money can buy you everything including love but somehow I usually did dispute that part because I started my relationship with my girl pretty young while we were in secondary school and we dated up till last year more than 16years we have been together.

We started while our both parents were sort of still hustling so we saw some really bad period of suffering but by God's grace things got better for my parents over time and even when my parents got super wealthy I didn't leave her for anything. I supported her all the way through her uni, I made sure I took really good care of her and her younger ones as well as her parents most times because they knew us together so well.

Like they say, life is not always a bed of roses and I believe I have gotten my own fair share of it but I also know that no condition is parmanent. Things got really messy when my dad got terribly ill and we had to spend so much on his health. We even had to fly him overseas for proper treatment and this affected our finances so well that we had to sell most of the properties we had and even the factory and hotel we were building had to be stopped and might be sold if need be as things stand now.

Seeing the circumstances am facing right now, I was shocked to see that this lady I have done so much for and it was already glaring that marriage was the next big thing we were thinking of suddenly is getting married to some guy that just came back from abroad. I have been really broken but I had to accept my faith and face the fact that I have suddenly lost everything apart from my life and the love for my family.

The years invested into this relationship and was so faithful in it because I truly loved her just crushed in the twinkle of an eye all because she now feels insecure that I might not rise again or that I won't be able to take care of her.

Now I know better that everything really does have a price and love is just God and nothing else.

That your gf no try at all. I can bet her parents forced her into it. Take time out and heal OK and I'm sure she does not Love that guy. You can call it Marriage of Convenience

yemmit90:
Reason some of you guys will still fall mugu with your low income thinking one stupid girl love you for who you are.

There are still ladies out there who date broke guys who have nothing to offer.

I swear any Nigeria babe can dump you for a rich dude and love him till the end of her life.

What is your own definition of Love? You can't just brandish it about like that.

Just move on already, she wasn't meant for you.

Nma27:
Its not that easy... He needs to heal first

CAN YOU HEAL HIM FOR US

Women are like moths drawn to the flame, or like a prize(trophy) that you win depending on your success in life. With this mindset, heartbreak becomes perfunctory. So take consolation in the fact that your girl is the same as every girl/woman out there and that all men must collectively bear this inherent disloyalty of womenfolk.

I wish your dad quick recovery.
As for your girlfriend that dump u, don't worry is good riddance. Is better to have a broken relationship than broken marriage. Just concentrate on giving your Dad all the care and love he need now

BoboYekini:
Women are like moths drawn to the flame, or like a prize(trophy) that you win depending on your success in life. With this mindset, heartbreak becomes perfunctory. So take consolation in the fact that your girl is the same as every girl/woman out there and that all men must collectively bear this inherent disloyalty of womenfolk.

Honestly bro, i wish i could copy this down somewhere, so i can come back and read later in the future.

Even in the days of the bible, David was given Saul's daughter as a prize of Killing Goliath. Because he was successful.

The amount of time used in convincing a lady to settle down with you depends on how successful you are at that moment.

Success in this age: means Financial success.

Afigba to shey dandan pe koshemo

Dem don do this one skenchi.

Op! Shine your eyes in your next adventure. The silver lining in this case is that you got to know the kind of woman your missus is b4 it's too late.

dingbang:
lol I still day ooo..miss u sha... Am pming u now

Me i no miss una ... been stressfree

schumastic:
CAN YOU HEAL HIM FOR US

I need healing sef

Naija babe? Fear them. Stop loving up with them...A (Soji) man should date Naija gal with brain and sense not with heart running with emotions....

Nma27:
I need healing sef

really tell me something I don't know

Nma27:
I need healing sef

really tell me something I don't know

Bumbae1:
Me i no miss una ... been stressfree

hahaha

Learn the rules bro. AS FAR A GUL IS NOT MARRIED SHE'S AVAILABLE TO THE HIGHEST BIDDER.. Move on.

Friendzone:
Take note : Money can't buy Love


What She's feeling for the other guy is not love ,What she felt for you wasn't love too


You and the other guy are just means to an end from Her own view.

No vex oga but can you please tell us what love is?

The pendulum swings in both directions...

Even guys abandon ladies when their fortune takes a turn for the worst

OP, please be honest - If the lady you were dating suddenly has an accident and becomes crippled, would you still go ahead and marry her?

that's ladies for u. bunch of gold diggers
they are good for nothing bt to bleep

Kobicove:
The pendulum swings in both directions...

Even guys abandon ladies when their fortune takes a turn for the worst

OP, please be honest - If the lady you were dating suddenly has an accident and becomes crippled, would you still go ahead and marry her?

I would do anything for a lady I love. Just so you know that. Love sees only the heart and not the physical. I just want you to note that.

PapiNick:
I have always been a fan of this forum and I enjoy always reading peoples stories and comments. I figured out it will be nice to share my story with all of you guys.

Since I was young I normally hear that money can buy you everything including love but somehow I usually did dispute that part because I started my relationship with my girl pretty young while we were in secondary school and we dated up till last year more than 16years we have been together.

We started while our both parents were sort of still hustling so we saw some really bad period of suffering but by God's grace things got better for my parents over time and even when my parents got super wealthy I didn't leave her for anything. I supported her all the way through her uni, I made sure I took really good care of her and her younger ones as well as her parents most times because they knew us together so well.

Like they say, life is not always a bed of roses and I believe I have gotten my own fair share of it but I also know that no condition is parmanent. Things got really messy when my dad got terribly ill and we had to spend so much on his health. We even had to fly him overseas for proper treatment and this affected our finances so well that we had to sell most of the properties we had and even the factory and hotel we were building had to be stopped and might be sold if need be as things stand now.

Seeing the circumstances am facing right now, I was shocked to see that this lady I have done so much for and it was already glaring that marriage was the next big thing we were thinking of suddenly is getting married to some guy that just came back from abroad. I have been really broken but I had to accept my faith and face the fact that I have suddenly lost everything apart from my life and the love for my family.

The years invested into this relationship and was so faithful in it because I truly loved her just crushed in the twinkle of an eye all because she now feels insecure that I might not rise again or that I won't be able to take care of her.

Now I know better that everything really does have a price and love is just God and nothing else.

Moral of the.......dont invest all ur heart and money on a naija lady.naija ladies are unpredictable.

"I know these biitches gon change, fukcing whoever whenever they see a cheque" - Meek Mill, Offended

"Hoez be hoez don't let them make you mad" - Kid Ink, Rounds

"These hoez ain't loyal" - Chris Brown, Loyal