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It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Kondomatic(op): 5:31pm On Jan 20, 2017

I believe y'all have heard that only cowards and weakling hit women.

That is what feminists and feminism wants us to believe. What they're actually saying is that men should dole out the most violence, most of it to other men and then protect women because they weak.

This is all shades of wrong, first is that the same message is being spread by people who are totally against gender discrimination and gender shaming. A group that want women to be given equal treatment and opportunities as men.

A group that want women to be seen as human beings first and not be denied certain things simply because they're woman.

A group that believe that women are capable of doing everything a man can do except hurting a man. Of course, that's what the saying implies.

A group that says it is wrong to treat people differently because of their gender.

Sadly, men have been zombiefied to believe that hitting a woman is an act of cowardice.

How can you say that it's wrong to treat people differently because of their gender and still say that a man should not hit a woman because she's a woman?

Double standard?

Previously, I would have thought it wrong to hit a woman. But really, should we discriminate against women on the basis of their gender?

Feminists have made it clear to us that such discrimination is wrong, and that they are want gender equality. And as a man who believes in treating women with respect and dignity, I now understand that the best way to show a woman respect is to jump in the air, spin around in a one-eighty-degree arc while simultaneously lifting your right leg, and then delivering a flying spin-kick into the chin of a woman who disrespects you—just like you'd do to any man.

Gender equality is a good thing. Together, we can take down the patriarchy. It begins with you and me.

Don't hit anybody but whoever hits you first has no right to complain if you hit back.

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Jafar1: 5:39pm On Jan 20, 2017

Shooo, forget that yeye talk oo, any stupid woman wey try me will not go free, she go chop serious beating

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Kondomatic(op): 5:45pm On Jan 20, 2017

Jafar1:
Shooo, forget that yeye talk oo, any stupid woman wey try me will not go free, she go chop serious beating

They have forgotten that many women are aggressive, can take decent hits and beat a guy senseless.

cc.
Lalasticlala

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by brandonobi(m): 5:52pm On Jan 20, 2017

this write up is actually accurate, but not everyone would agree. concern dem this na true talk.

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Kondomatic(op): 5:55pm On Jan 20, 2017

brandonobi:
this write up is actually accurate, but not everyone would agree. concern dem this na true talk.

Thanks bro.

I pray make Lalasticlala push it to fp make we get feminists' opinion

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by kabrud: 5:55pm On Jan 20, 2017

Jafar1:
Shooo, forget that yeye talk oo, any stupid woman wey try me will not go free, she go chop serious beating

It is actually an act of cowardice for a woman to strike u and the best u could do is to start saying "because she is a woman". God forbid. Some will just be looking at her because of some yeye legal implications (only God knows where that yeye law is written) that u should not hit a woman. Gender equality is not about behaving like an idiot when a woman hit u, it is actually about taking ur own pound of flesh from any b1tch that hit u first except mum, elder sisters or aunts. Nonsense, mtchewww. Guys that preach these kind of nonsense are the ideal women wrappers, he-goats.

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Jafar1: 5:59pm On Jan 20, 2017

kabrud:
It is actually an act of cowardice for a woman to strike u and the best u could do is to start saying "because she is a woman". God forbid. Some will just be looking at her because of some yeye legal implications (only God knows where that yeye law is written) that u should not hit a woman. Gender equality is not about behaving like an idiot when a woman hit u, it is actually about taking ur own pound of flesh from any b1tch that hit u first except mum, elder sisters or aunts. Nonsense, mtchewww. Guys that preach these kind of nonsense are the ideal women wrappers, he-goats.

NO MIND THEM, HIT ME I HIT U, GOD NO GO VEX

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by MizMyColi(f): 6:01pm On Jan 20, 2017

I cannot for the life of me understand why this issue of hitting and feminism and women should be in the same sentence made by you.

You are mostly what you attract to your life...
Have you been having thoughts of hitting women should they hit you?
Why should this even be a topic to deliberate on?

Here in Africa, we can agree or not...but that equality issue does not pan out. This is who we are, it's our reality. I am not playing down the role of feminism, but I think most people who practice it lose touch with the core ideologies and then begin to scamper over inconsequentials like what the OP is talking about.

If we employ equity and fairness in our relationships as lovers, co-workers, neighbors and in other spheres...you will find that there is no need for the squabbles between feminazis and anti-feminazis

Whether it's your fellow man that hits you, or a woman that hits you, the honorable thing to do is to not react, if you choose to react, then be ready for whatever the fallout might be.

Btw, what is wrong in not hitting back because she is a woman?
It's the same way some women would not counter their husband's order in the home, because he's the man.
For me, it is natural, or as a result of acculturation that we see these things this way.

Instead of going back and forth on an issue like this, I would rather engage myself in something productive or one that adds value to me and others.

Matters like these are like an ill wind that will blow no one no good.

.....except of course you are in the mood for controversy.

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jan 20, 2017

Actually some hardcore feminist in Askfeminist reddit told me it's sexist to not hit a lady because she's a woman. I dont hit women though not my thing.

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by kabrud: 6:08pm On Jan 20, 2017

Jafar1:
NO MIND THEM, HIT ME I HIT U, GOD NO GO VEX

Bro, the best, I mean, the very best I can do for a woman if she offends me is that I will not hit her, but if she raise her hand on me, oboy na proper fight oh, as in fight as per man and man.

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jan 20, 2017*

MizMyColi:
I cannot for the life of me understand why this issue of hitting and feminism and women should be in the same sentence made by you.

Walahi my heart goes out to the hardcore feminists who understand what the cause is about. Feminism in Nigeria has been reduced to brain draining arguments_ from washing paent, to who will pound akpu, now beating.

What if the woman that did the hitting isn't a feminist, I guess that makes it okay not to hit back. grin

Nna ehn! !

pcguru1:
Actually some hardcore feminist in Askfeminist reddit told me it's sexist to not hit a lady because she's a woman. I dont hit women though not my thing.

Yes, I agree with them.
If a man slaps me, as a woman...I will slap back. It will be sexist if I don't... cheesy

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Kondomatic(op): 6:16pm On Jan 20, 2017

MizMyColi:
Btw, what is wrong in not hitting back because she is a woman?
It's the same way some women would not counter their husband's order in the home, because he's the man.

If you don't hit her back, that means you have treated her differently because of her gender. The very thing feminism is put to stop.

I am not sure of the later.

BTW, how have you been?

I wanted to call you on Xmas day and New Year but I have lost your contact.

You can give me a missed call or say hi on whatsapp if you still have mine.

Tall man.

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Kondomatic(op): 6:18pm On Jan 20, 2017*

PaperLace:
Walahi my heart goes out to the hardcore feminist who understand what the cause is about. Feminism in Nigeria has been reduced to brain draining arguments_ from washing paent, to who will pound akpu, now beating.

Nna ehn! !
What if the woman that did the hitting isn't a feminist, I guess that makes it okay not to hit back.

You don't seem to understand what the post is about?

Nobody should hit anybody and whoever hits should expect being hit. It's simple as that.

Economy is bad and we're supposed to start arguing on who to hit.

Forget the economy Madam, Feminism is designating one gender as an acceptable target for violence and one gender as exempt from violence and you expect us to fold hand and watch them destroy common sense because our economy is down?

The different sections on Naira land serves different purposes and here's not the right place to talk about our economy and we keep posting here as long as this section is not closed because the economy is down.

pcguru1:
Actually some hardcore feminist in Askfeminist reddit told me it's sexist to not hit a lady because she's a woman. I dont hit women though not my thing.

I don't like hitting people, male or female but if a woman hits me, I will forget that she has breasts and hit her back. No gentleman in the grave.

They said that we should not hit back because they're weak but if primary school taught me anything it's to not make trouble with anyone who's stronger than you cause you will be beaten.

The crazy thing though is that the mentality that men shouldn't hit women because they're weak exposes women to more danger.

It makes women believe that something invisible somewhere is holding the man from hitting back so would go looking for his troubles.

Solange attacked Jay-Z and got away with it but what if it was Tupac or a random drug addict, would she still be alive today?

What we should tell people is to not hit anyone because it's wrong and to be ready for the consequences once they hit first.

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by kabrud: 6:24pm On Jan 20, 2017

MizMyColi:
I cannot for the life of me understand why this issue of hitting and feminism and women should be in the same sentence made by you.

You are mostly what you attract to your life...
Have you been having thoughts of hitting women should they hit you?
Why should this even be a topic to deliberate on?

Here in Africa, we can agree or not...but that equality issue does not pan out. This is who we are, it's our reality. I am not playing down the role of feminism, but I think most people who practice it lose touch with the core ideologies and then begin to scamper over inconsequentials like what the OP is talking about.

If we employ equity and fairness in our relationships as lovers, co-workers, neighbors and in other spheres...you will find that there is no need for the squabbles between feminazis and anti-feminazis

Whether it's your fellow man that hits you, or a woman that hits you, the honorable thing to do is to not react, if you choose to react, then be ready for whatever the fallout might be.

Btw, what is wrong in not hitting back because she is a woman?
It's the same way some women would not counter their husband's order in the home, because he's the man.
For me, it is natural, or as a result of acculturation that we see these things this way.

Instead of going back and forth on an issue like this, I would rather engage myself in something productive or one that adds value to me and others.

Matters like these are like an ill wind that will blow no one no good.

.....except of course you are in the mood for controversy.

For couples, it may be tolerated for a woman to hit her husband without retaliation cos conversely, no woman will even take orders from a man she is not married to or that is not her boss. The topic is about neighbours, colleagues or even in the market or any other public place in which case, my mum/wife/sister/aunt will not forgive me for such stupidity even though she is a woman.

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Nobody: 6:28pm On Jan 20, 2017

Na so one girl during my university days whooze me better slap. On top titration argument o. I do like man come leave her as I've never hit a woman in my life. But I loose focus for like 5 mins. The girl slap dey on point die. After lectures I try wan make peace with her as a good guy.

.... I never talk much she don land me another one. My brothers God bless that lady. That slap reset my hard disk. If you play mortal combat you go know this code(box triangle box o o o box box box box). I give her subzero finishing.

People tell me say I Bleep up but if that girl slap land again na hospital straight. And the whole school go use am sing say woman beat cummando. And I be hall chairman then o.

I've never laid my hands on another lady. Don't pray to but any woman wey wan show imself.... Ma lo wa o! I go perform litmus test for her face. I go beat her blue black

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jan 20, 2017

Kondomatic:
You don't seem to understand what the post is about?

Nobody should hit anybody and whoever hits should expect being hit. It's simple as that.

Then I think feminism should be removed from the post. The idea of not slapping a woman back is more of 'cultural'. Has nothing to do with feminism.
Except you can show me where a 'feminist' (not misguided females)said a woman who hits a man doesn't deserved to be hit back in 'equal measure'.
Please refer to pcguru1's post, I don't know why you ain't seeing that one.

The only acceptable reason to ignore should be because one doesn't believe in violence.
I wonder why you guys are so hell-bent on the female side, I have seen women asked not to respond because it's a man. Did heaven fall?
Economy is bad and we're supposed to start arguing on who to hit.

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by megareal: 8:00pm On Jan 20, 2017

As far as I'm concerned, no adult should hit another adult. Control your emotions no matter the provocation. But if a man happens to hit me first for any reason , please be ready for my trouble because I will unleash all the arsenals I have to fight you to a standstill. And since I take things too far, I will ensure you are consistently beaten for the next six months, wherever and however, until I am satisfied. Case closed.

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by cococandy(f): 8:06pm On Jan 20, 2017

If a woman hits you first. You're well within your rights to defend yourself.

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jan 20, 2017

PaperLace:
Walahi my heart goes out to the hardcore feminists who understand what the cause is about. Feminism in Nigeria has been reduced to brain draining arguments_ from washing paent, to who will pound akpu, now beating.

What if the woman that did the hitting isn't a feminist, I guess that makes it okay not to hit back.
Nna ehn! !

Yes, I agree with them.
If a man slaps me, as a woman...I will slap back. It will be sexist if I don't...

Technically it would be reverse sexism. Lol I saw the word online and decided to find any opportunity to use the word. I feel accomplished wink

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jan 20, 2017

cococandy:
If a woman hits you first. You're well within your rights to defend yourself.

Well true but I'd rather not hit back because regardless of the explaination you will still be termed a woman beater unless she's a threat to my life

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by cococandy(f): 8:32pm On Jan 20, 2017

pcguru1:
Well true but I'd rather not hit back because regardless of the explaination you will still be termed a woman beater unless she's a threat to my life

The only reason I would not hit a man back if he hits me first would be if I think he's strong enough to do me serious harm should we go into a fight.
Otherwise, I'll hit him back.

People will always have stuff to say about any gender hitting back. The man would be termed a woman beater if he hits back at a woman who hits him first while a woman would be called disrespectful feminist if she hits back at a man who hits her first.

All of those are BS to me. If you know you can retaliate without causing yourself more harm, by all means do so. What people will say should not matter.

The only exception is when your response is not proportional to the initial assault. Say a person slaps you and instead of slapping back, you hit them on the head with a heavy object or stab them. Well that's a different scenario and most people will blame you justifiably.

Otherwise tit for tat.

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by aljharem(m): 8:34pm On Jan 20, 2017

I for one HATE FEMINISM because it is everything wrong in a society. With that said, PLEASE OP don't hit a woman o !!!! unless ofcourse you are trying to defend yourself.

Women are weaker than men. FACT !!!! You can hit me with a plank and I would probably just passout at worse. If you hit most women with a plank, most likely she/they may passout and die. Not saying some women are not strong/tougher than men but majority of them just get mouth.

It is not worth it. Trust me !!!! Avoid anything that will make you go physical with any woman because you can start it but you do not know where it would end !!!!

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by MizMyColi(f): 8:48pm On Jan 20, 2017

kabrud:
For couples, it may be tolerated for a woman to hit her husband without retaliation cos conversely, no woman will even take orders from a man she is not married to or that is not her boss. The topic is about neighbours, colleagues or even in the market or any other public place in which case, my mum/wife/sister/aunt will not forgive me for such stupidity even though she is a woman.

But why would I allow myself to have squabbles that will lead to a fight with strangers for that matter.
Something must be fundamentally wrong then.
Na wa oo

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jan 20, 2017

cococandy:
The only reason I would not hit a man back if he hits me first would be if I think he's strong enough to do me serious harm should we go into a fight.
Otherwise, I'll hit him back.

Otherwise tit for tat.

[color=#000050] I "Do Not" stand for violence in relationships but when i hear airheads like you talk like this, i will "delightfully" understand why any violent action taken against you by your partner is justified

It's wrong to hit anyone Male/Female, Human beings shouldn't hit one another, Period!!!

I don't think that a "mentally sound" man will be aggressive towards his partner without some form of "physical/psychological provocation" clowns like you stoke such provocations

Feminism is about having a "voice" and being "heard" not by being a fastidious retárd

Did you loan out your senses or you inherited such ludicrousness?

What kind of "well mannered, mentally sound" woman attacks a man #REPULSIVE TOAD [/color]

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by MizMyColi(f): 8:51pm On Jan 20, 2017

PaperLace:
Then I think feminism should be removed from the post. The idea of not slapping a woman back is more of 'cultural'. Has nothing to do with feminism.
Except you can show me where a 'feminist' (not misguided females)said a woman who hits a man doesn't deserved to be hit back in 'equal measure'.
Please refer to pcguru1's post, I don't know why you ain't seeing that one.

The only acceptable reason to ignore should be because one doesn't believe in violence.
I wonder why you guys are so hell-bent on the female side, I have seen women asked not to respond because it's a man. Did heaven fall?
Economy is bad and we're supposed to start arguing on who to hit.

This is the only and absolute reason.

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by pocohantas(f): 8:55pm On Jan 20, 2017

bbmpin:
[color=#000050] I "Do Not" stand for violence in relationships but when i hear airheads like you talk like this, i will "delightfully" understand why any violent action taken against you by your partner is justified

It's wrong to hit anyone Male/Female, Human beings shouldn't hit one another, Period!!!

I don't think that a "mentally sound" man will be aggressive towards his partner without some form of "physical/psychological provocation" clowns like you stoke such provocations

Feminism is about having a "voice" and being "heard" not by being a fastidious retárd

Did you loan out your senses or you inherited such ludicrousness?

What kind of "well mannered, mentally sound" woman attacks a man #REPULSIVE TOAD [/color]

You're the toad.
What is wrong in what she said? Isn't it self defense?
You didn't call the OP a toad for starting a thread like this. You this unflinching hypocrite.

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jan 20, 2017

pcguru1:
Technically it would be reverse sexism. Lol I saw the word online and decided to find any opportunity to use the word. I feel accomplished

Hahaha. I'm happy I gave you the opportunity to use it.
I saw this posts of yours and I wanted to reply, I decided to mind my business small. Maybe some other time_ I will talk about it.

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by kabrud: 9:29pm On Jan 20, 2017

MizMyColi:
But why would I allow myself to have squabbles that will lead to a fight with strangers for that matter.
Something must be fundamentally wrong then.
Na wa oo

Yes, it does happen. Nobody goes out every morning in search of troubles but people sometimes go home with them. E.g cases of theft or attempted theft can lead to that and u expect me to keep quiet because I don't like problem, right? Right in my presence, a lady was slapping an okada man, dragging him and tearing his clothes but when the man got his balance, a single hit from him sent this lady down and as usual, people around started blaming the okada man for hitting a lady. But u know what? The lady had actually dragged his phone while she was on his bike but unknown to her, he was fully aware of what she had done and he just allowed her. When she came down from the bike, the okada man demanded for his phone from her and the next action is what we witnessed . But for the intervention of some guys, this lady would have been lynched. Did this okada man plan that his phone will be stolen and eventually get himself involved in this kind of situation. Problems appear in different forms.

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by cococandy(f): 9:36pm On Jan 20, 2017

Go take your meds.

bbmpin:
[color=#000050] I "Do Not" stand for violence in relationships but when i hear airheads like you talk like this, i will "delightfully" understand why any violent action taken against you by your partner is justified

It's wrong to hit anyone Male/Female, Human beings shouldn't hit one another, Period!!!

I don't think that a "mentally sound" man will be aggressive towards his partner without some form of "physical/psychological provocation" clowns like you stoke such provocations

Feminism is about having a "voice" and being "heard" not by being a fastidious retárd

Did you loan out your senses or you inherited such ludicrousness?

What kind of "well mannered, mentally sound" woman attacks a man #REPULSIVE TOAD [/color]

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by cococandy(f): 9:37pm On Jan 20, 2017

pocohantas:
You're the toad.
What is wrong in what she said? Isn't it self defense?
You didn't call the OP a toad for starting a thread like this. You this unflinching hypocrite.

You can see when someone types before thinking.
He obviously didn't read my post.

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Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by MizMyColi(f): 10:04pm On Jan 20, 2017

Kondomatic:
If you don't hit her back, that means you have treated her differently because of her gender. The very thing feminism is put to stop.

I am not sure of the later.

BTW, how have you been?

I wanted to call you on Xmas day and New Year but I have lost your contact.

You can give me a missed call or say hi on whatsapp if you still have mine.

Tall man.

I have messaged you

Re: It Is Sexist And Stupid To Not Hit A Woman Because She's A Woman. by misspicy(f): 10:27pm On Jan 20, 2017

Because I'm a woman;
1)I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

2)I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.[/b[

3) I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality

4)My husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him"

[b]Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me.
But don't forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!!
Dedicated to Every Woman who is a Victim of Domestic Violence and Injustice
You are Not Less of a Being

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