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Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by superior494(m): 1:40pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
STUPID THINGS A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER MARRIAGE There are fifteen stupid things a Wife can do to mess up her marriage, I want you to check them carefully and avoid them. 1) DARING HER HUSBAND TO BEAT HER: You block the door way, and then dare him to beat you and see what will happen. Lots of women have done this in the past and they end up regretting it. It is unwise to do this. 2) DARING HER HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN: You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman. You may live to regret it 3) NEGLECTING TO DRESS RIGHTLY BECAUSE SHE IS MARRIED: “I am married, who is looking at me” That was the defense of Mrs Layi when she was confronted for the reason why she dressed so shabbily. It is the mistake of most careless married women and it’s a major mistake you can make 4) DENYING HER HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY: You are a career woman; you feel sex in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body regularly, so he is sexually starved and intimacy famished. His secretary, colleagues, and girls in church are begging him to come but you padlock your skirt. I can see danger signal. 5) LEAVING HER HUSBAND FOR HER FRIEND TO CATER FOR: “My friend please be my eye as I travelled for this one week, help cater for my husband and my little kids” That was Mrs Rosa when she made the journey she will later regret all her life. By the time she came back her friend had really helped her by sleeping with her husband. She later eloped with the man, leaving her own husband and two children. It is very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your beautiful and very active but Godless friend. 6) LEAVING HER HUSBAND IN THE HAND OF HER HOUSE MAID: Your maid is the one that cooks, cleans the house, and cares for the children and your husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid, all you do is to shout and back orders, nobody will snatch your husband you are the one graciously giving him to those that need him. 7) EMPLOYING FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED LADY AS A MAID: She is fully grown, well-endowed in the back and very tantalizing in the front, dresses like an actress, cat walks like a model and that is your own house maid? What a mistake! EMPLOYING HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN HER: Employing a house girl more beautiful than them is a major technical mistake most women make. In the process many of them used their money to employ a rival for themselves. Don’t be foolish when getting a maid. 9) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND: Your husband is growing; you are sitting down at home eating. He is dressing like a guy with jeans and face cap; you are celebrating the fact that you are a married woman. Your husband is on twitter, facebook, whatshap, skype etc; the only thing you know about phone is to receive and make call. Your husband is talking about stock market; you only talk about tomato market. He is talking about Forex; you are talking about fruit and vegetables. 10) FAILING TO COMMIT HER FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD: A wife won’t do well if she fails to commit her family into the hands of God regularly. Don’t make this mistake, be prayerful, hand over your family to God. May you never labor in vain! 11) FIGHING HER MOTHER-IN-LAW: You may fight your Mother-in-law dirty and think you can win, you will end up losing. Her son and herself have been friends and lovers for years; may be before you were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of your husband and also the first ‘girlfriend’. Her son cannot divorce her and she is more experienced than you in matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many conflicts. 12) TELLING HER FRIENDS ABOUT HER SEX LIFE: when you tell your friend about your sex life she can size you up and know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not. She can even know your husband “turn on” and use it against him and grab your husband. Most women have carelessly lost their husband as they complain to their friends “my husband is too demanding, he does not know anything but sex, I’m not a horse, I can’t kill myself” A friend will pick information like this and cover things up where you’ve been failing. 13) REPORTING HER HUSBAND TO HIS MUM: It looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum, but the end result will end up hurting you. Most mothers will support their sons any day; children are always right before their Mothers. Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum. 14) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF THEIR HUSBANDS: Many wives do abandon their husbands, denying them of love, care and attention as soon as babies begin to arrive. To sleep in bed, they put the Baby between themselves and their husband, making the man to feel lost in his own house. 15) USING SEX WRONGLY: sex is supposed to bind you together, it supposed to create intimacy and love but in many homes it is the bone of contention. Some women do turn sex to a tool of manipulation; some use it for trade by barter. Some wives will suddenly become commanders at home when their husbands touch them for sex, ordering the man around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and check whether our children are sleeping” this is very bad. Some wives sleep like log of wood in bed while some even wear jean knickers to bed. If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage deeply and you may destroy your future also. He'll start lusting and chasing sexy daughters of jezebel out there who may fetish him out of home to themselves A smart wife builds her home, the stupid ones are careless. I know you'll be like....Why can't he have self control and stay faithful? Forget it dear. We are all humans and things push women to do things they never planned. Be wise!!!! https://m.facebook.com/shericharamba/posts/648532972012906 Please do well to add yours 87 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Adaowerri111: 1:43pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Goat wey wan lost go still lost 85 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Adaowerri111: abi 12 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Akshow: 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Replace the title with fifteen stupid things couples do that mess up their marriage. All of the above in reverse can apply to men 1. Threatening ur wife with beating. 2. don't dare your wife to sleep with another man 3. Growing pot belly and neglecting ur look as a man. 4. Not phucking ur wife as she deserves to be phucked. 5. Don't leave ur wife for a friend to take care of. 6. Don't leave ur wife or neglect ur wife for ur hot house boy, driver or gate man 7. Employing a full grown man as house boy or gate man. 8. Don't employ a domestic staff hitter than u. 9. Using 1960s mentality of a woman as ur slave in 2017 10. U are the head of the family. Invite God to ur family 11. Fighting ur mother in law unnecessarily. 12. Telling ur friends ur bedroom business. 13. Reporting ur wife to her mum 14. Letting children take over ur love for her. 15. Punishing ur wife with sex.. .. .. hmmmmmmm ur name na sorry. 118 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Why would a sane husband put his wife in a position that she has to dare him to beat her? It is just plain wrong. A decent man won't be moved whether the maid he is left with is miss world. A wife shld know sex is an important tool in a marriage. You can't deprive him of that. It is not just a tool to recreate, it is also a tool to bond. A woman who doesn't care about her looks obviously is creating a room for the husband to cheat. The husband as well as a role to play. He should ensure to correct her, buy her clothes, encourage her. This is a team work. Can't wait to be a family man. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Caustics: 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by jazinogold(m): 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
This is serious..... but if she no sabi cook n do, forget it! 2 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Arian11(m): 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Feminists wont like this ...third wave feminists want cuckolds as husbands...the one they call command and obey like it is charm excellent piece OP. 7 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by itiswellandwell: 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Nice points. Will send this link to my ex. Check my signature for your quality customised Atm card flash drive. 2 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Papiikush: 3:01pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
15 is too much. I don't have time for all that. One thing you will do to mess up our marriage. Cheat on me....Bìtch I will never come back to you even if Jesus asked. 3 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 3:01pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Ok make I park my okada here. |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by OVA200(m): 3:01pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Lalasticlala This is the type of thread we need in front page not Mercy Aigbe palaver or Husspuppy or Hushdoggy. Op weldone. 3 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
an interesting read 1 Like |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by TroubleMaker47(m): 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Adaowerri111:Na lie! Rope nkor? 4 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Segadem(m): 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
hmmmm, the topics that make front page these days about family, gives no options for women. Is it only women that can mess up their marriages? 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Rukkydelta(f): 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Pavore9: 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
As if a man has no mind of his own. A married man or woman who wants to be faithful, will be faithful. 1 Like |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by obinna58(m): 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
No 10 is bulshit |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Segadem(m): 3:03pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
TroubleMaker47:hehe, u never see goat who chop rope before? |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by funnynation(m): 3:03pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Truth but person wey wan waka go still waka 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by KingEbukasBlog(m): 3:04pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Nenejeje(f): 3:04pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
nice one op 2 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Dopeyomi(m): 3:04pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by government77(f): 3:05pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Nice write up. This is the type of informative and educative materials that we need. Kudos to the writer. 5 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by tron23(m): 3:05pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
This is a very insightful article. God bless you bro. 6 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Lilimax(f): 3:05pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
This one cracked me up: USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND 10 Likes |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by uglodoh(f): 3:06pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
If my husband does something wrong who do I report to.? My Pastor? 1 Like |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by silkytouch(m): 3:06pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
ziego: Really funny shii 1 Like |
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Oladelson(m): 3:06pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
is okay continu |
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