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Igbos:
Clean him up and get him fresh clothes to wear..

What were you thinking?

That's a wrong way to deal with a kid. Tomorrow, he will repeat the same thing since he knows mummy won't do anything

montezz:
Good for you. The boy in that picture doesn't look like one that was pushed into the mud by his peers. I will know what my son is capable of doing..wouldn't I?

for how long will you beat him; till grow up over night?

biko relax joor na this kind pikin De sabi book pass

wadetaw202:
That's a wrong way to deal with a kid. Tomorrow, he will repeat the same thing since he knows mummy won't do anything

what if he's a stubborn type will you kill hin because you've done everything? please he's just a little boy

hazsanat:
he's so cute...I just wanna pinch his chubby cheeks. [color=#000099][/color]

love

mekuso89:
what if he's a stubborn type will you kill hin because you've done everything? please he's just a little boy

If he is a stubborn type, that's the more reason you should punish him. If not, you will be breeding a future rogue in your home.

Dfinex:
ok oo....I just hope u will not be one of those dads that when their kids see them, they just run into hiding. .lols

I appreciate that you took your time to explain your opinion. I was raised by detention and still more moral than perhaps any of my peers. But, Nigerians are more of traditional than logical

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HIScraziness:
Lol!! Could remember the day I came back from school looking like a mechanic


Na neighbours save me from my mama

[color=deeppink]I bet u were just as cubby and cute and this little boy [/color]

take a pic of him and keep it

Sharpest boy.. Despite all him ply dude no forget him bag and him shoes. And that's what matters the most.

wadetaw202:
If he is a stubborn type, that's the more reason you should punish him. If not, you will be breeding a future rogue in your home.

well you are right. but its still a boy let him play

spank him like

will just laugh cos I was worse in my days

mekuso89:
well you are right. but its still a boy let him play

You should start correcting him and guiding him now that he is a small boy. If he grows older without the required correction, fear and discipline being ingrained in him when he was young, you will lose control over him.

one question though.!did you ever get punished for going home dirty when you were little ?
for me,it is something i won't forget..
my mom beat that word Dirty out of my dictionary,i became a clean freak immediately. .

so for this little guy,it is easy..I'll just soak his hand and the uniforn together so he can wash it him self..
besides,naso almost all of us learn how to wash our cloths.

Na pikin be this?

naturefellow:
At this age, I think spanking speaks louder than chastisement

Lol.. You could be right

i used to received brain corrector (konk) on my hear just for walking on gutter slabs talkless of say i dirty.
hmmm..TRUST ME WHEN I SAY EVERY NIGERIAN PARENT HAS HIS OR HER OWN SIGNATURE WEEP...
her raper was never far from her,plus i never get to escape when ever she was woopin my ass..

I love the boy's carefree attitude. I think he fell into a mud pit or something. I don't think he played so much to the extent of getting his uniform that dirty.

SANU! Shugabankasa!

Why should any parent be shocked in Nigeria with all those muddy playgrounds, roads and streets?

Dfinex:
lol....abeg make we hear.

he's a smart child if u study him very well just that he's own play is on another level. ....if u notice, he still has his bag and his pair of shoes.

how many children can play like that and still return with their shoes.....it's either they bring home another person's shoes or it's only one of the pair that they will bring home.

so what u should do is clean him up and let him understand why he shouldn't get himself that dirty next time.

well u are guy sha.

n.b
for people saying some persons are pretending online, I really don't get it as this is an open forum where everyone îs free to air their views.....if u thinking beating ur child in this situation is the way to go, good for u but did u take time to consider that the child may have slipped off or fallen into a ditch?...well life is all about perception

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Chuukwudi:
Please, Will you marry me
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hehehe. ...with those qualities u stated in ur thread, I am happy to announce to u that I have been disqualified. thank U.

First I will laugh at him, snap him, remove the dirty cloths, bath him, give him food to eat and make sure he wash's the uniform himself

First I will laugh at him, snap him for reference purposes, remove the dirty cloths, bath him, give him food to eat and make sure he wash's the uniform himself

EdifiedCEO:
Mothers, oya tell us! Lol
http://www.newshelm.com/2017/01/photo-what-would-you-do-if-your-child.html

clean him up and look for food for him.a strong boy.

DeepFriedPuff:
[color=deeppink]I bet u were just as cubby and cute and this little boy [/color]

Awww..... Mum said I was

mekuso89:
for how long will you beat him; till grow up over night?

biko relax joor na this kind pikin De sabi book pass

I will beat him once. I know he won't do it again.

joyContraMundum:
You shouldn't be so quick to beat. You should rather try to find out what happened. What if he was pushed into the mud by one of his peers, out of malice, or even by accident? I don't think you'll want to add salt to his wounds.

In fact, I can never beat my child, no matter the reason. In the end, it changes nothing. The child either starts detesting you, fears you, or become too docile, submissive and conformist, or even begin to mirror one's personality rather to the extreme, as opposed to creating himself. He might end up over-identifying with my person, my subjective ideas of right and wrong, and might even adopt my value system to an undesirable degree. I don't plan to mould my child in my own image or condition him to behave in the manner I approve, so the possibilities I've listed above are, for me, undesirable.

Wait, o.... are you a Nigerian?? Just asking.

montezz:
I will beat him once. I know he won't do it again.

So you too na advocate of beating pikin?

I no marry again

loomer:
So you too na advocate of beating pikin?

I no marry again

Lol...especially if d pikin resemble you.