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A marriage counsellor has asked single men and women not to marry anyone who uses passwords on their mobile phones.


Counsellor Adofoli
According to Frank Adofoli a marriage counselor from Ghana, single people who are thinking of settling down, need to avoid people who use passwords on their phones.

According to him, when they use passwords, it means they are hiding things from you, and marriage is supposed to be without secrets from the people in it.

"If you are single and thinking of marriage, then please don't marry anyone who puts passwords or locks on their phone as a form of security to prevent you from accessing their conversations. They can surely do this for other security measures, but you must not be the reason for this action.

I am very much aware that passwords or lock are for security purposes but one thing I don't approve of is when a spouse becomes the reason for that security measure. There is nothing like secrecy or privacy in marriage, let no one deceive you there is, and let no one tell you he or she is doing that to save your marriage

Marriage is a holy institution, there is nothing like hiding. Marriage is made for life and one of the very things that can destroy it is acts of hiding things.The bible says in Genesis 2:25 (TLB) "Now although the man and his wife were both naked, neither of them was embarrassed or ashamed". What are you embarrassed or ashamed of your spouse seeing? .

If you can't be truthful, honest and transparent with them, then there is no need getting married to them. It doesn't matter how you feel about them.Mark 10:8 (NLV) says “The two will become one. So they are no longer two, but one”. I therefore suggest to you, if he or she is hiding things from you, it simply means they don’t want to become one with you. Such a marriage won’t last.

Do you agree with him?

well i wonder how people say know that Marriage is an institution created by God but they come up with so many strange doctrines and deluded rules... the truth is ALL THESE THINGS WONT WORK.

Women are complex and different, same also as MEN.... everyone has a different INTERNAL STRENGTH ability ... EVEN JESUS WHO IS THE GROOM or HIS BRIDE-THE CHURCH didnt tell us everything... somethings are HIDDEN... but promised to reveal them at the right time. Even to the early church HE SAID he has many things to tell them but they can not receive it. even now we do not know when he is coming back.. all we know is SOON

People should stop complicating their lives and coming up with strange teachings. ITS ALL WRONG.... Follow the word of God and you will find WISDOM.

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well i wonder how people say know that Marriage is an institution created by God but they come up with so many strange doctrines and deluded rules... the truth is ALL THESE THINGS WONT WORK.

Women are complex and different, same also as MEN.... everyone has a different INTERNAL STRENGTH ability ... EVEN JESUS WHO IS THE GROOM or HIS BRIDE-THE CHURCH didnt tell us everything... somethings are HIDDEN... but promised to reveal them at the right time. Even to the early church HE SAID he has many things to tell them but they can not receive it. even now we do not know when he is coming back.. all we know is SOON

People should stop complicating their lives and coming up with strange teachings. ITS ALL WRONG.... Follow the word of God and you will find WISDOM.

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