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Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Allsingles: 10:26am On Apr 23, 2020
Behind every successful man, there is a woman. No doubt this is well thought through a statement. Just like a lady need to be very careful before walking down the aisle with the man she loves, the same also applies to the man.

Your choice of a spouse will greatly impact your success and growth in life. This will cut across every area of a man’s life and maybe the sole difference between failure and success.

Below are some key points that will guide you before you choose any man or woman.

1) Don't marry someone that can not bring out the best in you: Some think the way to motivate is to tear down. it's not good for a man to be alone, that’s the bible line that led to the creation of a woman. Maximizing each other's potentials is the most critical justification for marriage. You will get enough discouragement out there; you can't afford a woman whose words and action reduce your ability to do something great. Some men may actually be driven by the need to prove their pessimistic wife wrong, that kind of growth will not be beneficial to the marriage in the long term.

2) Don't Marry Someone That Can Not Respect You: Respect is reciprocal. A Man is respected as the head in marriage, outside of this, we all need to be respected. This is not intended to be a master or servant or dictatorial kind of relationship or marriage. However, respect is needed for any marriage or relationship to be enjoyed. Two people driving a car at the same time with one steering wheel is a sure sign for disaster even if they are both great drivers. The welcome rise in woman empowerment has led to debates around gender equality and feminism. While I am a strong advocate of gender equality, taking the concept too far in a marriage creates needless tension between couples. I will suggest you stay away from a lady who is extreme in her views of equality

3) Don't Marry Someone Who Doesn't Think You Are Big Enough For Marriage: We all have met someone we admire for their accomplishments. While it's important that you continually strive to be the best of you, it's significant you have the support of a woman who identifies your strength and continually validates you. This singular action will drive the most complacent of a man. Your wife will sure meet other men with admirable accomplishments, do not stay with a woman who lacks the discretion in the way she hypes them around you or benchmarks you with them. You need space to grow at your own pace.

4) Don't Marry Someone That Still Holds On To Her Past Relationship Life. (Abuse, Divorce On Her Side, Heartbreaks): You can’t pay the price for the sins of others. It’s not your fault that she had an unfortunate past relationship or marriage. If she does not want to drop the baggage and face new beginning with you then give a chance before your marriage with her will be strewn.

5) Financially Reckless: Rich or poor, financial prudence is always needful. Avoid a lady who is consumed by vanity and driven by competition. Her values are distorted and will give attention to keeping up with her peers rather than focus on character that will build the marriage.

6) Don't Marry Someone That Can Not Share Your Spiritual Conviction: Spiritual faiths are always more deeply rooted than we thought. It informs our beliefs and actions. Shall two work together except they agree, is absurd? You also confuse the children if your opinions about spirituality differ. Kids should be directed and not giving a choice to follow either dad or mum. You will need the highest level of alignment with your spouse. A different view will be quite complicated to manage.

7) Intolerant Of Your Family Members: Your family remains your family and they are strongly part of your life. A good wife should strengthen your family bond and not weaken it. I must, however, add, that there are instances when keeping away is needful.

cool Don't Marry Someone That's Still In Love Her Ex-Lover: You are the best and you deserve the best. Do not allow anyone to place you as a second-best choice while you can be the first best choice. If she still wants her ex-lover, please permit her to go find him. You will not be able to handle the imaginary lover in her mind.

9) Don't Marry Her If She Has A Closer Male Friend Called Bestie: Some women don’t really seem to understand what marriage means. They still want a close friend of the opposite gender. Marry your best friend or replace your best friend with your spouse after all marriage is best and sweet when you marry your best. Anything different is hazardous to your marriage.

10) Don't Marry Someone You Are Not Attracted To Or Someone who Is Not Attractied To You: God in his wisdom made us in different sizes and shapes, be truthful to yourself and make your own choice. You will not get a chance for another. Note that attraction is personal to you, do not judge based on the opinion of friends and family. We all have our definition of beautiful appearance, determine yours, and go for it.

11) Don't Marry Someone With A Bad Medical History: Ascertain medical history such as blood group, genotype, etc. Get needed medical advice. It will be disastrous for AS to Unknowingly marry AS or HIV positive to unknowingly marry HIV positive. The results are hazardous.

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by xendra: 10:32am On Apr 23, 2020
that number 9 is how you know a stupid man not fit for marriage, keeping close female friends, the height of irresponsibility

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by myles16(m): 10:46am On Apr 23, 2020
xendra:
that number 9 is how you know a stupid man not fit for marriage, keeping female close friends, the height of irresponsibility






I don't even understand this "bestie" of a thing, some girls would have a boyfriend and still keep another guy as male bestie.....it's either you hold on to me or your bestie, can't be competing with another guy over a girl

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by ifex370(m): 10:59am On Apr 23, 2020
xendra:
that number 9 is how you know a stupid man not fit for marriage, keeping female close friends, the height of irresponsibility

Do guys do that stuff?

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by xendra: 11:09am On Apr 23, 2020
ifex370:


Do guys do that stuff?
yes o, stupid and naive guys, because they don't know that women don't like being by the side when it's not that you are gay o, you can actually date and marry a girl yet you didn't choose them and some how you foolishly think they are ok with it when they like you so much to be close friends with you

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Margy(f): 12:13pm On Apr 23, 2020
xendra:
that number 9 is how you know a stupid man not fit for marriage, keeping female close friends, the height of irresponsibility

I agree with you. Like a man who has 97% of his contact to be women. What nonsense!!! And has the guts to say they are just friends or he grew up in the midst of girls. That's the height of irresponsibility.
Same goes to the woman too. Stupid

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Tozic(m): 12:38pm On Apr 23, 2020
Human beings......
You can't unmask a pretentious person. If you're destined to be with the right person then you've got God's shield.

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Ahamefuna0001(m): 2:11pm On Apr 23, 2020
Wow
Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Michelle55: 2:32pm On Apr 23, 2020
Hmmmmm... The do's and dont's in a relationship will make one to remain single. E tire me jare�

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Tozic(m): 3:21pm On Apr 23, 2020
Michelle55:
Hmmmmm... The do's and dont's in a relationship will make one to remain single. E tire me jare�
Being single is more dangerous than being married. ...

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Olathunji010(m): 3:22pm On Apr 23, 2020
It all depends... marriage or even meeting your choice of lovers most times depends on luck and atimes it depends on how you use your past... Just be prayful to God not to meet or married a wrong partner..

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Kingrexyl(m): 3:22pm On Apr 23, 2020
Stay away from broke girls, they never have nothing to offer a man if not their viginas

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Nobody: 3:22pm On Apr 23, 2020
Don't marry someone who still plays soccer bets

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by blinking001(m): 3:22pm On Apr 23, 2020
Is it really necessary to get married??

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by NOETHNICITY(m): 3:22pm On Apr 23, 2020
Really

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by babyfaceafrica: 3:22pm On Apr 23, 2020
Stories.. Don't do this, don't do that... Advisers of the federal republic.. How peaceful is your own marriage?

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Biqlaaa(f): 3:22pm On Apr 23, 2020
Some are true sha

Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by DaddyGngeess(m): 3:23pm On Apr 23, 2020
That statement doesn't really mean a woman as in your wife or girlfriend, even mothers too or sister( behind every successful man there must be a woman)

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by rightchic(f): 3:23pm On Apr 23, 2020
True

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Parisian: 3:23pm On Apr 23, 2020
Lol
Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Stewart883(m): 3:23pm On Apr 23, 2020
Allsingles:


https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/04/dont-marry-anyone-in-this-category-of.html?m=1

If person follow all those things u wrote up there, Person no go marry again na

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by CalabarPikin: 3:23pm On Apr 23, 2020
Wit all this,....who should be married then...bearing in mind no 1 is perfect....

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by unikprince(m): 3:23pm On Apr 23, 2020
cheesy
Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Nobody: 3:24pm On Apr 23, 2020
Forget all these things. When its time to marry most people marry who they see. Na only after marriage you fit know your person truly

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by JeffreyJames(m): 3:24pm On Apr 23, 2020
Make we hear word abeg!!

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Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by Sunnycliff(m): 3:24pm On Apr 23, 2020
Story.
Re: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by rawtouch: 3:24pm On Apr 23, 2020
same ol, same ol

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