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So true

ndcide:
I agree 100%

But should we go to a night club or other lousy places?

One thing I know and I believe is what the Bible says.

"The steps of a good man, is ordered by God "

Why don't we just have faith in God. Have our understanding not failed enough?

yes it has, however, prayer can still do wonders and better than being forced.

MARYchiells:
True talk, a relative of mine is a victim. He left his long time babe for a sister in christ. See wahala in less than two years, wife turn to knife. Intact, they are living separately now.
The wife's family don beg tire but fear no gree him bring her back yet.

dat word " marriage" sef dy fear me .....

press005:
dat word " marriage" sef dy fear me .....

haba!

MARYchiells:
True talk, a relative of mine is a victim. He left his long time babe for a sister in christ. See wahala in less than two years, wife turn to knife. Intact, they are living separately now.
The wife's family don beg tire but fear no gree him bring her back yet.

She will kill him if he dare bring her back.

I concour.

wat do u expect wen everyone nowadays lives in pretence during dating nd courtship.

U jump into marriage because she has bk nd front or because she is beautiful.

Personally i go for character nd contentment 1st, den i can tolerate d rest because no marriage can ever be perfect.

una for like go marry from families that engage in evil acts since u guys are so against religion. y'all dnt knw nothing.

bamisepeters:
haba!

bros na tru i tel u so oo

Okeikpu:
Who wan get married sef
My friend that got married last 2yrs was chased away wt a knife by hs wife last month
When he came down to Nigeria last November
Simply bcox he collected her phone for some reasons
He ran bk to Santorini after spending only few days at home wt her
Despite all the gifts he showered on her all those yrs abroad
I dey fear oo
He's now in a very difficult mood all ds period

Firstly, tell your friend to go on his knees & ask God for His PEACE to reign in his heart. He really needs sometime away from his wife so that he can see more clearly to address his flaws.

He needs to also get closer to God(muslim or christian), do some soul-searching & learn more about marriage. I don't believe his wife woke up one morning then decided to be mad @him, frustration must have been building up over the time.

My prayer is for restoration of his marriage & home.

Nice 1

bamisepeters:
Relationship and religion might have one or two things together, however, we must not make religion get into our head and deceive us that it is from that same home of worship we will get the best partner.

Don't be deceived that our religious leader knows someone very well to the point of prescribing a partner to you.
The only thing you need from any religious leader is the counselling and their prayers.

I think the world has gotten to a stage where no one can even vouch for another because the rate of pretence when we talk about relationship is very high.

Don't be deceived, that the brother is very nice to everyone or the sister is very beautiful, intelligent and respectful will culminate to a good home if you can have him/her as partner.

I am not saying you cannot get your life partner in your place of worship nor that when you get your partner in your place of worship will not guarantee good home.

All i am saying is that you shouldn't let a man of God use his/her influence to force someone on you.

Even those married to some of this religious leaders can tell you what they are going through with the choice of their own partner let alone them forcing one on you.

Living with someone doesn't mean you know that person completely let alone seeing that person once or twice in a week.

Only those in marriage can share the beautiful and ugly experiences to you.
I have seen some homes that started from the same place of worship but it is new war each day.

Religious leaders shouldn't get themselves involved in the beginning of any relationship because the definition of human is beyond the appearance.

If you fall in love with someone in the same place of worship; fine, if not, just look somewhere else instead of allowing a man of God to tell you this brother/sister will be the best for you.

Don't forget that you will face the sweet and bitter experience alone when the religious leader might be tearing chicken in his/her house.

At times, they are right with their prescription, of course, it is 50-50 chances, but don't ever conclude that getting a partner in the same place of worship or a partner prescribed by a religious leader will guarantee a happy home.

Use your head my brothers and sisters, you can make great decisions on your own when you believe in yourself, be prayerful too the prayer you say to your God can also be acceptable to your creator.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/01/finding-your-partner-in-religious-home.html

You are so correct, infact God is d giver of a good partner no matter how bad he is

How can it be a gurantee when the number of religious edifices in our country hasn't had a positive impact on the lives of a majority!!! More like saying a virgin will make a good spouse!!! How does that relate to character

omooba969:
Firstly, tell your friend to go on his knees & ask God for His PEACE to reign in his heart. He really needs sometime away from his wife so that he can see more clearly to address his flaws.

He needs to also get closer to God(muslim or christian), do some soul-searching & learn more about marriage. I don't believe his wife woke up one morning then decided to be mad @him, frustration must have been building up over the time.

My prayer is for restoration of his marriage & home.

My understanding is that
She's not the wife meant 4him
He collected the phone bcox she was receiving late night calls
She got up to 4boyfriends while hs away
He found the shitts out from the texts n names on her phone
Even denied him seks all those while
I pity him sha

Okeikpu:
My understanding is that
She's not the wife meant 4him
He collected the phone bcox she was receiving late night calls
She got up to 4boyfriends while hs away
He found the shitts out from the texts n names on her phone
Even denied him seks all those while
I pity him sha

Youths of today have abandoned the vetting process of the olden days which served as part of the foundation upon which our parents formed their views & beliefs about a genuine & lasting marriage. Our youths would rather rely on recommendations to decide on choosing life partners.

We are the architect of our problems.

omooba969:
Youths of today have abandoned the vetting process of the olden days which served as part of the foundation upon which our parents formed their views & beliefs about a genuine & lasting marriage. Our youths would rather rely on recommendations to decide on choosing life partners.

We are the architect of our problems.

What's the forward then
Because stuff like ds wud definitely happen to most of us outside the country
No one wud luv to marry a wife for someone else...
Well let's forget abt it
10x for your time

bamisepeters:
Relationship and religion might have one or two things together, however, we must not make religion get into our head and deceive us that it is from that same home of worship we will get the best partner.

Don't be deceived that our religious leader knows someone very well to the point of prescribing a partner to you.
The only thing you need from any religious leader is the counselling and their prayers.

I think the world has gotten to a stage where no one can even vouch for another because the rate of pretence when we talk about relationship is very high.

Don't be deceived, that the brother is very nice to everyone or the sister is very beautiful, intelligent and respectful will culminate to a good home if you can have him/her as partner.

I am not saying you cannot get your life partner in your place of worship nor that when you get your partner in your place of worship will not guarantee good home.

All i am saying is that you shouldn't let a man of God use his/her influence to force someone on you.

Even those married to some of this religious leaders can tell you what they are going through with the choice of their own partner let alone them forcing one on you.

Living with someone doesn't mean you know that person completely let alone seeing that person once or twice in a week.

Only those in marriage can share the beautiful and ugly experiences to you.
I have seen some homes that started from the same place of worship but it is new war each day.

Religious leaders shouldn't get themselves involved in the beginning of any relationship because the definition of human is beyond the appearance.

If you fall in love with someone in the same place of worship; fine, if not, just look somewhere else instead of allowing a man of God to tell you this brother/sister will be the best for you.

Don't forget that you will face the sweet and bitter experience alone when the religious leader might be tearing chicken in his/her house.

At times, they are right with their prescription, of course, it is 50-50 chances, but don't ever conclude that getting a partner in the same place of worship or a partner prescribed by a religious leader will guarantee a happy home.

Use your head my brothers and sisters, you can make great decisions on your own when you believe in yourself, be prayerful too the prayer you say to your God can also be acceptable to your creator.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/01/finding-your-partner-in-religious-home.html

you are right

Partners found in religious homes are even the worst hypocrites. They chop and clean mouth and tell you to pray while they are indulging in all kinds of sins.

there are prostitutes everywhere but the "prostitutes" in religious houses or churches are far dangerously deadly because of hypocrisy .

some people even marry repented prostitutes these days in name of love. very soon they will realize their foolishness. a once a olosho will always be olosho. even the God fearing once never find it easy not to talk of u a retired olosho. very disgusting. well some men don't care so long the thing get hole