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| What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
Realistically, there are only two things you can do:
1. Display yourself to your best advantage (I don't mean only
looks-wise, see below).
2. Forget about it and get on with your life.
If you have "asked her" [What by the way? This is a little
important...] and she has said "not interested" you have only one
hope. Listen carefully.
If there is a natural and not-stalker-weird situation where both of
you are in proximity to each other, like you are both in the same
class, work together, take the same train in the morning or
whatever, you can use this opportunity to display your wit, style,
handsomeness and kindness to puppies to your best advantage.
OR your Devil-may-care, hardbitten, prison-tattooed, Outlaw
exterior. Or your mastery of advanced accounting. Different
women like different things.
But - good news! You don't have to guess! You could always
ask her about her interests! And - bear with me! - listen to
the answers! Please note: I am not suggesting that if she likes
sk8r dudes you turn up to the next day's commute in a pair of
Vans.
NB: Never change who you are for another. Unless the real you is
horrible. In that case - change.
But at least this way you know whether you and she have any
sort of spark at all. And hell, no matter what happens, you might
make a friend. That's pretty amazing right there.
Now if she just isn't into you (including as a friend) after you have
saved the puppy/kicked the puppy/discovered there is no spark
but you both like X (delete as appropriate), well tough. Too bad,
but hey, better to find out now instead of later. Move on and up. www.heavenland.forumside.com/index.php/topic=44401.new.html#new |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by ajasbaba(m): 12:56pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
NAH BY FORCE.FREE HER NAH ![]() |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by obontobolo(m): 1:10pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
Mtcheeeew, just give her money(starting 4rm 10k) and gbam she will love u. |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by owugozie(f): 1:12pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
obontobolo:Hmmm you self. Doesn't work on every girls nah |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nobody: 1:16pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
Lol |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Kondomatic(m): 1:19pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
owugozie:True. Some prefer 50-100k. Alert turns every woman on |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by pweshboi(m): 1:20pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
Guyo leave d babe Nah and move to the other one.. no be by force now, is it all girl that profess love to you that you love back? for this Naija? girls plenty die... Nah to choose wisely now |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nobody: 1:28pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
owugozie:will sure work on you |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Brown14: 1:31pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
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| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
You cannot make someone love you. However it is very possible to remain fixated on hope for years much to the detriment on your life. |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by KevMitnick: 3:05pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
You should move the hell away from her and find someone who does. What sort of question is this? |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Swizdoe(m): 5:45pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
Get money and see every other thing fall in place.... If all you have to offer her, then you deserved to be snubbed... |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
Use Juju, love portions ... ![]() |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Alhkerimu(m): 6:17pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
owugozie:There are two things money can't buy in this life. 1 , true love 2, Happiness At times i wonder how and what some guy feel or reasoned towards lady, if she said no to you that doesn't mean she will not say yes to another guy. There are millions girls out there so why wasting your time and energy on a particular lady who doesn't love you back. Using money on lady before convince her means you are statutory maga. |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nobody: 9:51am On Feb 04, 2017 |
obontobolo:Hahahaha, not every girl will settle for this. The heart of some ladies can't be bought over with money. According to sincete4u his sister, oilyqueen, is one of such ladies and he's damn so sure about it. |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nobody: 9:55am On Feb 04, 2017 |
Brown14:often true but not always. Some ladies are won gradually, you only just have to be patient and keep showing them love. When they eventually start loving, they hardly stop. Good things don't come cheap bro. |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Brown14: 11:25am On Feb 04, 2017 |
karacta1:Good things don't come easy but u can still get a good woman easily if u r in luck. I know some ladies are won gradually but not every guy would have that time to wait...certainly not me. |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nedufreeman(m): 11:36am On Feb 04, 2017 |
Askance: |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nobody: 11:52am On Feb 04, 2017 |
Brown14:Yes you are right. Some good girls a actually come easy. |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by obontobolo(m): 12:23pm On Feb 04, 2017*. Modified: 12:51pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
owugozie:yup(i was only joking with what i typed)..... I know there are some decent ladies/girls with dignity, that wont cheaply fall for a guy because of his money/material things.... when a girl says NO, let it be NO. There are trillions of girls out there. |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by obontobolo(m): 12:37pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
Kondomatic:lol... |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by obontobolo(m): 12:46pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
karacta1:What ur relationship with Miss Sincere4u.? |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Ahmiee(f): 3:36pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
kill yasef |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
obontobolo:Lol. We are best of friends and hopefully inlaws someday. |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by obontobolo(m): 7:18pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
karacta1:hahahahahaha, i hope sincere4u sees this.... Lol. |
| Re: What Should I Do If I Love A Girl And She Apparently Doesn't Love Me? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
obontobolo:Hahahaha, i hope sincere4u does not. LMAO ![]() |
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