I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Really?

BS

Who's your daddy? If he's, Fine but he's not Bleep off...
Cause relationships were meant to be mutual not a one way thing... As a correct guy he should know you have needs and he should be responsible to some extent...he should give out of his own Will not being obliged to... And even in this world of feminism f*ck work for your own money to not waiting for a maga to pay you cause u ain't a product.. Don't blackmail people all in the name of love

zykson:
Who's your daddy? If he's, Fine but he's not Bleep off...
Cause relationships were meant to be mutual not a one way thing... As a correct guy he should know you have needs and he should be responsible to some extent...he should give out of his own Will not being obliged to... And even in this world of feminism f*ck work for your own money to not waiting for a maga to pay you cause u ain't a product.. Don't blackmail people all in the name of love

Pure.. I just had to rest my thumbs after reading this.

Is she hungry or in love? Ur write-up is lopsided. I hate this mindset cos it sort of make it seems like women are some less privileged beings that needs to be donated to. A man can give to his girlfriend the same way the girlfriend can give to her man. Relationship is the coming together of two givers. Giving HAS to be TWO way in a relationship, when it's only one party doing the giving and the other doing the receiving then you need to ask yourself if you are the boyfriend or you are just a sugar daddy. By the way, Money or material possession should not be the basis for love. The role of a man as a provider is only in marriage. Even if i have the means, i would be cautious of paying the school fees or house rent of a girl am dating cos you don't know whether the money you giving her is even being sent to her real lover.
Who can find a virtuous woman ? for her price is far above rubies .

UncleJJ:
I believe the problem with naija babes is that they dont know how to take.

They just to confused to know a man whos a bottomless pit. You only take from the bottomless pit.

How can you ask a guy making 300k a.month for hair worth 15ok.

Hair abi attachment?

I don't get it.
So because I am in a relationship with a girl she should now see me as her bank.
Men please think before you write

responsibility attached to dating
really

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If your partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

Dude stop smoking in the early morning

Lol wonderful...see dirs no problem in asking when you don't have but if he says it doesnt have free him!..don't push him... he's your boyfriend not your father..if he's your husband now then yea it's mandatory.. he is to provide for his family....person wey nor get now must surely get one day..I don't support this write up atall...ladies earn your own money as your boyfriend is trying to earn his..dirs nothing like a lady having her own money

There's absolutely nothing wrong in asking one's boyfriend for financial assistance when the girl is in need, and I see nothing wrong in a guy doing that for his babe but there should be a limit 'cause the girl isn't his responsibility yet 'till they're married. The people to whom she's their responsibility are her parents, so a guy could either say he has or doesn't have, and their shouldn't be bad blood when this happens. Relationship isn't a job where people get paid for services rendered, it should be out of one's benevolence to give and not coerced.

Op, so the main responsibility is to be dashing money to girls that might break up if the money finishes ?

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs , many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household , if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" [s]rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning[/s], I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". ,excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request,imagine a [s]boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff[/s], and saying " am I her parents " , well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life ,you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility, PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT ,

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This post should be thrown into the waste bin. You are just confusing yourself. You mention HOUSEHOLD, is the guy her husband? You talked about BOYFRIEND providing, are they married? No boyfriend has responsibility over any girlfriend unless they are engaged, even at that, there is a limit. No boyfriend has the right to have sex with his girlfriend unless they are married, otherwise ON MUTUAL CONSENT. Provission here is voluntry as long as they are not married. Na your type go finally come dey cast ladies of how them use you dump you. Seriously, you dey find girlfriend, wish you well in your search.

OP you follow exist for this 21st century world? So what do you say if the girl ask the boy out?

Hehe hehe
And tiz funny most times how many of all this girls leave the boys that can spend money on dem and move on to the men that buy flower for them

#Just flower

No p

The females responsibility too is to give sexual satisfaction when needed

Hmm

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o.p u are a disgrace to manhood...it is guys like u that give lazy naija girls the impetus to gold dig and financially manipulate simp men...even girls on this very thread will be laughing at ur stupidity..tueh...guys should only spend on girls that are "worth it" not all those lazy useless things that have nothing else to offer apart from their dirty pussies....I do offer cash nd little tokens to my sweetheart cus babe is worth it..but she always politely turns them down with the statement "I don't want u to start wasting ur money now..js keep saving up nd growing ur new biz" even though she knows I make good money from my biz..besides babe is so hardworking..already training as a nurse at just 19..so she knows d value of savings ...o.p infact u need a decent hardworking babe like my sweetheart to reset ur mentality not all those lazy things u roll with..

That girl na parssite, if you want to breakup with normal average Nigeria poverty stricken girl... Just ask her this question. " what exactly do you bring to the table apart from your vagina"? Case close, you are a free man...

Ohhhhh na guy write this rubbish... Jesus!!!

lies. big lies

Una get wahala ooo...if Dem ask they are gold diggers, if dey don't, you will say dey don't love you guys...how can you guys get satisfied?...smh

love or relationship things depends, the demanding and the help should come from both sides i think, and also its not compulsory that the girls dt really loves you must make demands or that the guys must afford his bea demands b4 he can date her and lastly I DONT LYK WEN YOU GUYS GENERALIZE RELATIONSHIP MATTERS because what works there for you may not work here for me, once dated a professor daughter that loved me madly and she never askd me for anything but instead na she de recharge me....thats ur opinion shaa based on ur school of though of thinking found and raised in ur environment...i no want talk abeg..

Norphiee:
Una get wahala ooo...if Dem ask they are gold diggers, if dey don't, you will say dey don't love you guys...how can you guys get satisfied?...smh

the op is confused and at the same time stupid. he's probably sex starved.

Rapists/prostitutes/thugs ain't born , they are made... Be it male or female. Train your child in the way of the lord.. so you won't come to social media and be finding for solutions to stop the act with hastags "#"

Na craze dey worry u. Was ur hole created with money inside?

Lies from the pit of HELL