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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Nobody: 2:06am On Feb 06, 2017 |
ybalogs:If I were u, I will follow this guy's advice but from your post and comments to people, its like you pressurize him on financial aspect more. Have you ever use your hard-earned money to pay his bills? Have you ever given him a surprise package? If no is your answer, then it means your boo is thinking you're gonna be a financial burden to him so he's showing you those attitudes for you to leave.........besides this is recession aunty. U pity d guy now 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by tonero4urch(m): 2:14am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Harinholar:One can deduce from this write up how selfish you are. You will have millions in the bank and still ask him for 100k. What future are you talking about? An entirely future without your husband in it? Like divorcing him later abi? Chaiiii..... Such a self centred attitude in marriage. And na man like me go marry this one oooooo 14 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Arabiandude: 2:17am On Feb 06, 2017 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by texanomaly(f): 2:25am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Curioussme: You've been dating for 4 years? You don't have to worry about wondering if this guy will make a good husband. He obviously has no intention of marrying you. Who can blame him? You expect him to support you already? Are you dating your father? You are not married, and it sounds like you have your own place. If he wanted to pay for sex he could get it with a lot less hassles. 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by kabrud: 2:28am On Feb 06, 2017 |
rossi5: But the op has not told this forum which impact she has made in the life of her boyfriend, abi na only guys dey impact? As it has even been noted above, there is an agreement of "no sex till marriage" , and unfortunately, that is only what she can offer. Just thinking of how to rip off, not what can even be offered, nonsense. 9 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by fergie001: 2:46am On Feb 06, 2017 |
izzou:Izzou,izzouuuuuuuuuu,how many times I call u,your wickedness is hereditary,chaiiiiii.......e no good nah,advise her well,haba
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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Olupizzy111: 2:48am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by majorbravo: 2:50am On Feb 06, 2017 |
amiablesystems:That same house could also be where other guys would go to sleep with her over and over. Use your number 6 bro. Boys are not smiling. The only way I'm paying for her house rent is if we live under same roof. Period. 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by linearity: 2:59am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Curioussme: I guess, you are dating him for the wrong reasons. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Nobody: 3:48am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Seriously, this is laughable cause if a lady based in Nija can offer to help pay off a friend's debt abroad, out of sincere love and respect...I believe you could do the same for your guy, providing you truly cherish him. It's about offer and acceptance! You can't continue to accept all forms of generosity, without giving consideration to offer something back (not coitus). You couldn't be in courtship with him over four years, without a single gift or act of generosity from him. If that's the case, then I feel something isn't right. However, if he's showered you with gifts during these four years, irrespective of how little it might be. Appreciate it and reciprocate! |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by austinbrown: 4:00am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Curioussme:mindset of a hoe. 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by austinbrown: 4:04am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Chidonc:this one want person wey never nyash am to pay house rent for am, my dear u r dreaming 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by austinbrown: 4:11am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Eleniyan15:he is using the money wey me for give u to go 4uck other girls since u get Brian u no want give am |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Jckleiin(m): 4:14am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Nice one babe 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by austinbrown: 4:19am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Curioussme:it's obvious u didn't come here for advice u only came here to look for people that will support you 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by moshino(m): 4:37am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Curioussme: Are your brothers paying rent for their babes, was your father paying rent for his babes before you were born? 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by bigsmoke2(m): 4:48am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Curioussme:you wan turn am to ATM machine . he should pay ur house rent in this buhari economy. Go to your otherboyfriends and Let them "support "you, cuz I know girls like you.You go get like 5 boyfriends 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by sekem: 4:54am On Feb 06, 2017 |
pcguru1: Obviously, she's a LIABILITY! Her sense of entitlement is quite disgusting! Dammit! 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by sulakishop(m): 5:09am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Don't you have parent or can't you work for your money? Curioussme: 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Nobody: 5:10am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Only in Nigeria you'll find girls who think it's their bf's responsibility to pay their rent. Do you have a baby for him? Are you legally married to him? Is he your legal guardian? If your answers to all of these questions are NO, then he isn't obligated to pay your rent. If you're college student, I feel your pain having walked that road before, in saner climes federal student loans are made available by govt. to indigent students to pay their way through college. So, I would direct my anger and frustration on my government rather than blame my bf, who is another victim of the failed Nigerian state. 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by rossi5(f): 5:27am On Feb 06, 2017 |
kabrud: Must she vomit everything ...and must u guys use sex as prerequisite.. I can't remember advising u by the way all she is asking is support..hello. |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by EmilyShoton(f): 5:36am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Curioussme:my dear lady, its a pity I have to comment on this, just wanted to pass. first of all, are you maried to him that you expect him to pay your rent, is he your father or atm machine? Its a pity how some of we ladies think. In this days, you cant earn your own money and is waiting your bf to pay your rent and give u money. Is it not your mates making world records? Girl wake up, go and work and you will see how he will appreciate you. The day I started being responsible for my self was the day 1, I had peace if mind. 2. He started respecting me, 3. He even did what I didnt expect because he said he is impressed by my responsible nature. You didnt come to this world to depend on men but to go out and succeed. keep waiting for him to pay your rent biko. 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by walosky(m): 5:47am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Curioussme:my friend go and hustle and stop being dependant . Was he the one that got the house for you? You dont even give a fvck if he has even paid his. Women and wahala...becos of ur kponyo na hin u wan carry all ur bills put for d guy head Olori buru! 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by 0ubenji(m): 6:02am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Curioussme:U sef dodge him too |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by crackhouse(m): 6:09am On Feb 06, 2017 |
That was how I gave my past girlfriend 7k for a transport fare that cost 2k about 4yrs ago and she begin vex for me saying if I don't make it 10k that she will not collect and left my house in anger but later came back some minutes later to collect the 7k when she discovered that I wasn't ready to add another dime to it, she had to collect it and left. That was a girl I almost propose to but I thank God I didn't pop out the question "will u marry me". Had it been I proposed and married her, by now I would be contemplating divorce. Some women sha, up till now she's still doing boyfriend and girlfriend thing while I am already married with kid. 9 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Missyetty(f): 6:09am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Is your hand paining you that you cn't work, get your azz up and do something for youself. The last time I checked, you are in a relationship and not some kind of poverty alleviation programme....mtchew 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by SleekyPosh(m): 6:12am On Feb 06, 2017 |
ybalogs: Where is she running to? Shebi na the Guy born her na..Foolish Girls everywhere..Thinking a Boyfriend is a good excuse for being absolutely irresponsible and not able to make money for themselves..Ur Boyfriend is your father abi..Awon Oloshi dede.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by SleekyPosh(m): 6:16am On Feb 06, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU: ..Loool this OP is finished! |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by sekem: 6:18am On Feb 06, 2017 |
claremont: This one is not even offering even that one! mctowel01: No. Actually I think she was signing up for BRAGGING benefits. Stupid bïtches everywhere!!! 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by fyneboi79(m): 6:18am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Curioussme:Then go and look for a man that will pay ur bills for you because u have started to compare ur bf with men outside d relationship. Don't confuse urself,bf/gf relationship is about love and not money so go and hustle pls.u sound pained. Nb: Its not yet his responsibility to cater for u! 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by jfleece(m): 6:18am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Thank God I can't date a broke girl... Those are the kinda girls we have in edo state.. Stupid set of women.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by MIGHTYMAN82(m): 6:20am On Feb 06, 2017 |
This girl na thief u b, and e no go beta 4 u ashaowo i realy found out ur nt a wife material 3 Likes |
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