ybalogs:
If you're convinced he has the money and that he's just being stingy,please run for your life. All the best.

If I were u, I will follow this guy's advice but from your post and comments to people, its like you pressurize him on financial aspect more. Have you ever use your hard-earned money to pay his bills? Have you ever given him a surprise package? If no is your answer, then it means your boo is thinking you're gonna be a financial burden to him so he's showing you those attitudes for you to leave.........besides this is recession aunty. U pity d guy now

Harinholar:
I cherish hardworking babes not because of anything na because of issues like this.....Be self dependent, don't depend on anybody to survive...BUT when you are in a relationship and you noticed the guy wont turn out to be a responsible husband or father to your unborn children my dear run for your life...None should ever be a parasite when it comes to relationship issues....I do say it if I have millions of naira in my account and I expect my fiancee to give me 100k for a particular thing which I knew it's part of his responsibility...My dear I wll collect it.... Not because of today but because of my future.....

One can deduce from this write up how selfish you are. You will have millions in the bank and still ask him for 100k. What future are you talking about? An entirely future without your husband in it? Like divorcing him later abi? Chaiiii..... Such a self centred attitude in marriage. And na man like me go marry this one oooooo

Ifakiland:
Get d fvck out of here...broke ass gf...I hate gals like u....

Curioussme:
Hi peeps, I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years now, and I've noticed when I need a major financial assistance from him, he'll just enter low key and be giving flimsy excuses like he doesn't have plans for me.

The most recent one that happened is that I need to pay my rent and the money with me isn't enough he's also giving excuses that he has commitments.

Sincerely, am tired of these excuses, I can't imagine getting married to a man who can't support me while am single what will he now do when we're married. He acts like someone who dodges responsibilities by all means.

Am confused right now,is he just a stingy person or what? The last time I needed money from him, I had to quarrel with him about it before he finally gave me money Guys pls help me out

You've been dating for 4 years? You don't have to worry about wondering if this guy will make a good husband. He obviously has no intention of marrying you. Who can blame him? You expect him to support you already? Are you dating your father? You are not married, and it sounds like you have your own place. If he wanted to pay for sex he could get it with a lot less hassles.

rossi5:


Don't mind them..if he has and he is being stingy..think twice girl..atleast once in awhile he should support u and take responsibilities. If u marry a kinda guy like that..the only thing u are sure of is money for food..mayb half cos he will ask u to support too..no matter how little the man in your live should b able to make impact

But the op has not told this forum which impact she has made in the life of her boyfriend, abi na only guys dey impact? As it has even been noted above, there is an agreement of "no sex till marriage" , and unfortunately, that is only what she can offer. Just thinking of how to rip off, not what can even be offered, nonsense.

izzou:


From the highlighted above, it's clear you don't love him. You just want him for your financial needs.

You better carry bread like Olajumoke, or better still, date your landlord

Izzou,izzouuuuuuuuuu,how many times I call u,your wickedness is hereditary,chaiiiiii.......e no good nah,advise her well,haba

amiablesystems:


Too many ppl are stuck in their youth, haven't mad e a dime so when responsilibities comes they whine the way many of the senseless fools here are yarning.. When this guys demand sex, they dnt say yu're not my wife yaet, they just ask for it like its their entitlement... why have a bf if one's life can't be improved cause its a key indicator of wat lies ahead.counselled many people before they got married, they thot i wasjoking 3-5years the line see married women begging me for advice about how to manage the mess they got themselves into.. I repeat ladies if yu have broke guys who always shy from responsilibities flee.. giving a gf 50k additional to get an apt shouldnt be a big deal.. afterall when she gets the house. he will go there to sleep with her over and over..

That same house could also be where other guys would go to sleep with her over and over. Use your number 6 bro. Boys are not smiling. The only way I'm paying for her house rent is if we live under same roof. Period.

Curioussme:
if I'm not dating it would be much better not the one someone is dating and it's like am not. Cos there's nothing to show for it. Obviously, I can't brag about such a man

I guess, you are dating him for the wrong reasons.

Seriously, this is laughable cause if a lady based in Nija can offer to help pay off a friend's debt abroad, out of sincere love and respect...I believe you could do the same for your guy, providing you truly cherish him. It's about offer and acceptance! You can't continue to accept all forms of generosity, without giving consideration to offer something back (not coitus). You couldn't be in courtship with him over four years, without a single gift or act of generosity from him. If that's the case, then I feel something isn't right. However, if he's showered you with gifts during these four years, irrespective of how little it might be. Appreciate it and reciprocate!

Curioussme:
he's not my father, but is it not men like him that are single handedly paying rents for their babes? Moreover it's not everytime I ask him for money , it's once in a while

mindset of a hoe.

Chidonc:





last time you where asking us if you should have sex with him
www.nairaland.com/3487464/should-let-him-sex-me

now you are saying he is stingy
babe this is buhariya period, there is no free money to waste, who buys goods without inspecting it.

this one want person wey never nyash am to pay house rent for am, my dear u r dreaming

Eleniyan15:
iffa slap you from here ehn..make e pay your house rent,you no dey work you no get mama and papa?? you no get uncle and aunty you both hav been courting for pass 4years nothing to write home about aunty you on your own ooooooo


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this is the same guy you don't want him to drill(https://www.nairaland.com/3487464/should-let-him-sex-me)you oooo ooooo and you want him to be paying owo Omo gõ.why won't he shy away from responsibility Aunty Double your hustle,Goodnight

he is using the money wey me for give u to go 4uck other girls since u get Brian u no want give am

Bumbae1:
Hmmm
When you wont work .. how can you depend on a man is he your father ?? Even your father self past a certain age you should not depend on him


Work girl Work ! And then you will see when u dont expect nothing you will get and also might oush him to get his ..

Nice one babe

Curioussme:
Thanks dear. The most sensible response so far

it's obvious u didn't come here for advice u only came here to look for people that will support you

Curioussme:
he's not my father, but is it not men like him that are single handedly paying rents for their babes? Moreover it's not everytime I ask him for money , it's once in a while

Are your brothers paying rent for their babes, was your father paying rent for his babes before you were born?

Curioussme:
Hi peeps, I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years now, and I've noticed when I need a major financial assistance from him, he'll just enter low key and be giving flimsy excuses like he doesn't have plans for me.

The most recent one that happened is that I need to pay my rent and the money with me isn't enough he's also giving excuses that he has commitments.

Sincerely, am tired of these excuses, I can't imagine getting married to a man who can't support me while am single what will he now do when we're married. He acts like someone who dodges responsibilities by all means.

Am confused right now,is he just a stingy person or what? The last time I needed money from him, I had to quarrel with him about it before he finally gave me money Guys pls help me out

you wan turn am to ATM machine . he should pay ur house rent in this buhari economy. Go to your otherboyfriends and Let them "support "you, cuz I know girls like you.You go get like 5 boyfriends

pcguru1:


A boyfriend would help If he wants to, but ideally he's not obliged to unless you are his wife, imagine he keeps spending and you dump him later on and he dates another girl and keeps spending. How does such a man save for his marriage life when he keeps spending like this. Also are your parents dead ? You come off as a liability. Its one thing to ask your bf to assist with rent but to pay off the whole rent is just sheer stupidity to me.

Obviously, she's a LIABILITY!

Her sense of entitlement is quite disgusting!

Dammit!

Don't you have parent or can't you work for your money?

Curioussme:
Hi peeps, I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years now, and I've noticed when I need a major financial assistance from him, he'll just enter low key and be giving flimsy excuses like he doesn't have plans for me.

The most recent one that happened is that I need to pay my rent and the money with me isn't enough he's also giving excuses that he has commitments.

Sincerely, am tired of these excuses, I can't imagine getting married to a man who can't support me while am single what will he now do when we're married. He acts like someone who dodges responsibilities by all means.

Am confused right now,is he just a stingy person or what? The last time I needed money from him, I had to quarrel with him about it before he finally gave me money Guys pls help me out

Only in Nigeria you'll find girls who think it's their bf's responsibility to pay their rent.

Do you have a baby for him?

Are you legally married to him?

Is he your legal guardian?

If your answers to all of these questions are NO, then he isn't obligated to pay your rent. If you're college student, I feel your pain having walked that road before, in saner climes federal student loans are made available by govt. to indigent students to pay their way through college.

So, I would direct my anger and frustration on my government rather than blame my bf, who is another victim of the failed Nigerian state.

kabrud:


But the op has not told this forum which impact she has made in the life of her boyfriend, abi na only guys dey impact? As it has even been noted above, there is an agreement of "no sex till marriage" , and unfortunately, that is only what she can offer. Just thinking of how to rip off, not what can even be offered, nonsense.

Must she vomit everything ...and must u guys use sex as prerequisite.. I can't remember advising u by the way all she is asking is support..hello.

Curioussme:
he's not my father, but is it not men like him that are single handedly paying rents for their babes? Moreover it's not everytime I ask him for money , it's once in a while

my dear lady, its a pity I have to comment on this, just wanted to pass. first of all, are you maried to him that you expect him to pay your rent, is he your father or atm machine?

Its a pity how some of we ladies think. In this days, you cant earn your own money and is waiting your bf to pay your rent and give u money.

Is it not your mates making world records?

Girl wake up, go and work and you will see how he will appreciate you.

The day I started being responsible for my self was the day 1, I had peace if mind. 2. He started respecting me, 3. He even did what I didnt expect because he said he is impressed by my responsible nature.

You didnt come to this world to depend on men but to go out and succeed.

keep waiting for him to pay your rent biko.

Curioussme:
Hi peeps, I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years now, and I've noticed when I need a major financial assistance from him, he'll just enter low key and be giving flimsy excuses like he doesn't have plans for me.

The most recent one that happened is that I need to pay my rent and the money with me isn't enough he's also giving excuses that he has commitments.

Sincerely, am tired of these excuses, I can't imagine getting married to a man who can't support me while am single what will he now do when we're married. He acts like someone who dodges responsibilities by all means.

Am confused right now,is he just a stingy person or what? The last time I needed money from him, I had to quarrel with him about it before he finally gave me money Guys pls help me out

my friend go and hustle and stop being dependant . Was he the one that got the house for you? You dont even give a fvck if he has even paid his.

Women and wahala...becos of ur kponyo na hin u wan carry all ur bills put for d guy head


Olori buru!

Curioussme:
Hi peeps, I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years now, and I've noticed when I need a major financial assistance from him, he'll just enter low key and be giving flimsy excuses like he doesn't have plans for me.

The most recent one that happened is that I need to pay my rent and the money with me isn't enough he's also giving excuses that he has commitments.

Sincerely, am tired of these excuses, I can't imagine getting married to a man who can't support me while am single what will he now do when we're married. He acts like someone who dodges responsibilities by all means.

Am confused right now,is he just a stingy person or what? The last time I needed money from him, I had to quarrel with him about it before he finally gave me money Guys pls help me out

U sef dodge him too

That was how I gave my past girlfriend 7k for a transport fare that cost 2k about 4yrs ago and she begin vex for me saying if I don't make it 10k that she will not collect and left my house in anger but later came back some minutes later to collect the 7k when she discovered that I wasn't ready to add another dime to it, she had to collect it and left. That was a girl I almost propose to but I thank God I didn't pop out the question "will u marry me". Had it been I proposed and married her, by now I would be contemplating divorce. Some women sha, up till now she's still doing boyfriend and girlfriend thing while I am already married with kid.

Is your hand paining you that you cn't work, get your azz up and do something for youself. The last time I checked, you are in a relationship and not some kind of poverty alleviation programme....mtchew

ybalogs:
If you're convinced he has the money and that he's just being stingy,please run for your life. All the best.

Where is she running to? Shebi na the Guy born her na..Foolish Girls everywhere..Thinking a Boyfriend is a good excuse for being absolutely irresponsible and not able to make money for themselves..Ur Boyfriend is your father abi..Awon Oloshi dede..

RETIREDMUMU:
oloriburuku! when did he became ur papa.
don't u gat parents. ass,hoole

..Loool this OP is finished!

claremont:
These are the kind of threads that reinforce the belief that most Naija girls have nothing else to offer besides what's between their legs.

This one is not even offering even that one!

mctowel01:

So there must be money to show for it? So when agreeing to date him, you were actually signing up for financial benefits?..Kontinu

No.

Actually I think she was signing up for BRAGGING benefits.

Stupid bïtches everywhere!!!

Curioussme:
he's not my father, but is it not men like him that are single handedly paying rents for their babes? Moreover it's not everytime I ask him for money , it's once in a while

Then go and look for a man that will pay ur bills for you because u have started to compare ur bf with men outside d relationship. Don't confuse urself,bf/gf relationship is about love and not money so go and hustle pls.u sound pained.

Nb: Its not yet his responsibility to cater for u!

Thank God I can't date a broke girl... Those are the kinda girls we have in edo state.. Stupid set of women..

This girl na thief u b, and e no go beta 4 u ashaowo i realy found out ur nt a wife material