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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Decryptor(m): 1:36pm On Feb 07, 2017
Because 98% of Nigerian ladies want a Man with the height of Lynxx, the face of Trey Songz, the Bank Account of Dangote and the attitude of Jesus Christ! undecided

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by AngryNigerian(m): 1:37pm On Feb 07, 2017
Them girls have a lot to say here...
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Nobody: 1:38pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jammiiee:
Now u know y av bn curious, and the repetitive missives wink
I am aware of it, just felt they'll fix it.
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by jaybee3(m): 1:38pm On Feb 07, 2017
una don hear?

hold that next blokos tight...blokos don scarce for market
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by AleAirHub(m): 1:39pm On Feb 07, 2017
grin grin grin grin grin.
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Akinaukwa: 1:41pm On Feb 07, 2017
Please those oloshos you put up their pics, are they the single ladies?

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by femi4: 1:41pm On Feb 07, 2017
Benita27:
I see nothing wrong in having high expectations, else you settle for anything that goes...marriage isn't for everyone.
You can't always have it all....at least 75% should be OK. If you are looking for 100%, you go wait taya

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Ekakamba: 1:41pm On Feb 07, 2017
Truly, the last time I checked your back, it ain't mediocre. tongue
ToriBlue:
I love to have high expectation, I love to marry my dream guy so don't tell me not to have high expectation, the last time I checked, I'm not mediocre.
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by iamdynamite(m): 1:42pm On Feb 07, 2017
Benita27:
I see nothing wrong in having high expectations, else you settle for anything that goes...marriage isn't for everyone.
wow,shoro niyen
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Godlychild: 1:42pm On Feb 07, 2017
The Economy is also a factor. Men have to hustle...

oluamid:



If you have ever noticed that there are seemingly more single ladies in Nigeria than guys, you may need to relax with some chilled juice because you are not alone with your observation.

In fact, it has called for serious concern in recent times where the spate seems to be on a fast rise.

Some attribute the improper fraction to the fact that more females are born daily than males amidst the population explosion.

Sometimes, ladies who think they have all it takes to be take up the ‘Mrs’ tag are caught in the web of certain things that keep them with their parents longer than they anticipated.

This brings up the fact that it is not always enough to have all the qualities required to become a wife as there are some militating factors that come to play when it’s time to tie the knot.

To this end, TheSheet.ng deemed it fit to bring to fore some of the reasons why so many girls are still single despite having attained marriageable age.

HIGH EXPECTATIONS:

Sometimes a handful of ladies await their potential suitors with high expectations and end up scaring them away when they eventually arrive.

Ephemeral things like money, cars shouldn’t form the basis of choice for a life partner but sadly, a lot of ladies are neck deep into such expectations.

ETHNICITY:

The 1914 amalgamation appears to be Nigeria’s bane. The “One Nigeria” slogan is one of the biggest organised lies of the century as there is really nothing ‘one’ about the country despite the fact our 57th Independence Anniversary is only a few months away.

Among the several other factors that stand in the way of marriage for most girls, ethnicity tops the chart. Most times, it is as a result of family influence and when some decide to go against the family standards, they end up stuck and alone with no support from family.

RELIGION:

Majority of the problems encountered in Nigeria today originated from religious differences which make it safe to conclude that religion has done more harm than good in the country. Most people believe that religious compatibility plays a vital role in the choice of life partner and this is the mentality that has kept more ladies in their parents’ homes till date.

AGE DIFFERENCE:

Sometimes, age difference scares women away from the man they truly wish to settle down with. Usually, most potential unions are threatened when the age difference is wide especially when age is telling on either partner.

POOR ATTITUDE:

Well, like Keith Harrell wrote in his masterpiece, ‘attitude is everything’. Some girls though ripe for marriage have delectable attitudes that easily get men on their feet after a first encounter.

Some ladies who are of age just need to improve on their attitudes so as to attract and embark on the journey of forever with ease.

We are in the 21st century and it’s about time people acted like they really are abreast with issues.

Certain choices should transcend beyond the archaic mentality people used to have into something more.


Source: http://thesheet.ng/ever-wondered-single-ladies-nigeria-guys-read/

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by ameh99: 1:43pm On Feb 07, 2017
Gbam! you have said it all, so I declare this thread closed!!!!.... grin
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by ItxAyce(m): 1:43pm On Feb 07, 2017
There are more single ladies than guys in nigeria

There are more single ladies than guys anywhere in the world

There are more ladies (either single married engaged dating homosexual bisexual sexual minority) than guys.

Period

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by ednut1(m): 1:43pm On Feb 07, 2017
people get married Every damn week. there are lots of single gals cos thats wat u want to notice. single guys too yapa bt no one bothers

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Nobody: 1:45pm On Feb 07, 2017
me i dont date broke girls

i dont date students

i dont date flashy women without a job

if all you can offer me is sex and a fine face. your not my type. i like women with vision and charisma


talkless of marrying one

i have my specs and i keep to that

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by profmallor: 1:46pm On Feb 07, 2017
Unavailability of marriageable able men nko?
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Harinholar(f): 1:47pm On Feb 07, 2017
PrinzCarter:
marriage is nT for everyone ? Really undecided
guess u are surprised,.... Lolssss...Human being with different reasoning grin..... That's for her oooo
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by blackaxe78: 1:49pm On Feb 07, 2017
Benita27:
I see nothing wrong in having high expectations, else you settle for anything that goes...marriage isn't for everyone.


You won't be saying this in 50years time.

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Nobody: 1:49pm On Feb 07, 2017
femi4:
You can't always have it all....at least 75% should be OK. If you are looking for 100%, you go wait taya
I didn't mention 100%.
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by dhardline(m): 1:50pm On Feb 07, 2017
embarassed valid points though
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by lx3as(m): 1:51pm On Feb 07, 2017
Another point, ladies now take the available jobs while guys have none; ask HRMs!

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Nobody: 1:51pm On Feb 07, 2017
iamdynamite:
wow,shoro niyen
Aderola15, what's "shoro niyen?" grin
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Melian(f): 1:52pm On Feb 07, 2017
I have high standards and I won't settle. However, for the sake of fairness and equity I'm working towards being that person l want my man to be.

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by madjune(m): 1:52pm On Feb 07, 2017
It's the economy, stupid.

If things were fair, lots of guys would quickly settle down on time.
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by SmartyPants(m): 1:53pm On Feb 07, 2017
I am forced to think some people are just not clever.

The premise of this argument is that men are getting married but women are not. How can that be?

Given that men do not marry themselves it stands to reason that if they are not marrying or dating the women, then they too are not getting married or are not dating anyone.

The only way woman can be single but men are getting married, and any of the reasons posted above is the cause, is if the men are marrying fellow men.

Take an illustration:

In a world of 10 people, where there are 5 ladies and 5 gentlemen, if all of the gentlemen refuse to get married then all of the ladies will remain single and the ratio of single men to single women remains 1:1. If two of the gentlemen refuse to get married, then two of the ladies will remain single but this means that the ratio of single men to women remains 1:1. Unless the women are getting married to more than one man, or any of the men die, the ratio of single women to single men cannot possible increase.

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Harinholar(f): 1:54pm On Feb 07, 2017
blackaxe78:



You won't be saying this in 50years time.
50years plus her present age..#menopause#..#Lobatan# grin
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Nobody: 1:55pm On Feb 07, 2017
ToriBlue:
I love to have high expectation, I love to marry my dream guy so don't tell me not to have high expectation, the last time I checked, I'm not mediocre.

Second time you're bragging in less than 24 hours. Are you Miss World? cheesy

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by izobemheuwaize: 1:56pm On Feb 07, 2017
PrinzCarter:
marriage is nT for everyone ? Really undecided

l concour . you are very right.
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by Nobody: 1:58pm On Feb 07, 2017
oluamid:



If you have ever noticed that there are seemingly more single ladies in Nigeria than guys, you may need to relax with some chilled juice because you are not alone with your observation.

In fact, it has called for serious concern in recent times where the spate seems to be on a fast rise.

Some attribute the improper fraction to the fact that more females are born daily than males amidst the population explosion.

Sometimes, ladies who think they have all it takes to be take up the ‘Mrs’ tag are caught in the web of certain things that keep them with their parents longer than they anticipated.

This brings up the fact that it is not always enough to have all the qualities required to become a wife as there are some militating factors that come to play when it’s time to tie the knot.

To this end, TheSheet.ng deemed it fit to bring to fore some of the reasons why so many girls are still single despite having attained marriageable age.

HIGH EXPECTATIONS:

Sometimes a handful of ladies await their potential suitors with high expectations and end up scaring them away when they eventually arrive.

Ephemeral things like money, cars shouldn’t form the basis of choice for a life partner but sadly, a lot of ladies are neck deep into such expectations.

ETHNICITY:

The 1914 amalgamation appears to be Nigeria’s bane. The “One Nigeria” slogan is one of the biggest organised lies of the century as there is really nothing ‘one’ about the country despite the fact our 57th Independence Anniversary is only a few months away.

Among the several other factors that stand in the way of marriage for most girls, ethnicity tops the chart. Most times, it is as a result of family influence and when some decide to go against the family standards, they end up stuck and alone with no support from family.

RELIGION:

Majority of the problems encountered in Nigeria today originated from religious differences which make it safe to conclude that religion has done more harm than good in the country. Most people believe that religious compatibility plays a vital role in the choice of life partner and this is the mentality that has kept more ladies in their parents’ homes till date.

AGE DIFFERENCE:

Sometimes, age difference scares women away from the man they truly wish to settle down with. Usually, most potential unions are threatened when the age difference is wide especially when age is telling on either partner.

POOR ATTITUDE:

Well, like Keith Harrell wrote in his masterpiece, ‘attitude is everything’. Some girls though ripe for marriage have delectable attitudes that easily get men on their feet after a first encounter.

Some ladies who are of age just need to improve on their attitudes so as to attract and embark on the journey of forever with ease.

We are in the 21st century and it’s about time people acted like they really are abreast with issues.

Certain choices should transcend beyond the archaic mentality people used to have into something more.


Source: http://thesheet.ng/ever-wondered-single-ladies-nigeria-guys-read/
Spare us this Bull$hit pls
Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by lordyugo: 2:00pm On Feb 07, 2017
ToriBlue:
I love to have high expectation, I love to marry my dream guy so don't tell me not to have high expectation, the last time I checked, I'm not mediocre.

the hilarious fact is that most times girls find out their dream guy doesn't see them as his dream girl, bitter fact

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Re: This Is Why There Are More Single Ladies In Nigeria Than Guys by JennieCutie4U(f): 2:01pm On Feb 07, 2017
Decryptor:
Because 98% of Nigerian ladies want a Man with the height of Lynxx, the face of Trey Songz, the Bank Account of Dangote and the attitude of Jesus Christ! undecided
jezzz really? lol

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