All our preggy mamas congratulations may u carry to full term IJN

chypoo86500:
went for my HSG yesterday but funny enough its wasn't as painful as the 1st one I did although I took some painkillers. Will be getting the result tomorrow and will be seeing the urologist tomorrow to analyze the result.

Thank God for you, please what painkillers did you use?

toniapat:
Hello fruitful mamas,

I posted few days ago that I noticed a diff pattern in my CM while trying B6, Bco and vit E this cycle to see if it would work the miracle I'd been expecting. I got d info on an international TTC forum (like this) that I joined last month and decided to give it a try. Unexplained infertility is really depressing; I was beginning to see myself as a failure.

I got my bfp 10 and 12 dpo, line still getting darker. I've finally missed the witch and I'm very happy cos TTC was wearing me out. Turns out the little effort paid off as I spent just about 1k to get the drugs. keeping my fingers crossed and hoping it works for someone who probably has similar issue as me.

Congrats on your BFP...healthy and stress free pregnancy is your portion.....Am kinda new to this forum.
Please, wanted to know the dosage of the vitamins. Did you take the vitamin B6 and vit E for the whole cycle or before or after ovulation?

curvilicious:


Yes he did once because of this same boy

Am so sorry about your short time issue. Am a man and I will give you a simple advice. Pls and pls be patient prayerful and endure

No matter what your Husband is wrong to slap you and worst in your mum presence. Don't no where to start from but no matter what just pretend like a fool in the house and

I think your husband cousin is not there for staying cos. They want to frustrate ur enemy so that you will be tried of the marriage and leave your husband. He might be aware of the plan but don't give anyone chance to ruin/control your home or marriage just behave like a fool and pretend u are not seeing what his cousin do

Remember you are TTC and the family might be pressuring him to get someone else or push u out so that simple way is to frustrate u and leave while he look for someone else.

My simple advice is pls and pls do not leave the house, be patient, prayerful and strong. I draw this conclusion because of the slap in ur mum presence no matter what

We are praying for you. Just hold on and be strong

@Curvilicious, please calm down and stop crying. Afterwards, call your mum and tell her your hubby has apologised to you and that everything has been worked out (this is because of her health). I join others to advise you to pretend as if the slap did not happen, dont bring it up for now and don't show hubby attitude. If you've never opened your heart to God please do it now. Pray for peace and love to return to your home. Ignore the boy for all these shall pass away. E-hugs, stop crying pls

curvilicious:


Yes he did once because of this same boy

Erm curvy no vex oo but this situation don pass be careful.Are you sure that boy is just a "cousin"?
His attachment and reaction over and above your feelings is suspicious! He's just too sensitive where he's concerned or has he ever hit you before now ?
God take control oo

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Good day mama, my scan result shows i av complex adnexial cyst. How can i get the the herbal to treat it please. and how much?
Am in Ogun State
Help a sister biko. God bless you

Baby dust to us all. please ma, am interested too am in Lagos.thanks

MummyJJ:
@ olaedoh I don't think that info about blood test not detecting pregnancy till 6wks. Maybe scan but test can detect as early as 10-12days post ovulation. Other mama's correct me if am wrong.

You are right. Mine was positive at 3 weeks and 5days. The six weeks thing is for pregnancy symptoms and not for everybody sef.

Elixir123:

Erm curvy no vex oo but this situation don pass be careful.Are you sure that boy is just a "cousin"?
His attachment and reaction over and above your feelings is suspicious! He's just too sensitive where he's concerned or has he ever hit you before now ?
God take control oo

My thoughts exactly. Which kine cousin be that? Cousin wey go make husband slap wife in the presence of mother-in-law not once but twice.

Curvilicious babe, please ask him questions when you guys have settled issues (which by God's grace you will) His thought might be since you haven't given him a child, you dare not complain about his first (just speculating though. Because I no understand this kine 'cousinly' love again)

He's lucky you're not my sister. You would have left this morning with our mother and he'd crawl and beg to take you back. That's after I give him a black eye. I can't stand violence against God's delicate creatures. If the woman's mouth runs like a faulty tap and is full of needles, I'd rather leave the house for her for a couple of hours. It is well.

@curvilicious, every agenda of the evil ones against your family are detroyed by fire now in Jesus name... The enemy will not steal your joy.
Please get a job and ignore them like we advised earlier, but give dh his food as usual. "Am tickling u now o, oya start laughing "

My dear God is already fighting your battles for you.

Baby dust to us all

All those TTC may God bless you as na Him they give pikin..
Again you have to read i mean read a lot..
There is a lot of information online and in the pages of books that we can benefit from.

If the issue of infertility is not the problem then more often than not its the timing for sex.
As you are praying and shagging for the baby remember to always take 400mcg folic acid.. Yes the baby needs it even before the BFP...

I have come to spread on this thread

Those of you saying i should be patient what if he kills me one day?
You needed to see his anger yesterday

@curvilicious mama,oya take hugs;the big squishy type. I'm so sorry cos I can imagine what you're feeling. I think you should totally ignore that your dh cousin. do your normal stuff around the house and totally act like he's not there at all. As far as you're concerned, you live alone with your husband.
like @writejhn27 rightly said it might be a well thought out plan to make you leave the house in anger and bring in the
If I may ask,how long have you been married?and how long have you been ttc?
The one that's sad is that he slapped you at all and worst still in the presence of your mother!
I think there's more to this than meets the eye.
It is well with you. Please eat,hold your head high,God will fight for you.

Sweetheart, God forbid, agreed, we don't know how angry he was, we don't how much it hurt right now but we are just hoping dh is taking this small matter too far since it's not like he hits you randomly and it only happened because of this issue. I feel there's more to it than. Dh is saying and we want you to prayerfully resolve it but if at any point you sense a threat to life please my sister by all means take cover ( it will never get to that in Jesus Name).

curvilicious:
Those of you saying i should be patient what if he kills me one day?
You needed to see his anger yesterday

curvy curvylicious,otenmwen,pele not cry again.wipe your tears,much has bin said about this issue.They are all good advice.Don't challenge him,take this matter to God,if he gets angry again before he raise his hands leave the environment.Ttc is almost over that is why the devil is fighting.
@ummtwins congrats a smooth 9 months..
@newbies welcome.A short and fruitful 9months.

curvilicious:
Those of you saying i should be patient what if he kills me one day?
You needed to see his anger yesterday

God forbid!! it would never get to that... since the annoyance is bcs of the cousin biko leave the matter, don't even talk to anybody to talk to dh, be ur normal self, when u cook, serve the cousin's own, when it rains pack ur clothes, if its chores pretend d boy isn't there and do it urself. don't send him on errand or bring yourself down to his level.

as for dh avoid all his anger triggers, try and b happy, pray bfre u sleep and when u wake up, sing songs, listen to music, watch comedy and try and forget this episode... keep imagining the atmosphere u want your. baby to meet... don't even start thinking myb d cousin isn't really cousin, it may be true or it might just be that hubby feels u havnt given birth so who are you to complain abt any person's child or perhaps the boy has said one or two things to hubby or unknowingly you presented a vibe that u dislike the boy...in all be prayerful... the devil is very cunny.

curvilicious:
Those of you saying i should be patient what if he kills me one day?
You needed to see his anger yesterday

My dear it is easier said than done. I even saw someone recommending 'WAR ROOM' It is well o...Nigerians don't just learn.
A man abuses you intentionally, hurts you emotionally, slaps you in the presence of your mum and you're told to be patient?
I wish you well o. Let me tell you something, I lost an aunt to domestic violence. If you are on FIN or active on social media
you will know how many women have lost their lives because they were ill-advised to be patient and also to watch WAR ROOM.

Divorce may not be the solution but you can separate and sort things out for now. He married you so he should be summoned to
a family meeting with his people.

Adiahaakwaibom1:


@ God's appointed time 4 u, u shall be blessed immensely & unheard Godly favours shall be ur portion.

Chai how did I miss this my ayin eka'as mention? A whole adiagha of my beloved state? Lol! Sosongho ayin eka mmi,Abasi udiong eti eti. Amen to your prayers. Happy to hear good news of BFP here,it shall be a commotion of bfps here in Jesus name.
I think there are 3pple if I'm correct already up for the book,two more to go but thaat would be for next mondayt(I promised 10.
@missingribs hope you feel better? Do letme knw when I can bring it for you*hugs*

mama fpeter everybody advised be patient because of the same naija behaviour, if someone had said she should leave the house or separate, others would've come and said they are trying to break her home whereas theirs is intact and other life long story...

mama curvilicious right now we can only advise, but na u dey wear shoe, Na u know where e dey pain you. any decision you choose to take we love you and would stand by you....kisses dearie

Happy Birthday. Love To Met You

mellissacole12 or what u call urself, if ur story is true thank God 4 u..but if its false may u truly experience TTC for 9years and see how it feels...bcs we are gtc doesn't mean we are gullible or stupid....may God remove shame and reproach from us all!!

modified* this Melissa person just registered today, with 3 posts, two on this thread and one on a thread about how to conceive twins on family section...same copy and paste story....

mummykyrti:
mellissacole12 or what u call urself, if ur story is true thank God 4 u..but if its false may u truly experience TTC for 9years and see how it feels...bcs we are gtc doesn't mean we are gullible or stupid....may God remove shame and reproach from us all!!

modified* this Melissa person just registered today, with 3 posts, two on this thread and one on a thread about how to conceive twins on family section...same copy and paste story....

my dear I think that was too harsh and early of dis ur coment.let us observe and wait a little for more of her post b4 we know if she is real or not.

Godanswerprayer:

my dear I think that was too harsh and early of dis ur coment.let us observe and wait a little for more of her post b4 we know if she is real or not.

mama sorry abt the harshness but its annoying, I see a lot of them even on baby center talking about a spell caster and what not, they are just some things and some people you shudnt try to mislead or scam...this person joined nl today and the first place he/she could type is ttc thread and a thread abt babies on family section, no prior posts anywhere and still same copy and paste testimony, no removal or addition.

crying as am typing this. so i took a pregnancy test using a test strip, it also came back negative. to say am mightly disappointed is an understatement. but my period is still MIA, dnt know what to think again. can someone recommend a good doc i can go see around okota lagos, am even too scared to go to the hospital. God'll surely see me through this

Godanswerprayer:

my dear I think that was too harsh and early of dis ur coment.let us observe and wait a little for more of her post b4 we know if she is real or not.

@mummykyrti is right. You don't need a soothsayer to tell you she's fake. I even expected her (could be a he even) to end with the usual spellcaster as the source of her pregnancy. So they have changed their M.O. to herbs. Send them a mail at your own peril.

Olaedoh:
crying as am typing this. so i took a pregnancy test using a test strip, it also came back negative. to say am mightly disappointed is an understatement. but my period is still MIA, dnt know what to think again. can someone recommend a good doc i can go see around okota lagos, am even too scared to go to the hospital. God'll surely see me through this

dearie don't cry okay? wipe your tears, very soon we shall dance and rejoice...other sabi mamas would come and put mouth.

Olaedoh:
crying as am typing this. so i took a pregnancy test using a test strip, it also came back negative. to say am mightly disappointed is an understatement. but my period is still MIA, dnt know what to think again. can someone recommend a good doc i can go see around okota lagos, am even too scared to go to the hospital. God'll surely see me through this

My dear don't cry, we shall carry our babies this year. So you can try outreach hospital in festac. They have a good gyne that knows his onions. They have a branch in Okota road too but it's the one in festac I'm skewed towards.

Meanwhile I've been trying to post since morning no way. NL na wa

thepatroit:

@mummykyrti is right. You don't need a soothsayer to tell you she's fake. I even expected her (could be a he even) to end with the usual spellcaster as the source of her pregnancy. So they have changed their M.O. to herbs. Send them a mail at your own peril.

aww see the way am blushing...its so unfair, someone is going tru sometin and you are trying to rip off that person!! haba where is ur conscience?? what if it was you in same situation??...I just tire 4 some people

he/she has gone further now to open a thread on health section, still that same copy and paste story, no difference atol

curvilicious:



i told my mom to speak wt him
Almost at the close of the discussion this man raised his hand slapped me twice

curvilicious mama, sorry for that
mama sorry to say u for no put mouth when mumsi dey talk to am...u for leave d two of den alone when den dey talk d talk.


dat is pass Sha now na solution we wan find,my mama first thing find out d relationship btw d boy and DH(if d boy is still small to be dh pikin)

2ndly no involve any 3rd party for ur marriage oooo,cos after wan settle,d 3rd party no go use better eye look ur man again talking from experience (my sister used to tell me abt he dh misbehavior everything now in as much as I try I no get any kind regard for am)
and it seems ur dh is someone like mine dat doesn't appreciate involvement of 3rd party in issue.

3rdly look for dh control bottons..... everybody get control bottons,u are a woman use power of woman for am...me I fear slap or beat pass anything,so if wahala start I no dey use mouth talk na my behavior dey do d talk.
for instance yesterday,dh relative (one major general)call am say him wan come Lagos from Abuja and na our place him wan stay cos him want him private life.dh no tell me anything say we go get visitor ,me sef kuku dey look like mumu.
and as God go catch am no food for house at all.
today before I come from work, him don arrange d whole house as na major general dey come.as I reach house him no dey,him go carry d man come house.me wey no say food no dey,I quick quick enter kitchen carry butter put for bread chop well before den come I don enter bed do like person wey dey sleep.
as e come,e come room say iya my brother is around come prepare something.me I pretend with sleep eye say" there is no food in d house and u didn't inform me abt his coming,I would have stopped over at d market to get something to prepare and now am having headache"him jejely carry himself comot go tell dey man say let me take u out" story end.next time him go tell me if we want get visitor.

so in same manner,I wld advice u to ignore d boy,if him no dey with u,u no go do u work.if u Ve d strength cook for am,if possible serve am put for dinning.just ignore am..look for dh botton for room dey press d bottom to strengthen una love,no talk go where d boy dey,no mention d boy matter again.

most of all involve God and not human in ur marriage.

don't ever contemplate divorce.. marriage is for better for worse.

I can volunteer to be ur prayer partner...let deal with d matter and d so called cousin in d spirit realm.....
sorry if I sound somehow

lavivaavril:


My dear don't cry, we shall carry our babies this year. So you can try outreach hospital in festac. They have a good gyne that knows his onions. They have a branch in Okota road too but it's the one in festac I'm skewed towards.

Meanwhile I've been trying to post since morning no way. NL na wa

mama lavivaavril welcome ooo