chizzy4love:


left for me,I don't even want her to wait anylonger

Ishilove:

Now you know

Is it Vintage Cockerel or Vintage Penis_?

Eketem:
I will rather drink Lead than advise you and your silly sister.

This is just a whining post nothing else.

She has 1.5 million, she is waiting for him to open a shop for her, she refused to do her masters and went to marry a cheat.

If you won't listen to your sensible father in the first place is it us you abi your sister would listen too?


Abeg swerve

Viking007:

Ishilove:

Na question na

SirVintageCock:
Vintage cocktail. Had to shorten the spelling when I was registering.

Eketem:
I will rather drink Lead than advise you and your silly sister.

This is just a whining post nothing else.

She has 1.5 million, she is waiting for him to open a shop for her, she refused to do her masters and went to marry a cheat.

If you won't listen to your sensible father in the first place is it us you abi your sister would listen too?


Abeg swerve

chizzy4love:

The worst is if she confronts him now,he will kneel down,beg ,cry as if he means it but at the end he will continue.thats the kind of guy he is.My sister said that was what he did during courtship but she forgave him because she dint have proof.
My sister is older than me.what I intend to do is show her this page later on so that she can read people's responses.
She had better suitor then coming for her then but she settled for the cheat because she believed they've come a long way.Such is life.

Eketem:
I will rather drink Lead than advise you and your silly sister.

This is just a whining post nothing else.

She has 1.5 million, she is waiting for him to open a shop for her, she refused to do her masters and went to marry a cheat.

If you won't listen to your sensible father in the first place is it us you abi your sister would listen too?

Abeg swerve

truthsayer007:


Women and assumption are like 5 and 6. They can assume for Africa. What makes you think that better suitor won't be worse?

If you had married the better suitor & he was cheating. Your sister would have said "ahhh...I should have just married the first guy. I made a mistake "

The problem with your sister's husband is he couldn't explore women when he was younger cuz he had nothing. Now that he has money. He feels he can now enjoy what he has been missing all these while.

He needs prayer & intervention.

Eketem:
What exactly is the aim of this post?

Should we start a go fund me page to raise 20 million for your sister? I don't understand.

chizzy4love:

1.5 million can't start a proper boutique.it can't even cover her upkeep alone for 6 months.we are from a middle class background.Even I, as a single working class girl right now have way more than that in my account now and it's no money to me.after renting won't she furnish,feed herself and the baby.she already has a high standard of living.we are from middle class family .we live a comfortable life.so to me,1.5m is really nothing.trust me.
besides,she was earning about 150k every month before she resigned her job and lived in a 2 bedroom flat as a single girl.hope you understand now.

Eketem:
What exactly is the aim of this post?

Should we start a go fund me page to raise 20 million for your sister? I don't understand.

cococandy:

Imagine o.
Saying that even if she gives her additional 2 million it won't be enough because of her standards.
Yet people are surviving on waaaay less.

So OP why doesn't your sister stick with her usual standard garnished with STDs and leave us alone. What do you want us to do?

chizzy4love:

She is an Economics and statistics 2:1 graduate and she already have a standard of living.I just pray she gets another job quickly.she has always been on a high salary before now so it will be really difficult for her to do a teaching or clerical job with peanut as pay.Hope you understand.
She just sacrificed her life for a cheating husband.

chizzy4love:

1.5 million can't start a proper boutique.it can't even cover her upkeep alone for 6 months.we are from a middle class background.Even I, as a single working class girl right now have way more than that in my account now and it's no money to me.after renting won't she furnish,feed herself and the baby.she already has a high standard of living.we are from middle class family .we live a comfortable life.so to me,1.5m is really nothing.trust me.
besides,she was earning about 150k every month before she resigned her job and lived in a 2 bedroom flat as a single girl.hope you understand now.

chizzy4love:

She is an Economics and statistics 2:1 graduate and she already have a standard of living.I just pray she gets another job quickly.she has always been on a high salary before now so it will be really difficult for her to do a teaching or clerical job with peanut as pay.Hope you understand.
She just sacrificed her life for a cheating husband.

Fkforyou:
I have a male cousin like that, he is way older than me and married, sometimes I just look at him and wonder what is wrong with him. He is never satisfied, he just have this uncontrollable desire for the opposite sex, sometimes I even wonder if he is cursed because some of the girls he lusts after, even I, won't look at them twice.

Your sister should just dump him, she deserves better. But before she does that, she should stop investing her emotions on him and start seeing him as just a fvcking material when she is bored and her personal ATM machine till she is financially bouyant and then dump his ass out of the blue without giving him a heads up.

musabayokanu:



There op is Hungary imagine calling 150k job a well paid job that's when I realise she is not in contact with reality. 2m +1.5 can't set her up cos of her standard.

Make thunder fire you and that your standard there....

chizzy4love:

Giving out money has never been an issue but sustaining it a big issue.Even if I give her extra 2m and she invests,how will she sustain the biz for the next few years without external income and also sustain her life and the baby..If you know the core values of business,you will understand me.So,please think properly and deeply before you respond.

chizzy4love:

Thunder fire you and your entire family and generations, you demented baboon and a sentimental fool.Is it by force to comment on "my post"?, you first class i.m.b.e.cile.150k job is a well paid job in this Nigerian economy because I know how much teller staff and C.S.Os earn in banks right now and that her pay was from 2 years ago idiot.
You cant even talk when my driver or gate man is talking or even stand me one on one.i don't
blame all these China companys that made Android phones very cheap thereby making scamps to hide under faceless forums and insult just anyone they feel like and also free data from service providers.
Sentimental fools like you are the reason I kept reading as a guest and not sign up all these while.
You can't even spell ordinary "hungry" correctly,how can you pass WAEC you scamp,bastard and a colossal idiot.
I won't dignify you with my response again and don't ever comment on my post next time because you are not one of the matured readers I asked for.

chizzy4love:

this quote is for you @musabayokanu.keep fooling yourself.always try to read your write - up before you post cos I cant correlate it.

chizzy4love:

Thunder fire you and your entire family and generations, you demented baboon and a sentimental fool.Is it by force to comment on "my post"?, you first class i.m.b.e.cile.150k job is a well paid job in this Nigerian economy because I know how much teller staff and C.S.Os earn in banks right now and that her pay was from 2 years ago idiot.
You cant even talk when my driver or gate man is talking or even stand me one on one.i don't
blame all these China companys that made Android phones very cheap thereby making scamps to hide under faceless forums and insult just anyone they feel like and also free data from service providers.
Sentimental fools like you are the reason I kept reading as a guest and not sign up all these while.
You can't even spell ordinary "hungry" correctly,how can you pass WAEC you scamp,bastard and a colossal idiot.
I won't dignify you with my response again and don't ever comment on my post next time because you are not one of the matured readers I asked for.

musabayokanu:


You are just naive and stupid if you think with 3.5m you can't plan and start up a sustainable business that can enable you take care of yourself and son.
How much do they give you win employees that today's are sufficient and employers of labour?

How much is Tony Elumelu foundation giving to young entrepreneurs?

You keep taking about standards, level, upbringing and all that shit. Babe big up and stop posing as a big chuck where you are not.

I don't have a personnal driver who washes my car and drives my family around, my security is just an Aboki but he last time I earned 150k its like 6years when I was still a single man. For calling 150k job as a well paid job I repeat shows you are disconnected with reality.

Take your sister to entrepreneurial class and when she graduates give her 3m if she can't increase it in 2yrs it shows her 2.1 in economics is a scam.

chizzy4love:
Please I need advice for my elder sister whose husband is a chronic cheat.Their marriage is about 2 years now with a son. She have whatsapp chat proof of his affairs with like 10 other girls. He gives her everything and hides these affairs but my sister is extremely smart. He cheated on her during their 9 years courtship with like 3 different girls that she knows of but she dint have enough proof and people including her inlaws begged her not to leave him without proof. Well fastforward to after marriage, he is still seeing those girls including new ones but this time she have enough proof.

The worst of all was her complains to my mum this morning. She said she discovered in a chat between her husband and one of the girls he dated that she dint initially have proof of that he wants to marry her secretly, that the lady initially aborted for him 3 times before and now he is begging her to get pregnant for him again and he will marry her secretly. Meanwhile he is still constantly chatting and sleeping with the remaining 9 or more others.

She also discovered in his chat the curses from another girl he promised marriage before abandoning her to marry my sister. The lady lamented on how he made her commit series of abortions in the name he was not ready yet and his responds was I want to fvck you tonight are you free?.

From the same whatsapp chat she discovered he gave another girl 10,000 naira to abort a pregnancy recently.
He also invited 3 other different girls from outside his state.
Please if I continue, this whole page will not be enough.

My mum was trying to advice her to save massively since she already have a 6months old baby for him because she cant take care of the baby alone in these hard times. But I think she should just quit.
Meanwhile her husband dosnt know she has all those proofs.

PLEASE I NEED MATURED ADVICE GUYS.
Note* He have refused to open any business for her so that she can be financially independent.

abouzaid:
most women are always attracted to this type of men, what your mom said is the truth, she need to find her standing financially before going anywhere, it's best if your family sorts that out first, HIV and hepatitis are real.