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Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Bimpe29: 12:18pm On Feb 16, 2017
Onyejemechimere:
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Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Abdullahiii: 12:30pm On Feb 16, 2017
Sincerely i will suggest you look for a new guy who would not give you terms and conditions ...this 2 are not the right people for you . let a new guy love and care for u wholeheartedly and should marry you and have children together . Dnt forget your future happiness is what we are talking about here .
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by goodnews777: 12:33pm On Feb 16, 2017
Wetin concern nigerian woman with oyibo man? This people wen before ten years na only tongue go dey work? Sister please close eye carry nigga power put for bed. At least I fit guarantee, anytime e hungry you, you go get am. Oyibo nice but e nor sweet.
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by wakes: 12:35pm On Feb 16, 2017
Send both away.

The first to return is yours.
Tha is if you are really in a fix
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by InvertedHammer: 12:36pm On Feb 16, 2017
Onyejemechimere:
This just came in From Emotional Chioma, she said she is caught between two men, one she loves but broke her heart and the other she is dating but does not love. She wants your advice on who to choose.

Read her story below


"I am 29 years old. I need your candid advice in terms of my relationship."

"I used to date a black guy who I fell in love with but he broke up with me because he said I was a bit stubborn and he thinks I’m self centered. I pleaded with him not to end the relationship, even family members intervened all to no avail. He still ended it and I was really heartbroken. He has got three kids (white kids) and he is still single."

"During our breakup I met a 34 year old white guy who I started dating. This guy is nice, caring and he loves me but he said he is not ready to get married yet but we can have babies together. Now the black guy whom I’m still in love with is back and asking for a new beginning all over again. He wants us to settle down together."

"My problem is I’m so confused about him because of the way he acted. I’m still in love with him not minding the fact that he has kids already but I still have the white guy who I am dating but I don’t love him. I don’t know who to settle with for life."

What do you think she should do?


The answer is simple.

She needs to work on herself to stop attracting only losers.

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Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by walcuts(m): 12:41pm On Feb 16, 2017
Follow ur heart....Shike na
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by naijalander: 12:49pm On Feb 16, 2017
Go with the white guy.


Onyejemechimere:
This just came in From Emotional Chioma, she said she is caught between two men, one she loves but broke her heart and the other she is dating but does not love. She wants your advice on who to choose.

Read her story below


"I am 29 years old. I need your candid advice in terms of my relationship."

"I used to date a black guy who I fell in love with but he broke up with me because he said I was a bit stubborn and he thinks I’m self centered. I pleaded with him not to end the relationship, even family members intervened all to no avail. He still ended it and I was really heartbroken. He has got three kids (white kids) and he is still single."

"During our breakup I met a 34 year old white guy who I started dating. This guy is nice, caring and he loves me but he said he is not ready to get married yet but we can have babies together. Now the black guy whom I’m still in love with is back and asking for a new beginning all over again. He wants us to settle down together."

"My problem is I’m so confused about him because of the way he acted. I’m still in love with him not minding the fact that he has kids already but I still have the white guy who I am dating but I don’t love him. I don’t know who to settle with for life."

What do you think she should do?
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by DanielGb(m): 1:08pm On Feb 16, 2017
Ladies above 26 have little options. At that age, make swift decision or else...
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by vislabraye(m): 1:26pm On Feb 16, 2017
Bth options get as e be oh.
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Martartins(m): 1:36pm On Feb 16, 2017
she should just leave both of them
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by mirabeldesmond(f): 1:42pm On Feb 16, 2017
marry a farmer....they have big cassavas
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by castro316: 1:43pm On Feb 16, 2017
Continue with The white guy but dont have children for him. the reason why the Black guy isn't married yet is a mentality. He won't marry you either. Even if he does he may divorce you soonest. On your way u might find the one Who you will truly love. Don't be impatient

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Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by StupidYorubaFool: 1:43pm On Feb 16, 2017
Amarabae:
She should accept the black guy back,its obvious that the chemistry between them is strong.
Misunderstanding and forgiveness are part of love.
nice dp. I'd like to hook up with you. I'm based in Abuja
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by slimmdree(m): 1:46pm On Feb 16, 2017
But what if he chops her and decide to leave her again??
Amarabae:
She should accept the black guy back,its obvious that the chemistry between them is strong.
Misunderstanding and forgiveness are part of love.
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by StupidYorubaFool: 1:46pm On Feb 16, 2017
twilliamx:
Marry them both
lol like seriously are you for real?
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Omowunmgold(f): 1:46pm On Feb 16, 2017
Double marry is allow in US
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Amarabae(f): 1:47pm On Feb 16, 2017
StupidYorubaFool:
nice dp. I'd like to hook up with you. I'm based in Abuja
just like that. Well thanks but I don't remember looking for a hookup.
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by StupidYorubaFool: 1:49pm On Feb 16, 2017
Amarabae:
just like that. Well thanks but I don't remember looking for a hookup.
just like you stated up there.
the chemistry between you and I will be a strong one okay?
I still insist. you're gregarious and I'd like us to fraternise and hobnob cos I need you as my alter ego.
pls
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Amarabae(f): 1:49pm On Feb 16, 2017
slimmdree:
But what if he chops her and decide to leave her again??
then life goes on. Human beings are unpredictable.
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by slimmdree(m): 1:52pm On Feb 16, 2017
reason y she should do wat makes her happy, den wateva comes after she should be ready for it
Amarabae:
then life goes on. Human beings are unpredictable.
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Amarabae(f): 1:55pm On Feb 16, 2017
StupidYorubaFool:
just like you stated up there.
the chemistry between you and I will be a strong one okay?
I still insist. you're gregarious and I'd like us to fraternise and hobnob cos I need you as my alter ego.
pls
thanks for the proposal but someone is already in my life and the relationship is deep.
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by kkinternet: 1:55pm On Feb 16, 2017
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Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by PrettyGaby(f): 2:03pm On Feb 16, 2017
Onyejemechimere:
This just came in From Emotional Chioma, she said she is caught between two men, one she loves but broke her heart and the other she is dating but does not love. She wants your advice on who to choose.

Read her story below


"I am 29 years old. I need your candid advice in terms of my relationship."

"I used to date a black guy who I fell in love with but he broke up with me because he said I was a bit stubborn and he thinks I’m self centered. I pleaded with him not to end the relationship, even family members intervened all to no avail. He still ended it and I was really heartbroken. He has got three kids (white kids) and he is still single."

"During our breakup I met a 34 year old white guy who I started dating. This guy is nice, caring and he loves me but he said he is not ready to get married yet but we can have babies together. Now the black guy whom I’m still in love with is back and asking for a new beginning all over again. He wants us to settle down together."

"My problem is I’m so confused about him because of the way he acted. I’m still in love with him not minding the fact that he has kids already but I still have the white guy who I am dating but I don’t love him. I don’t know who to settle with for life."

What do you think she should do?
please, two of them no make sense o. One broke up with you for nothing upon say im don already get three children and the other wants you to be a baby mama. Respect yourself and leave two of them. men never finish for this world

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Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by therapistmrs: 2:42pm On Feb 16, 2017
Sister only you can give yourself the best advice.Look at the qualities of both guys and compare with what you want in a man and do hope you are not thinking that time is ticking because its not.
Mind you marriage is a life time journey and you need to choose right to save yourself life time of misery.
If you eventually realise that they both don't meet you criteria don't hestate to move on until you find that one person best for you.
All the best
therapistmrs ..com

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Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Minabee: 2:44pm On Feb 16, 2017
You don't have anyone to choose from except you want to be broken hearted over and over or be a babymama . Have a fresh start!

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Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by justmenoni: 2:58pm On Feb 16, 2017
Op, post the picture of the white guy.. so we can also judge based on their looks grin grin cheesy
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Nobody: 3:29pm On Feb 16, 2017
Exponental:
very simple..... toss a coin!
On a serious note... None! They have same quality not fit for a lasting love.
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by bladeAnders(m): 3:34pm On Feb 16, 2017
to me, none is her husband....

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Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Equal2DeTask(m): 3:57pm On Feb 16, 2017
Amarabae:
thanks for the proposal but someone is already in my life and the relationship is deep.
dnt lose this life Chance...

Forget dat StupidYorubaFool & the one u claimed 2 be in ur life dat can abandon U anytime..

'common sense*

Infact give Me a PM i gat something 4 U wink
Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by mechanics(m): 3:59pm On Feb 16, 2017
Pls delete both of them from ur mind o.

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Re: 29-year-old Lady Caught Between Two Men Seeks Advice On Who To Marry by Barigaboy(m): 4:59pm On Feb 16, 2017
Onyejemechimere:
This just came in From Emotional Chioma, she said she is caught between two men, one she loves but broke her heart and the other she is dating but does not love. She wants your advice on who to choose.

Read her story below


"I am 29 years old. I need your candid advice in terms of my relationship."

"I used to date a black guy who I fell in love with but he broke up with me because he said I was a bit stubborn and he thinks I’m self centered. I pleaded with him not to end the relationship, even family members intervened all to no avail. He still ended it and I was really heartbroken. He has got three kids (white kids) and he is still single."

"During our breakup I met a 34 year old white guy who I started dating. This guy is nice, caring and he loves me but he said he is not ready to get married yet but we can have babies together. Now the black guy whom I’m still in love with is back and asking for a new beginning all over again. He wants us to settle down together."

"My problem is I’m so confused about him because of the way he acted. I’m still in love with him not minding the fact that he has kids already but I still have the white guy who I am dating but I don’t love him. I don’t know who to settle with for life."

What do you think she should do?
Base on your narration, that one u don't love is d best for u. D guy who broke up with u will still do dsame later.

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