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digger aye! kontinu... if na woman won do d same to u now u go come NL come open thread

Hmmmm... Later dem guys will insult us saying "this b!-tch ain't loyal"... Cum n see ooo



Wetin cause the matter?

before you judge try n put yourself in the persons shoe

Benita27:
Some men and women are the sole cause of their predicament.

I know one who dated a girl for 6yrs from when he wrote his first jamb and got into school till he finished. Dude was unable to secure a job but the girl was supportive. Somehow he bleeped another babe and in two months later the girl said she was pregnant.

This guy wasn't ready for marriage but she promised to get him a job where her brother works. He broke up with the gf and married the lady he impregnated, her brother gave him the job, they had 3 kids later and the oldest is 7. As companies were sacking workers cos of the recession he was sacked but the wife's brother still retained his job.

This same guy told my brother he wants to sell his properties, divorce his wife on the grounds to have an arrangement marriage in US, then move to the United States never to come back and that he never loved her. Could you imagine how much of a user a man could be?.

Very pathetic, some people fail to understand that there are consequences for actions and decisions we make. We might not reap the benefit now but there's surely a pay day. He is really a user of men. He's just looking for any available opportunity to have wealth, no brain at all. Wealth without common sense in a relationship is nonsense.

Sincerely some people have skull but no brain, heart without conscience.

C'mmon, use the new rich girl and boost yourself financially, then dump her later and marry your real gf.

Dextology:
Very pathetic, some people fail to understand that there are consequences for actions and decisions we make. We might not reap the benefit now but there's surely a pay day. He is really a user of men. He's just looking for any available opportunity to have wealth, no brain at all. Wealth without common sense in a relationship is nonsense.

Sincerely some people have skull but no brain, heart without conscience.

Lol, both of them played a lady and now she's about to be played by the same man she felt she has gotten.

It is said that "if a man treats someone terribly before you but claims he loves you it's just a matter of time for you to get same treatment".

Actually if he plays his game right, he might not hv 2 dump anyone. Keep both girls, but with d ilussion of each being d only one. 5 yrs relationship doesn't gaurantee marriage. At any point in time u think any of d relationship might lead 2 marriage, come clean with d other.
No malice intended, its just being real.

I've seen this happen again and again, so no surprise there. Most of the young women I know who are currently unmarried and are using guys like 10/11 spanner were dumped by guys for richer women after investing years in a relationship. People call them hoes and bit..chies, but dem no send. The hurt has been deep.

@OP, there is no excuse whatsoever for your friend to dump a loyal woman he's dated for five years. Tell him to stop relying on a woman's ass for fortune. Let him work his way up like most men. His being idle for 3 years shows he has no vision nor direction in life. A man with a desire to succeed would have been hustling by now not relying on his gf for support. Shows that even with money, he may not be a ble to chart a new direction for his life.

He shd man up and repay loyalty with loyalty. Simple.

Benita27:
Lol, both of them played a lady and now she's about to be played by the same man she felt she has gotten.

It is said that "if a man treats someone terribly before you but claims he loves you it's just a matter of time for you to get same treatment".

No amount of make up go fit hide tribal mark, with time the make up go clean and the tribal mark go de visible.

megareal:
I've seen this happen again and again, so no surprise there. Most of the young women I know who are currently unmarried and are using guys like 10/11 spanner were dumped by guys for richer women after investing years in a relationship. People call them hoes and bit..chies, but dem no send. The hurt has been deep.

@OP, there is no excuse whatsoever for your friend to dump a loyal woman he's dated for five years. Tell him to stop relying on a woman's ass for fortune. Let him work his way up like most men. His being idle for 3 years shows he has no vision nor direction in life. A man with a desire to succeed would have been hustling by now not relying on his gf for support. Shows that even with money, he may not be a ble to chart a new direction for his life.

He shd man up and repay loyalty with loyalty. Simple.

Well said.

Dextology:
No amount of make up go fit hide tribal mark, with time the make up go clean and the tribal mark go de visible.

His friend should do whatever he wants.

coolestofall:
Actually if he plays his game right, he might not hv 2 dump anyone. Keep both girls, but with d ilussion of each being d only one. 5 yrs relationship doesn't gaurantee marriage. At any point in time u think any of d relationship might lead 2 marriage, come clean with d other.
No malice intended, its just being real.

that would be really smart ..but its going to be a lot of work

Passy089:
Bro ...She will heal with time ,perhaps he can still compensate her later, The guys has to think about himself too,he has younger siblings looking up to him.

my guy,d guy is jst looking for an excuse to leave his babe.him don tire but hm no knw aw to quit am...can't u put d rich girl as side chick without her knowing? forget dis tin jareh ur relationship don tire u.no b today ynash get bisection line

Benita27:
His friend should do whatever he wants.

It's a free world na so them talk am

Passy089:
My Friend is in dilemma right now,he finished his NYSC 3years Ago and has been unemployed since then...meanwhile he has a girlfriend who even though is not rich supports him her own little way and has been with him through all the ups and downs.

Now the problem here is that ,My friend recently met another girl at a wedding party ,one thing led to another and they became really close,Even thou he told the girl about his 5years old relationship, the new girl didn't care and wants him to break up with her old girlfriend because she wants him all to herself...The new girl's family is very rich and connected and she is willing to call in few favours from her family and friends to have him fixed up with a good job if he does as she planned.

if you are my friend that has been jobless for 3years,what would you do


Lalasticala please I need this to make FP its a serious issue please.

if ur friend no break up with dat former.
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he d be d biggest fool

Passy089:
Brother ...in this recession,... I personally told him not to miss this opportunity o,even thou it may look like he betrayed her old gf but this country is hard

lol

Passy089:
Brother ...in this recession,... I personally told him not to miss this opportunity o,even thou it may look like he betrayed her old gf but this country is hard

then u r a wicked friend

rosieluv:
then u r a wicked friend

So he should use because of Love and remain jobless abi?

In actuality ur friend is about to sell his soul to d devil @ a very cheap price ...well if he believes that is his redemption.. Who cares.He better let a real man handle d loyal girl than keep wasting time when no dey

As u said it's a dilemma, I drop my phone at this point

There must be scars to show to your offsprings before ur story changed. If there are no scars, there will be no stories to tell... strive with the old babe....she is one to keep[code][/code]

Never let go of a girl who knows the meaning of loyalty. They are damn rare.

Passy089:
Brother ...in this recession,... I personally told him not to miss this opportunity o,even thou it may look like he betrayed her old gf but this country is hard

if that advice is good to you then i pray it happens to someone close to you, bro hard times don't last but hard people do, life is not always abt money and what you stand to gain always, I came from the streets, I never cared abt peoples feelings and emotions, things where really hard, I was just after the money and made sure I got, along the line I realized several things, I learnt one principle that has kept me, never toil with peoples emotion, if you must brk a relationship let it be on solid grounds. you are only sure of today, no matter how you secure today,it still a gamble against tomorrow.

Oyind17:

dont tell me u are cool with this...i have news like this u know

Passy089:
My Friend is in dilemma right now,he finished his NYSC 3years Ago and has been unemployed since then...meanwhile he has a girlfriend who even though is not rich supports him her own little way and has been with him through all the ups and downs.

Now the problem here is that ,My friend recently met another girl at a wedding party ,one thing led to another and they became really close,Even thou he told the girl about his 5years old relationship, the new girl didn't care and wants him to break up with her old girlfriend because she wants him all to herself...The new girl's family is very rich and connected and she is willing to call in few favours from her family and friends to have him fixed up with a good job if he does as she planned.

if you are my friend that has been jobless for 3years,what would you do


Lalasticala please I need this to make FP its a serious issue please.

i hate what ur friend is about to do... I can't do that.


Pls tell him to give u permission to drop the about-to-be-dumped poor girl's number.

The rich girl might use him as her houseboy, may not regard him as anything especially in the presence of her friends, will constantly remind him of the way she made him to be where he is and might end up dumping him when she gets tired of him....thereby taking back all she helped him acquire...which means taking him back to stage zero.

sandraanakebe:
The rich girl might use him as her houseboy, may not regard him as anything especially in the presence of her friends, will constantly remind him of the way she made him to be where he is and might end up dumping him when she gets tired of him....thereby taking back all she helped him acquire...which means taking him back to stage zero.

You have a point..but you never know until you try.

That's Why Each Time I See Ma Boo Wit A Strange Woman I Dy Vex Or Numbers That Belongs To A Lady.... As We Dy Pray Say Na Dis Year So, I No Won Share A Story Dat Touch. Even 1 Day No B Beans...

Fast-Cash is deceitful sha....just tell the new girl to assist you if she can..... else if, she should get the fvck outta your goddam life, that you'll be fixed up soonest. God will use a second to turn things around for you. Don't because of a pleasure that won't even last up to 2yrs detroy what you guys have built for over 5yrs now.

Passy089:
You have a point..but you never know until you try.

The stuff here be say this guy won't just have the liberty of his goddam life.

Money is not everything,it never is. In fact I've Been in similar situations where very rich single

ladies try to get me to hook up with them, Some even go as far as trying to match make me with

their rich and single friends and due to the nature of my job I come across a lot of them but want

I want from a partner is more than what money can buy. Never joke with your happiness, peace

and joy and trust me money can never buy this things.

rosieluv:
then u r a wicked friend

Am an ibo guy, and would want to meet you