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I just came across this beautiful write up somewhere and i decided to share it. I hope my fellow ladies would learn from it especially now that most people lives revolves around social media.

Don't advertise your happiness on social media.

Don't advertise your happy marriage On social media.

Don't advertise your holidays on social media.

Don't advertise your kids achievements on social media.

Don't advertise your pregnancy on social media.

Don't advertise your expensive gifts on social media. (Car, house etc)

‼No one is going to be happy for you.

‼all the "nice" comments you get are just fake.

‼you just attracting the evil eye on you & your family.

‼you just attracting jealous people into your life.

‼you don't know who's saving your pictures & checking your updates.

‼you really need to Stop this as it is going to ruin your life, family, marriage.

‼social media is the devils eyes, ears & mouth, don't fall into the devils trap.

May God help us & safe us from social media disaster !!!

Lalasticlala I think this is worth sharing..

People advertise all these and are still happily married...

What rocks one's boat may sink others,that's what makes life interesting

bullsit
how wetin u learn take concern us
gerrara here for real mehnn

subtlemee:
People advertise all these and are still happily married...

What rocks one's boat may sink others,that's what makes life interesting

yea, but majority are not , I'm not saying no one should share his/her happiness but it's all about being careful

Homeboiy:
bullsit

how wetin u learn take concern us

gerrara here for real mehnn

why did you comment since it doesn't concern you

sweerychick:
why did you comment since it doesn't concern you

e pain u

HateU2:
My dear, like somebody said up there, it does not work the same way.

Just be yourself. For me, I used to be a facebook addict but to upload on facebook nowadays ehn, its like i want to use leg waka to Oshodi from Idumota. Social Media is good but dont be too addicted to it and let the world knows whats happening to you in your bedroom.
Tonto loves drama and attention right from day 1 and I am not kind of surprised shes doing all this stuff concerning her marriage all over instagram.

Some things are best kept secret!

exactly my point, some people overdo things.

she married a yahoo guy and was expecting him to be responsible. you cannot put a crown on a clown and expect a king. mba nu.

Toto dick(e) marriage still dey kampe.bloggers be spreading lies

I knew of a lady that posted her pregnancy scan result on Facebook. Indeed she was pregnant for twins. Two weeks later, she lost the pregnancy..... she still posted it of course people would say sorry.... If I were to be a kidnapper, knowing fully well that her hubby is wealthy, I can easily kidnap her kids as she posts everything about her kids, their school, family, husband.... haba! ladies should really take it easy. Infact some men/guys are also guilty of this

lefulefu:
Toto dick(e) marriage still dey kampe.bloggers be spreading lies

This says it all

subtlemee:
People advertise all these and are still happily married...

What rocks one's boat may sink others,that's what makes life interesting

You said it all bae... Tonto Dike, Fathia Balogun, Toke Makinwa, Toyin Aimaku, Lilian Esoro e.t.c What destroyed their home differs.

Amarabae:
she married a yahoo guy and was expecting him to be responsible.
you cannot put a crown on a clown and expect a king.
mba nu.

But their sons name is king

Your nose

rosalieene:
This says it all

haba for real?
whats dis about the man not giving her money .i thought they said he"s obasanjo"s nephew

rosalieene:
I knew of a lady that posted her pregnancy scan result on Facebook. Indeed she was pregnant for twins. Two weeks later, she lost the pregnancy..... she still posted it of course people would say sorry.... If I were to be a kidnapper, knowing fully well that her hubby is wealthy, I can easily kidnap her kids as she posts everything about her kids, their school, family, husband.... haba! ladies should really take it easy. Infact some men/guys are also guilty of this

my dear it really has stop, social media has ruined alot of happiness. Even the inventor of Facebook mark zukerberg doesn't even post much about his own personal life on facebook.

many women has seen things worst than this but they stayed in their marriage, keep praying for their husband's to change . she suppose to cool down as far as the money is flowing, who cares? men are polygamous in nature , u can't stop them.

rosalieene:
I knew of a lady that posted her pregnancy scan result on Facebook. Indeed she was pregnant for twins. Two weeks later, she lost the pregnancy..... she still posted it of course people would say sorry.... If I were to be a kidnapper, knowing fully well that her hubby is wealthy, I can easily kidnap her kids as she posts everything about her kids, their school, family, husband.... haba! ladies should really take it easy. Infact some men/guys are also guilty of this

No Mind them.

Those who have ears.. Should use it well.

It's their lives anyways.. At least uv said it as it is..
Let them. Continue to advertise their families and display their children's destiny online. Everyone has a choice.

everybody is always having an opinion on someone else's marriage

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Mercy Johnson right now

Don't use.too much editing on your profile.pics on.nairaland

Some people behave as if social medial is their home/God

Not all happy marriages in social media are really so. Most people post things on social media that are outright lies and the naive ones will want to kill themselves to be like what dey are seeing. The earlier we realised thatist of these posts are fake, the better for us all. Imagine Tonto saying she lied to make her husband appear like the perfect hubby. Do u know how many people broke up their relationship because it wasn't looking like Tonto's own??

Abi o

Lesson for everyone o

marriage is overrated

I didn't learn anything jorr

total rubbish...post or no post ..name one person alive that doesn't have problems

Enough of these stupid girl story jare


We have other issues bothering us

Amarabae:
she married a yahoo guy and was expecting him to be responsible.
you cannot put a crown on a clown and expect a king.
mba nu.

olosho marry yahho guy...draw!!!!