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Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by tintingz(m): 2:26pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
I will marry one day and I will not follow this pastor yeye preach, I don't support it a bit. She's the one working she should keep her salary, she can only contribute. 1 Like |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Amhappy(f): 2:27pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Story story story eeeeeh. I can only submit my salary to the one who paid to feed me,cloth me and train me till I am able to fend for myself = My Parents. |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by NinaCHARLES2: 2:27pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
seriously........ |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Nobody: 2:34pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
I won't condone this under any circumstances, the woman worked for her own money.... BUT, i am a bit surprised that wives and husbands VOLUNTARILY submit 10% to a pastor (a stranger) This is under the guise of bribing God. If God is Almighty, why does He still tax me? I can only, of my own freewill, give to the poor not to a pastor many times richer than me. Makes zero sense ![]() |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by eddy1977(m): 2:35pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Makes sense why many African women divorce their husbands here in America. Why not agree on what works for your family? For example: let's have a joint bank account. |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by sunnymighty(m): 2:38pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
philGeo: Na so my broda, even the one wey I no chop sef I dey vomit am. lol |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Nobody: 2:40pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
![]() About wives been submissive to their husbands? Lolz Well, that's part of it naw... But , I can't do that oo |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Odkosh: 2:43pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
how can that be possible. I can't even think of that. her money if for her, my money is for us. |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Nobody: 2:47pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
1 Like |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by AceDomino(m): 2:52pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
The feeling when your pastor drank Gegemu before climbing the altar for the Sunday sermon
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Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by talk2saintify(m): 3:02pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
jux imagine?? 1 Like |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by jtjohn(m): 3:40pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
luvmijeje:Hmmmm |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by COURVOISier(m): 3:44pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Husband submit your salary to Madam, they're better managers. I mean the better one o. 2 Likes |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Codes151(m): 3:44pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
muykem:yes na! Most people don't know! Submitting doesn't mean hubby will take it oooo! |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by CuteMorriz: 3:47pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Amhappy:this is how you know kids...na the guy no get parents too abi....yawwnsss |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Zenlife: 3:48pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Pastor Pastor. Past_or present. Let the change begin with the church. All female pastors submit all collected tithes to your husband. |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by suethebastard(f): 3:52pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
end time pastor. he should advise his daughters to do that. |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Nobody: 3:57pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
360metrosports: I strongly disagree. The man is supposed to take care of his wife and family, not the other way around. A woman should have full say in where her wealth goes, without pressure, subtle or otherwise, from her husband. If she decides to voluntarily take up part of the home expenses, she is being magnanimous and he is being done a favour, for which he should be properly grateful. Any man who cannot adequately sustain a family by himself should remain single. 1 Like |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Kx: 4:03pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
What exactly has wifey salary got to do with d gospel of salvation?? Poor woman would toil all day just to submit pay check to husband?? In the words of Oyedepo, what nonsense! From the same "wife submit to your husband" message, did nt the pastor read further to see "husband love your wife as Christ love d church? If you love your wife and have d means should nt you ask her to stop toiling as you do day and night and provide her with all d comfort she can get except if she insist on working instead of waiting to receive her salary from her ![]() So much for d gospel of prosperity not salvation. |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by gabbytabby: 4:04pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
I once advised a friend to do this. She is a very smart, hard working woman who is also an angel. She will do well where ever she works. We were dealing with a proud and insecure man who brought her from 9ja to obodo. He wants her to work but around minimum wage level. She is a graduate if not a masters level holder. I virtually filled out the application form online for her at an insurance and financial services company and she was successful at interview and offered a job. Why did I advise such. We needed to massage his ego as he likes to be in control, the marriage is new so it was important to not tip the scales. Also as a pround man I suspected that he will not collect it but rather tell her what to use it for since they now have day care costs as a result of her working I suspected he would ask that she take care of this and it ensured that everyone got what they wanted. The husband feared that if the wife got a decent job, she might become unmanageable but better than him I knew the type of wife he married was 100 percent committed but we needed to prove it to him by going the extra mile. This ensured that there was no stress in the marriage. I would not have adviced this if the man is a lazy man who would take advantage of the wife. |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by nemynely(m): 4:16pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
This is how i see it. Just like respect. you don't demand it, rather you earn it. Similarly, the hubby shouldn't go demanding for his wife's earning, neither should any third party(pastor inclusive) dictate that wifey drops her take home with her man. if hubby has proven to be a good manager of finances, especially one that is accountable to the last kobo, wifey will willingly hand in her salary. a safe middle ground will be that the better financial manager should hold on to all monies in the home. To stretch it a little further,to which i can hear some guys growling already, in a bid to earn your wife's trust 100%, put her in charge of ALL FAMILY INCOME, including your own salary, leaving her to disburse as she deems necessary while you take an occassional look in. If you do, trust me, even that landed property she has been keeping away from you, she will kneel down and hand in the C of O. 2 Likes |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Niceiroko: 4:22pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
muykem:my wifey gives me some cash add run the home but am gonna save it for her 1 Like |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Niceiroko: 4:27pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Onechancearmy:u r not a Christian .there is a reason to n t be one flesh n t love. |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Lilimax(f): 4:27pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Monalisa185:I concur jare! ![]() |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Niceiroko: 4:27pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Diplomaticbeing:u r not loyal |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Niceiroko: 4:30pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
highrise07:as the bible letters change n the reason marriage is one flesh |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Niceiroko: 4:31pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
ddippset:this statement is for Christian s |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by Nobody: 4:36pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
I knew a husband who submitted ALL his salary to his wife. She would decide how to spend it, including his own petty expenses. He probably thought she was a better manager. Many men do that. For men, so long us he is not a spendthrift it should be an option. But if he's one of those people who go buying everybody bear on his pay day, keep the money safe for his own good. |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by RockyEyo(m): 4:56pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Monalisa185: But you can submit your body and the very part of you that you hold sacred, leaves one wondering what the values of women are these days? And to think you made a choice of spending the rest of your life with him?? Like handing the driver you don't trust the key to drive the car, how do you then relax and let him drive. My take money is just a lil thing that causes so much trouble if allowed to be in control. Put your money under control and stop using your mouth to pray for the wrong husband. come to think of it, my wife submits her salary to me but at the end na she dey spend the money. 3 Likes |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by repogirl(f): 4:59pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Only people who swallow their pastors commandments hook, line and sinker would be bothered about this. 1 Like |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by pocohantas(f): 5:12pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
RockyEyo:She can't submit her salary, keep your sermon to yourself. Some men on this same thread also said they can't collect it, why you no quote them? Are they not spending their lives with her? Why didn't you ask them what are their values? Is she not submitting her body to them too? Naso una dey rush to quote woman, because na there your strength reach. 2 Likes |
Re: Working Wives Should Submit Salaries To Their Husbands - Pastor. Nigerians React by horciglowri(f): 6:02pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
D pastor 4got 2 add dat women shud submit dia pants nd bra to dia husband 4 washin nd broom packer nd brush 2 dia husband 4 evriday serious cleanin b4 goin to his own wrk |
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