I will marry one day and I will not follow this pastor yeye preach, I don't support it a bit.

She's the one working she should keep her salary, she can only contribute.

Story story story eeeeeh. I can only submit my salary to the one who paid to feed me,cloth me and train me till I am able to fend for myself = My Parents.

seriously........

Makes sense why many African women divorce their husbands here in America. Why not agree on what works for your family?
For example: let's have a joint bank account.

philGeo:
nah so, if my wife want give me her own, i will just plead with her to hold it. I no want pay double.

Na so my broda, even the one wey I no chop sef I dey vomit am. lol

Have you forgotten what the bible says?

About wives been submissive to their husbands? Lolz

Well, that's part of it naw...

But , I can't do that oo

how can that be possible. I can't even think of that. her money if for her, my money is for us.

Tazmode:
Some wives right now

This picture made me laugh so hard!

See how baleful the dog's look is

The feeling when your pastor drank Gegemu before climbing the altar for the Sunday sermon

jux imagine??

luvmijeje:
Lolllllllll. Pastor, I also have responsibility to attend to. Yeah it may seems like the man carry much of the responsibilities but it's not always true especially with all these our wayward men that will still have 3gfs by the side.

Hmmmm

Husband submit your salary to Madam, they're better managers. I mean the better one o.

muykem:
I will not even collect it from my wife unless I am ready to be given account of the money every minutes.

yes na! Most people don't know! Submitting doesn't mean hubby will take it oooo!

Amhappy:
Story story story eeeeeh. I can only submit my salary to the one who paid to feed me,cloth me and train me till I am able to fend for myself = My Parents.

this is how you know kids...na the guy no get parents too abi....yawwnsss

Pastor Pastor. Past_or present.

Let the change begin with the church.
All female pastors submit all collected tithes to your husband.

end time pastor. he should advise his daughters to do that.

360metrosports:
A social media user took to his Twitter page to share a sermon from his Church on Sunday in which the pastor urged married working class women to give their salaries to their husbands.

The sermon however sparked major reactions on Twitter as users shared their varying opinion on the topic.

The pastor in his Sunday preaching had noted that the gesture is a means of keeping their marriage intact.

The pastor further added that the husband should be in charge of the money and doe it out as he deems fit.

http://www.metronaija.com/2017/02/working-women-should-submit-salaries-to.html

I strongly disagree. The man is supposed to take care of his wife and family, not the other way around. A woman should have full say in where her wealth goes, without pressure, subtle or otherwise, from her husband. If she decides to voluntarily take up part of the home expenses, she is being magnanimous and he is being done a favour, for which he should be properly grateful. Any man who cannot adequately sustain a family by himself should remain single.

What exactly has wifey salary got to do with d gospel of salvation??

Poor woman would toil all day just to submit pay check to husband??
In the words of Oyedepo, what nonsense!

From the same "wife submit to your husband" message, did nt the pastor read further to see "husband love your wife as Christ love d church? If you love your wife and have d means should nt you ask her to stop toiling as you do day and night and provide her with all d comfort she can get except if she insist on working instead of waiting to receive her salary from her

So much for d gospel of prosperity not salvation.

I once advised a friend to do this. She is a very smart, hard working woman who is also an angel. She will do well where ever she works.

We were dealing with a proud and insecure man who brought her from 9ja to obodo. He wants her to work but around minimum wage level. She is a graduate if not a masters level holder. I virtually filled out the application form online for her at an insurance and financial services company and she was successful at interview and offered a job.

Why did I advise such. We needed to massage his ego as he likes to be in control, the marriage is new so it was important to not tip the scales. Also as a pround man I suspected that he will not collect it but rather tell her what to use it for since they now have day care costs as a result of her working I suspected he would ask that she take care of this and it ensured that everyone got what they wanted.

The husband feared that if the wife got a decent job, she might become unmanageable but better than him I knew the type of wife he married was 100 percent committed but we needed to prove it to him by going the extra mile. This ensured that there was no stress in the marriage.

I would not have adviced this if the man is a lazy man who would take advantage of the wife.

This is how i see it.
Just like respect. you don't demand it, rather you earn it.
Similarly, the hubby shouldn't go demanding for his wife's earning, neither should any third party(pastor inclusive) dictate that wifey drops her take home with her man.
if hubby has proven to be a good manager of finances, especially one that is accountable to the last kobo, wifey will willingly hand in her salary.
a safe middle ground will be that the better financial manager should hold on to all monies in the home.
To stretch it a little further,to which i can hear some guys growling already, in a bid to earn your wife's trust 100%, put her in charge of ALL FAMILY INCOME, including your own salary, leaving her to disburse as she deems necessary while you take an occassional look in.
If you do, trust me, even that landed property she has been keeping away from you, she will kneel down and hand in the C of O.

muykem:
I will not even collect it from my wife unless I am ready to be given account of the money every minutes.

my wifey gives me some cash add run the home but am gonna save it for her

Onechancearmy:
I'm a Christian, but I won't hesitate to categorically label this "pastor"as a fool and a fraud.

u r not a Christian .there is a reason to n t be one flesh n t love.

Monalisa185:
no be only submit salaries, I go submit office workload join then him go mark am...

I can only contribute to the expenses made at home.. Shikena

I concur jare!

Diplomaticbeing:
Only oppressive men will concur with the pastor. Domineeringness is a sign of pettiness, its evil. No sane human being should dare deprive another who's equally sane, altruistic and faithful the great gift of free will. Free will is a divine gift.

u r not loyal

highrise07:
ni ode oni.....in this times and age

as the bible letters change n the reason marriage is one flesh

ddippset:
What about men who would use it to drink and fuuuck asshawo?

this statement is for Christian s

I knew a husband who submitted ALL his salary to his wife. She would decide how to spend it, including his own petty expenses. He probably thought she was a better manager. Many men do that.

For men, so long us he is not a spendthrift it should be an option. But if he's one of those people who go buying everybody bear on his pay day, keep the money safe for his own good.

Monalisa185:
no be only submit salaries, I go submit office workload join then him go mark am...

I can only contribute to the expenses made at home.. Shikena

But you can submit your body and the very part of you that you hold sacred, leaves one wondering what the values of women are these days?
And to think you made a choice of spending the rest of your life with him?? Like handing the driver you don't trust the key to drive the car, how do you then relax and let him drive. My take money is just a lil thing that causes so much trouble if allowed to be in control. Put your money under control and stop using your mouth to pray for the wrong husband.
come to think of it, my wife submits her salary to me but at the end na she dey spend the money.

Only people who swallow their pastors commandments hook, line and sinker would be bothered about this.

RockyEyo:



But you can submit your body and the very part of you that you hold sacred, leaves one wondering what the values of women are these days?
And to think you made a choice of spending the rest of your life with him?? Like handing the driver you don't trust the key to drive the car, how do you then relax and let him drive. My take money is just a lil thing that causes so much trouble if allowed to be in control. Put your money under control and stop using your mouth to pray for the wrong husband.
come to think of it, my wife submits her salary to me but at the end na she dey spend the money.

She can't submit her salary, keep your sermon to yourself. Some men on this same thread also said they can't collect it, why you no quote them?
Are they not spending their lives with her?
Why didn't you ask them what are their values?
Is she not submitting her body to them too?

Naso una dey rush to quote woman, because na there your strength reach.

D pastor 4got 2 add dat women shud submit dia pants nd bra to dia husband 4 washin nd broom packer nd brush 2 dia husband 4 evriday serious cleanin b4 goin to his own wrk