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browniex:
that is exactly what my girlfriend is doing to me right now,just because she wanted to come and see me and told her to wait till next week,she got angry and stopped picking my calls,I have been trying to talk to her now for the past 4 days,she has refused to pick,she is putting me throw an emotional punishment, so I have decided to delete her number and the call log,so that I won't be tempted to call her again,until she calls,if she doesn't, then that's the end of the relationship.

Dotwillis1:
Without much ado, Here are some immature habits our ladies should grow out of in year 2017


1. Bringing up past mistakes at every disagreement

It’s so easy to do this because we often forgive without forgetting, but we’ve all had plenty of screw- ups and none of us want to be reminded of them regularly.

2. Realizing you’re not interested in someone and choosing to suddenly start ignoring them instead of being honest and telling them how you feel.
That shit sucks!
You might not want to be mean for declining someone’s interest but what’s worse for them, speculating what to make of your complete silence or respectfully finding out there’s no romantic potential?

3. Massive lies

Well Lying about cheating or something extreme is obviously terrible, but pointless, uncalled for lies are pretty concerning as well. A lot of people tell white lies because they don’t think the truth is worth knowing and would lead to unnecessary concern or conversations, but that’s not for you to decide when involved in a serious, grown relationship.

4. Secretly going through our phones, email and other password-protected stuff. If you actually catch yourself trying to ninja hack your love interest’s phone while in your mid-20s, it’s time to part ways or grow up.

5. Purposely trying to make us jealous

Frequently talking about your ex,, saying stuffs like you’ve got other options, subtly flirting on social media – those are all unacceptable shenanigans that should be reserved for immature daters to torture each other with until they learn their lesson and move on to grown relationships.

6. Threatening to withhold something (e.g. conversation, sex, etc.) to get your way.

7.Letting friends have too much say in who you date.

There’s a fine line between friends looking out for you when you’re in an unhealthy relationship and friends trying to handpick a person they like for you. Value opinions but also be mature enough to make final decisions for yourself.



Guys Feel free to add more

RadicallyBlunt:
Did I accuse you of pointing a finger? You said men and I am one so it concerns me. Its best to speak for yourself than generalize.

Not all men have same weaknesses as long as women's manipulation is concerned.

Dotwillis1:
how about you look out on yur senses

rosalieene:
still looking out for something reasonable in the write up

Laveda:
I see..

RadicallyBlunt:
Did I accuse you of pointing a finger? You said men and I am one so it concerns me. Its best to speak for yourself than generalize.

Not all men have same weaknesses as long as women's manipulation is concerned.

falconey:
6. Threatening to withhold something (e.g. conversation, sex, etc.) to get your way.

I can say for others but this will never stop.It's their most crucial weapon in manipulating men.

RadicallyBlunt:
In manipulating you not men.

princeakins:
Wah did u see?

falconey:
cha! in that case some men? case closed!

I would never have thought one could raise an argument on this, I used "men".A rationale would know I meant some in my sentence cus its illogical to think all men are being manipulated. there is no atom of generalisation whatsoever as long as its not "all men" being used.

KingRex1:
Always waiting for him to call or text first

Cutehector:
why are you crying? Oya come and take baby wipes

Laveda:

browniex:
that is exactly what my girlfriend is doing to me right now,just because she wanted to come and see me and told her to wait till next week,she got angry and stopped picking my calls,I have been trying to talk to her now for the past 4 days,she has refused to pick,she is putting me throw an emotional punishment, so I have decided to delete her number and the call log,so that I won't be tempted to call her again,until she calls,if she doesn't, then that's the end of the relationship.

rosalieene:
still looking out for something reasonable in the write up

browniex:
that is exactly what my girlfriend is doing to me right now,just because she wanted to come and see me and told her to wait till next week,she got angry and stopped picking my calls,I have been trying to talk to her now for the past 4 days,she has refused to pick,she is putting me throw an emotional punishment, so I have decided to delete her number and the call log,so that I won't be tempted to call her again,until she calls,if she doesn't, then that's the end of the relationship.

DeeTus:
Exactly. I personally don't get manipulated by these end time girls because I am not sex freak. Infact, most of these girls have nothing spectacular to offer. They only care about money.

rosalieene:
still looking out for something reasonable in the write up

RadicallyBlunt:
Did I accuse you of pointing a finger? You said men and I am one so it concerns me. Its best to speak for yourself than generalize.

Not all men have same weaknesses as long as women's manipulation is concerned.

princeakins:
I say u should speak out d abundance of ur hrt

bullabong:
You are just trying to sound smart but inevitably ended up sounding shallow. What the op said can be generalized cos sexual manipulation is a natural tactics understood and held on to by every born female because they know everything starts and ends between their legs.

3. Massive lies

Well Lying about cheating or something extreme is obviously terrible, but pointless, uncalled for lies are pretty concerning as well. A lot of people tell white lies because they don’t think the truth is worth knowing and would lead to unnecessary concern or conversations, but that’s not for you to decide when involved in a serious, grown relationship.

4. Secretly going through our phones, email and other password-protected stuff. If you actually catch yourself trying to ninja hack your love interest’s phone while in your mid-20s, it’s time to part ways or grow up.

browniex:
that is exactly what my girlfriend is doing to me right now,just because she wanted to come and see me and told her to wait till next week,she got angry and stopped picking my calls,I have been trying to talk to her now for the past 4 days,she has refused to pick,she is putting me throw an emotional punishment, so I have decided to delete her number and the call log,so that I won't be tempted to call her again,until she calls,if she doesn't, then that's the end of the relationship.

browniex:
that is exactly what my girlfriend is doing to me right now,just because she wanted to come and see me and told her to wait till next week,she got angry and stopped picking my calls,I have been trying to talk to her now for the past 4 days,she has refused to pick,she is putting me throw an emotional punishment, so I have decided to delete her number and the call log,so that I won't be tempted to call her again,until she calls,if she doesn't, then that's the end of the relationship.

falconey:
6. Threatening to withhold something (e.g. conversation, sex, etc.) to get your way.

I can say for others but this will never stop.It's their most crucial weapon in manipulating men.

ToriBlue:
Are you this jobless that you have to stalk my every post?