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| Why Women Cheat? by valkaka(op): 9:44am On Mar 03, 2017 |
WOMEN ARE ACTUALLY BETTER CHEATS THAN MEN IN BOTH CHEATING AND HIDING... Women are better at cheating and hiding it then men. Women tend to be more aroused by sexuality that includes or implies some form of emotional connection as with romance-oriented erotica such as Fifty Shades of Grey and Twilight, both of which have primarily female audiences. women who cheat are much more likely to want and/or need an intimate emotional bond with their affair partner — even simply to believe they have such a bond, though the man may feel differently. Women who step out on a husband or significant other — male or female — do so for any number of reasons, the five most common of which are listed below: Why Women Cheat?In truth, some women cheat because they receive little sex or physical intimacy from their spouse. After all, healthy adult women enjoy the physical act of sex as much as men do. 1; She feels underappreciated, neglected, or ignored. A woman who feels more like a housekeeper, financial provider, or nanny than a wife or girlfriend is more vulnerable to finding an external situation that brings attention and appreciation for who she is rather than the functions she performs. 2; She craves intimacy. More so than men, women feel valued and connected to their relationship partner through non-sexual emotional interaction such as touching, kissing, cuddling, gift-giving, being remembered, and most of all meaningful communication. Women who aren’t getting their intimacy needs met by a primary partner may look elsewhere, trying to meet those needs through sexual/romantic relationships. 3; She is bored and/or lonely. Women who find themselves alone at home for long periods of time, perhaps when caring for young children or even after children are grown and gone, can feel that their lives lack meaning, and they may use casual sex or deeper romantic affairs to fill the void. Women who have spouses or partners who are absent for long periods of time related to work (military service, for example) may also turn to sex and affairs to fill what feels like an untenable emptiness. Those who are more narcissistic and emotionally immature may expect a significant other to meet their every single need, and also to be a mind-reader in terms of knowing what those needs are. When their human and imperfect partner inevitably fails them, they feel justified in seeking attention elsewhere. 4 She has an intimacy disorder. Early childhood trauma and/or sexual abuse often lead women (and men) in adult life to problems with addictive sex and/or serial cheating. Such women repeatedly seek emotional intensity rather than relational intimacy. Women with unresolved childhood trauma as well as those with emotional instability — women who carry an uneven and disjointed sense of self — can seek consistency and feelings of importance through intensity-based romantic and/or sexual activity. |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by ElizaVeta(f): 9:46am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Edit your topic to 'Why Some Women Cheat' .. .... Because not all ladies are cheats. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Young03(m): 9:47am On Mar 03, 2017 |
I do everything for her n she still cheats caught her red handed yesterday never give a woman ur heart |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by iPrevail(m): 9:49am On Mar 03, 2017 |
ElizaVeta:Agreed, not all ladies are cheats but all ladies have a tendency to cheat. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 9:51am On Mar 03, 2017 |
There is no justifiable reason for cheating. When you cheat its because you couldn't keep your promises, Whatever happens to walking out?  |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by ElizaVeta(f): 9:51am On Mar 03, 2017 |
iPrevail:... Your first line says it all. |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by obiorathesubtle: 9:58am On Mar 03, 2017 |
I don't care if she cheats.. Just don't let me catch you.. |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by mikejegede(m): 10:17am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Truth be told,the only reason why women cheat is becuz of us(men),an average looking guy would have a beautiful wifey or girlfriend at home,but would want to nack that fat ass chick down the street..And u cant blame the ladies,nobody likes to eat indomie everyday and not want to taste the fried rice giving her extra attention...i mean we all no how far a guy can go to get what he wants especially when pussy is involved...SO YOU GUYS SHOULD STOP BLAMING THE LADIES..you get what you give..Karma is a Butch right... |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by mazizitonene(m): 11:21am On Mar 03, 2017 |
obiorathesubtle:an igbo proverb says...and I loosely translate thus...."a married woman that is promiscuous kills the husband indirectly even if he does not know".........In other words, u must have eyes to see....or u are In for it..... 1 Like |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 11:22am On Mar 03, 2017 |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 11:26am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Men are the reason women Cheat Honestly any woman in a relationship well most lol are in for the long haul . But sometimes you men can push someone especially when vulnerable Some are scared to walk away .. so carry on seeing someone else on DL Ok your man comes home .. no hello no hi no hug nothing Eat , bang , treat u like trash , goes out to work cycle starts again next day repetitive .. she becomes invinsible just there for his needs. Then she goes shoprite one fine guy pays her a compliment something she aint heard in years lol The rest is history .. Don't get me wrong but there is no excuse for cheating but let's understand some women didn't plan too.. but GUYS CHEATING NO GET REASON  |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Continue nah.. meets the guy in shoprite Shoperite guy is caring she catches feelings Shoprite guy bangs then she moves in with him 1month later shoprite guy is bored. He too does the eat, bang routine Babe meets another guy at silver bird Silver bird guy is funny ... and on and on it goes |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Bumbae1:are you talking from exp?? |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Bumbae1:are you talking from exp??reason I asked iz coz you just let the truth out!!! |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by danbrowndmf(m): 1:01pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Bumbae1:This thing happens with the females too.. Women have their own issues too, even with a man with all these attributes some of y'all ladies still cheat. |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 1:50pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
danbrowndmf:But u have to admit it is rare |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Martin124:Martin so u think sweet lala can cheat jesu Lol would rather dump the guy and move on .. |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:Why u dey always piur sand for my Garri  Smarty pants Yes i get but some women only do it once Some just want to be loved .. if that guy leaves her .. she may just settle for her husband jeje n keep the secret |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Bumbae1:  |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:Wetin |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by enuk80(m): 3:08pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
I disagrred with d op because no matter how caring and good you are to ur gf, she will definitely cheat on u if she wants to..and if u ask Herr y did she cheat, she can't give u a definite reason y she did that..its is in her blood to cheat and she can never change...girls that cheat are always loose..and cheap because once she cheats once and nobody caught her, she will do it again and even if she is caught, she will still do it again..I am talking from experience.. women don't have conscience wen they cheat but guys have conscience...women believe that as long as u don't catch them in d act, dey r doing d right thing and she won't feel remorse but once she is caught, she will cry heaven and earth for just some time and after everything is settle, she will still go back and cheat with that guy and with different guys.. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Bumbae1:ha jus like dat?? |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by enuk80(m): 3:14pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
I forgot to add this to my previous comment...my ex girfrirnd cheated behind my back with different guys and even entertained married man...does that mean I am d reason y she cheated?no..a girl that cheats is never satisfy and she does not no what she wants.......a girl who has so many male friends is bound to cheat..prove me wrong |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Backinfront(m): 4:00pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Women cheat because it's their nature. Same for men. |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by danbrowndmf(m): 7:21am On Mar 06, 2017 |
Bumbae1:if we have to check statistics in the last five years.. You ladies have been the cause of broken relationship.. You either hear a woman is leaving is longtime boyfriend to marry one big man or an alhaji.. .stuffs like this happen always.  |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 8:16am On Mar 06, 2017 |
danbrowndmf:When u guys can't hold us down ... its not their fault |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 8:56am On Mar 06, 2017 |
Is there any justification for cheating? If I can't marry you, I see no reason why I should enter a relationship with you. I don't just get dissuaded by anything under the skirt 1 Like |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by danbrowndmf(m): 7:15am On Mar 07, 2017 |
Bumbae1:no worry we go start to use rope hold una down  |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by Nobody: 8:00am On Mar 07, 2017 |
danbrowndmf:Rope wont help , morning sunshine  |
| Re: Why Women Cheat? by danbrowndmf(m): 7:34am On Mar 09, 2017 |
Bumbae1:morning. How was your night? You stylishly dropped What I requested from you |
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