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highrise07:
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B2Spirits:
I know that gal. She is above 30 and not married. She will be single for long. Even if she gets married, she won't enjoy the bliss of marriage.

repogirl:
lol! Keep cursing the females in your family because it's not me you are talking about.

When all the single girls in your family are not getting married or their marriages don't last, you know who to come and beg.

As for me, I am having a really good time with my family this weekend. Check out the pics I will post on IG for your viewing pleasure.

diamondstar90:
In dis case is hand not tongue, thanks

B2Spirits:
Just wait and see. You will regret being born.

Ngokafor:
......And do you know the number of married women taking care of the financial responsibilites in their various homes yesteryears and now??....Its almost the norm now so your parents financial dynamics is not a one-off..

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CzarChris:
shuuu, I think I just struck a raw nerve. I never said it was a one-off, but truth be told, how many women would do that today without the world knowing that they are the ones taking care of the family? I have seen a thousand and one cases of women turning their husbands into houseboys because the man is facing temporary difficulties. We all saw the news and few years ago of a man not knowing that his wife was his landlord, until he defaulted in payment and was given a quit notice, he sued the landlord only to see his wife was the landlord in court.
Or is it my friend that was having a little delay in salary, he asked his wife to borrow him money to pay the rent to prevent eviction from the house and she bluntly refused.
Yes my parents case was not a one-off, but how many women in this era would do that?

Sakie:
A woman can't ask her husband for every little thing na just like it was stated in the write up.imagine an emergency comes up in her house and the Husband is not buoyant enough to support,the little she has will go a long way to help

highrise07:
lol .....u're beautiful

Ngokafor:
....I am telling you the reality here while you are telling nairaland tales..You have seen 'thousands of cases were women turn their husbands to house-boys and also has 'a friend who asked his wife for money for rent' and she refused...You are full of jokes.

..Anyway ,may God answer your prayers and give you a wife who will foot all your bills,hers,the kids and the home..alone...Amen.

CzarChris:
Bịa nne, did I insult you in any of my posts on Nairaland, have I ever commented or mentioned any of your post?
It's like they are using your brain to drink garri in your village shrine. What arrant rubbish, if you don't agree with what anybody says here, because clearly you are showing signs of of being brought up in a deranged home where love was never an option, so you believe in your myopic mind that you must be the responsibility of a man, then don't comment and move on. Who the flying fucckking hell are you or better still, what do you think you are? An old goat that has lost her sense of reasoning as a result of too many spermatozoa mixing with you unfortunate DNA. If you where brought up in a brothel, some of us where brought up in loving homes.
Never mention me in a post again, I repeat never mention me in a post again. If not, not only Amadioha, but Alaogbaga will strike you where you are.
What impetus, what nansense. Afọ na asagbu onye ha ka gị jide kwa gị ebe ahụ.

Opistorincos:
Buying lands and building a house without informing me is perfectly fine with me, i love surprises as long as we're not living there and she's collecting rent

ferhyntorlah:
Are you for real?

zinnywonders:
Is not all Women...... Anyways, let me talk about myself, I do support my husband @speaktome and he always appreciate my little efforts with presents.
It is very important that every woman have a savings and always ready to support her Spouse.

Am so happy!

speaktome:
The Lord is ur strength my Treasure






#MySignatureMyBusiness

Fyorgyn:
Interesting but shallow article. I am of the opinion that the writer should have explored other reasons women "hide" money.

There is an age-old saying that "Every (good) woman should have a "secret stash" her husband knows nothing about.

Men and women are fundamentally different. Many men, bless their hearts, live for the moment... they believe if you have it, spend it! They are risk takers who can spend their last dime without thinking twice. A wise woman keeps resources aside because one day, the family business might need a cash boost, a job might be lost, the car engine might knock etc

Another reason women keep money is to have an "escape" fund. You don't pray to have a divorce or a bad marriage but many have used their "secret stash" to flee abusive marriages.

Women keeping secret stash is not peculiar to Nigeria alone. It's a really old "tradition" that has passed from generation to generation of women the world over. For instance, in this usnews article, the writer says her grandmother advised her to have one.
http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/alpha-consumer/2008/03/19/should-women-keep-a-secret-money-stash.

Almost every woman I know keeps a secret stash with very good intentions. I used to have secret stashes but recently I realized it wasn't really fair to my husband who is very open with me about his financies. I still keep money but it's not really secret. He doesn't ask me about it and he has no idea how much I keep aside. He just knows it's for contingencies. We have come to that understanding.

B2Spirits:
I don't get u

uss25dec:
Pls check d mirror n c who u r. Ask ourself "can I live without a man?". Den u wud knw dat u r stupid n dnt knw wat u r thinkg. Men r d best thing women love in this world. Even to seat up, if men dnt look at women, dey wud look rubbish. Go to women hostel n c see how dey look. Compare a girl's behaviour n dress in and outside hostel den u wud knw dat what dey do is for men n to attract men as well. Today, Create one state for women only n let Dem stay there for one yr. Can u imagine how their mentality wud b. Go there to c how dey dress everyday. Some won't bath for one week, others won't wash their hair for 3momths n keep d same hairstyle for 5monthes. By den , u wud knw dat men r made for women, not d other way round

Lunagirl:
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Opistorincos:
My wife won't even try that... We'll just start keeping our money to ourselves

theworldbest:
for your mind

mayorkyzo:
Most women hide a lot from their husbands...i know a lady that bought land,finished building her house. Now a landlady and d husband has absolutely no idea...

Ngokafor:
..lol..All these rants for me??..your amadioha had clearly done a lot of damage to you..a sorry excuse for a human is what you are...gutter rat.