enuk80:
this is a girl that I love so much. I gave her my time and attention. I was there for her, care so much for her and also go any length just to make her comfortable and happy. I forgave her countless time when she broke my heart because I love her unconditionally. even when she slept behind my back with different guys and even entertained married men as friends, I still forgive her. I love her so much and I was blind "fool" to see the lies she told especially when she claimed to have slept with just her ex finance who had engaged her for 3yrs and didn't married her but was surprised when I flipped through her "diary of sex" and I saw that she had slept with almost 10 different guys in d past

she saw me as her option but not her choice because she was still keeping in touch with her fiance who maltreat her, mess around and another woman has a child for him. when I complained about her keeping in touch with her fiance, she told me "lied" he only wanted to collect his engagement ring that she is yet to return to him. this girl deceived me, manipulate me, played with my emotion and feelings because I was a fool for love and perhaps, i was naive of losing her to another man.

long story short, she told me she was pregnant for me and wanted to abort d baby which I told her not to because I was making plan for her and the baby.though, I doubted the pregnancy because of her lies but I had no option but to believed her since she kept claiming she was pregnant.

three month later, she told me she had miscarried and my world was shattered. for now, we are separated by distance and she traveled home to see her parents and also returned her engagement ring to her fiance who lives in the same environment with her. I was silprise when she told me two days ago not to call her, texts her and neither reply her chat on Facebook because her account has been hacked and our pregnancy conversation has been seen and its causing problem. she said she would call me when everything is calm.

I was shocked by her text because I knew she had gone back to meet. she promised me that she was going to return the ring but it was the other way round.

this morning she sent me this break up text " I am sorry for all I caused you but its high time i say my mind to you. with all seriousness, I don't want to continue with this relationship. I just have to go to where my heart is free and love".

I didn't reply her text back. I no I am stupid and foolish for allowing myself to be hurt by her even when she doesn't worth the love, the attention and time. maybe because I am too emotional and I love completely. I kept making the same mistake even when my heart was once broken by the first girl I love then before meeting this other one. despite the fact that I have so many side chicks, I don't feel anything for them and I told them to go instead of wasting their time because my conscience judge me.

pls u guys should advise me and also insult is allow because I am a fool for love who fail to learn

NotOfThis:
Just move on.

pcguru1:


Hey bro i can never fault any man with good intentions it's not your fault, in an ideal world you're supposed to love your babe and expect the same, but we live in a mad world, however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool. we've all been in love and heart-broken so there's no shame let no man deceive you a good number of us have endured silly stuff in the name of love and even cried. But it is what it is, next time don't set your standards low. relax have a bottle of beer if you stay in lagos, then maybe we should have drink, Alcohol and weed is on me if that's your thing.

pcguru1:


Hey bro i can never fault any man with good intentions it's not your fault, in an ideal world you're supposed to love your babe and expect the same, but we live in a mad world, however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool. we've all been in love and heart-broken so there's no shame let no man deceive you a good number of us have endured silly stuff in the name of love and even cried. But it is what it is, next time don't set your standards low. relax have a bottle of beer if you stay in lagos, then maybe we should have drink, Alcohol and weed is on me if that's your thing.

pcguru1:


Hey bro i can never fault any man with good intentions it's not your fault, in an ideal world you're supposed to love your babe and expect the same, but we live in a mad world, however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool. we've all been in love and heart-broken so there's no shame let no man deceive you a good number of us have endured silly stuff in the name of love and even cried. But it is what it is, next time don't set your standards low. relax have a bottle of beer if you stay in lagos, then maybe we should have drink, Alcohol and weed is on me if that's your thing.

enuk80:



" however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool".


she wasn't pregnant for her fiance.though she had done abortion for him b4 I met her....another woman has a child for her fiance which she knows about...she was pregnant for me and had miscarriage..


" however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool".


she wasn't pregnant for her fiance.though she had done abortion for him b4 I met her....another woman has a child for her fiance which she knows about...she was pregnant for me and had miscarriage..


" however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool".


she wasn't pregnant for her fiance.though she had done abortion for him b4 I met her....another woman has a child for her fiance which she knows about...she was pregnant for me and had miscarriage..

Kondomatic:
No need to insult you, it's a place we have all been and the experience is what made us what we are today.

Just pick up the biggest piece of your broken heart and move on.


Get busy with your life and get better.



And always remember this, she may reject you now but if you shun her completely and work on yourself then she will definitely need you later.


That's the best time to revenge.

austinereds:
OP don't worry. it's just time! it will pass. A new chapter is coming your way. forget her Quickly before she realise her mistake. pls be strong.

pcguru1:


this reminds me of that scene in Best Friend's wedding where the guy tells her "And this too shall pass"
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Acidosis:
Move on bro...



Do not ignore certain signs.


I always say this, anyone who maintains communication (frequent or not) with an ex is not worth it. This category of people are deceivers, time wasters and unstable sets of vultures searching for who to compare with their ex.

Never allow anyone make you an OPTION sir. You are a King, a Royal priesthood...too precious to be deceived.


Statistics show that we have more females than males... so why share a woman with another man, or why allow a woman share/pair you with another man?

Ideally, you should be in charge of things...do not be manipulated. In the mean time, channel your energy towards loving your parents, relatives and nieces. When you feel the urge to call her, dial your mom's number instead. With time, you will get over it.

enuk80:
this girl is just too wicked...she send me this confession text now "smit, something has been bothering me and i can't longer keep it to myself.I pray you find a place in your heart to forgive me.just want to let you no that I lied to you about that pregnancy.I was never pregnant for you nor for anybody and I lack what to say to u when you insisted to see me and the pregnancy...that was y i said I had a miscarriage. am sorry for all this"......I didn't reply her neither did I call her...

such is life

Richy4:


The big boy thing to do is to reply the message informing her that you have forgiven her...That she should delete your number that you have already done so...that you suggest she do the same...

It will be as if the table has turned..and you were the one that got the last statement....This suggestion may sound stupid but it is for your sanity and for you to heal and move on....it is not for her bro but for your benefit....Grudges is like carrying a heavy load...

enuk80:


I understood bro but I don't think its necessary beside I am moving on with my life and i have forgiven her..so no need sending her text or calling...this is not a matter of big boy..she doesn't worth me wasting my energy typing text msg to her or calling her

enuk80:
this is a girl that I love so much. I gave her my time and attention. I was there for her, care so much for her and also go any length just to make her comfortable and happy. I forgave her countless time when she broke my heart because I love her unconditionally. even when she slept behind my back with different guys and even entertained married men as friends, I still forgive her. I love her so much and I was blind "fool" to see the lies she told especially when she claimed to have slept with just her ex finance who had engaged her for 3yrs and didn't married her but was surprised when I flipped through her "diary of sex" and I saw that she had slept with almost 10 different guys in d past

she saw me as her option but not her choice because she was still keeping in touch with her fiance who maltreat her, mess around and another woman has a child for him. when I complained about her keeping in touch with her fiance, she told me "lied" he only wanted to collect his engagement ring that she is yet to return to him. this girl deceived me, manipulate me, played with my emotion and feelings because I was a fool for love and perhaps, i was naive of losing her to another man.

long story short, she told me she was pregnant for me and wanted to abort d baby which I told her not to because I was making plan for her and the baby.though, I doubted the pregnancy because of her lies but I had no option but to believed her since she kept claiming she was pregnant.

three month later, she told me she had miscarried and my world was shattered. for now, we are separated by distance and she traveled home to see her parents and also returned her engagement ring to her fiance who lives in the same environment with her. I was silprise when she told me two days ago not to call her, texts her and neither reply her chat on Facebook because her account has been hacked and our pregnancy conversation has been seen and its causing problem. she said she would call me when everything is calm.

I was shocked by her text because I knew she had gone back to meet. she promised me that she was going to return the ring but it was the other way round.

this morning she sent me this break up text " I am sorry for all I caused you but its high time i say my mind to you. with all seriousness, I don't want to continue with this relationship. I just have to go to where my heart is free and love".

I didn't reply her text back. I no I am stupid and foolish for allowing myself to be hurt by her even when she doesn't worth the love, the attention and time. maybe because I am too emotional and I love completely. I kept making the same mistake even when my heart was once broken by the first girl I love then before meeting this other one. despite the fact that I have so many side chicks, I don't feel anything for them and I told them to go instead of wasting their time because my conscience judge me.

pls u guys should advise me and also insult is allow because I am a fool for love who fail to learn

NotOfThis:
Just move on.

bukatyne:
@enuk80:

I am sorry that our 'Nigerian' girls have done you strong thing & you are currently hurting.

I have a request: please love your wife like this... & don't let this experience scar you later.