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| My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 7:34am On Jun 28, 2017 |
 ..I just don't know where to start from.I feel like ending it all. My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF. We have only be trying for a year plus. This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated. God has really forsaken me... How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused. It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end. Will I be able to pull through this? 27 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by ochobaba(m): 7:44am On Jun 28, 2017 |
God can't forsake his people This is a better opportunity for you to discuss with God am very sure he still answers prayers 451 Likes 28 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 7:45am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Dry your tears woman. That man does not love you. He has forgotten his vows: for better, for worse! He has not even started facing the real worse and he has already chickened out! Love is patient. Love endures! Don't beg him. Talk to God in prayers. No be you be God wey dey make pikin! Better still, try and make him go to the hospital with you. Both of you should do a fertility test. He should do a sperm test, so you guys can ascertain the real prob. If there's no issue after the tests, then just pray! No beg am! Let him go if he wants! He does not love you at all! You will find a better person! #whereisthelove? 331 Likes 23 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by pressplay411(m): 7:53am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Can you take a minute and shut the Bleep up. So what you're having marital problems? You're not the first neither are you going to be the last, so dont even entertain that i want to end it all crap. Worst case scenario, he leaves you and you become a single lady again at whatever your age is. Is marriage all your life achievement and life goal is all about? Single successful ladies every where having the time of their life, and I don't need to mention names. Besides what makes you think you won't find love again? So many guys out here don't even want kids maybe cos they're already single fathers or they just don't, so many don't mind adopting. My point in essence is life goes on. You just have to accept your fate, reevaluate your life and concentrate on what matters... What makes you happy? How about making an impact on your career, business, as a philanthropist, etc I'm sure you have an idea what I'm talking about already. Really it might seem like all hope is lost but you know what, it never is. Stay positive, stay interesting, stay interested. Live. There's a lot to life. 347 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by torres89: 7:59am On Jun 28, 2017 |
am a man but men are wicked...... 30 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 8:05am On Jun 28, 2017 |
torres89: Do not generalize bros. I am a man, and I am not wicked! I can never and will never throw my wife out or abandon her cos she couldn't conceive. 224 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by torres89: 8:12am On Jun 28, 2017 |
austinosita: tell me u have never been selfish before or hurt anyone's feelings stop claiming saint we are all sinners 36 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Homeboiy: 8:15am On Jun 28, 2017 |
I wanted to say I don't give a Bleep
bt I remembered how my mum cried day n night I will say Hope in God He will do it 23 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 8:19am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Double post |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Badgers14: 8:20am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Dreamscometrue: Have both of you gone to see a specialist to ascertain what the problem is, maybe from him or you? 11 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by mrstheo(f): 8:38am On Jun 28, 2017 |
My sister pls don't give up, you are not the only one going through this kind of problem, men are not worth dyeing for abeg. Brave yourself up dearie. 19 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by SirVintageCock: 9:23am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Give us a little background here How did he know he's not the one shooting blanks? 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by MissIndependent(f): 10:43am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Trying to conceive just 1year and not 10years and he is already tired? Yeye man he never loved you. Thank your stars, move on and drink a bottle of champagne to it!  79 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by edoman2016: 11:13am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Dreamscometrue:Why won't he broke up with you, when you married him for his money. 26 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by austine4real(m): 11:48am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Have u all gone for medical check up" |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by eyinjuege: 11:55am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Sorry o. When you fall off a horse, you just have to climb it back again. You're still on a journey and haven't reached your destination yet. He doesnt want to be with you anymore? Just move on with your life and don't waste time. Repackage and rebrand yourself. I assume you've seen a fertility specialist. What's the cause of the infertility? When you meet someone else who's ready to go on the journey with you, don't waste time. Just do the IVF immediately. Use this period you're alone to start saving towards it now. Forget the sacrifices of the past. Its all in the past now, and look forward to the future, and the adventures therein. Find inner peace, and be at peace with yourself. edoman2016:Are you sure she's not referring to the husband who's just left her? The dude might also be broke and heartless. Maybe its due to no money for IVF that's made him leave th OP. 17 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by YesNo(m): 4:35pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
You say u want to end your life. cos another human being couldn't honour his vows and he walked out on you. From all you wrote, you seem pained because you INVESTED A LOT into the marriage and you DID A LOT for him. there's no where you mentioned that you love him or even anything about love. still want to kill yourself? wanna end it? Red or Blue pill? your choice. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by fatymore(f): 5:26pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Sorry dear.. Move on and start afresh again.. I know of women who couldn't give birth with the first man they married to.. And later start giving birth in another marriage.. And it just a year.. Just move on and relocate 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Thank you all for your advices.I really appreciate. You all have given me hope that I will pull through. God bless you all and may you all never meet a pretender in life.It is like stabbing one's heart 28 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Crauxx(m): 10:44pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
This is all buhari's fault. 7 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by GossipHeart(m): 10:44pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Do you want to hear the truth ?? Couples who have been married for 40 years do break up, how long have you been married ?? 1 year ?? Last time i checked, there are 40 million men in Nigeria, you can still find a husband He didn't sign an agreement that he will be with you for the rest of his life He has his preference, he's a grown man, he can do whatever he wants The same way you can't marry a bus driver Just move on 8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by GossipHeart(m): 10:44pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
ochobaba: God ?? You mean the same God that allows his beloved children to die of cancer ?? God can't forsake his people ?? What happened to his people all over the world dying of hunger and diseases ?? God doesn't exist Wake up my little brain friend 4 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Christane: 10:45pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
ur husband z just been impatient ..just a year and z fade up already ..i knw of a couple dat got married 18years ago bt cud nt give birth bt i tnx d lord dat dey celebrated their first child a year birthday in march dz year ...atimes Godtime may delay bt it will definately come .. hold on to God dnt give up cus he will neva fail u. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by naijaboiy: 10:45pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Very Fake Story.  14 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Phi001(m): 10:45pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
If that's his excuse after just one year, obviously, he's seen another cookie and he's found a way to kick you out of the scene. Take heart!!! Package yourself and move on...on the bright side, you have no 'baggage' so it'll be easier to get remarried if you want to... 2 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by MegMich(m): 10:46pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Quite unfortunate!! |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Dottore: 10:47pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Ok |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by NwaAmaikpe: 10:47pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
 I'm very sure you had lovely prewedding pictures.. My sister.. Your husband is sure of himself that's why he insists on no IVF. Are you sure of yourself.. Is there something you aren't saying ('you invested a lot and you did so many things for love')...did you abort before marriage or damage your womb? Why not try out some one else....if it clicks, you give it to your husband instead of shortchanging yourself. You should be smarter than this, Instead of opening a profile here, create an account on Baddoo... I'm sure a thousand and one men will be ready to give you a lucky shot of testosterone. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Dreamscometrue: I will be hard on you, please permit me I detest adult like you who exhibit lack of common sense. You have problem or minor issue with your husband and you think where it will be resolved or get good advise is Nairaland? All this toddler running around on nairaland will give you good advise? Can you see the quality of advise you are getting? All you have here are immature children and toddlers writing rvbbish and hiding behind tecno phones. So you don't have Uncles, pastors, religious persons, et al you can talk to? Pray your husband do not see this 1 Like |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by NwaliE01: 10:47pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
torres89:I support that all men are not wicked because I am not. But if you claim to be, Good luck. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by talk2hb1(m): 10:48pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Deliver us From Temptation (For we are tempted), and Lead us not to Evil (For we know the direction) |
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