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Billyonaire:
The OP is logical but she doesnt still get it. We do not cheat because of sex, we cheat because we are looking for love and happiness. And it seems to be everyone has a threshold of love they can give, and when they give all the love they have, they need to replenish it or the partner finds the love somewhere else. People who cheat for sex, go to Prostitutes on daily pay.

If you notice, there is only one thing in life, which drives everyone around, and it is called Love and it does exist. I am not saying humans, both male and female can be faithful all the time, but that moment, people are truly in magnetic love, they dont cheat on each other.

Your emphasis goes to banging body and that is the mistakes humans make. It is not just about the body. How happy is your home ? How loving is your home ? How much do you invest in your environment to generate good vibes and frequencies ? A girl that smokes weeds, will cheat on a rich husband that dont smoke weed, because there is nothing a non-smoking man can offer a crack and weed smoking beautiful angel that will take her away from weed. He must learn to smoke weed and do crack to satisfy the girl totally, if not she will cheat with a homeless weed smoker and even share your money with the homeless dirty rag tag slowpoke that is not worthy to wash the husband's car.

Imagine a Tonto-Dike, loved by a Churchill because she smoked and cracked, then all of a sudden, she stops smoking and becomes a born again Christian, ofcourse a husband will say congrats, but inside him, he needs a new crack and weed head and such love is magnetic, people who smoke weed are hot-wired to reason differently.

If you boyfriend or fiancee met you as a bad girl, dont change, remain a bad girl except he asked you to change. People are attracted impulsively to their kinds, the moment you change even for better, there is an internal disconnect on the mental level and the union will shatter gradually.

It is not about body and sex, it is more.

Toks2008:
I have never cheated on the two ladies i have ever really had affsirs with in mh life but will cheat on my wife if she gives me any reason to and if you ask most guys why they cheat...many will give you good reasons.

Lawlahdey:
I decided to write this article as a result of the argument that erupted from my comment on the Tonto dike's failed marriage brouhaha thread.

Before I actually write on the topic gangan, Allow me to quickly share a real life story with you.

There is a grandpa. A rich grandpa, happily married to a beautiful woman with 7 very successful kids.
The wife of this grandpa is a very strict and prayerful woman who believes that being strict and prayerful helps you keep other women away from your husband. She has been successful and victorious so far. They have never had a cheating scandal in 50 years of their marriage(or,so she thinks).

Recently, the grandpa called his first son(prolly because he knows he is close to his grave) and narrated the story of how he got another woman pregnant and the woman gave birth to the child with an oath that she won't ever bring the child to disrupt his marital home.He has actually been feeding and financing thd child without the knowledge of any member of his family. He said he told his son so that they could know that they have a sibling out there somewhere and bring him home after his death. He also asked the son to promise not to tell his mother or any of his siblings the secret.
So, Faithful Grandpa with a perfect marriage(In people's mind)actually has a son ouside marriage and his wife of over 50 years of marriage doesn't know. She thinks that she was successful in her quest for a hundred percent faithful man. She is the type that throws jab at other women with problems in their marriages and tell them to come to her and ask her how she did it, how her prayers, strictness and everything weren't in vain afterall.
She still hasn't found out, right. I wonder what her reaction will be the day she finally finds out that her 'faithful' husband has not been faithful afterall.

Now to the koko oro..

It pains me when i see my fellow women bragging about how they cannot stay with a man that is not contented with staying faithful to only them for the rest of his life. They say they will leave the man, that there are plenty more men still out there in the world... "No time to check time".. LOL.

You think that every 'perfect' marriage that you see, that you envy, that you hope for has been able to stand gidigba without sacrifices??

You think that because Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs do not come out to wash their dirty linen in public, they haven't had their own shares of marriage trouble??
See, It takes a very very very patient and enduring woman to stay in any marriage.

You can't stay with a man that won't cheat at all?? Then, walk the fvck outta the relationship and don't ever go about saying "All men should be able to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of their life".

You think tonto dike didn't think churchhill would remain faithful to only her for the rest of his life because he loves her?

You think Tiwa Savage didn't think that Teebillz would remain faithful to her forever? What with all her money and the banging body and everything? Does edible catering have more money than Tiwa? Or a hotter body? What did edible catering have that tiwa doesn't?? Why wasn't tiwa able to keep Tee down, even with everything?

Even Beyonce suffered her own share of unfaithfulness from JayZ.. And you are here forming, "I can't stay with a man that isn't hundred percent faithful"?? , "I can't ever share my man"??

Fine. You can't. Then leave! Leave and go from one man to another in the quest for your model man.
If a man loves you, He will prolly cheat in the hope or fear that you don't find out but don' t ever believe there is a hundred percent faithful man, specially moulded for you somewhere.. Because you are miss perfect too ahbi?

I know some of you will come here to say that you are praying for the perfect men and God will answer it.
Well.. Reality check:90% of those with failed marriages also scouted and prayed for the perfect man. You ain't better than them.
STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES.

And for those of you men that will come here to say that they can't cheat on their woman, I don't even have anything to say to you. Just keep telling that to those who would believe.

Maybe some 10% of you(tryna be generous with the figure) can be faithful, but you all know nature, you can't stay faithful to one hole.

Explains why a man that has one curvy, beautiful babe at home will see another curvy babe on the streets and his dick will still rise.

PS: Ladies, don't hope for a totally faithful man, just pray for one that doesn't throw it in your face.

Lawlahdey:
Meaning?

Jahblessme:

Op you are right
No one is faithful,no one can be faithful,it's the woman's fault when she has a failed marriage due to a cheating partner,she should have stayed on and endured.

There are no faithful men and women out there,we all chop and clean mouth

Anyone who believes their partner is faithful is a fool,he's chooking someoneelse,chaiii.

Op, unfortunately you are either damaged or too young.
Either ways I'd prefer to have a child who spits fire than one who is so pessimistic and has no standards.

No self respect,no dignity.No expectation of good behaviour from someone who made a vow to you.Youve already set him up to fail.A cheat will cheat but a good man who is tempted to cheat will.put up.more resistance and will most likely escape if he knows he's accountable to.someone.

Such a pity but don't worry when you experience the mental ,emotional,psychological damage cheating has on a spouse,maybe then you will grow more spine to.demand for better.

No matter how hard you are,when you love someone you won't want to share, except you are naturally into sharing
So when the one you love cheats,your self confidence is battered,trust gone,love shredded,respect gone,like 1000 sharp knives at once.Betrayal tastes bitter,and even worse when u are expected to act like emotional torture is normal.

When you read news of women who batter their househelps,acts of wickedness for no reason,peep into the marriage,it cannot be a happy one.Its frustration, inability to leave a bad relationship so people around them suffer the brunt of their anger.

Set yourself free my dear.If you are happy with community di ck,that's great ,don't make it look like those who have standards are idiots or are stupid for.that.

By the way cheating women are on the rise,hope you have a similar sounding epistle for.their husbands.

I am for team chop and clean mouth tho,ogbono alone cannot do,egusi and okro dey

Good.luck

kimbra:
Stop advising ladies to embrace polygamy. Are you a Christian or Muslim?...my religion doesn't support what you're encouraging.

Girls like you would cry hell when your man cheats!. Funny write-up!.

Lawlahdey:
I decided to write this article as a result of the argument that erupted from my comment on the Tonto dike's failed marriage brouhaha thread.

Before I actually write on the topic gangan, Allow me to quickly share a real life story with you.

There is a grandpa. A rich grandpa, happily married to a beautiful woman with 7 very successful kids.
The wife of this grandpa is a very strict and prayerful woman who believes that being strict and prayerful helps you keep other women away from your husband. She has been successful and victorious so far. They have never had a cheating scandal in 50 years of their marriage(or,so she thinks).

Recently, the grandpa called his first son(prolly because he knows he is close to his grave) and narrated the story of how he got another woman pregnant and the woman gave birth to the child with an oath that she won't ever bring the child to disrupt his marital home.He has actually been feeding and financing thd child without the knowledge of any member of his family. He said he told his son so that they could know that they have a sibling out there somewhere and bring him home after his death. He also asked the son to promise not to tell his mother or any of his siblings the secret.
So, Faithful Grandpa with a perfect marriage(In people's mind)actually has a son ouside marriage and his wife of over 50 years of marriage doesn't know. She thinks that she was successful in her quest for a hundred percent faithful man. She is the type that throws jab at other women with problems in their marriages and tell them to come to her and ask her how she did it, how her prayers, strictness and everything weren't in vain afterall.
She still hasn't found out, right. I wonder what her reaction will be the day she finally finds out that her 'faithful' husband has not been faithful afterall.

Now to the koko oro..

It pains me when i see my fellow women bragging about how they cannot stay with a man that is not contented with staying faithful to only them for the rest of his life. They say they will leave the man, that there are plenty more men still out there in the world... "No time to check time".. LOL.

You think that every 'perfect' marriage that you see, that you envy, that you hope for has been able to stand gidigba without sacrifices??

You think that because Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs do not come out to wash their dirty linen in public, they haven't had their own shares of marriage trouble??
See, It takes a very very very patient and enduring woman to stay in any marriage.

You can't stay with a man that won't cheat at all?? Then, walk the fvck outta the relationship and don't ever go about saying "All men should be able to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of their life".

You think tonto dike didn't think churchhill would remain faithful to only her for the rest of his life because he loves her?

You think Tiwa Savage didn't think that Teebillz would remain faithful to her forever? What with all her money and the banging body and everything? Does edible catering have more money than Tiwa? Or a hotter body? What did edible catering have that tiwa doesn't?? Why wasn't tiwa able to keep Tee down, even with everything?

Even Beyonce suffered her own share of unfaithfulness from JayZ.. And you are here forming, "I can't stay with a man that isn't hundred percent faithful"?? , "I can't ever share my man"??

Fine. You can't. Then leave! Leave and go from one man to another in the quest for your model man.
If a man loves you, He will prolly cheat in the hope or fear that you don't find out but don' t ever believe there is a hundred percent faithful man, specially moulded for you somewhere.. Because you are miss perfect too ahbi?

I know some of you will come here to say that you are praying for the perfect men and God will answer it.
Well.. Reality check:90% of those with failed marriages also scouted and prayed for the perfect man. You ain't better than them.
STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES.

And for those of you men that will come here to say that they can't cheat on their woman, I don't even have anything to say to you. Just keep telling that to those who would believe.

Maybe some 10% of you(tryna be generous with the figure) can be faithful, but you all know nature, you can't stay faithful to one hole.

Explains why a man that has one curvy, beautiful babe at home will see another curvy babe on the streets and his dick will still rise.

PS: Ladies, don't hope for a totally faithful man, just pray for one that doesn't throw it in your face.

Toks2008:
I have never cheated on the two ladies i have ever really had affsirs with in mh life but will cheat on my wife if she gives me any reason to and if you ask most guys why they cheat...many will give you good reasons.

lefulefu:
Very insightful post but then this post will give men who cheat an excuse to cheat more since op believes all men are inborn cheats...though i agree nobody is perfect.anyway if u are a guy and u dont want to be looking at other ladies when married make sure the lady with u have the type of physical figure u want in a woman.if u love a slim lady get married to one.if u love a tall lady,short lady etc...marry one.yellow one nko..dark beauty one ooo...pancake yansh one ooo...oya marry am.you cant be a guy who loves obese women and u now marry tilapia cos u believe tilapia is god fearing...u go cheat ooo .anyway i can vouch for me and Dextology that we wont cheat.

i laughed out so hard after reading this funny you

cr7lomo:
Then ur dad must be a poor man cos every rich man cheats

JeffreyJamez:
See how someone is setting herself and a few others for very rocky marriage life. How can you be going into a relationship with this kind of mentality?....That all men cheat?....What nonsense?...

I no kuku blame una, na the stupid set of male species can't always think with their 3rd legs na them I go blame.

She said 90% of men cheat...That's just absurd.

Bumbae1:
Many relationships are out there with faithful men that only see one woman
Please ladies don't lower your bar if he cheats and you feel you can't live with one go . Never ever condone rubbish
Your life deserves happiness and a good man ! Yes no one is perfect but let the imperfections not be unfaithfulness ..


If its guys and lady cheats in marriage hope they will keep her too

Billyonaire:
Married, but living Single.

kimbra:
Ma'am don't force what you think or assume to be true on us "ladies".

Buy condoms for your husband and when he brings home a second wife quietly open the doors to your home for her just because you think all men have the tendency to cheat.

FTBOY:
let them keep barking. some of them don't really know what marriage entails. in practical, you must be willing to make sacrifices to sustain one. men are wired to cheat but that doesn't mean they don't love...and i'm not saying cheating is good either but it's the most recurring problem in marriage.

that part of marriage vows that says "for better or for worse" flies over their heads.

montezz:

If only you know how young these girls are, you won't bother yourself at all.

@op you are entitled to your opinion. Good luck

Aderola15:
Haaaaaaaa

Lemme comman be going

Goodnight Sir

L0velyn:
i laughed out so hard after reading this funny you

Ugosample:
You can imagine

L0velyn:
what exactly is ur point?... Are u trying to say men cannot do without cheating? c'mon if you gonna cheat on ur wife go ahead but dont make it look like "all men must cheat"

pressplay411:
OP is a realist.

Lawlahdey:
You mean to FeministHood?Issh.
It's cause of your types that Men seff have now taken it upon themselves to really cheat and cheat more, cuz they wanna know how what you will really do.

JeffreyJamez:
Excuse you!!....NO MAN is wired to cheat....I hate that expression with passion...That's the mantra weaklings sing in their heads to make their cheating selves feel what they're doing is okay!

cr7lomo:
Then ur dad must be a poor man cos every rich man cheats

Twaci:
You are Bae.