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Merceline:
to say tonto dike didn't know what she was getting into is a lie with all her experience. she married political fame and money but we know marriage requires those things fame and money can't buy so she couldn't survive. I just love the way that man ignored her media rants.

Lawlahdey:
I decided to write this article as a result of the argument that erupted from my comment on the Tonto dike's failed marriage brouhaha thread.

Before I actually write on the topic gangan, Allow me to quickly share a real life story with you.

There is a grandpa. A rich grandpa, happily married to a beautiful woman with 7 very successful kids.
The wife of this grandpa is a very strict and prayerful woman who believes that being strict and prayerful helps you keep other women away from your husband. She has been successful and victorious so far. They have never had a cheating scandal in 50 years of their marriage(or,so she thinks).

Recently, the grandpa called his first son(prolly because he knows he is close to his grave) and narrated the story of how he got another woman pregnant and the woman gave birth to the child with an oath that she won't ever bring the child to disrupt his marital home.He has actually been feeding and financing thd child without the knowledge of any member of his family. He said he told his son so that they could know that they have a sibling out there somewhere and bring him home after his death. He also asked the son to promise not to tell his mother or any of his siblings the secret.
So, Faithful Grandpa with a perfect marriage(In people's mind)actually has a son ouside marriage and his wife of over 50 years of marriage doesn't know. She thinks that she was successful in her quest for a hundred percent faithful man. She is the type that throws jab at other women with problems in their marriages and tell them to come to her and ask her how she did it, how her prayers, strictness and everything weren't in vain afterall.
She still hasn't found out, right. I wonder what her reaction will be the day she finally finds out that her 'faithful' husband has not been faithful afterall.

Now to the koko oro..

It pains me when i see my fellow women bragging about how they cannot stay with a man that is not contented with staying faithful to only them for the rest of his life. They say they will leave the man, that there are plenty more men still out there in the world... "No time to check time".. LOL.

You think that every 'perfect' marriage that you see, that you envy, that you hope for has been able to stand gidigba without sacrifices??

You think that because Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs do not come out to wash their dirty linen in public, they haven't had their own shares of marriage trouble??
See, It takes a very very very patient and enduring woman to stay in any marriage.

You can't stay with a man that won't cheat at all?? Then, walk the fvck outta the relationship and don't ever go about saying "All men should be able to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of their life".

You think tonto dike didn't think churchhill would remain faithful to only her for the rest of his life because he loves her?

You think Tiwa Savage didn't think that Teebillz would remain faithful to her forever? What with all her money and the banging body and everything? Does edible catering have more money than Tiwa? Or a hotter body? What did edible catering have that tiwa doesn't?? Why wasn't tiwa able to keep Tee down, even with everything?

Even Beyonce suffered her own share of unfaithfulness from JayZ.. And you are here forming, "I can't stay with a man that isn't hundred percent faithful"?? , "I can't ever share my man"??

Fine. You can't. Then leave! Leave and go from one man to another in the quest for your model man.
If a man loves you, He will prolly cheat in the hope or fear that you don't find out but don' t ever believe there is a hundred percent faithful man, specially moulded for you somewhere.. Because you are miss perfect too ahbi?

I know some of you will come here to say that you are praying for the perfect men and God will answer it.
Well.. Reality check:90% of those with failed marriages also scouted and prayed for the perfect man. You ain't better than them.
STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES.

And for those of you men that will come here to say that they can't cheat on their woman, I don't even have anything to say to you. Just keep telling that to those who would believe.

Maybe some 10% of you(tryna be generous with the figure) can be faithful, but you all know nature, you can't stay faithful to one hole.

Explains why a man that has one curvy, beautiful babe at home will see another curvy babe on the streets and his dick will still rise.

PS: Ladies, don't hope for a totally faithful man, just pray for one that doesn't throw it in your face.

Jesusgirl92:
Please bro loud it until it gets through to her.

Twaci:
O_o


Lemme read again.

*modified*

Well that's a looonnnngggg read.

So what you are trying to say is; we should learn to forget/forgive/ignore when our man cheat. We should actually expect it (putting in mind they are imperfect and all).

And that men should learn how to cover up like grandpa did? Out of love, you say?


Did I read this article well?

blacktallest:
The sooner ladies start understanding that 90% men are polygamous in nature, the better. Like my uncle , a retired general once told me and I quote " my dear, we men are like bees. We like to pollinate, tasting every flower that comes our way but at the end of the day, we find our way back to the mother flower, the main flower" end of quote.
The sooner we get to understand this, the better oooh. Our life span go increase. Just one golden rule to the men. DO NOT GET CAUGHT. What you don't know, can't kill you.

FTBOY:
honestly, i don't see anything wrong with the op's article...to me, she penned those words from a realist point of view, but everyone still has the right to air their opinions whether for or against the topic. i don't know where the anger and bitterness are coming from. did she hit someone's nerve? na wa o!

blacktallest:
The sooner ladies start understanding that 90% men are polygamous in nature, the better. Like my uncle , a retired general once told me and I quote " my dear, we men are like bees. We like to pollinate, tasting every flower that comes our way but at the end of the day, we find our way back to the mother flower, the main flower" end of quote.
The sooner we get to understand this, the better oooh. Our life span go increase. Just one golden rule to the men. DO NOT GET CAUGHT. What you don't know, can't kill you.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]The Op is actually right. All these small small girls are just making noise.

Well it's expected.[/color]

JeffreyJamez:
What is she right about?.....That there are no faithfull men?... or women?

Vizzim:
This lady is very very very wrong. I pity those with dis mentality

Lawlahdey:
I decided to write this article as a result of the argument that erupted from my comment on the Tonto dike's failed marriage brouhaha thread.

Before I actually write on the topic gangan, Allow me to quickly share a real life story with you.

There is a grandpa. A rich grandpa, happily married to a beautiful woman with 7 very successful kids.
The wife of this grandpa is a very strict and prayerful woman who believes that being strict and prayerful helps you keep other women away from your husband. She has been successful and victorious so far. They have never had a cheating scandal in 50 years of their marriage(or,so she thinks).

Recently, the grandpa called his first son(prolly because he knows he is close to his grave) and narrated the story of how he got another woman pregnant and the woman gave birth to the child with an oath that she won't ever bring the child to disrupt his marital home.He has actually been feeding and financing thd child without the knowledge of any member of his family. He said he told his son so that they could know that they have a sibling out there somewhere and bring him home after his death. He also asked the son to promise not to tell his mother or any of his siblings the secret.
So, Faithful Grandpa with a perfect marriage(In people's mind)actually has a son ouside marriage and his wife of over 50 years of marriage doesn't know. She thinks that she was successful in her quest for a hundred percent faithful man. She is the type that throws jab at other women with problems in their marriages and tell them to come to her and ask her how she did it, how her prayers, strictness and everything weren't in vain afterall.
She still hasn't found out, right. I wonder what her reaction will be the day she finally finds out that her 'faithful' husband has not been faithful afterall.

Now to the koko oro..

It pains me when i see my fellow women bragging about how they cannot stay with a man that is not contented with staying faithful to only them for the rest of his life. They say they will leave the man, that there are plenty more men still out there in the world... "No time to check time".. LOL.

You think that every 'perfect' marriage that you see, that you envy, that you hope for has been able to stand gidigba without sacrifices??

You think that because Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs do not come out to wash their dirty linen in public, they haven't had their own shares of marriage trouble??
See, It takes a very very very patient and enduring woman to stay in any marriage.

You can't stay with a man that won't cheat at all?? Then, walk the fvck outta the relationship and don't ever go about saying "All men should be able to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of their life".

You think tonto dike didn't think churchhill would remain faithful to only her for the rest of his life because he loves her?

You think Tiwa Savage didn't think that Teebillz would remain faithful to her forever? What with all her money and the banging body and everything? Does edible catering have more money than Tiwa? Or a hotter body? What did edible catering have that tiwa doesn't?? Why wasn't tiwa able to keep Tee down, even with everything?

Even Beyonce suffered her own share of unfaithfulness from JayZ.. And you are here forming, "I can't stay with a man that isn't hundred percent faithful"?? , "I can't ever share my man"??

Fine. You can't. Then leave! Leave and go from one man to another in the quest for your model man.
If a man loves you, He will prolly cheat in the hope or fear that you don't find out but don' t ever believe there is a hundred percent faithful man, specially moulded for you somewhere.. Because you are miss perfect too ahbi?

I know some of you will come here to say that you are praying for the perfect men and God will answer it.
Well.. Reality check:90% of those with failed marriages also scouted and prayed for the perfect man. You ain't better than them.
STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES.

And for those of you men that will come here to say that they can't cheat on their woman, I don't even have anything to say to you. Just keep telling that to those who would believe.

Maybe some 10% of you(tryna be generous with the figure) can be faithful, but you all know nature, you can't stay faithful to one hole.

Explains why a man that has one curvy, beautiful babe at home will see another curvy babe on the streets and his dick will still rise.

PS: Ladies, don't hope for a totally faithful man, just pray for one that doesn't throw it in your face.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Is that what you chose to deduce from her post? Cos that's not what I saw while reading.[/color]

LastProphet:
op so wives dont cheat? only men cheat? so u cant see why its naturally more inconvenient for the woman to cheat? and that those hindrances aside women cheat even more than men? so are u this shortsighted? women are worse cheats than men for all i care, i have caught many many of them, even u the op u are a cheat only u havent been caught yet, nonsense

blacktallest:
The sooner ladies start understanding that 90% men are polygamous in nature, the better. Like my uncle , a retired general once told me and I quote " my dear, we men are like bees. We like to pollinate, tasting every flower that comes our way but at the end of the day, we find our way back to the mother flower, the main flower" end of quote.
The sooner we get to understand this, the better oooh. Our life span go increase. Just one golden rule to the men. DO NOT GET CAUGHT. What you don't know, can't kill you.

Jesusgirl92:
Until he gives u HIV. #radarada

LastProphet:
op so wives dont cheat? only men cheat? so u cant see why its naturally more inconvenient for the woman to cheat? and that those hindrances aside women cheat even more than men? so are u this shortsighted? women are worse cheats than men for all i care, i have caught many many of them, even u the op u are a cheat only u havent been caught yet, nonsense

lebete3000:
You've got a fat nose.
Y?

tosyne2much:
This is one of the realistic article I have read a long time and I don't know why some many ladies are throwing shades at the OP.. Even though this article will boost the morale of men to cheat more on their women, I still think the OP said the truth which many ladies will not want to hear.

The truth is, when I still still very much young, I used to be so worried and bothered about my gf having other suitors, but now, I've grown to understand that the notion that every lady is barely completely faithful even when in relationship will only lessen your grasps on the worry about your gf cheating on you.

As for men, whether you agree or not, only a fraction of men don't cheat in marriages (let's say 20%). However, I agree with the OP that promiscuity is in the DNA of men and nothing can change that (maybe it's because nature place emphasis on unfaithful men)

In a nutshell, I'm inclined to agree with the OP that no man is completely faithful to his wife except a fraction of them

To each his own opinion

JeffreyJamez:
They always make it sound like the men cheat with themselves...Lol....If all men are cheats,who are they cheating with?... Spirits?

Jesusgirl92:
Perfectly created by my Father in Heaven :-P

Aderola15:
Uncle 10/10

tosyne2much:
Hey my dear... Hope I said it well sha?

lebete3000:
Those with cute pointed nose were imperfectly created by their father in hellfire ba?

Nosa.

Davijunson:
Anything wey person do for this life, it's all a matter of Choice. you Cheat, it's a Choice. you're faithful, it's also a choice. as For me oooo, I have made a Choice never to Cheat on ma Spouse (whether wife or fiance or GF) and so far, three years into my Current relationship, we're still good together. it's not like tots of cheating or ideas don't come to my head but my Decision and Mind have been made up neva to cheat. that is why I maintain my own lane and keep my bae as my only true friend. no time for long turenci.

the OP is one of those ppl who because they can't have what they want, they settle for what's available. if 1000 men are in this World and 999 of them are cheats, I want to be the only one who doesn't. yup. that's me. I jes want to be different from every other person.

Aderola15:
Very well ooooo