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obadizena:
People learn from their mistakes!
Try Nma27 bro, who knows?
Wishing u all the best,

OK bro I actually thought about that but now that Nma27 is aware that I'm gonna try she's gonna double all her shakara and every of her defensive strategy in preparation for the toasting. Please Nma27 shield your sword I repeat shield your sword over and out.

obadizena:
People learn from their mistakes!
Try Nma27 bro, who knows?
Wishing u all the best,

Advocate of Love.

vuc1:
OK bro I actually thought about that but now that Nma27 is aware that I'm gonna try she's gonna double all her shakara and every of her defensive strategy in preparation for the toasting. Please Nma27 shield your sword I repeat shield your sword over and out.

U know as a fact that most guys would consider a lady as cheap or desperate if she does not do "shakara" or "play hard to get".
Generally, naija ladies have uncanny ability to adapt in response to a guy's attitude towards them. Therefore now that she has an idea of ur nature, I believe she would not play that game with u.

However, u have to remember that she's just recovering from emotional wound which was inflicted on her by another guy. As such, u wouldn't expect her to open up too much in the beginning. Trust has to be established first & this needs time to develop. Hope u understand. Best of luck!

No (wo)man is an Island. Humans are social creatures.

Yewandequeen:
Advocate of Love.

Thanks for the compliment YRH!

RadiantBae:
No (wo)man is an Island. Humans are social creatures.

True!

darbeelicous:
loneliness kills faster than aids ........ The only thing harder than being in a relationship is not being in one

This is mainly so due to the attachment element. Many people become unduly attached to a person. When circumstances suddenly force them apart, a vacuum is created & the person then becomes emotionally unstable. That is why we need to learn how not to be unduly attached to anything in life.

obadizena:
U know as a fact that most guys would consider a lady as cheap or desperate if she does not do "shakara" or "play hard to get".
Generally, naija ladies have uncanny ability to adapt in response to a guy's attitude towards them. Therefore now that she has an idea of ur nature, I believe she would not play that game with u.

However, u have to remember that she's just recovering from emotional wound which was inflicted on her by another guy. As such, u wouldn't expect her to open up too much in the beginning. Trust has to be established first & this needs time to develop. Hope u understand. Best of luck!

Mr psychologist Thanks. The op is just joking o, surely u didn't take him seriously, did u?

No let any situation force you to marry o,just cool down .the problem I have with some people is that they will rather be in a bad relationship than be alone..that is crap!!!..if you are fekkibg bored,look for your friends(guys) and go out with them ,must not be with gal alone..even gals do ladies night..be searching discreetly and smartly.. You will find...quality over quantity..meanwhile continue to make your money,don't let any lady to come and say na she make you rich,that she met you when you are poor .....you know that ladues like all these kain clapbacks....be wise..wish you well

Nma27:
Mr psychologist Thanks. The op is just joking o, surely u didn't take him seriously, did u?

Might look like a joke but the op is passing a message across.How's your weekend going Nma27.

obadizena:
U know as a fact that most guys would consider a lady as cheap or desperate if she does not do "shakara" or "play hard to get".
Generally, naija ladies have uncanny ability to adapt in response to a guy's attitude towards them. Therefore now that she has an idea of ur nature, I believe she would not play that game with u.

However, u have to remember that she's just recovering from emotional wound which was inflicted on her by another guy. As such, u wouldn't expect her to open up too much in the beginning. Trust has to be established first & this needs time to develop. Hope u understand. Best of luck!

Thank you sir.

babyfaceafrica:
No let any situation force you to marry o,just cool down .the problem I have with some people is that they will rather be in a bad relationship than be alone..that is crap!!!..if you are fekkibg bored,look for your friends(guys) and go out with them ,must not be with gal alone..even gals do ladies night..be searching discreetly and smartly.. You will find...quality over quantity..meanwhile continue to make your money,don't let any lady to come and say na she make you rich,that she met you when you are poor .....you know that ladues like all these kain clapbacks....be wise..wish you well

Thank you ma'am

vuc1:
Might look like a joke but the op is passing a message across.How's your weekend going Nma27.

As dry as an old man's crack...lol

Nma27:
As dry as an old man's crack...lol

don't worry tomorrow will be better

vuc1:
Its been 10 months since i ended the relationship I had with my ex.All through these months I've channelled my energy, time and resources into other meaningful ventures.My aim was to sideline anything leading to any serious attachment to the members of the opposite sex.Most times when I see couples I admire them but I say to myself this isn't just for me now.Yesterday after finishing my business for the day I decided to go catch a movie.I couldn't meet up so I had to wait for the next movie.It was to start in the next 45 minutes so I started playing with my phone.Made few calls,chats and time seemed not to be moving. Then I noticed something, almost every person had a partner, I tried covering the fact I wasn't lonely but I just couldn't. Then I realised the need for companionship. No matter how successful we are, no matter how hard we try to be independent, we all need someone.

We need tha companion but being with the wrong kinda folk's worse than being all by yourself and minding yo shit. BTW, don't you have male friend(s) off the rail to kill time with?... Keeping it active with tha brothers can be mind blowing . All in all, I feel yo hygge moments must not be marred just cos you haven't the crowd to go, have you heard about that term "hygge".? If you haven't, perhaps you just a google search away from knowing how to go about giving yourself the kinky kinda treat you've always envisioned.

bitchcrafts:
We need tha companion but being with the wrong kinda folk's worse than being all by yourself and minding yo shit. BTW, don't you have male friend(s) off the rail to kill time with?... Keeping it active with tha brothers can be mind blowing . All in all, I feel yo hygge moments must not be marred just cos you haven't the crowd to go, have you heard about that term "hygge".? If you haven't, perhaps you just a google search away from knowing how to go about giving yourself the kinky kinda treat you've always envisioned.

I do have few friends.You know the more friends you roll with the more bullshit you deal with, there are times for hanging out with the brothers and its always a good time.Hygge moment( hearing it for the first time) is good too but then God Himself created Eve for Adam He knew there was a need for a woman for every man if not He would have created another brother for Adam.But just like you said being with the wrong folk is worse than being all by yourself and minding yo shit.

vuc1:
don't worry tomorrow will be better

Sure

Nma27:
Mr psychologist Thanks. The op is just joking o, surely u didn't take him seriously, did u?

Sometimes that's how it starts - like play play, like joke. Before u know, it has developed into serious romantic relationship.

Happy Sunday!

vuc1:
Might look like a joke but the op is passing a message across.How's your weekend going Nma27.

It's obvious the message has been well received. The ball now is in ur court.

I pray that u understand each other deeper.
Happy Sunday!

obadizena:
Sometimes that's how it starts - like play play, like joke. Before u know, it has developed into serious romantic relationship.

Happy Sunday!

It's true that's how mine started..
Op lower your guard a bit. Take a chance with a single lady out there..
Who knows she might be the one.

It took me 15years with series of heart breaks to finally end up with the one few months ago till date.. We started playfully, now we cant even sleep wihout saying goodnight.
So give a new lady a shot. Life itself is full. Of risks.
Cmon? Try with nma27 or any other chick out there.

It's allowed

obadizena:
It's obvious the message has been well received. The ball now is in ur court.
I pray that u understand each other deeper. Happy Sunday!

Alright sir. Happy Sunday

vuc1:
Its been 10 months since i ended the relationship I had with my ex.All through these months I've channelled my energy, time and resources into other meaningful ventures.My aim was to sideline anything leading to any serious attachment to the members of the opposite sex.Most times when I see couples I admire them but I say to myself this isn't just for me now.Yesterday after finishing my business for the day I decided to go catch a movie.I couldn't meet up so I had to wait for the next movie.It was to start in the next 45 minutes so I started playing with my phone.Made few calls,chats and time seemed not to be moving. Then I noticed something, almost every person had a partner, I tried covering the fact I wasn't lonely but I just couldn't. Then I realised the need for companionship. No matter how successful we are, no matter how hard we try to be independent, we all need someone.

Hmmm so sorry. Really feel for you.

alexialin:
It's true that's how mine started..
Op lower your guard a bit. Take a chance with a single lady out there..
Who knows she might be the one.

It took me 15years with series of heart breaks to finally end up with the one few months ago till date.. We started playfully, now we cant even sleep wihout saying goodnight.
So give a new lady a shot. Life itself is full. Of risks.
Cmon? Try with nma27 or any other chick out there.

It's allowed

Hmmmm 15 years is quite a long time.Glad you're happy in your new relationship.Thanks for your advice I'm working on it.

Nma27:
Sure

Where are you?

darbeelicous:
loneliness kills faster than aids ........ The only thing harder than being in a relationship is not being in one

Truly spoken.

Dextology:
No matter how independent we try to be and guard our heart from desiring love and companionship, there's a craving that will stir up with time to point how necessary we need to have a companion.


Irrespective of the challenges encountered in relationships, there's need to have someone to love and cherish

Even my schizoid self can't agree less.

vuc1:
Hmmmm 15 years is quite a long time.Glad you're happy in your new relationship.Thanks for your advice I'm working on it.

My dear, it is very long. There was nothing I could do about it. And I didn't want to settle for less and at the end start crying like my friends who are married with kids.. Especially two of them.. Mehn those ladies can curse their husbands from now till tmrw. He's a mad man .. He's so stupid and useless if I had known.. Lol. What kind of human being is this! Oh Lord!!
I don't want my story to be like that .. I don't have strength for wahala some people witness in. Marriage.. That's why it took me this long. I can't shout.. Lol. And moreover I have bp issues.. I cant come and die because I need a companion.. Lol
One of my male friend complained my bf is not an Alpha male.. That he's too soft and amiable.
I said hian? Too soft ke?. Abeg oo.. I don't need a dictator, drama king or agbero at home.. My strength no carry such. After a while he simply noticed that my guy is just a gentleman who. Doesn't like issues too and does not have strength for woman wahala.
It's better it takes long and one eventually get it right.. Than to be in a hurry and end up so unhappy with counts of divorce cases in ones history.
Sometimes the delay and breakups is beyond ones power.

It's well

alexialin:
My dear, it is very long. There was nothing I could do about it. And I didn't want to settle for less and at the end start crying like my friends who are married with kids.. Especially two of them.. Mehn those ladies can curse their husbands from now till tmrw. He's a mad man .. He's so stupid and useless if I had known.. Lol. What kind of human being is this! Oh Lord!!
I don't want my story to be like that .. I don't have strength for wahala some people witness in. Marriage.. That's why it took me this long. I can't shout.. Lol. And moreover I have bp issues.. I cant come and die because I need a companion.. Lol
One of my male friend complained my bf is not an Alpha male.. That he's too soft and amiable.
I said hian? Too soft ke?. Abeg oo.. I don't need a dictator, drama king or agbero at home.. My strength no carry such. After a while he simply noticed that my guy is just a gentleman who. Doesn't like issues too and does not have strength for woman wahala.
It's better it takes long and one eventually get it right.. Than to be in a hurry and end up so unhappy with counts of divorce cases in ones history.
Sometimes the delay and breakups is beyond ones power.

It's well

alexialin:
My dear, it is very long. There was nothing I could do about it. And I didn't want to settle for less and at the end start crying like my friends who are married with kids.. Especially two of them.. Mehn those ladies can curse their husbands from now till tmrw. He's a mad man .. He's so stupid and useless if I had known.. Lol. What kind of human being is this! Oh Lord!!
I don't want my story to be like that .. I don't have strength for wahala some people witness in. Marriage.. That's why it took me this long. I can't shout.. Lol. And moreover I have bp issues.. I cant come and die because I need a companion.. Lol
One of my male friend complained my bf is not an Alpha male.. That he's too soft and amiable.
I said hian? Too soft ke?. Abeg oo.. I don't need a dictator, drama king or agbero at home.. My strength no carry such. After a while he simply noticed that my guy is just a gentleman who. Doesn't like issues too and does not have strength for woman wahala.
It's better it takes long and one eventually get it right.. Than to be in a hurry and end up so unhappy with counts of divorce cases in ones history.
Sometimes the delay and breakups is beyond ones power.

It's well

You're absolutely right

Dextology:
No matter how independent we try to be and guard our heart from desiring love and companionship, there's a craving that will stir up with time to point how necessary we need to have a companion.


Irrespective of the challenges encountered in relationships, there's need to have someone to love and cherish

Please give this person a bottle of cold stout...

david16:
Please give this person a bottle of cold stout...

Thank you sir but I will decline the offer

alexialin:
It's true that's how mine started..
Op lower your guard a bit. Take a chance with a single lady out there..
Who knows she might be the one.

It took me 15years with series of heart breaks to finally end up with the one few months ago till date.. We started playfully, now we cant even sleep wihout saying goodnight.
So give a new lady a shot. Life itself is full. Of risks.
Cmon? Try with nma27 or any other chick out there.

It's allowed

Gbam!!!


Thanks for sharing ur experience!

alexialin:
My dear, it is very long. There was nothing I could do about it. And I didn't want to settle for less and at the end start crying like my friends who are married with kids.. Especially two of them.. Mehn those ladies can curse their husbands from now till tmrw. He's a mad man .. He's so stupid and useless if I had known.. Lol. What kind of human being is this! Oh Lord!!
I don't want my story to be like that .. I don't have strength for wahala some people witness in. Marriage.. That's why it took me this long. I can't shout.. Lol. And moreover I have bp issues.. I cant come and die because I need a companion.. Lol
One of my male friend complained my bf is not an Alpha male.. That he's too soft and amiable.
I said hian? Too soft ke?. Abeg oo.. I don't need a dictator, drama king or agbero at home.. My strength no carry such. After a while he simply noticed that my guy is just a gentleman who. Doesn't like issues too and does not have strength for woman wahala.
It's better it takes long and one eventually get it right.. Than to be in a hurry and end up so unhappy with counts of divorce cases in ones history.
Sometimes the delay and breakups is beyond ones power.

It's well

Quite interesting!