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| We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Dondave11: 3:07pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Hello nairalanders, We've been in this relationship for 2 years. But, lately, we seem to quarrel a lot and most time settle our scores before dawn. Two weeks back, we had a little disagreement on fone cos i wasn't in town, she was at fault but was trying to shift blame so i told her to forget the talk since she's claiming right nd trying to shift the blame. She got annoyed nd hung d fone on me for d first time in two years. A text followed afterwards, that ''she's tired of her getting hurt, tired of hurting me.. blah blah blah... i shud enjoy my life without her''.. I didn't reply immediately cos i believe she sent it out of anger.. d next day, i replied her thanking her for pouring out her mind,, nd wished her the best in life... She replied immediately i texted, saying ol kind of things '' dt she knows she no longer has use to me, like oda girls, i just use nd dumb dem so av done to her'' while she was d one who initiated d breakup nd was just trying to make me feel guilty. I replied her saying ''she has gotten what she wanted, so des no need dragging issues''... It's two weeks nw, nd we've neither chat nor talk to each other.... but, i stl love her nd i believe she does too.. We had so many plans together.. What do you think i should do? |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Aliyeous(m): 3:13pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Go get her back Tiger |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by rosalieene(f): 3:14pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
you both should just let go of your pride, work things out since you still love yourselves 2 Likes |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by babyfaceafrica: 3:15pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Lolz..she is using reverse psychology on you,from your tone ..it is working.....she has blackmailed you emotionally... . You better get a hold of yourself and do the needful |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Nobody: 3:16pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
You see what common "Sorry" caused here. Go and un-break what you broke. One person has to bend over at times for a relationship to sail smoothly. The both of you allowed your ego to take the best of you. 1 Like |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by lekanlaniyan(m): 3:18pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Bro, talk to her wen u guys are together and sort the issues out. All gals are the same. If u leave her to look for a better one, the better one's issues might be more than her own. 1 Like |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by QueenSuccubus(f): 3:21pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
 OP hang on there... SmellingAnus cumman down hia.sombori needed a good advice...  I'm not good at this...help abeg |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Dondave11: 3:23pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica: @ bolded.. hw do u mean? |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Divay22(f): 3:24pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
It's so simple but hard to say but when said IT BEINGS BACK HAPPINESS..... Op use the word SORRY.... If you wait for her,she just might not apologize So pls keep Ego aside and Do the needful 2 Likes |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Paulpaulpaul(m): 3:25pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
You just won the argument but not your happiness. This is gone, next time go for happiness not right. What am I even saying? 1 Like |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Nobody: 3:32pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
OP, You and her are both technically, to borrow english, in silent hostilities. Since you said you love and you can be reasonably assured she loves you too; you can do two things : 1) Use humor, and general awesomeness to win her over. A downside of this might be a weaking of your authority over her 2) You hold out until she comes to apologize to you. A downside to this might be that she starts doubting your "love" for her. Perhaps, you really don't care for her; after all you couldn't even say sorry..... Either way, you're either fu..cked or a boss Goodluck. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by NemzySeries(m): 3:34pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Aliyeous:d babe fit b leopard oooo |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by babyfaceafrica: 3:37pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Dondave11:number one...I feel something is fishy..she replied saying you should enjoy life without her?...means she was contemplating break up before the incident..which means two things....1.she has a back up 2.her love for you has waned.my advice is call her and both of you should meet and see if you can settle things or take a two months break from her and face other things.if she does not call or text you during the break..after the break call her and call off the relationship.. ...move on..there is no rule that says only a man should apologise.. I repeat no rule!!!!...you deserve peace of mind and Someone who will give you that.... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Nobody: 3:44pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:It's quite funny when I see people conclude another man's journey like seers. How sure are you she was contemplating break up? Do you even know how a woman mind works? Oh sorry I skipped the basic question : Do you even know yourself?. Humans tend to make some hasty decisions when hurt or angered, It's no gender thing. You should start with that before you judge the Lady .  4 Likes |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by babyfaceafrica: 3:45pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Alondrah:it is an opinion and I am entitled to that... Thanks for yours |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Nobody: 3:46pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Op dont listen to all these pussy boys Leave that girl for good and locate the next available hole and continue your good works 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Aliyeous(m): 3:50pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
NemzySeries:lol |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Nobody: 3:50pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Dear Op. As a Lady I'm 70% certain that lady is still very much in love with you. She sent that text because she was hurt, and battling with insecurities. Ladies don't throw up all they have built in years just like that. She will be back. But for your own happiness I think you should reach out to her. Sometimes we apologise not because we are weak but because we want inner peace and happiness back. Extend a hand of love to her, if she takes it... She wants it. If she doesn't, move on. The most important thing is you tried to make it work 6 Likes |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Dondave11: 3:56pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:u'r right.. i actually cheated on her, to her, i revenged too... but she forgave me cos i ones forgave her too when she did same.. happened last month |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Dondave11: 4:03pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
hammer2010:boss Hammer, pussy no be problem to me... i get enuf loose girls to kpansh.... i really love her nd want to settle down wit her.... BTW, wetin u con find for romance section..... |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Nobody: 4:06pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:Negative opinions/words project fast in human's hearts. We should be careful of cynical advices , we don't know how weak or strong the seeker is. Moreover if we base our judgments on our reality alone, we will be limited in Life . You are welcome |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by babyfaceafrica: 4:07pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Dondave11:lolz..she cheated first..you too cheated back...hahahahaha..you no well at all....if you couldn't forgive her the first time ,you should have broken up!!!!..I am not sure both of you love each other sef.oga move on 1 Like |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Dondave11: 4:09pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Alondrah:hmmmmm.... word! thanks Alondrah my problem is, will she still respect me if i apologise while she is d one dt ought to apologise? |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by babyfaceafrica: 4:12pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Alondrah:am sorry,I am a realist..I do not subscribe to sensationalizing issues..if he can't cope..he should leave...why should someone be forced to stay with someone..there is definetly trust issues there |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Nobody: 4:15pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Dondave11:There is a possibility of her not looking down on you and her loving you more for apologizing. Ego or Happiness? Make your choice |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Dondave11: 4:15pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:we do.. she cheated at d beginning of d relationship.. a kiss though... but kissing na stl cheating.. i actually disvirgined her seven month in d relationship.. nd i can vouch dt she hasn't seen any oda guy aside me.... mine also was just a fling wit some randone girl... no be girl wey i dey into... |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by babyfaceafrica: 4:15pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Dondave11:oga Ade..number one..there is nothing Like she should be the first to apologise..anybody can apologise,that is why I hate it when people say it is the guy that must apologise..which rule states that?..if you will apologise,it must come from your mind and you must mean it,no one should force you!!!!!!..... |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by babyfaceafrica: 4:17pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Dondave11:cheating na cheating.. Their is even emotional cheating...that said,how old is she? |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Dondave11: 4:19pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Alondrah:wow! u'r simply awesome. I wish u happiness in ur relationship.. it's 2 weeks nw, do u think it wl be effective if i do it nw or gv it more time for her to rili miss me... |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Nobody: 4:20pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:I'm a realist too. What's this perception that a realist most be cynic? If really the guy wants to move on he wouldn't create this thread. Sometimes we lose things because we give up too soon, Ego remains the major hindrance of a smooth human relations. It's the ops decision tho |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Dondave11: 4:21pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica: .. |
| Re: We Broke Up Mutually But I Still Love Her by Nobody: 4:24pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Dondave11:Thanks All depends on how long you can hold your unhappiness. May I warn you though there is a possibility that you may have to move on too. But all the same, reach out to her first |
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