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I've been dating her for close to 8months now, and at first she didn't want to make love up-to 5 minutes.
I thought at first, maybe because we were just starting to date so she didn't trust me.
Now we are engaged and arrangements for wedding is in place and still exactly the same experience.
Today's own was like 1 minutes 30 seconds of penetration and she said it was okay.
We don't make love often maybe once a month, but everytime we do, this is always the case and I'm starting to get frustrated.
Is this normal?
Please what can be done about this?

90 seconds?




You guys should discuss about this. Maybe she has had a terrible experience before,like rape

izzou:
90 seconds?




You guys should discuss about this. Maybe she has had a terrible experience before,like rape

She's not experiencing any kind of trauma

Jkfc:
She's not experiencing any kind of trauma

You should ask her.

Or it could be a psychological issue


How person go hate Sex?

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Op... Do you dig her like it is your last?

If yes, then calm down a bit and allow her beg you to go faster and harder.

Increase the time for pre-intimacy, and reduce drastically the penetration period.

This will help you explore her body and knows what turns her on!!

On the extreme, perform only pre-intimacy on her and leave her hanging when she is very high!!

When she begs you to sex her, tell her this is always how you feel when she gives up early when you are high too!!

She go learn the hard way!!

generalbush:
Op... Do you dig her like it is your last?

If yes, then calm down a bit and allow her beg you to go faster and harder.

Increase the time for pre-intimacy, and reduce drastically the penetration period.

This will help you explore her body and knows what turns her on!!

On the extreme, perform only pre-intimacy on her and leave her hanging when she is very high!!

When she begs you to sex her, tell her this is always how you feel when she gives up early when you are high too!!

She go learn the hard way!!

Thanks,
I'd try this, cuz it's really frustrating any time she stops me

Yes, not everyone likes sex,sex is overhyped like without it we can't do anything (lies)
You must talk about it she may be having some pains especially at the lower abdomen region or due to infection.
Some women take years to get used to their man;different strikes she might just be allowing you cos she doesn't want you getting it elsewhere or she's just giving a tip of the iceberg. :please Talk with her,she's the only with the true reason and can give pointers to possible solutions.

amprat:
Yes not everyone likes sex,sex is overhyped like without it we can't do anything (lies)
You must talk about it she be having sole pains especially at the lower abdomen region or due to injection
Some women take years to get used to their man;different strikes she might just be allowing you cos she doesn't want you getting it elsewhere or she's just giving a tip of the iceberg. Talk with her,she's the only with the true reason and can give pointers to possible solutions.

Thanks

generalbush:
Op... Do you dig her like it is your last?

If yes, then calm down a bit and allow her beg you to go faster and harder.

Increase the time for pre-intimacy, and reduce drastically the penetration period.

This will help you explore her body and knows what turns her on!!

On the extreme, perform only pre-intimacy on her and leave her hanging when she is very high!!

When she begs you to sex her, tell her this is always how you feel when she gives up early when you are high too!!

She go learn the hard way!!

JKFC

did you see a good strategy from this poster


just observing. ...

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amprat:
Yes, not everyone likes sex,sex is overhyped like without it we can't do anything (lies)
You must talk about it she may be having some pains especially at the lower abdomen region or due to infection.
Some women take years to get used to their man;different strikes she might just be allowing you cos she doesn't want you getting it elsewhere or she's just giving a tip of the iceberg. :please Talk with her,she's the only with the true reason and can give pointers to possible solutions.

could this be the reason some women insists on no sex before marriage in order to trick the man into marriage and damn the consequences


just asking. ...
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just buy spanish fly mix am for drink gv her

ur good to go

Its when the wedding date has been set, you now realise your sexual incompatibility?

A lot of men/women who didn't practice abstinence will tell you that the bf/gf period is the time they had the best sexual experience with each other.

Anyway, may your case be different..

Hmm

I don't joke with my sexual life. If she not the type that love sex their is little or nothing you can do about that. Op, you care for an advice? Let her go. Before she go push u go out.

Archaa:
could this be the reason some women insists on no sex before marriage in order to trick the man into marriage and damn the consequences


just asking. ...
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Am not sure, but most ladies that. Insist on sexual purity do so due to their faith, culture or family background.