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ItsQuinn:
Pics or adonbilivit!

n I must see urz too.

I'm a spirit....I don't have a body, so how do you want to see me now ehn?!

Chai! You look like a serious hustler....where do you live?

youngsahito:
n I must see urz too.

ItsQuinn:
I'm a spirit....I don't have a body, so how do you want to see me now ehn?!

Chai! You look like a serious hustler....where do you live?

but a spirit can access phone n does not have a body.I live @ sango ota

NaMe4:
You really hit the nail.

In addition, OP, your environment matters a lot. You may be in a particular environment where it may be extremely difficult to come across the 'type' of girlfriend or spouse you have in mind (which I'm pretty sure is what you had in mind while growing up).

You seem to be a laid back type of person looking for a true and loyal friend which you may find in any social class, though it's quite difficult in Nigeria today.

Such person(s) from the lower social class are 'diamonds'.

Those in the higher social class will be difficult to even come across as MOST do not even reside here most times. They most likely will be outside the shores of the Country schooling, working or even married.

The middle social class is Non-existent in Nigeria today and those who grew within this social class about roughly 3 decades ago, find it even more difficult getting the type of partner they had in mind.

So OP, you may have to 'strategise' (hehehehehe) a means of making contact with the type of people you have in mind.

you are right bro cos people around me her just little gal n I don't want their parent to charge me 4 molestation.I just need where to hang out n see pretty babe that I can talk to

Hmmm....no wonder

youngsahito:
but a spirit can access phone n does not have a body.I live @ sango ota

ItsQuinn:
Hmmm....no wonder

hey .
have you parted ways with punting??
been looking for your tips lately I missed em.

I can give you tips if you like.... but only on weekends. 2-3 odds....sometimes it could be higher

IamJix:
hey .
have you parted ways with punting??
been looking for your tips lately I missed em.

youngsahito:
no way I will prefer somebody that will be willing to share her feelings n anything abt her to me.which category do you belong to

m an introvert I find it so difficult 2 xpress my feelings! even whn my bf does smtin wrong!!! I jst die in silence! he hurts erytime nd dia is absolutely notin i can do about it!

ItsQuinn:
I can give you tips if you like.... but only on weekends. 2-3 odds....sometimes it could be higher

that's the Quinn I used to know.
chop kiss.
make I drop my control(contact)??

Lemmi pm you right away.

IamJix:
that's the Quinn I used to know.
chop kiss.
make I drop my control(contact)??

ItsQuinn:
Lemmi pm you right away.

so romantic...

Kimberlylouis:
m an introvert I find it so difficult 2 xpress my feelings! even whn my bf does smtin wrong!!! I jst die in silence! he hurts erytime nd dia is absolutely notin i can do about it!

maybe u choose to do nothing, dere are ways to correct people. you can do that through WhatsApp if u are scared to face him one n one.try to be courageous cos this kind of thing will affect u in future.take d bull by d horn n stop being d suffering n smiling type...

@OP, getting a GF is one of the easiest thing to do, but keeping one and staying happy, is another thing, so please enjoy ur single life as it is now, cos u cant rewind it if you end up with a woman who makes your life a living hell!!!

I know right! Like duuuhhhrrr....

IamJix:
so romantic...

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Err.... please explain some more

introverted grls will make u feel like u ar wasting ur time! make u feel unloved!

ItsQuinn:
Hmmm....no wonder

which part of d earth do u n ur spirit reside.

Eko

youngsahito:
which part of d earth do u n ur spirit reside.

Kimberlylouis:
introverted grls will make u feel like u ar wasting ur time! make u feel unloved!

it depends, but i think introvert are very good conversationalist when you get to talk with them one or one!

youngsahito:
maybe u choose to do nothing, dere are ways to correct people. you can do that through WhatsApp if u are scared to face him one n one.try to be courageous cos this kind of thing will affect u in future.take d bull by d horn n stop being d suffering n smiling type...

I jst dnt kno hw to do it! I cnt help it!!! he says I dnt love him but he is my evrytin

ItsQuinn:
I know right! Like duuuhhhrrr....

I've replied to your mail.
you can check my contact right away there.

Kimberlylouis:
I jst dnt kno hw to do it! I cnt help it!!! he says I dnt love him but he is my evrytin

you need to open up wif him n don't keep any secret away from.let him know who u are

specimen23:
it depends, but i think introvert are very good conversationalist when you get to talk with them one or one!

true but wit time u will start feeling unloved nd whn u complain notin changes! even tho we love u like crazy

youngsahito:
you need to open up wif him n don't keep any secret away from.let him know who u are

errrm.....dats d problem #inrtovert

Kimberlylouis:
true but wit time u will start feeling unloved nd whn u complain notin changes! even tho we love u like crazy

that depends, my experience with introverts is that there are actually coded extroverts, but only to people that are really close to them. The introverts i had stuffs with in the past are even the wildest ones, cos all the crazy stuff they dont do, is all bottled within, waiting for just one person to pour it all out to!

Kimberlylouis:
errrm.....dats d problem #inrtovert

you need to change ur mindset n see urself as an open book to others. don't let this affect ur relationship

Kimberlylouis:
introverted grls will make u feel like u ar wasting ur time! make u feel unloved!

eh but thats how some people like them nau....quiet and reserved
If we shun them na who go marry them

its very hard nowadays..it is either they have a boyfriend,or they a gay...

youngsahito:
All the galz that have come across are either after ur money or they are not interested in a relationship wif me.Is there still ladies wif heart if true luv or I haven't meet d right person?

Lol same boat my nigga. Dating is hard in Lagos but outside its not a problem

ItsQuinn:

Lemmi pm you right away.

Its a lie were you just friendly to a guy ? ? What's going on ?

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Hello Single Spiritual brother..

Calvary greetings I bring to you.
I have heard of your single state and decided to write to you about the things that has made you single till now..

First, bros..
Decency is good but there's nothing attractive about wearing an oversized black coat on top a bogus red shirt and a heavily huge blue tie with a trouser large enough to serve as bedsheet for my entire village.

I know you speak in tongues, I know you have all the gifts of the spirit but it's woman you'll marry na, not spirit. So your packaging matters kwa. It's not all about inner content. Package the inner spiritual man well with outer beauty and class.
You cannot be dressing like one illiterate from Congo and you're wooing a sister than is a bank manager. Bros, check it na, it's not fair..

And yes, I also know you've read the Bible back to back. I know, but understand that when you take a sister out on a date, it's not bible study or prayer meeting. It's a date; talk about things like vision, fun, dreams, social issues, ETC.

Learn about other things, be updated, read books, see TV series, follow conversations on social media, be intelligent in conversations biko..

And see eh..
When you love a lady, don't go and just tell her that God said she's your wife.
Is that all the reason you'd want her?
You sef you no follow see her awesomeness?
Compliment her biko..
Tell her there's just no woman like her..
Don't quote Bible while wooing her. Lol
If you must quote Bible, let it be from songs of Solomon..
Talk like a man, a natural man.
Look her in the eye and communicate how you feel..

And biko remember to wear a nice cologne. There's nothing holy about having a body odour no matter how much you speak on tongues..

Uhmm,
Telling your pastor to talk to a lady for you eh, that thing is childish. Na pastor wan marry am?
Approach a woman yourself o. Talk to her. Sending your father in the lord to talk to her makes you look immature. She wants a confident man not some timid spiritual man.

Buy her gifts, not just Bible. She has Bible already na. Buy her chocolate, phone, clothes, shoes, just buy her something relatable to her, not bible. I'm not saying Bible is not good but she has Bible na.

If you're always saying everything that is fine is demonic like lipstick, classy clothes, good living and ETC, you'll bore and irritate her. If everything is a sin, wetin person wan enjoy again for this life?

Conclusively, Spiritual brother.
Learn to make a woman laugh.
Learn to be less serious sometimes.
We are not yet in heaven, having some lovely time and fun is not evil..
You can hold hands with her and give her a hug when she's worried..
If won't steal your salvation..

There are lots of things to still say, but as times goes I will write to you on these matters that concern your single state.

Sisters, tag a spiritual brother and share..

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Hello Single Spiritual brother..

Calvary greetings I bring to you.
I have heard of your single state and decided to write to you about the things that has made you single till now..

First, bros..
Decency is good but there's nothing attractive about wearing an oversized black coat on top a bogus red shirt and a heavily huge blue tie with a trouser large enough to serve as bedsheet for my entire village.

I know you speak in tongues, I know you have all the gifts of the spirit but it's woman you'll marry na, not spirit. So your packaging matters kwa. It's not all about inner content. Package the inner spiritual man well with outer beauty and class.
You cannot be dressing like one illiterate from Congo and you're wooing a sister than is a bank manager. Bros, check it na, it's not fair..

And yes, I also know you've read the Bible back to back. I know, but understand that when you take a sister out on a date, it's not bible study or prayer meeting. It's a date; talk about things like vision, fun, dreams, social issues, ETC.

Learn about other things, be updated, read books, see TV series, follow conversations on social media, be intelligent in conversations biko..

And see eh..
When you love a lady, don't go and just tell her that God said she's your wife.
Is that all the reason you'd want her?
You sef you no follow see her awesomeness?
Compliment her biko..
Tell her there's just no woman like her..
Don't quote Bible while wooing her. Lol
If you must quote Bible, let it be from songs of Solomon..
Talk like a man, a natural man.
Look her in the eye and communicate how you feel..

And biko remember to wear a nice cologne. There's nothing holy about having a body odour no matter how much you speak on tongues..

Uhmm,
Telling your pastor to talk to a lady for you eh, that thing is childish. Na pastor wan marry am?
Approach a woman yourself o. Talk to her. Sending your father in the lord to talk to her makes you look immature. She wants a confident man not some timid spiritual man.

Buy her gifts, not just Bible. She has Bible already na. Buy her chocolate, phone, clothes, shoes, just buy her something relatable to her, not bible. I'm not saying Bible is not good but she has Bible na.

If you're always saying everything that is fine is demonic like lipstick, classy clothes, good living and ETC, you'll bore and irritate her. If everything is a sin, wetin person wan enjoy again for this life?

Conclusively, Spiritual brother.
Learn to make a woman laugh.
Learn to be less serious sometimes.
We are not yet in heaven, having some lovely time and fun is not evil..
You can hold hands with her and give her a hug when she's worried..
If won't steal your salvation..

There are lots of things to still say, but as times goes I will write to you on these matters that concern your single state.

Sisters, tag a spiritual brother and share..

[/b][/b][b]

Hello Single Spiritual brother..

Calvary greetings I bring to you.
I have heard of your single state and decided to write to you about the things that has made you single till now..

First, bros..
Decency is good but there's nothing attractive about wearing an oversized black coat on top a bogus red shirt and a heavily huge blue tie with a trouser large enough to serve as bedsheet for my entire village.

I know you speak in tongues, I know you have all the gifts of the spirit but it's woman you'll marry na, not spirit. So your packaging matters kwa. It's not all about inner content. Package the inner spiritual man well with outer beauty and class.
You cannot be dressing like one illiterate from Congo and you're wooing a sister than is a bank manager. Bros, check it na, it's not fair..

And yes, I also know you've read the Bible back to back. I know, but understand that when you take a sister out on a date, it's not bible study or prayer meeting. It's a date; talk about things like vision, fun, dreams, social issues, ETC.

Learn about other things, be updated, read books, see TV series, follow conversations on social media, be intelligent in conversations biko..

And see eh..
When you love a lady, don't go and just tell her that God said she's your wife.
Is that all the reason you'd want her?
You sef you no follow see her awesomeness?
Compliment her biko..
Tell her there's just no woman like her..
Don't quote Bible while wooing her. Lol
If you must quote Bible, let it be from songs of Solomon..
Talk like a man, a natural man.
Look her in the eye and communicate how you feel..

And biko remember to wear a nice cologne. There's nothing holy about having a body odour no matter how much you speak on tongues..

Uhmm,
Telling your pastor to talk to a lady for you eh, that thing is childish. Na pastor wan marry am?
Approach a woman yourself o. Talk to her. Sending your father in the lord to talk to her makes you look immature. She wants a confident man not some timid spiritual man.

Buy her gifts, not just Bible. She has Bible already na. Buy her chocolate, phone, clothes, shoes, just buy her something relatable to her, not bible. I'm not saying Bible is not good but she has Bible na.

If you're always saying everything that is fine is demonic like lipstick, classy clothes, good living and ETC, you'll bore and irritate her. If everything is a sin, wetin person wan enjoy again for this life?

Conclusively, Spiritual brother.
Learn to make a woman laugh.
Learn to be less serious sometimes.
We are not yet in heaven, having some lovely time and fun is not evil..
You can hold hands with her and give her a hug when she's worried..
If won't steal your salvation..

There are lots of things to still say, but as times goes I will write to you on these matters that concern your single state.

Sisters, tag a spiritual brother and share..

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It's just business, it's not that serious

pcguru1:
Its a lie were you just friendly to a guy ? ? What's going on ?