I AM LOSING MY MIND, KINDLY ADVISE.
I am a doctor and corper, posted to one of the military hospitals in Lagos. I was actually pregnant b4 service and few months in service, I was delivered of a baby.
I was made to observe my maternity leave and I resumed this January but ever since resumption, it has not been easy.
I returned this Jan to meet a newly posted military boss (doctor) who hasn’t made life bearable for my daughter and I
I was initially taking my baby to work, but as a baby, she is susceptible to infections of all kinds. I opted to take her to a day care. I worked 8am to 2pm before this new boss, but now, 8am to 4pm.
And two weekends in a month, I do ‘weekend call’ which makes the matter worse, for such a week, I practically have few hours to spend with my baby and the government is talking of 6 months exclusive breastfeeding. I met with another LGI who said corpers were not meant to do calls.
I don’t need all time off work, all I need is my normal 8am-2pm, Mon to Fri I was doing and I will manage to cope without complaining.
I thought NYSC promised married and nursing mothers a better treatment, if not, I would have waited till this yr, now that I am even 30.
My concern is my baby, she is growing seriously lean by the day, she lacks attention and my boss doesn’t care. She has had persistent rashes and big boils for over a month she resumed day care and its totally driving me crazy.
I went to see my Local govt inspector to complain only for him to chicken out just because a military woman lambasted him on phone, leaving me to my fate.
If something bad happens to my 5-month old daughter, NYSC wld say, "but why were u silent?"
It’s a military setting and really don’t know the process of lodging complaints. My boss seems to be a sadist, maybe not, but she has really never been nice to me.
A scenario; My baby was hot overnight and I felt I needed to watch her a little before dropping her at the day care, and I felt I needed to inform my boss. I called her, no response, sent her a text message of late coming, she didn’t respond only for me to get to work and she said all sorts.
Her own grown child fell ill, she took the day off. If this is what NYSC is all about, it is seriously not worth it! I have 2 months to complete NYSC, but I can’t help seeing my baby in this condition. Even at work, I lose focus.
Can u imagine what a doctor out of her senses can do?? Its tearing me apart!!
Am I taking it too personal or the treatment should be fairer? I am literally losing my mind and nobody is fighting my course.
WHAT DO I DO?

I think u shud talk better with the LGI

Lalasticlala she needs help biko

How can d op be a male yet be pregnant. Mchew

Ok

quitting is an option

I honestly do not have any contributions to make. I only bought a plot here because I'm also a Dr & wud be going for service with d next batch. So I wanna learn one or two things from u ppl dat have already gone

Talk to your Zonal Inspector to post u to another PPA.

It cnt be that bad.

Plenty places need your service as a medical doctor.

dingbang:
How can d op be a male yet be pregnant. Mchew

.there are logical explanations as to why he posted this...

I'll comment soon

Chai

Well, the only thing I think I can do its to help you give this your write up the widest publicity you can least imagined. Like copying it to all known social media, both local and international. Thou no name but they would definitely find you and the authority would come to your aid. With the following they would know say NA you.
1.copper doctor
2.military female boss
3.2 months to go copper
4.a copper with a baby
5.add yours.

I am a boy of nobody, the only help it's to let people know your condition through other social media so that somebody that knows someone can do something.

Oya... Aja one gbera lo si Facebook and Co

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Brb

MALE NO DEY PREGNANT

dingbang:
How can d op be a male yet be pregnant. Mchew

You are very observant.

pray

Same....

Women are dere own worst enemies...my dear just manage do ur remaining and go.... Take heart pele

Male op pregnant. The end is near for sure

This is serious

dingbang:
How can d op be a male yet be pregnant. Mchew

I wonder

In the face of denial, hold the forte

dingbang:
How can d op be a male yet be pregnant. Mchew

Bro, the tin tire me I just weak ehn

Nigeria sha..

When lots of countries put Nursing/Pregnant mothers first..

Some countries give 1 year maternity leave.. guess 9ja is getting there..

But I assure you.. If you boss is a man.. U will not have dis type of problems..

Women are their own problems..

I once worked in an organization were a woman was our boss.. a lady took her 3 months maternity leave earlier because of the complications that came with the pregnancy, do you know that... the lady's baby was not 2 months old.. when our boss started raining fire for her to return to work.. when the woman didnt come.. she reported her to the Area office then...

Last Bullet: Strive/Hold on/Endure/Stay Strong 2 months will soon come to an end... Meanwhile apply for some days off to take care of ur baby..

GoodLuck!

Life First . don't forget that if you loose your baby the work still continues . to me I wld say just do ur work when u see it seems u need to be around ur baby fucking let them know and proceed to tend to ur baby either with their permission or not.

When its court time even the judge will understand that u needed to attend to u little soul .

Sorry ma help on the way

I will comment when as a man, my wife give me belle and I born a baby girl...

You can take a leave and continue when your baby is stronger. Write your office about it.

Women re enemy of themselves. they don't like themselves. l prefer working with men. Sister hold on two months is almost at hand .GOD will see u & ur baby through. Nothing will happen to her.

cosmatika:
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