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Hi guyz,

I am 25 years old and I have never been in a proper relationship before. Considering the age and some goals I have set for my self I find it troubling to be at that age and yet have no idea or understanding of how a proper dedicated relationship works. I am not the shy type when it comes to chiking I give u words sharply and burst ur bubbles real quick.

Most times I find myself liking and approaching any girl that I simply admire and come across and such attitude has landed me in a situation where I can not concentrate to develop a proper relationship....

So the guyz and chicks in the house what advice can u give to me

Note: I am not been proud, I just happened to be lonely in the midst of a happy crowd

Decide to stop random toasting, get urself away from every unserious relationship, build walls around ur heart, decide you would be single for the next one year. Then wait for the girl that will break the walls you will build. Discipline yourself, to stay true and real

Guy you need consult a babalawo o

Gradually you are becoming a player. I beg u deliberately stop before u Wld continue to be a player even at 35. That's how it starts. Why toast those girls when u need nothing from them. Decide to find one girl that u truly like and all that and feed her with all those emotions and all. When u feel like hitting on other girls, instead pick ur phone n call that same girl or hang out with her by that time. Love after the first phase of falling in love is a commmitment. If not how would u live for years in marriage with one lady? You need to deliberately work on it. Am saying so cus af met men at 33,35,39 who r still playing. D can't stay with one lady. The come close and withdraw and come close m withdraw...d r old but not emotionally mature...don't be one of them

dharamanil:
Hi guyz,

I am 25 years old and I have never been in a proper relationship before. Considering the age and some goals I have set for my self I find it troubling to be at that age and yet have no idea or understanding of how a proper dedicated relationship works. I am not the shy type when it comes to chiking I give u words sharply and burst ur bubbles real quick.

Most times I find myself liking and approaching any girl that I simply admire and come across and such attitude has landed me in a situation where I can not concentrate to develop a proper relationship....

So the guyz and chicks in the house what advice can u give to me

Note: I am not been proud, I just happened to be lonely in the midst of a happy crowd

Dvicman:
Decide to stop random toasting, get urself away from every unserious relationship, build walls around ur heart, decide you would be single for the next one year. Then wait for the girl that will break the walls you will build. Discipline yourself, to stay true and real

Brotherly that I am currently trying but the moment I go mute start building these walls all them illegal chicks begin to pester me... It's like they all serious @the same time and unserious @the same time.

quote author=fumisko post=55177018]Gradually you are becoming a player. I beg u deliberately stop before u Wld continue to be a player even at 35. That's how it starts. Why toast those girls when u need nothing from them. Decide to find one girl that u truly like and all that and feed her with all those emotions and all. When u feel like hitting on other girls, instead pick ur phone n call that same girl or hang out with her by that time. Love after the first phase of falling in love is a commmitment. If not how would u live for years in marriage with one lady? You need to deliberately work on it. Am saying so cus af met men at 33,35,39 who r still playing. D can't stay with one lady. The come close and withdraw and come close m withdraw...d r old but not emotionally mature...don't be one of them[/quote]#WORD!

Decide that it's the chic u toast n win that u Wld give yourself to. Why should chics be hunting u. Aren't u man enough to hunt a responsible girl that u Wld win over. U Wld value her more. Trust me and d suffering u did to get her Wld make u commit to her. I think dats ur issue..girls throw themselves at u and so u feeli u can have any girl anytime. Better leav those types and find quality girl u would win

dharamanil:
Brotherly that I am currently trying but the moment I go mute start building these walls all them illegal chicks begin to pester me... It's like they all serious @the same time and unserious @the same time.

Hehehe...

Them don turn advisers...