In my opinion, what ladies need in no particular order
1. Love and support
2. Honesty/ Transparency
3. A listening ear
4. Money

What do you think ladies need in a relationship?

And you missed the 'D'



Are we nuns?

MariaLavina:
And you missed the 'D'


Are we nuns?

hmm di*k is very important...

luvyaself95:
hmm di*k is very important...

Very very very important!

What about:
- SECURITY
- COMFORT
- PEACE

MariaLavina:
And you missed the 'D'



Are we nuns?

Sister mi, repent

MrBrownJay1:
What about:
- SECURITY
- COMFORT
- PEACE

-Secure me from what? Some of you can't even stand a woman stronger than you let alone man, So, what's your point there?

MariaLavina:
And you missed the 'D'



Are we nuns?

That's important, within the confines of marriage.

Paxie55:
Sister mi, repent

Pray for me...

Paxie55:

-Secure me from what? Some of you can't even stand a woman stronger than you let alone man, So, what's your point there?

Get your mind out of the gutter....

Security means that your life is in the right place, and that you are not one step away from disaster.
- Many women are employed but their employment ain't secure, and could lose it any minute.
- Many women are dating but a step away from losing their man.
- many woman are fake (pretend to be who they are not), in order to feel desired/wanted, and just a step away from being busted
- many women are empty when they have no man in their lives, because they were brought up to believe that their salvation is to become a "Mrs"

ok

MrBrownJay1:


Get your mind out of the gutter....

Security means that your life is in the right place, and that you are not one step away from disaster.
- Many women are employed but their employment ain't secure, and could lose it any minute.
- Many women are dating but a step away from losing their man.
- many woman are fake (pretend to be who they are not), in order to feel desired/wanted, and just a step away from being busted
- many women are empty when they have no man in their lives, because they were brought up to believe that their salvation is to become a "Mrs"

Your point being?

MrBrownJay1:


Get your mind out of the gutter....

Security means that your life is in the right place, and that you are not one step away from disaster.
- Many women are employed but their employment ain't secure, and could lose it any minute.
- Many women are dating but a step away from losing their man.
- many woman are fake (pretend to be who they are not), in order to feel desired/wanted, and just a step away from being busted
- many women are empty when they have no man in their lives, because they were brought up to believe that their salvation is to become a "Mrs"

So having a man proves all these wrong?

Chi59:
Your point being?

Do you have English comprehension issues?

MariaLavina:
So having a man proves all these wrong?

No at all, because many women have a man, but there is no SECURITY in their r/ ship and are only used for sexual relief, thus a step away from being dropped.

MrBrownJay1:


Do you have English comprehension issues?

Don't be rude Mr.
Your talk of "many women" this and "many women" that is very generic.
What's your point exactly?

MrBrownJay1:


No at all, because many women have a man, but there is no SECURITY in their r/ ship and are only used for sexual relief, thus a step away from being dropped.

Well I don't dispute your points but then Security has to do with One's mental balance. A woman who isn't mentally secure ( I.e one with appropriate level of self esteem and self realization) will never feel Secured no matter how much her partner gives. She will always be in need of assurance on everything. And yes some guys exhibit this character too, sadly the other spouse/partner bears the burden more. Sir you can not give confidence to one who doesn't have, you can only boost the little fragment in that person.


BTW Paxie is right too, some guys can't give the literal security. Some guys no fit throw punch

MariaLavina:
Pray for me...

I will

MariaLavina:
Well I don't dispute your points but then Security has to do with One's mental balance. A woman who isn't mentally secure ( I.e one with appropriate level of self esteem and self realization) will never feel Secured no matter how much her partner gives. She will always be in need of assurance on everything. And yes some guys exhibit this character too, sadly the other spouse/partner bears the burden more. Sir you can not give confidence to one who doesn't have, you can only boost the little fragment in that person.

The fact remains that women need security in their r/ship.... You need to know/feel that your man is yours, you need to know that your man is there for the long run, you need to know/feel that your r/ship is stable, this is what SECURITY is.... Aka that you ain't a step away from being single.

BTW Paxie is right too, some guys can't give the literal security. Some guys no fit throw punch

I wasn't remotely talking about that type of security, as I certainly do NOT believe that this is what women need in a r/ship. The same physical security that this woman needed while single, is exactly the same she needs when dating.

MrBrownJay1:


Do you have English comprehension issues?

This is unfair. You could have let her off easy even though she was rude.

You raised excellent points. Many times, women need intangible things in relationships. Things they didn’t know they needed, until someone with those qualities walked right into their lives.

MariaLavina:
And you missed the 'D'



Are we nuns?

Maria my G


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Altern8:


This is unfair. You could have let her off easy even though she was rude.

You raised excellent points. Many times, women need intangible things in relationships. Things they didn’t know they needed, until someone with those qualities walked right into their lives.

Rude? There was a reason I created this thread. He mentioned security. And I'm like "your point being" and I'm rude?

This never happened anyway. This never happened. I'll pretend I never saw any of this.

Chi59:


Rude? There was a reason I created this thread. He mentioned security. And I'm like "how do you mean" and I'm rude?

You did not say “how do you mean?”. You said:

Chi59:


Your point being?

This reply is curt, at best.

Altern8:


You did not say “how do you mean?”. You said:

This reply is curt, at best.

I just modified my post. Yes, my post was curt, brisk but not rude.
Why do some of you on this platform feel insulted by everything? If you're that old and higher than the rest, why don't you simply deactivate your account?

Chi59:


I just modified my post. Yes, my post was curt, brisk but not rude.
Why do some of you on this platform feel insulted by everything? If you're that old and higher than the rest, why don't you simply deactivate your account?

Lol. Do you even know the meaning of “Curt”?

Look here darling, I’m not in the mood for any brawl. You were rude and he gave you a taste of your own medicine and somehow you found it hard to swallow. That’s your problem.

And why do you think I’m older or “higher” (whatever that means) than the rest? The rest what? Perhaps you observed that I don’t respond like a number of juveniles who entertain you here. Perhaps you should not be too quick to give terse replies. Perhaps you should be open minded.

Altern8:


Lol. Do you even know the meaning of “Curt”?

Look here darling, I’m not in the mood for any brawl. You were rude and he gave you a taste of your own medicine and somehow you found it hard to swallow. That’s your problem.

And why do you think I’m older or “higher” (whatever that means) than the rest? The rest what? Perhaps you observed that I don’t respond like a number of juveniles who entertain you here. Perhaps you should not be too quick to give terse replies. Perhaps you should be open minded.

"Your point being?" is a question
"That's a stupid point" is an insult.

I created this thread to deal with the issues concerning what females need in a relationship.
He raised the issue of security and I wasn't exactly getting his point so I asked to know.

You, my friend have no point. A taste of my medicine? Bollocks. Take several seats, please.

Do not attempt to derail this thread any further.

Altern8:


Lol. Do you even know the meaning of “Curt”?

Look here darling, I’m not in the mood for any brawl. You were rude and he gave you a taste of your own medicine and somehow you found it hard to swallow. That’s your problem.

And why do you think I’m older or “higher” (whatever that means) than the rest? The rest what? Perhaps you observed that I don’t respond like a number of juveniles who entertain you here. Perhaps you should not be too quick to give terse replies. Perhaps you should be open minded.

wow! just wow! do we still have your type in this forum? where were you hiding? abet follow back

This thread is not a male Vs female shindig.
Neither is it an opportunity to bully one another.
I believe we women are highly misunderstood most times.
For many women, I'd say, we do know exactly what we want from a relationship most of the time.
The problem is communicating our needs effectively.
More often than not, guys and ladies do not think alike. Hence the problem decoding the information we ladies try to convey.

- Money is key.
-We ladies aren't looking for a man to save us/change us. But someone who recognizes our differences and how to handle it.
-"No" is not "yes" to many ladies out there.
And "yes" isn't "no" either.
- Ladies lie about losing their virginity to rape mostly cos that's what society prefers to hear.
Heck, the only women who are open about their sex life and body counts are called ashawo.
- No, women aren't Saints. And yes, we can't do without the men.

MariaLavina:
Very very very important!

Pu**y is also important

Chi59:
This thread is not a male Vs female shindig.
Neither is it an opportunity to bully one another.
I believe we women are highly misunderstood most times.
For many women, I'd say, we do know exactly what we want from a relationship most of the time.
The problem is communicating our needs effectively.
More often than not, guys and ladies do not think alike. Hence the problem decoding the information we ladies try to convey.

- Money is key.
-We ladies aren't looking for a man to save us/change us. But someone who recognizes our differences and how to handle it.
-"No" is not "yes" to many ladies out there.
And "yes" isn't "no" either.
- Ladies lie about losing their virginity to rape mostly cos that's what society prefers to hear.
Heck, the only women who are open about their sex life and body counts are called ashawo.
- No, women aren't Saints. And yes, we can't do without the men.

lol... speak for yourself...
Association of women...

Ryan03:
wow! just wow! do we still have your type in this forum? where were you hiding? abet follow back

Following back straight!

viccipedia:
lol... speak for yourself...
Association of women...

Whareva