₦airaland Forum

alizma:
one thing I have also discovered is that most of the women clamouring for equality have failed in their duties as women. most of them can cook well, they can't take care of kids properly neither are they good in bed. in a bid to defend their weakness they want to be equated to men when they have not even excel in their assigned destiny. mtcheeew.

Did you just describe ur wife? Why did you marry her if she cannot do all that?

Junior66:
Please touch not my anointed and leave the pastor alone. Pls dnt involve de police o incase MOG will rain causes on you. Do not judge him because he is an MOG. MOGs are anointed by God so they can never do wrong. God de their back. lolssssss

Wetin you smoke?

IN AS MUCH AS I WOULDN'T LIKE TO CONDEMN THIS PASTOR OUTRIGHTLY, I WISH TO ADVICE HIM TO CONTROL HIS TEMPER. MINISTERS WIVES ARE SOMETHING ELSE EXCEPT FEW. MOST OF THEM WILL INSULT YOU BECAUSE THEY BELIEVE YOU WILL NOT BEAT THEM THEREBY DENTING YOUR IMAGE, SOME STARVE THEIR HUSBAND SEX BECAUSE THEY KNOW THEY WILL NEVER LOOK OUTSIDE WHICH THE WEAK END UP BEING A VICTIM OF ADULTERY, THEY CAN EVEN CURSE, STARVE THEM OF FOOD BECAUSE THEY KNOW HE WILL NEVER DIVORCE THEM & TROUBLESOME BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU WILL NOT TELL ANYONE.
THOUGH ALL THESE THINGS ARE WORKS OF THE DEVILS OR FORCES THAT THE MINISTERS FOUGHT IN THE CAUSE OF THEIR MINISTERIAL WORK, MINISTERS MUST ASK FOR THE GRACE TO WIN THE SITUATION. PLEASE WE MUST BE CAREFUL OF WHAT WE SAY WHEN WE HEAR CASES LIKE THIS FOR MOST OF YOU WILL NEVER TOLERATE A BIT OF WHAT THEY FACE IN THEIR MARRIAGES. I HEREBY CONDEMN THIS KIND OF MANHANDLING & PRAY FOR PEACE IN THEIR HOMES.

Svelte98:
Thats the most stupid comment i"ve ever read on NL. Only insecure,sadistic,wicked,weak and foolish men beat their wives. If she isnt submissive enough for you,take her back to her parents and go find yourself a submissive woman. You think youre a man abi? go and start beating up thugs on the street or pick a fight with your fellow man,lets see..#sideEyes#

hmm must u insult? when u insult, he will slap and u will come here and complain. will u keep quiet?

Pieromania:
Women should learn to be submissive to their husband,that is the problem of women of this days especially Nigerian women.This ego of 'we are all equal' has made most marriages miserable.That he is a pastor does not make him less a human

Hmmm.... so if it is true that she was not submissive.... she should be battered into submission?... and that nonsense that afterall he is also human.... then why is he acting like a beast savage? Don't you know pastors are held to higher standards?... or they tore those pages out your Bible? If he cannot control his family he should step down from being pastor or position in the church.... and that's Biblical. Wolf in sheep's clothing....but the blind can explain.

informant001:
Pictured is a woman identified as Beauty Wilson who is said to be a victim of domestic violence by her husband who is a pastor. According to Phillip Obin who shared this, the woman's husband nearly killed her with beating yesterday after threatening to kill her and marry another woman. The husband has reportedly seized her phone and has also driven her out of their home without her 3 kids.

Read what Phillip shared on Facebook;

"Her name is Beauty Wilson. Her husband is a Pastor with Winners chapel, Ugonoba Branch in Benin City. Attached is her pictures. You can reach her brother via. He has seized her phone and drove her out without her 3 kids. He also pull her hairs off over a very minor issue. This isn't the first time. He told her not too long ago that he would kill her and marry another woman. He almost carried out that threat today.

The husband's phone no is . His name is Pastor Matthew Wilson. I can be reached also. She is my sister"

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2017/04/benin-pastor-descends-on-his-wife-after.html

Atum is great. The thummim is true...confusion in xtianity because Yahweh(satan) is now in a spiritual cage.

baddosky1:
The bolded uncouth comments from you goes a long way to prove that what Pieromania said is certainly true! May God deliver us from bad and uncivil women roaming the streets these days!

Just look how uncouth she sounds,u cn imagine what this kind of woman will be at home

pocohantas:
Shattap!
Especially which Nigerian women? African women are trained right from birth to worship men. You think you know more than the numerous Nigerian guys coming back every Xmas to pick wives? In saner climes, lots of you Nigerian men would be rotting in jail for various degrees of assault. That's why after ranting, you guys still marry Nigerian women. Only them can tolerate your big sh!it.

If a woman isn't submissive you do away with her and marry a submissive wife. You don't go beating your wife like an animal, even animals have rights these days. What if she dies in the process? Would anyone will listen to your story that she isn't submissive?

Hypocrites, when a woman's husband cheats on her, being emotional abuse...they advise her to pray. Then turn around to justify domestic violence, claiming it's the right punishment for verbal abuse. How do you know she isn't submissive? Maybe couples should start going physical on each other for every issue in the marriage. Let's see if the death rate in Nigeria won't rise...

Babez, if you see a good Nigerian man, hold am tight o. At this rate, the value of some Nigerian men would soon be like Zimbabwean dollars that year.

You all should keep quoting me, be rest assured you won't be dignified with a response.

See them, tomorrow they will start calling man man man.

Saao:
hmm must u insult? when u insult, he will slap and u will come here and complain. will u keep quiet?

Where did you see me insult him from that write up? I said its only insecure,weak,sadistic and foolish men who beat their wives. But if you fall into that category,well....

positivelord:
married in church....divorced in facebook

not funny

glossyj:
don't worry,u have a sister or u will have a daughter. Teach her to be submissive no no teach her to be a slave to her husband.what of those wife that are submissive but still experience this domestic violence?

If a woman is submissive and still being abuse domestically, then something is definitely wrong with the man.

This is one area social services & family courts need to do better. If a marriage deteriorate to this extent, peacefully separate, joint custody/visitation rights can then be negotiated to favour the kids.
Oga must then provide to the best of his abilities for the kids. There is absolutely no need this show of shame na!

pocohantas:
Shattap!
Especially which Nigerian women? African women are trained right from birth to worship men. You think you know more than the numerous Nigerian guys coming back every Xmas to pick wives? In saner climes, lots of you Nigerian men would be rotting in jail for various degrees of assault. That's why after ranting, you guys still marry Nigerian women. Only them can tolerate your big sh!it.

If a woman isn't submissive you do away with her and marry a submissive wife. You don't go beating your wife like an animal, even animals have rights these days. What if she dies in the process? Would anyone will listen to your story that she isn't submissive?

Hypocrites, when a woman's husband cheats on her, being emotional abuse...they advise her to pray. Then turn around to justify domestic violence, claiming it's the right punishment for verbal abuse. How do you know she isn't submissive? Maybe couples should start going physical on each other for every issue in the marriage. Let's see if the death rate in Nigeria won't rise...

Babez, if you see a good Nigerian man, hold am tight o. At this rate, the value of some Nigerian men would soon be like Zimbabwean dollars that year.

You all should keep quoting me, be rest assured you won't be dignified with a response.

Thank you! Thank you. Some uncouth men will always find some useless excuse of ''she is not submissive''. In their myopic mind, submissiveness equals being treated worse than a rag while the woman keeps mute and prays for change that will never come.

I encourage women to learn self defense. Most of these nonsense wouldn't happen if a woman can defend herself..

megareal:
Thank you! Thank you. Some uncouth men will always find some useless excuse of ''she is not submissive''. In their myopic mind, submissiveness equals being treated worse than a rag while the woman keeps mute and prays for change that will never come.

I encourage women to learn self defense. Most of these nonsense wouldn't happen if a woman can defend herself..

Don't mind them, they claim women are the insulting ones. Isn't it this same NL where guys insult ladies on front page with reckless abandon? But if it's a woman doing the insulting, they will jump on your posts to tell you how they pity your man.

I told that one to shattap, ain't taking it back...I no come NL to find husband.

Svelte98:
Where did you see me insult him from that write up? I said its only insecure,weak,sadistic and foolish men who beat their wives. But if you fall into that category,well....

my sis, i won't be there when it will happen, don't give us assignment on nl. park well abeg.

lilyheaven:
Did you just describe ur wife? Why did you marry her if she cannot do all that?

for your question, the answer is no.
my comment pain you abi? sorry you hear. just make some adjustments and that will be all. before you clamour for equality, make sure you are sure of yourself to effectively discharge your duty as a woman first.

Pieromania:
Women should learn to be submissive to their husband,that is the problem of women of this days especially Nigerian women.This ego of 'we are all equal' has made most marriages miserable.That he is a pastor does not make him less a human

the most reasonable mention form April 1st

No matter what d woman may have done, a man has no right to beat up a woman nt to even say his wife. Na wa oo, with all this i dey even fear to marry sef

pocohantas:
Shattap!yes...I told him to shattap! It's better to be silent, that open your mouth and display your stupidity. It's not an insult, it's an order. I'm doing him good

Especially which Nigerian women? African women are trained right from birth to worship men. You think you know more than the numerous Nigerian guys coming back every Xmas to pick wives? In saner climes, lots of you Nigerian men would be rotting in jail for various degrees of assault. That's why after ranting, you guys still marry Nigerian women. Only them can tolerate your big sh!it.

If a woman isn't submissive you do away with her and marry a submissive wife. You don't go beating your wife like an animal, even animals have rights these days. What if she dies in the process? Would anyone will listen to your story that she isn't submissive?

Hypocrites, when a woman's husband cheats on her, being emotional abuse...they advise her to pray. Then turn around to justify domestic violence, claiming it's the right punishment for verbal abuse. How do you know she isn't submissive? Maybe couples should start going physical on each other for every issue in the marriage. Let's see if the death rate in Nigeria won't rise...

Babez, if you see a good Nigerian man, hold am tight o. At this rate, the value of some Nigerian men would soon be like Zimbabwean dollars that year.

You all should keep quoting me, be rest assured you won't be dignified with a response.

I am leaning ..

abdulaz:
And I'm sure he preached to some sheeples yesterday and collected their offerings and tithes.

Religion is fraud.

Don't talk ignorantly. Its the same you that when faced with danger will cry to God to save you. Most men of God if not careful end up marrying demonic wives. Same for the women too cuz Satan knows that if he gets you there u r done. There is no true man of God that will not have been confronted by a strange woman with a prospect for marriage, it takes discernment andnGod's grace to escape it. Some fall victim and are messed up for life. Such spouses wikk frustrate him or her, and when pushed to extremes like this...things like this happen. I've seen cases where a lady boldly told her husband she is possessed and will kill him if he misbehaves..that is in front of me and an elderly minister. You don't know what it means to be a pastor...so forget it.
PS the man might be wrong too....but don't be quick to condemn

Saao:
my sis, i won't be there when it will happen, don't give us assignment on nl. park well abeg.

#confusedFellow# You dont even know when youre mis-yarning.

dragonking3:
But Jesus also vexed and flogged people for selling something in church.

Thank you

Svelte98:
#confusedFellow# You dont even know when youre mis-yarning.

good luck.

Carth678:
Keep quiet you don't know what goes on in homes. Just shut up

look at this idiot!!! just because your father abuses your mother does not mean your pastor should emulate them.

If ur bitch fvck up reset her brain with heavy slap[b][/b][color=#550000][/color]

Junior66:
Please touch not my anointed and leave the pastor alone. Pls dnt involve de police o incase MOG will rain causes on you. Do not judge him because he is an MOG. MOGs are anointed by God so they can never do wrong. God de their back. lolssssss

Abeg someone, explain wetin this one dey talk.

Likei:
look at this idiot!!! just because your father abuses your mother does not mean your pastor should emulate them.

don't worry God go bless u with 5 daughters.................. AMEN.

Saao:
good luck.

Same to you bro.

Adadioranma79:
I enjoy being troublesome at home, yet my man has never laid a finger on me for almost a decade we have known each other. Instead I feel very guilty and ashamed knowing no matter how hard I try, he ll never belittle himself to beating me his very body and soul mate. Some men are just sorry case Biko.

U enjoy being troublesome. Hope u will enjoy it when you bring out the beast in him...then u start making ur marriage prayer point or start crying foul in social media.
Have u ever thought about how he feels? Do u ever think that after a rough day outside trying to provide for you, you can at least give him peace at home, and the other goodies? Just check out your reasoning. Keep on like this until he finds peace elsewhere

Pieromania:
Women should learn to be submissive to their husband,that is the problem of women of this days especially Nigerian women.This ego of 'we are all equal' has made most marriages miserable.That he is a pastor does not make him less a human

Why should an adult be submissive to another another adult? Are women goats or is marriage slavery? That's only when submitting can be in the same sentence as marriage. Even children do not submit, as parents tou can only guide, ultimately the pave their future.

Pieromania:
Women should learn to be submissive to their husband,that is the problem of women of this days especially Nigerian women.This ego of 'we are all equal' has made most marriages miserable.That he is a pastor does not make him less a human

Rubbish, so who told you a man has the right to beat his wife. You are wicked!

Marriage is an institution that gives Nigerian men the license to turn a woman into a punching bag and even kill her if care is not taken. And the victims on the other hand would rather stay put in a life-threatening marriage and be killed than to walk away. Nor be today belle face front!