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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by fergie001: 10:26am On Apr 08, 2017
Griffon:
I can relate with these signs b'cos I've been in a relationship that was on the brink of collapse.

But then, something can be done to restore the no longer existing feelings, and that's a very good round of sex. I don't know about you but this works wonders.

Getting laid in a good way has a way of reminding you emotionally detached two what you stand to lose when the relationship is over hence the need to repair the cracks on the relationship.

Getting laid in a good way also tend to create a bond between you two, a bond that has ceased to exist in your relationship.

A doggy in the tub with my then emotionally detached chick, was all I needed to breathe a new lease of life into our dying relationship. She bought me a new shirt and perfume the next day, something she hadn't done in nearly four months.

Guess that banging sent signals grin grin grin
The OP's assertion is dope.
Yours is even even better.
I am in a rship on d brink of collapse and I am the one initiating all those above.The babe don tire me,and she no wan use ur formula so I have initiated rule 6 and 7 vigorously.
grin

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Odunharry(m): 10:27am On Apr 08, 2017
Griffon:
I can relate with these signs b'cos I've been in a relationship that was on the brink of collapse.

But then, something can be done to restore the no longer existing feelings, and that's a very good round of sex. I don't know about you but this works wonders.

Getting laid in a good way has a way of reminding you emotionally detached two what you stand to lose when the relationship is over hence the need to repair the cracks on the relationship.

Getting laid in a good way also tend to create a bond between you two, a bond that has ceased to exist in your relationship.

A doggy in the tub with my then emotionally detached chick, was all I needed to breathe a new lease of life into our dying relationship. She bought me a new shirt and perfume the next day, something she hadn't done in nearly four months.

Guess that banging sent signals grin grin grin
Very true.
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by smartty68(m): 10:28am On Apr 08, 2017
Homeboiy:
That is why u should fúck any girl u meet wella before she passes the pu§sy to another niggá


Hmmm my gf don suffer


fúck love. nothing like love

play along till u tired mehn
Person dey follow wait for your daughter

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Lexusgs430: 10:29am On Apr 08, 2017
iamadonis2:
Odimma. 80% of the points raised above reflect my current relationship. And now, I don't need an Ifa Priest to tell me I'll be without a main chick in about three days kiss

Not to worry if you lose the main chick. Simply upgrade one of the many side chick's to the main chicken.......

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by egorov(m): 10:31am On Apr 08, 2017
Yes. It's happening now
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Lexusgs430: 10:32am On Apr 08, 2017
Griffon:
I can relate with these signs b'cos I've been in a relationship that was on the brink of collapse.

But then, something can be done to restore the no longer existing feelings, and that's a very good round of sex. I don't know about you but this works wonders.

Getting laid in a good way has a way of reminding you emotionally detached two what you stand to lose when the relationship is over hence the need to repair the cracks on the relationship.

Getting laid in a good way also tend to create a bond between you two, a bond that has ceased to exist in your relationship.

A doggy in the tub with my then emotionally detached chick, was all I needed to breathe a new lease of life into our dying relationship. She bought me a new shirt and perfume the next day, something she hadn't done in nearly four months.

Guess that banging sent signals grin grin grin

You don't have to go through all this. Simply apply Okafor's law.........
While applying the said law, be on the hunt for another tokunbo (to be used, bruised and abused)......

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by tygar(m): 10:33am On Apr 08, 2017
iamadonis2:
Odimma. 80% of the points raised above reflect my current relationship. And now, I don't need an Ifa Priest to tell me I'll be without a main chick in about three days kiss
lmao
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by AmaechiLinus(m): 10:36am On Apr 08, 2017
Chinekeeeeeeee


So mine is getting over and I don't know
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by sweetilicious(f): 10:36am On Apr 08, 2017
Odunharry:
4 and 7 so true..
As a lady, once a guy keeps telling you he is so busy for you,(Staying for weeks without calling )try as much as possible to talk to him.

High chance he has lost interest.
Thank you so much.My heart is at peace now. I had many questions lingering for answers.I feel so cheap and used.I feel so bad now.
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by muhammadmuqtada(m): 10:37am On Apr 08, 2017
Griffon:
I can relate with these signs b'cos I've been in a relationship that was on the brink of collapse.

But then, something can be done to restore the no longer existing feelings, and that's a very good round of sex. I don't know about you but this works wonders.

Getting laid in a good way has a way of reminding you emotionally detached two what you stand to lose when the relationship is over hence the need to repair the cracks on the relationship.

Getting laid in a good way also tend to create a bond between you two, a bond that has ceased to exist in your relationship.

A doggy in the tub with my then emotionally detached chick, was all I needed to breathe a new lease of life into our dying relationship. She bought me a new shirt and perfume the next day, something she hadn't done in nearly four months.

Guess that banging sent signals grin grin grin
once you both get addicted to using sex to resolve disputes then you're on red alert.

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by BermudaTriangle(m): 10:39am On Apr 08, 2017
obiorathesubtle:
Im one of the legendary relationship screw ups who don't need this..


So..
.

I take leave now



Experience ?
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Wolexdey(m): 10:41am On Apr 08, 2017
Alesandese:
I stopped feeling sorry for people who complain of heartbreaks when I realized that most times, people who can't manage themselves emotionally want to manage another. undecided undecided


Well said...
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by ElsonMorali: 10:41am On Apr 08, 2017
You both are more online on various social media (probably checking out other dudes and dudesses ) instead of spending time with each other.
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Odunharry(m): 10:42am On Apr 08, 2017
sweetilicious:
Thank you so much.My heart is at peace now. I had many questions lingering for answers.I feel so cheap and used.I feel so bad now.
Don't generalise dear.. Chances are that he's very busy and the kind of job he does do should be taking into consideration.
You also needs to check your actions in the past too.

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by ElsonMorali: 10:44am On Apr 08, 2017
sweetilicious:
Thank you so much.My heart is at peace now. I had many questions lingering for answers.I feel so cheap and used.I feel so bad now.

How do you reconcile those two bolded statements?

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Johnhug66(m): 10:47am On Apr 08, 2017
Griffon:
I can relate with these signs b'cos I've been in a relationship that was on the brink of collapse.

But then, something can be done to restore the no longer existing feelings, and that's a very good round of sex. I don't know about you but this works wonders.

Getting laid in a good way has a way of reminding you emotionally detached two what you stand to lose when the relationship is over hence the need to repair the cracks on the relationship.

Getting laid in a good way also tend to create a bond between you two, a bond that has ceased to exist in your relationship.

A doggy in the tub with my then emotionally detached chick, was all I needed to breathe a new lease of life into our dying relationship. She bought me a new shirt and perfume the next day, something she hadn't done in nearly four months.

Guess that banging sent signals grin grin grin
grin
Griffon:
I can relate with these signs b'cos I've been in a relationship that was on the brink of collapse.

But then, something can be done to restore the no longer existing feelings, and that's a very good round of sex. I don't know about you but this works wonders.

Getting laid in a good way has a way of reminding you emotionally detached two what you stand to lose when the relationship is over hence the need to repair the cracks on the relationship.

Getting laid in a good way also tend to create a bond between you two, a bond that has ceased to exist in your relationship.

A doggy in the tub with my then emotionally detached chick, was all I needed to breathe a new lease of life into our dying relationship. She bought me a new shirt and perfume the next day, something she hadn't done in nearly four months.

Guess that banging sent signals grin grin grin
ELECTROVALENT bond it must be,a strong one

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by holluphemydavid(m): 10:48am On Apr 08, 2017
I tink am a victim of dis, cos I giv no Bleep anymore
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Nobody: 10:54am On Apr 08, 2017
I can completely relate to this....
Perhaps it's better to let go.#Peace is king.
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by openmine(m): 10:54am On Apr 08, 2017
True!!
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by LordIsaac(m): 10:54am On Apr 08, 2017
I 100% concur!
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 08, 2017
Super true!...# 've been there, done that!
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by bitcoinvin(m): 11:00am On Apr 08, 2017
Homeboiy:
That is why u should fúck any girl u meet wella before she passes the pu§sy to another niggá


Hmmm my gf don suffer


fúck love. nothing like love

play along till u tired mehn

true,there is notin like Love serious...
When u have a slay queen as a GL,is there anytin like love?
I ve sworn never to Fall in love with any woman again in life cos NO WOMAN is worth LOVING....i see everywoman as a side chick whom must be bleeped very well.
The only reason we get hurt is when we take any woman,slay queen serious in Life...
No woman is worTH Loving....

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by noble71(m): 11:02am On Apr 08, 2017
another sign is when there is no money.

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by bitcoinvin(m): 11:02am On Apr 08, 2017
When u have a slay queen as a GL,is there anytin like love?
I ve sworn never to Fall in love with any woman again in life cos NO WOMAN is worth LOVING....i see everywoman as a side chick whom must be bleeped very well.
The only reason we get hurt is when we take any woman,slay queen serious in Life...
No woman is worTH Loving....
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by namkko99: 11:04am On Apr 08, 2017
Relationship ke relationship ni
am only in love with my coding

u stay in lagos, u love programming, u want to hangout with fellow programmers, you want to meet prodigy programmers
call - 07038561877

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Nobody: 11:05am On Apr 08, 2017
sweetilicious:
Thank you so much.My heart is at peace now. I had many questions lingering for answers.I feel so cheap and used.I feel so bad now.
Aww, this touched me. Don't feel used dear!, just move on if he isn't serious with you.
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by bayocanny: 11:07am On Apr 08, 2017
ToriBlue:
It starts with number 7.
You can relate abi?
Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Nobody: 11:07am On Apr 08, 2017
When a b*tch is done, ain't NOTHING!..
I repeat...NOTHING can make her stay!
Quote me anywhere.

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by bayocanny: 11:09am On Apr 08, 2017
tstx:
How would this help me get an Independent girlfriend...
You are still young, hustle first, when money land they(gehs) will flock around you like bees

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by toyeanlawlah(f): 11:14am On Apr 08, 2017
OP, what if you see these signs right at the beginning of your relationship? Does it mean relationship never start

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Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by Nobody: 11:14am On Apr 08, 2017
sweetilicious:
Thank you so much.My heart is at peace now. I had many questions lingering for answers.I feel so cheap and used.I feel so bad now.

Take heart.

Re: Signs Your Relationship Is Over Before It Is Officially Over by whiteeyes: 11:15am On Apr 08, 2017
importexpert:
There is never a jolly good ride in any relationship. Every relationship surely has its ups and downs; and a large part of the time, it is due to individual differences.

However, some relationships are basically over even before the real break up happens. Both partners may have sensed it coming and just ignore it rather than try to rejuvenate the relationship.
Like someone said, “you need to know when a relationship is over so you don’t try to keep raising the dead. You need to know when it is dead.”

Here are the most common signs of a relationship with an impending end.

1. No more jealousy: This is one of the very first sign of a bad relationship. Healthy jealousy is one of the mutual characteristics of lovers. It shows that you have marked that person as your own. If anyone tries to trespass, you will often feel jealous because you feel your partner is your territory. But should there be a time that you or your partner stops feeling jealous about each other, it is a serious sign. It means your partner has concluded that he/she can do without you. It’s like the famous saying, “good riddance to bad rubbish”.

2. You both stop doing the little things: You will agree with me that most of the best things in a relationship happen when your partner does little things for you that you can probably even do by yourself. Why is it so? Because you were not expecting it but he/she did it anyway. When you and your partner quit doing little things that you have done for each other, it often means that you no longer see each other as special like before.

3. One partner is holding out: A relationship is between two people and it requires the efforts and inputs of the two partners to succeed. It is a known fact already that a one sided relationship cannot survive. So, in a situation where only one partner is now doing everything in a relationship, it means the other partner feels the relationship is not worth their time or energy. Guess which of the partner is most likely going to be trying to make things work? It is the partner who invested the most!

4. Communication dwindles: Usually, a relationship between two people makes them very close friends (or most times, best friends) and this means that they can talk to each other a lot about almost everything. In the same vein, they are able to discuss their feelings, future plans and other heart-to-heart talks. But if the relationship is about to end, reverse will be the case. There may be “hellos” and the usual “how are you doing” conversations but that is about all the discussion gets. One partner or the two partners just withdraw from the real essence of the communication they once shared.

5. Irritation kicks in: When two people are in love, they are usually excited about each other’s attraction and tolerant of each other’s weaknesses and shortcomings. But when the relationship gets sour, even the very thing that attracted them to each other can become a source of irritation. A partner who was admired because he was often quiet may soon be resented by the other because he rarely talks. Worse still, even casual things may cause you or your partner to be angry with each other. Once this kicks in and it is not resolved, it can be a big hole in the relationship.

6. Relationship Sabotage: This is obviously the cruelest sign in the list. When one partner is tired of the relationship but does not want to initiate the break up, the partner may begin to do things that will get the other partner angry. What is the goal? To push the other to the point of least resistance. If the person finally decides to quit, the aim is achieved. On the other hand, if the partner tolerates it, the resentment will just get bigger. So, if your partner is doing anything like this, he or she just wants to push you to the brink to do the break up yourself.

7. Your partner gets busy: This is the ultimate sign. Everybody is busy with one thing or the other. We just always create time for those who we believe are worth it. So, if your partner becomes so busy all of a sudden that you both rarely spend time together; it could be an indication that he/she is no longer interested in the relationship. People tend to avoid what they cannot deal with.

If at least four of these signs shows up in a relationship, you should know that the end is near. Every faulty relationship can be worked out but if your partner’s heart is no longer there, there is no amount of sweet talking or kind gestures that will bring them back.
Absolutely correct analysis. As for me, despite the fact that all these things are happening to me, I've decided to be happy, hanging out with friends and vigorously making money.
No man born of a woman can frustrate me, I'll rather give you the Bp you want to give me!!!

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