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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Apr 12, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


What's this thread about really?! undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

A thread for apons....

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Apr 12, 2017
AbdelKabir:


A thread for apons....

Oh!!
AponHood7.0 kiss kiss kiss

I'm still in my late AponHood o. I need wife(s) asap. I need to leave u guys behind jere. I deserve it, yes Aboo Uthaymeen? cool undecided undecided

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 10:08pm On Apr 12, 2017
We are into this together. Nobody is leaving unannounced angry angry

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 10:10pm On Apr 12, 2017
busar:
We are into this together. Nobody is leaving unannounced angry angry

You be president for your branch?
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 10:11pm On Apr 12, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


Oh!!
AponHood7.0 kiss kiss kiss

I'm still in my late AponHood o. I need wife(s) asap. I need to leave u guys behind jere. I deserve it, yes Aboo Uthaymeen? cool undecided undecided

You better be fast before I beat you to it....toor
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Apr 12, 2017
AbdelKabir:


You better be fast before I beat you to it....toor

I don't get source of income dat 's y cry.

E dey my mind o, gaskia.
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Apr 12, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


I don't get source of income dat 's y cry.

Subhanallaah..... May Allaah provide one for you soonest.... Insha Allaah,.... Allaah's time is the best...[/quote]

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 10:16pm On Apr 12, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


I don't get source of income dat 's y cry.

E dey my mind o, gaskia.
haba! Just look for a sister that has "agboye" now. You will feed her with dates and water.... grin grin
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 10:18pm On Apr 12, 2017
AbdelKabir:


You be president for your branch?
I will not answer that angry
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 2:14am On Apr 13, 2017
Jazakallahu khyran AbdelKabir.

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 5:42am On Apr 13, 2017
IF YOU FIND A GOOD WOMAN...
A whole lot of men don't know how to identify a good woman. They're busy looking for Ms. Perfect, while they are nowhere close to being Mr. Right themselves. They expect her to be level-headed, dropdead gorgeous, good in the kitchen, great in bed and yet, never grow old!
Perfect women are not in this world. They are in Paradise. But good women do exist. They're everywhere; you just need to look closer. The caveat is that, some are ready-made while the majority are raw. The raw one requires some refining with lots of patience. Give her some time, and that's it!
A good woman requires consistent maintenance and a handsome sustenance, to remain as good as new. In fact, she can be better; she can be excellent (not perfect). All she needs is your support.
A good woman is not a flawless woman. She will mess up sometimes. She will add too little or too much salt in your food. She will have mood swings and throw tantrums. She will get angry and speak harshly. She will complain about flimsy things. She will get jealous. She will get tired and sick. She will cry and you won't know why...
A good woman is not an angel. She is human. She has blood flowing in her veins. She has natural instincts. She has needs. She has cravings. She is a creature; accountable to the Creator. She has a life to live with or without you. This, you must understand. This, you must accept.
A good woman is a righteous wife as described by the Prophet (saw)... "This world is all temporary convenience, and the greatest joy in this life is a righteous wife". (Saheeh Muslim, 1468). A righteous woman believes in Allaah and His Messenger, obeys His do's and eschews His don'ts. She might not be sinless, but she always hastens to repent. She might not be an Haafidho, but she always reads her Qur'an. She might not fast on every 13th-15th, but she is very generous...
If you find a good woman, hold her real tight. Don't let her slip away. Guide her wisely and correct her gently. Let her grow. Let her feel comfortable. Let her feel loved. In short, be to her, a good man.
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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:21am On Apr 13, 2017
Why does a woman when being asked by the husband what's wrong for looking upset, she says nothing yet she doesn't smile the whole day, doesn't sleep at night, when you ask her again why are you not sleeping, she says nothing once again....

Is this how women are wired or what?

This thing kills men.....

#JustTryingToLearn

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:50am On Apr 13, 2017
busar:
haba! Just look for a sister that has "agboye" now. You will feed her with dates and water.... grin grin

Lol, u r right by Allaah. It's quite funny but true.

An 'Agboye-d' sister is the best, Wallaah.

Emi eyan gan a Wa relaxed!!!!

Barakallahu feekum akhee to sahih. grin cheesy grin

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:52am On Apr 13, 2017
No. But sometimes, ( I can only speak for myself) I'd expect you to know me well enough to know that you have said something wrong. That being mentioned, if you asked I will tell you exactly what you did wrong and why I am upset. If you didn't realize and didn't ask, I will change my behaviour a little to hint you. So maybe I will stop calling you sweet names and things. If that doesn't work then I will tell you we need to talk and talk about it. I think I am pretty verbal about my emotions.
Your post reminded me of my friend who wanted to cancel her marriage with someone. At the end of the conversation I had with her, I was just like..... women can be so dramatic and complicate things.
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:52am On Apr 13, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


Lol, u r right by Allaah. It's quite funny but true.

An 'Agboye-d' sister is the best, Wallaah.

Emi eyan gan a Wa relaxed!!!!

Barakallahu feekum akhee to sahih. grin cheesy grin

What does agboye sister mean?
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:53am On Apr 13, 2017
AbdelKabir:


Subhanallaah..... May Allaah provide one for you soonest.... Insha Allaah,.... Allaah's time is the best...

Ameen ameen Ameen, Wa antum.

Our Rabb's time is indeed the best. smiley

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:55am On Apr 13, 2017
snapscore:


What does agboye sister mean?

agboye=to have knowledge of the salaf n act accordingly.

Sister is ukhtii

Therefore agboye sister is a sister on d path of salaf al Salih cool cool cool

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:57am On Apr 13, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


agboye=to have knowledge of the salaf n act accordingly.

Sister is ukhtii

Therefore agboye sister idea sister on d path of salaf al Salih cool cool cool

I understand the sister bit lol.

Is agboye a yoruba word? *thats how I read it*
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 6:58am On Apr 13, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


Lol, u r right by Allaah. It's quite funny but true.

An 'Agboye-d' sister is the best, Wallaah.

Emi eyan gan a Wa relaxed!!!!

Barakallahu feekum akhee to sahih. grin cheesy grin
I pity you undecided
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:01am On Apr 13, 2017
busar:
I pity you undecided

Pity me bi ti bo?
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 7:03am On Apr 13, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


Pity me bi ti bo?
Agboye can't really solve this kind of situation most of the time

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:10am On Apr 13, 2017
snapscore:


I understand the sister bit lol.

Is agboye a yoruba word? *thats how I read it*

Yes na.. See yoba lady wey no sabi 'Agboye'o. undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

Eg, phone call Conversation btw Abu Wa Umm Lu'lu
Abu=assalam alaykum warahmatullaah wabarakatuhu Abibi

UMm= Walaykumu salam warahmatullaah wabarakatuhu yah Abibi na kiss kiss

ABu= Help me give Lu'lu that 150 Riyadh to buy her madrasa stuff, shey on GBO MI YE ?

umm= AGBOYE Ooo yah abibi'L kareem


I try, yes? undecided
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:11am On Apr 13, 2017
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No. But sometimes, ( I can only speak for myself) I'd expect you to know me well enough to know that you have said something wrong. That being mentioned, if you asked I will tell you exactly what you did wrong and why I am upset. If you didn't realize and didn't ask, I will change my behaviour a little to hint you. So maybe I will stop calling you sweet names and things. If that doesn't work then I will tell you we need to talk and talk about it. I think I am pretty verbal about my emotions.

This is why men and women different وليس الذكر كالأنثى

Had it been men, he would mention what's wrong straight away save a few men, he doesn't need to go through all the stages you just mentioned. A question, is it that you like it when being understood despite being cryptic? If yes, why?

Your post reminded me of my friend who wanted to cancel her marriage with someone. At the end of the conversation I had with her, I was just like..... women can be so dramatic and complicate things.

You can say that again, women are too too dramatic.... This reminds me of a picture I saw on NL on

Its so funny...

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:12am On Apr 13, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


Yes na.. See yoba lady wey no sabi 'Agboye'o. undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

Eg, phone call Conversation btw Abu Wa Umm Lu'lu
Abu=assalam alaykum warahmatullaah wabarakatuhu Abibi

UMm= Walaykumu salam warahmatullaah wabarakatuhu yah Abibi na kiss kiss

ABu= Help me give Lu'lu that 150 Riyadh to buy her madrasa stuff, shey on GBO MI YE ?

umm= AGBOYE Ooo yah abibi'L kareem


I try, yes? undecided

Smh....take it easy with the smileys o
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:17am On Apr 13, 2017
busar:
Agboye can't really solve this kind of situation most of the time

Akhee, the agboye I meant was dat with a limited amount of income One can be nikka-ed, dat is where the agboye of d ukhtii comes to play.

Women generally like to be very comfy, but it takes a sister with higher Imaan to be with a man with limited source of income and still be happy with the akhee.

Putting it in mind that the brother tries his best to get money but Allah did not 'kadara' wealth for him and he's patient with Allah in his trial.

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:18am On Apr 13, 2017
AbdelKabir:


This is why men and women different وليس الذكر كالأنثى

Had it been men, he would mention what's wrong straight away save a few men, he doesn't need to go through all the stages you just mentioned. A question, is it that you like it when being understood despite being cryptic? If yes, why?

I think its sweet and it shows that the person knows me. I love it when my friends know what I am thinking without saying a single word. They just know because they know me and I find it sweet when they do that.
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 7:19am On Apr 13, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


Akhee, the agboye I meant was dat with a limited amount of income One can be nikka-ed, dat is where the agboye of d ukhtii comes to play.

Women generally like to be very comfy, but it takes a sister with higher Imaan to be with a man with limited source of income and still be happy with the akhee.

Putting it in mind that the brother tries his best to get money but Allah did not 'kadara' wealth for him and he's patient with Allah in his trial.
Toor! BaarakAllahu feeka akhee
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:21am On Apr 13, 2017
@rabiushile04

I don't understand Yoruba that much.
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:21am On Apr 13, 2017
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I think its sweet and it shows that the person knows me. I love it when my friends know what I am thinking without saying a single word. They just know because they know me and I find it sweet when they do that.


I knew it....
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 7:26am On Apr 13, 2017
There are few sisters that actually have that kind of attitude. Sisters too want Olohunsogo now, no more igbeyin Adun. I pray you find such sister

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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:36am On Apr 13, 2017
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@rabiushile04

I don't understand Yoruba that much.

Okay, sorry my bad.
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by FriendNG: 8:37am On Apr 13, 2017
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@rabiushile04
I don't understand Yoruba that much.

Hajiya which language you understand much then. Apart from Eng.

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