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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody:
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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by RaeMystix: 1:17am On Apr 07, 2017
arleck:
wait! after how nicely i asked, and after all the smile and my stares @ ur lip, then you'd luk me in the eye and do vhat?? Gosh!! dis creatures(girls) just unbelieveable.. i don't know
Well, a smIle and handsome gesture does not prove you to be a gentleman. I've had my number for years now, and I am quite cautious of whoever i give my number to. It's just an habit of mine, that I can't help with.
What do you think goes on, when i decide to end the conversations between us, but let's say you do not feel the same way. Yet have my number?.

Don't judge me, until you've been in my shoes.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 2:46am On Apr 07, 2017
TheLordIsGr8:
Yeah. She mean that she doesn't mean what she meant.....take heart.
Thumbs up
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by porchbaby(f): 7:31am On Apr 07, 2017
bjhaid:
you sound like a dullard
hmmmm and u sound like a zombie to me grin angry
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Supermansteve(m): 7:39am On Apr 07, 2017
lastclaire4:
If u don't want to give ur digits for any reason it is very simple. U don't have to lie just say this "sorry I don't give my number out but if u don't mind I can give u my mail address.
That 'email' thing doesn't work for me, NO NO. I mean, it's okay if you aren't willing to give out your mobile number but please don't mention email-sounds official
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by arleck: 8:15am On Apr 07, 2017
RaeMystix:
Well, a smIle and handsome gesture does not prove you to be a gentleman. I've had my number for years now, and I am quite cautious of whoever i give my number to. It's just an habit of mine, that I can't help with.
What do you think goes on, when i decide to end the conversations between us, but let's say you do not feel the same way. Yet have my number?.

Don't judge me, until you've been in my shoes.
OK....
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by arleck: 8:18am On Apr 07, 2017
porchbaby:
hmmmm and u sound like a zombie to me grin angry
jeeezzzzz!! we will not take this.. it just 2much, a human soundin lika zoMbIe??
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by porchbaby(f): 1:50pm On Apr 07, 2017
arleck:
jeeezzzzz!! we will not take this.. it just 2much, a human soundin lika zoMbIe??
then go jump off 3rd mainland bridge
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by mikolo80: 1:56pm On Apr 07, 2017
Judasjudas:
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she's asking of the Ones tha do approach u ..not the ones u chat with .. or how do u block someone who walks up to u ..
you de mind d mumu
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by mikolo80: 1:58pm On Apr 07, 2017
Ultimatesammie:
so meaning they should give their numbers to every tom dick and harry interesting aint it.
yes cos the good guys are watching and will never approach a shrew
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by NaeChris: 3:21pm On Apr 07, 2017
ToriBlue:
You tell them your phone is switched off.
What if the ''wrong number'' is switched on?
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by arleck: 3:25pm On Apr 07, 2017
porchbaby:
then go jump off 3rd mainland bridge
i dont know how to do that, maybe you can come show me how to do that
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Apr 10, 2017
iykebest1:
u go sabi something
It's the best way.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Rukkydelta(f): 9:47pm On Apr 10, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
Hahahaha! I see, so you can take care of your financial needs without whoring yourself out under the subtle guise of collecting expensive gifts from men, credit/subscription and the host of other expenses men have to fork over to be in a relationship these days? I seriously doubt that. Its either your daddy gives you money or your customers, you my dear do not have enough sense to work even as a cleaner. Believe me, I mean no insult. The only way you can make headway in this life is by opening your legs or begging for favours. Obviously you'll try to protest that everything you have was gotten through hard work, which girl wouldn't? Nobody would like to admit that they're a worthless slut
Sorry I'm not the one you quote but just feel like giving a reply
Please not all ladies sell their bodies
I know of some hardworking ladies that don't need to open their legs to meet their daily needs
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Rukkydelta(f): 9:49pm On Apr 10, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
I'll admit, your comment enraged me because it came from a woman. You are beneath me, that's just the simple truth. Claim equality all you want, but the idea of a man taking care of a woman makes more sense than a woman taking care of a man. Men are superior to women in all ramifications, however you want to sugarcoat it. Society certainly thinks so, even you women think so too. Hope you now see why this thread and your comment irked me so? The fact that you find something dumb doesn't mean its dumb, maybe you're just too stupid to see the wisdom in it. Have you considered that?
I stand to be corrected
But I think a woman's only head should be her husband or Father and not all men
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Apr 10, 2017
Rukkydelta:
I stand to be corrected
But I think a woman's only head should be her husband or Father and not all men
In African social heirachy, men are generally regarded as superior to women. I'm sorry I don't know the politically correct term, but that's what it boils down to. Women defer to their husband, but women accept themselves to be under men. That's why I'm so amused at most modern day girls, they have a warped view of man-woman relations, combining the most favorable aspects of African and Western cultures. Its high time Nigerian girls decide if they want the African treatment or Western treatment, you can't enjoy the benefits of both worlds
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Apr 10, 2017
Rukkydelta:
Sorry I'm not the one you quote but just feel like giving a reply
Please not all ladies sell their bodies
I know of some hardworking ladies that don't need to open their legs to meet their daily needs
Sure there are, but unfortunately they're far outnumbered by the useless bad eggs, and the majority is often accepted as the norm. That's why 'all' guys are Heartbreakers and flirts
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Rukkydelta(f): 10:16pm On Apr 10, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
Sure there are, but unfortunately they're far outnumbered by the useless bad eggs, and the majority is often accepted as the norm. That's why 'all' guys are Heartbreakers and flirts
Alright
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Rukkydelta(f): 10:16pm On Apr 10, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
In African social heirachy, men are generally regarded as superior to women. I'm sorry I don't know the politically correct term, but that's what it boils down to. Women defer to their husband, but women accept themselves to be under men. That's why I'm so amused at most modern day girls, they have a warped view of man-woman relations, combining the most favorable aspects of African and Western cultures. Its high time Nigerian girls decide if they want the African treatment or Western treatment, you can't enjoy the benefits of both worlds
Hmmm
Ok
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Apr 10, 2017
Rukkydelta:
Hmmm
Ok
Personally I don't know why you ladies have a problem with the system. A man is raised to believe that he's only a man when he protects and provides for women, treat them gently and sacrifice for them. What kind of eye do you expect such men to use to look at women? You expect them to view them as equals when we're taught never to raise our fists to them as we would with other men and pamper them physically and emotionally? I'm well versed in psychology, so I can explain how our upbringing affects our perception
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody:
CreamyMoltenLar:
I'll admit, your comment enraged me because it came from a woman.[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] You are beneath me, that's just the simple truth. Claim equality all you want, but the idea of a man taking care of a woman makes more sense than a woman taking care of a man. Men are superior to women in all ramifications, however you want to sugarcoat it. Society certainly thinks so, even you women think so too. Hope you now see why this thread and your comment irked me so? The fact that you find something dumb doesn't mean its dumb, [b]maybe you're just too stupid to see the wisdom in it. Ha[/b]ve you considered that?
I said I wasn't going to reply you but honestly you are my first Aggresive Sexist. Actually you are the first sexist am meeting. I think other sexist can intelligently pass their point without being so insulting. See Women and Men can NEVER be equal. Never. If they were that would just question the purpose of their existence. They both have their strengths. They are meant to be partners(they complement each other) for the betterment of humanity.
It's hard to know exactly how to respond to a sexist comment. Cream molten, none is superior or inferior to each other. Men dominate because they can but I can say confidently that if the role were reversed in a generation or two, women would do the same.
There are girls out there that actually depend on guys but I need you to drop that thought that they constitute the majority of Nigerian girls.
You said I was too Stupid to see wisdom in your comment. Ok. You replied the girl's thread about how some girls can be arrogant about it. Ok. You later went on to say you will have your revenge when you marry them. That's where I have a problem with. Are you trying to say you will nurse the grudge for the period of your courtship for what she did at the onset and get back at her in marriage.
Man, you are way too Aggresive and from your comments I believe you should be close to your 30s. You need to tone down that rage.
In strength yes but I am pretty sure I am not beneath you in any other area. Even if my husband is a year older I'll still refer to him as sir. He is the head of the family. Your wife would fear you but she would definitely not have respect for you. You don't need to go about screaming you are superior to a woman. It should be obvious.

FYI I am not a feminist but you are one very Aggresive person evident by the fact that the girl that quoted you above me had to tell you sorry and please before she told you her opinion. Don't tell me it's manners. Let people respect you and not fear you. My first comment to you, honestly I didnt know it was rude. I am hoping to see one thing in your mention. Surprise me. wink
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody:
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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody:
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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Apr 12, 2017
vicfuntop:
I wouldn't have been able to say that because I respect my elders(I am not calling you old) and again I wouldn't want beating. If I was to tell you this to your face, it would be this doesn't seem right.
Honestly, I don't know how to reply this. When I said surprise me I was expecting to see an insult. I am sorry for calling you dumb cos I failed to see the reason in your comment. Sincerly I am sorry but you called me an airhead. Well I went through your old comments. That's why I said you are aggressive. I am sure about one thing. You are close to your 30s or more than.
I'm sorry for saying those nasty stuffs, I didn't mean them. Why're you so convinced that I'm around 30, give or take a few years? I could be in my early 20s or late 30s. Truth is I exaggerated most of what I said just to prove my point.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Apr 12, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
I'm sorry for saying those nasty stuffs, I didn't mean them. Why're you so convinced that I'm around 30, give or take a few years? I could be in my early 20s or late 30s. Truth is I exaggerated most of what I said just to prove my point.
That means you are not a sexist. I must have really made you mad then. You are definitely not in your early 20s. You are close to 30. The difference between you and the other guys that has insulted me on this forum is the insult. For example the last one he called me Mumu, ode. He even used shataap jo, not that I Ve a problem with the word but the way it was spelt made me know who I was replying. Well from the insult I know am replying a boy who can't be more than 22 but you on the other hand suprised me. That's why I am so sure. So am I right
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Apr 12, 2017
vicfuntop:
That means you are not a sexist. I must have really made you mad then. You are definitely not in your early 20s. You are close to 30. The difference between you and the other guys that has insulted me on this forum is the insult. For example the last one he called me Mumu, ode. He even used shataap jo, not that I Ve a problem with the word but the way it was spelt made me know who I was replying. Well from the insult I know am replying a boy who can't be more than 22 but you on the other hand suprised me. That's why I am so sure. So am I right
I guess I really do tend to rage when I feel slighted. You're good....I'm actually close to 30. Next time don't abuse your elders tongue
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Apr 12, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
I guess I really do tend to rage when I feel slighted. You're good....I'm actually close to 30. Next time don't abuse your elders tongue
I am a respectful lady wink. I wish I could construct my insults like you.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 11:38pm On Apr 12, 2017
vicfuntop:
I am a respectful lady wink. I wish I could construct my insults like you.
You will when you're my age, it comes with age. wink
You seem really nice, I feel bad about the way I spoke to you. Hope we've settled?
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Apr 12, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
You will when you're my age, it comes with age.[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] wink
You seem really nice, I feel bad about the way I spoke to you. Hope we've settled?
Wait? How many years difference do you think is between us. Of course I am nice(when I want to be). Yes. We are cool.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:13am On Apr 13, 2017
vicfuntop:
Wait? How many years difference do you think is between us. Of course I am nice(when I want to be). Yes. We are cool.
You should be nice all the time na. You sound mature, but then ladies mature faster than guys. It wouldn't be out of place for a 24 year old lady to reason like a 30 year old man. So I'll say you're 24/25. Smallie grin
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody:
CreamyMoltenLar:
You should be nice all the time na. You sound mature, but then ladies mature faster than guys. It wouldn't be out of place for a 24 year old lady to reason like a 30 year old man. So I'll say you're 24/25. Smallie grin
Awwwh, Well I am not up to that. I'll be 22 this year. That's why I was so angry when you said it's either I am a dad's girl or a maga's babe. I'll rather the insult from my dad than an outsider.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 10:05am On Apr 13, 2017
vicfuntop:
Awwwh, Well I am not up to that. I'll be 22 this year. That's why I was so angry when you said it's either I am a dad's girl or a maga's babe. I'll rather the insult from my dad than an outsider.
Good grief! I've been traumatizing an underage girl. Child abuse shocked
I'm so going to jail. All these little girls that will be abusing their uncles online.Sheybi its because they bought phone for you cheesy
So are you in secondary school or university? grin
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