Alesandese:
Even in churches, financial maturity is one of the factors needed to be qualified for Marriage / courtship.
I had to ignore some mentions, the bitterness was just too much . If you are not alright, I can't date or marry you. I will say it anywhere even on Nl, if you have a problem with that, go and drink Poison.


How's celebration going? Na full house here oo

My church counselling you'll show them your apartment. You can't marry a lady and take her to your family house. If you have a room in your family house, rent it out and use the money to secure an apartment outside...independence is what makes a man a man. You must show them your job and you'll have a follow up. They must know how much you earn. Your failure to do these then you can go and marry yourselves elsewhere.

Nothing much. Just on my bed.

all women are the same,only those men that are willing to suffer,would experience a successful marriage.

Bumbae1:

Hmmm

Serious matter oh!, this guy lazy die and I wonder how he was able to deceive the girl.

Lemme read this one first...

kimbra:
Serious matter oh!, this guy lazy die and I wonder how he was able to deceive the girl.

even rich guy will deceive you with love, mark register and leave, I don't see many ladies shouting foul, Many ladies deceive guys on a daily, na him regular pass there will always be deceit in the world

FelixFelicia:
by the time you try to change her, your own thought of the possibility of changing her changes

All these changing mentality just dey weak me, APC never teach una enuf lesson.

FelixFelicia:
But I bet your co-tenant isn't going to the radio or tv or blogs to let people learn of this experience she had that no one knows. It doesn't need publicity dear, different stroke for different folks. Some ladies are currently staking their belief in certain poor guys now, when they read the article how do you want them to feel? The author is very manipulative and if it didn't work for her or someone she knows don't mean it won't work for the other lots out there. She's a failed feminist jooh

She's not a feminist. See it this way: if the guy is broke but has a prospect and he's working towards that his prospect then he's a potential husband material. But, one that's broke with a prospect but he isn't working towards it should be ignored.

EOD.

"I had to ignore some mentions bla bla bla". Who ask you

lol
good one

kimbra:
She's not a feminist. See it this way: if the guy is broke but has a prospect and he's working towards that his prospect then he's a potential husband material. But, one that's broke with a prospect but he isn't working towards it should be ignored.

EOD.

lol, stubborn girl. Glad you learnt that from the thread.

Aderola15:


All these changing mentality just dey weak me, APC never teach una enuf lesson.

Bible self say make we fear agents who promise change

FelixFelicia:
lol, stubborn girl. Glad you learnt that from the thread.

Nope!, I needn't learn such from her thread. As you can see I paraphrased it with my own words. Some of you need to read other books beside your academic work. I have read three books centred on "Marriages" this year from renounce authors. Not to talk of few of "Dating". They broaden your horizon.

kimbra:
Nope!, I needn't learn such from her thread. As you can see I paraphrased it with my own words. Some of you need to read other books beside your academic work. I have read three books centred on "Marriages" this year from renounce authors. Not to talk of few of "Dating". They broaden your horizon.

I got you. That's what I'm saying, this is something we already know, and it's often subjective so she didn't need come here to bamboozle us
You no go church?

then you should avoid women,cause every woman has one or two of theses things you mentioned.

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kings20:
why should you avoid them when u can actually change them


Show such love and kindness and see them change to the type of women you won't need to avoid

look @ emboldened.. is largely and almost impossible to change people.

let me use my last rship as an example.I dated this girl who is so arrogant and finds it difficult to say sorry.we broke up in 2015 but reconciled last year.same thing I have been trying to correct still repeated itself(which is arrogance and inability to say sorry when it is pointed out to her). I just had to call off the rship and went my way.pray to meet good people.is not easy to change any one

FelixFelicia:
Bible self say make we fear agents who promise change

Ma nigga

FelixFelicia:
I got you. That's what I'm saying, this is something we already know, and it's often subjective so she didn't need come here to bamboozle us
You no go church?

I'm back. Just relaxing.

Aderola15:


Ma nigga

each time you dey quote me with this meme I dey laugh die

Dacovajnr, aderola wan enter lag o, why not play her host man

ZarZar:


What does it say? Surely you don't expect me to excavate my Bible lol

Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you. (Matthew 7:6 KJV)

LePrezident:


Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you. (Matthew 7:6 KJV)

Thanks

Fmartin:
hmm.. the woman who twerks in clubs.. eg ??

the slyqueens

rtopzy zarzar prettythicksmi

Hey!!!!!! WTF

OP, you really cannot get a perfect woman. All women have flaws. It strictly depends on the kind of quality you are looking for in a woman for what makes your relationship to work with her.

DeeTus:
OP, you really cannot get a perfect woman. All women have flaws. It strictly depends on the kind of quality you are looking for in a woman for what makes your relationship to work with her.

Chair, if you notice I didn't author the write-up. It's has a source below it. However, I believe the write-up has some truth to it but shouldn't be taken as the Gospel; it's just a guide. It means you should choose your battles carefully.

LePrezident:


Chair, if you notice I didn't author the write-up. It's has a source below it. However, I believe the write-up has some truth to it but shouldn't be taken as the Gospel; it's just a guide. It means you should choose your battles carefully.

Oh okay.

FelixFelicia:
each time you dey quote me with this meme I dey laugh die

Dacovajnr, aderola wan enter lag o, why not play her host man

I trust Her, We don't make decisions without consulting each other coz Ife wa gbona


Ngbo Aderola15

dacovajnr:
I trust Her, We don't make decisions without consulting each other coz Ife wa gbona


Ngbo Aderola15

Shey o gbona bi party jollof? *lukewarm

kings20:
why should you avoid them when u can actually change them


Show such love and kindness and see them change to the type of women you won't need to avoid

don't flatter yourself, you can't change an adult. People would only change when they themselves want to and take steps to. Internal motivation.

kimbra:
My church counselling you'll show them your apartment. You can't marry a lady and take her to your family house. If you have a room in your family house, rent it out and use the money to secure an apartment outside...independence is what makes a man a man. You must show them your job and you'll have a follow up. They must know how much you earn. Your failure to do these then you can go and marry yourselves elsewhere.

Nothing much. Just on my bed.

busybody church

kings20:
why should you avoid them when u can actually change them


Show such love and kindness and see them change to the type of women you won't need to avoid

Change fire.

Bahddo:
busybody church

That's the right thing to do while counselling intending couples.

Op your message is incomplete o, I am eagerly awaiting your post on men to avoid cos i would also like to see and learn from the comments too. It goes both ways