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| Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
It is a very controversial topic, one that people are afraid to ask because of stigma but everyone wants to know the answer. There is always two sides to every story. We want to know the side of the rapist this time, not the raped. Guys and ladies if you know someone who knows someone that has raped someone pls enlighten us why did they go through it, what was on their mind the whole time and how do they feel after the act. It might be the beginning of change and enlightenment. Pls no insults, arguements are welcome, pls don't derail this thread. Thanks. Cc seun lalasticlala farano cutehector soberdrunk |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by SINZ: 3:22pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Conji na bastard. That's why. |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by QueenSuccubus(f): 3:23pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
![]() They will say tat the devil talked to them to do it... ![]() |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by daewoorazer(m): 3:23pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
[color=#995500]You are on a white elephant task You want them to come confess? Even ordinary lies, do I confess? And most importantly, do you? [/color] |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
QueenSuccubus:let us not bring the devil into this, his plate is already full abeg, or is their name eve |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
daewoorazer:i am not telling anyone to confess o, i am sure we know someone who has done it before, we dont want their names, this is not court, we may give valid reasons or theories. E.g i have this friend who said he did it on a girl because he was drunk and thought the girl was his wife, he felt bad for what he did though |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:30pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Op were you raped ![]() |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by MEGGATRON(m): 3:32pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
SINZ:muva you get many years experience I wan ask , if you wan sex your gf and she dey say no no I am not in the mood and as igboro the no dey sound like yes yes and you add a bit of force to unhook her bra put mouth start sucking and from there she succumbed and did it consensually till the end. na rape? another one; if the girl dey cry dey strong body while screwing her, na rape too? |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
SorftWerk:no actually, but six out of every ten girls have been molested before |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by QueenSuccubus(f): 3:36pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:Its psychological...no sane person will confess that yes he juz wanna have sex with her but since she resist it , he forced her to do it... And mind u, the rapists dont rape females alone.. |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:hmmm... ![]() I can't say anything tho as I have not raped anyone before. But what about guys that have been raped too coz I'm a victim! Or u think its only girls that get molested huh? |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
QueenSuccubus:very true, so why are males, and little children being raped too |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
SorftWerk:i understand that men and little children are victims too, i have close friends and family members who have been raped but they never ask the rapist why they did. |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by QueenSuccubus(f): 3:43pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:Rapists raping vulnerable ppol sha ... children are the easiest target coz they easily get scared. |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by SINZ: 3:46pm On Apr 18, 2017*. Modified: 4:11pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
MEGGATRON:LOL @"the no dey sound like yes yes" ![]() ![]() ![]() Anyway, I always tell my friends that its easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for one unarmed man to successfully rape a woman. Once a woman says "NO" and actually means it, you will definitely be caught before you can even un-button her jeans talk more of spreading her legs. Sometimes, the "No" she says might just not mean "NO". Its a natural animal instinct to play prey and predator before intercourse. Take a cue from the way other animals mate, the female hardly ever offers herself just like that. The male has to chase and subdue her. Women love that shiit, they love being taken over. ![]() As long as she consents and even partakes in coiitus, its not rape. If she also consents at first but later on, changes her mind and starts to refuse you, its legally still not rape because you didn't forcefully take her, she let you UnCloth her and spread her legs. However, if she starts to cry and refuse the guy, common sense should tell the guy that she's hurting and as such, he must abort mission. |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
MEGGATRON:there are some ladies that enjoy being raped(not rough sex there is a difference) the answer to your question lies in the girls reaction after the sex, some girls cant fight back so they succumb thinking the man is gentle, is she replying to your love making or stiff/limp with fear/disgust, do she look at you with love or loathing during and after the act. Some guys just chop and clean mouth without getting feedback. |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:well some rapists do it for so many reasons, such as teasing a man while you don't want sex with him, showing too many meat/flesh, lustfulness, to feel in control, for the sake of revenge, to have a girl which ever way possible cos she's hard to get and so on... |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
SINZ:as long as a girl says no and means it in the middle of action and you dont stop, it is rape because she definitely has a reason for changing her mind maybe the person was shouting bimpe when her name is chioma. Mike tyson made that same mistake and was taken to court. Not every girl will cry to show their displeasure, some will fight and the man will think it is play, others just become stiff like a log of wood. Besides i thought men were higher animals, this is the first time i am seeing men being compared to lower animals |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
SorftWerk:dont they have self control |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
QueenSuccubus:but i am sure they know that what they do is bad or did the child seduce them |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:when things go way too far, self control seem to be just words, they count no more.. . she actually asked, do u know what I'm doing to you? I said no.. .then she said "I'm furking you and I'm enjoying you" It's still very fresh! I don't regret what she did Tho.. . |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
SorftWerk: |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
SorftWerk:oh my! End time women, you seem to be taking it well and have your life in order, most people dont recover, that lady deserves jail at least |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by mikeycharles(m): 4:06pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Because they are depraved |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by SINZ: 4:10pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:Excuse me, how exactly would you know she isn't role-playing when she says "Please Stop" during intercourse? Some women enjoy being coerced into sex and as I earlier stated, they love being subdued. As long as she consents to it, my dear, anything "in-between" is part of the consequence or casualty of the deed. That is why sex is legally prohibited for underage adolescents who haven't yet reached the age of accountability. And as for the illustration with animals, I don't see anything wrong with that as long as my theory is correct. I might as well say that humans eat and drink water, same as lower animals do. It doesn't in anyway degrade the human race. Stop trying to deliberately twist my sentences. |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by brandydaniells(m): 4:11pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
i hate porn but love rape scenes |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
SINZ:you are right but there are subtle cues a woman gives when she means no, some men either dont pick up or still continue anyway |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by MEGGATRON(m): 4:14pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:Her reaction after it is intermix, she becomes belligerent whilst being around as my gf, its like she hates the act not the actor. sometimes I think she is a frigid. we've had sex twice since we started dating late February after 3 failed attempts believing she was a virgin, she hated the idea of coitus_, you know Boys gat needs. I hate having to be coercive , it reduces the ectasy and feels like rape. |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Most women likes it rough and often fantasize about being raped. And some to some guys, it's a mental case, we just don't see that aspect of it |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by SINZ: 4:17pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:Either way, she went into the room with her eyes wide open. She undressed herself, took off her clothes and shoes with her eyes wide open. They engaged in pre-intimacy and fvcked for few mins, with her eyes fully opened wide! ![]() So, my dear, if she says "stop" while still in the middle of the deed and he decides to carry-on, that one concern her, she was not raped. She only got tired or satisfied and didn't want to continue with the sex. It is NOT rape. C'est fini. |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by MEGGATRON(m): 4:25pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
SINZ:I did stop my first attempt thinking she was a virgin but later discovered she wasn't. The next I was cold hearted, didn't stop as I thought its her moaning reaction during intercourse. After the act she was a bit aggressive but didn't condemn the act nor threaten to break up. as matter of fact we are still together. The prob is having to be coercive to get her to bed. |
| Re: Why Do Guys (and maybe ladies) Rape? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:she was an eye opener for me.. That question she asked me what the act of taking control like I listed amongst the reasons pple do rape.... TBH, we had sex more times after she did what she did to me previously before we parted ways.. I couldn't have jailed such lady you know. |
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