hunniesuzie:
You're lucky. Your baby is like mine. He wakes only 2 times at night max and he'll suck maybe 5 mins and sleep back. If you leave him he can sleep till 12 noon. It's during the day he disturbs. Like now I'm feeling sleepy and he's laughing and playing, if you don't answer now na cry

exactly...She dosnt even disturb during d day too... Once she cn feed to her full and poo...she cn sleep for straight 4 to 5 hrs

suzy:

well u are lucky. mine usually sleep well at earlier stage but now she sucks like a boy. in fact we sleep suck cos d breast is always in her mouth den we she sleeps I run but she wakes wen she notice d breast no dey mouth again. am doing exclusive. maybe she will change ooooo. just pray she is does jot cos wen she does u wouldn't be able to rest when u wanna. sometimes we both sleep while she sucks. when I wake I realize I was deep in sleep

Nna ehh not easy...sleeping and breastfeeding sef isn't so gud bcs u myt not knw wen d nipple comes out of dre mouth, and breast milk mistakenly entering d nose...I just wana cry weneva am sleepy and she's still awake or sucking...am even sleepy ryt now, am typing and nodding...I just wana finish my Bs and sleep wella b4 my madam wakes up.

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nneejima:

Please let me me be the pastor, T. B Joshua z busy. I will hold the whole money later..lols#

uhmmmmmm, you dont look like someone that can be trusted with money

moreover i will need to see your certificate of ordination, abi na for inside dream God take call you

Zheemub:

Lol. If you can feel baby's head with your hand that means that you want to deliver at home.
BH contraction is the one that hardens or tighten your stomach for some minutes. It's painless and you can feel it as it hardens.
Like I said, visit your hospital if you feel so funny.
Sometimes our intuition saves the day.

Thank you jare mama, unlike someone that's using style to abuse me and I'm so sure i'm not the only one that does not know this

eeeeh now, I'm proud to say i know what Braxton Hicks Contraction...i feel that one a lot, it used to turn my stomach into different shapes

hunniesuzie:
water leaking

About the water leaking, whats the colour of the water like? blue, colourless, red or yellow

My world shattered. Oh Jesus! After all the stress,sleepness night, my baby returned to king Jesus this morning.

The first fruit of my womb gave me a short lived joy. He was so cute. Am sad, my world is upside down.

I experienced d joy of motherhood for few days.

Hummn! It is well, it is well with my soul

@ kemifemi

It is well with you.

I know exactly how you feel.

God is your strenght

nicoleswizzi:

Nna ehh not easy...sleeping and breastfeeding sef isn't so gud bcs u myt not knw wen d nipple comes out of dre mouth, and breast milk mistakenly entering d nose...I just wana cry weneva am sleepy and she's still awake or sucking...am even sleepy ryt now, am typing and nodding...I just wana finish my Bs and sleep wella b4 my madam wakes up.

lol u av never seen anything yet. try and always sleep when she is asleep cos dats only time u can. mine is not most time she sleeps dats when I can do one or two things. then be4 u no it she is up. dats d joy of motherhood sha

@kemifemi....affliction shall not rise again...God will restore your joy...there shall be no loss again...It is Well with you n Dh...please be strong Ma...

@kemifemi,wow! so sorry for ur loss! truly,it is well wt u.may God comfort u!

@kemifemi. I am so sorry for your loss. I am short of words. May God comfort you and your dh. So sorry.

@Kemifemi, so sorry for the loss. May God comfort your family.

kemifemi:
My world shattered. Oh Jesus! After all the stress,sleepness night, my baby returned to king Jesus this morning.

The first fruit of my womb gave me a short lived joy. He was so cute. Am sad, my world is upside down.

I experienced d joy of motherhood for few days.

Hummn! It is well, it is well with my soul

shocking and hard to imagine. don't even know how you feel but i pray King Jesus will give you so many reasons to smile again. take heart dear.

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Gods immense comfort to you and your husband. #praying for you.

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Part 4 labour and Delivery

So wen we got to the hospital... The nurse checked my bitals , my husband called my gynae but he wasn't in d hospital... He told us not to worry that anoda doc will handle It no wahala...while in d hospital I felt anoda fluid come out...so after my vitals dey took me to the labour room...I and my husband was dre..with d nurse waiting for the doc...doc came later and said he was going to do a VE for me to knw how far I av gone....na dre film start...this doc put his hand inside me each time he did he kept complaining that he couldn't feel my cervix....he kept telling d nurse "its like her cervix is posterior... Chai...ontop d pain am feeling... He kept saying madam am sorry ooo I just av to find ur cervix...lol...me I was alrdy in serious pain...begging him to remove his hand...this went on and on...he said I was alrdy 4cm dilated DAT baby head was engaged...and I was 3cm yesterday wen doc did d membrane sweep for me...so he said he was going to burst my water so that I cn dilate faster...while I was recovering from d VE pains dey went to get dre tools from d steriliser... With what looked like a scissors with a clamped mouth the doc inserted his hand to locate my cervix and with d oda hand inserted d scissors... (I was so scared bcs I just had d feeling that he was going to cut off my clittoris hahaha) he kept trying to locate my cervix...he was telling me to release my body bcs I was stiffening myself bcs of d pain...hmmmm finally after inserting his hand like (didn't count but was close to 10 times if not more)he ended up bursting my water but only little fluid came out..hahhh...he started contemplating oo if truly my water av burst...he kept inserting his hand and d scissors... For where? no sign of water...so he told d nurse to gv me a pain reliever... And wait to knw how far ...dey were monitoring my contraction and baby's heartbeat(which was OK) but contraction was irregular... By den husby av gone back to his working place to put things in order and also bring my hospital bag....with what started by 2.... By 6pm doc came bk and checked and I was 6cm dilated...so he was like dey were going to argument with hot drip if not I would have long labour .... Tho I av started feeling just mild cramps with each contraction. D nurse was like "this one is small, u are still pressing ur fone, wen d real thing starts den u won't remb u av fone sef, my husband was like "God forbids she won't av labour pain, supernatural delivery is her portion"...me sef said amen" nurse was just laughing... She said we needed d pain for labour and without it we won't be able to push...I and dh kept confessing saying " our case is diff" OK o...that nurse later left and anoda one on night duty came...she brought the drip and by 6pm d drip was alrdy inserted..doc said roughly in 2 hrs I shd be fully dilated bcs I was 6cm by den...dey wanted my contraction to be regular... My dear mamas it wasn't even up to 5-10mins wen I started feeling pains around my waist and back, d contraction became regular.... It was coming with a force I CNT explain... My anus was on fire...every position on d bed was very uncomfortable... Dey didn't allow me lie on my back....only by d side....chei...from mild pain...d contraction started coming with intense pain...as if I was going to give birth tru my anus....I called my husband to get my bag...that one was busy complaining... That d areas is too much on him, hmmm I no even ans am...bcs he didn't knw d kinda pain I was feeling... By 7pm I was alrdy seeing stars...I was crying...begging God...plz ooo father help me this pain is too much...we had an agreement that u won't feel pain plz help me" infact I just let thinking and saying in my hrt..lord let this cross pass me by ooo...each time d contraction hit me I felt like poking...d force ehh was just too much in my back waist region and anus, I would shake like sum1 whose convulsing.I held dre window...and was shaking it so hard..d nurse kept complaining and shouting... Madama abeg dnt spoil our window...chai...I was shouting and crying ... I told d nurse " nurse u wont understand" with tears in my eyes...she just laughed and said "I understand bcs am a mother too sorry ehh it will soon be over"... nurse kept telling me not to poo...if not I would tear my insides abi perineum...hmmm nxt thing I left the window and held d drip handle ( that long iron stuff for hanging drip...if d contraction hit me I will hold it so strong like I want to break it...and focus all my energy on it so that I won't be able to push...at d same time I will stiffen my body from my waist dwn to my legs... Each time dey were telling me dnt push...d contraction was becoming vry regular.. Like 1min apart...that was around to 8...my husband came and stayed with me...so each time contraction comes I will use his arms to suppress d pressure... I would hold his arms so tight and even dig my fingers into dem...am sure it was very painful but he couldnt complain seeing me in so much pain am sure he was ready to cut off d arm sef and dash me....I was crying and telling him to help me...as if sum1 gave me punishment...if d contraction comes and he's talking I will slap his arms to shutup bcs his voice was irritating me alrdy...by 5mins yo 8 I started begging nurse or doc to check me...d nurse was like its not 8 yet...hahhh this time d urge to poo was very powerful..I kept screaming... " I CNT hold it allny longer.. I want to poo ooo nurse I CNT hold it ooo" so she went and called d doc ....he checked me and told d nurse that he couldn't feel my cervix again that baby av started coming out...(guess that meant I was fully dilated) dey we're just taking dre time to get dressed and prep dre tools...chai...nxt I was asked to sit up raise my head Luke am looking at my navel...den hold my two legs open....(imagine I had to do that with d pain and frequent contraction) den I was asked to push when d contraction comes...I felt contraction and den I pushed with force even shouting in d process...dey shouted at me oo said its not like that oo...dnt shout just push like u want to poo..I did d 2nd time and my baby head crowned...as doc said I shd push for d 3rd time I felt him cut me...(wasn't so painful bcs d labour pain was killing me) as I pushed d 3rd time my baby head poped out...I wanted to rest ooo dey said no I shd push at once, that I shdnt break it...I used all d power left in me and with d 4th push my baby gal slipped out crying her lungs out...menhhh d relief I felt ehhh...I CNT explain...its like dey poured cold water on me...all I kept saying was God thank u, doctor thank u nurse thank u..lol...I was so weak...doc numbed sum areas in my vjay....and started suturing...it wasn't painful bcs of d injection he gave me thank God, what was painful was d pad he kept forcing into me to stop me from bleeding... Wen he was tru suturing I was transferred to anoda room and my baby was brought to me...I just kept looking at her...she was so peaceful... Smelling like a new born...wasn't even hungry or crying for food...I was happy about that too bcs my breast wasn't flowing yet...I was so tayad and happy at d same time...Finally my princess was here...

Ah that one will change. They get more alert during the day as they get older

Kemifemi so sorry for your loss, may God comfort you and your family

nicoleswizzi:
exactly...She dosnt even disturb during d day too... Once she cn feed to her full and poo...she cn sleep for straight 4 to 5 hrs

I taut today was bumpy Tuesday abi all mama don born. well 2mrrrw is for babies. hope we will see cute babies cos I can't wait

@kemifemi so sorry about what happened... Don't worry much God is in control. May God comfort you guys with multiple blessings.

Nice B.S @niccolewizzi ..tnx 4 completing your bs

@ Kemifemi,oh Lord...so sorry for your loss. May God Almighty comfort u.

realdentist:
pls cooperate with ur doctor. There's a reason they don't like to leave baby beyong 2 weeks. Risk of something going wrong increases

Tnx I will go see him first thing tomorrow..

@Kemifemi, so sorry for your loss, may God comfort you and your DH

ahnie:

I want to use my own share to open a shopping mall...Lol.

LO will come b4 u lay foundation .stop daydreaming

dharyor1234:


uhmmmmmm, you dont look like someone that can be trusted with money

moreover i will need to see your certificate of ordination, abi na for inside dream God take call you

Me na chineke pikin, as dh dey follow me go anc so there is no how i go corner money #sobs# I dey pray make my Lo change position make i know d sex at least when buying baby things i go know if I fit get money

@ kemifemi, I know it hard to say d Lord gives and he takes away but take heart and be strong my dear for your hubby sake and for everyone that loves u. It is well, God will give u double for your trouble.


Mommies, I have been so scared since yesternyt. I took septrin for dix stubborn cough I developed dat hurts my chest like 3times beliving it was safe for me o as per 3rd trimester tin... I called my mom to ask her if it was safe sha since she prescribed ampiclox for me initially and she was like dey dont administer septrin for late pregnancy.. She no yarn me d side effects but I have been scared o and google isnt saying anytin encouraging. Plz reply a concerned me?

nicoleswizzi:
Am so sorry it took this long to complete my BS...not easy to be a mum but we thank God all the same....

Part 2
....so while in my 2nd trimester... I started having contraction... Waow...as a jjc na...I didn't knw whatsapp...thought it was nornal ..I was even having waist pain...and was also feeling my baby dwn in my pelvis...den I was going for my antenatal only once in a mnth....so in November..precisely 4th of November I went for my antenatal... (I always go with my husband) after seeing d doc,(I even forgot to tell him d symptoms I was having thinking it was normal sha) sumfin in me just told me to goan do scan...to check baby...den I was like 17/18weeks preg...my dh concurred... We did d scan oo...sonographer told us d sex of d baby, we were happy...den he was like "d only prblm now is that ur cervix is opening "...hhhahh opening ke, he said my cervix was 1.7cm closed and its suppose to be at least 3cm closed...I was so worried..immediately my gynae admitted me and put me on bed rest... I was in d hospital from that Friday till Monday... On sunday being d 6th of November was my body...I spent it in d hospital... The bed I used was turned upside dwn...dey made my legs go up and my head dwn so baby cn move from cervix backwards... And den gv d cervix chance to close back if possible... Series of test was done....to knw what was making my cervix open...nothing was found so dey said dey were going to discharge me on Monday after doing anoda scan to knw if my cervix av improved...from 1.7cm it improved to 1.9cm...not so much tho but we were hopeful... Gynae was like we cn also do a cerclage and by 3rd trimester it will be removed...my husband didn't want it...so he suggested to my gynae that we shd continue the bed rest at home and comebk after a week that if by den it dosnt improve he cn put the cerclage... My gynae agreed and dats how we went home... I was on strict bed rest..only stood up to bath and pee..or eat...went into prayers serious prayers ...my family was praying too....after 1 week we went bk...did d scan and my cervix was 4.2cm closed...waow...it was indeed a miracle...my gynae was so surprised.... It was indeed a miracle....

Thanks for this your detailed BS.
I never knew incompetence cervix could be corrected by just raising one's buttock up with bed rest and that someone can still carry pregnancy to full term without cerclage.
Congrats once again.
May God keep our LO

This is so saddening, @kemifemi, pls be strong in the Lord, he knws best. I knw its not easy cox I've walked in that shoes, but trust me u will overcome it. Its not the end of the world. God will give u double for ur trouble. Pls be strong.