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My Take On "Getting Married As A Virgin" by Nobody: 11:36pm On Apr 18, 2017
We are black so is our mind and mentality. The thread that girl created about virginity is all shade of wrong angryBut why romancelanders chose to attack her personality instead of her message is what is surprising me.
This is what happens when the discussion has to do with virgins and non virgins. How is this any different from rich kids that rubs their wealth in face of poor people just like davido's brother did??
I have not for once seen this kinda thing on an American site, adults dishing out insults on each other cos of a broken/unbroken hymen. Is that what is next for this country??
Some guys even went as far as calling her names, how do u know her vagina is wide?? If this was created by a man am sure he would get a thumbs up rather than insulting his penis! A thread made FP yesterday and the guys were hailing themselves, of course it was about having sex with whoever u claim to love. What if a girl posted that? Having sex with guys so long shes emotionally connected to them.
We may have been thought that our pride as girls lies between our legs but then, some girls have moved past that, taking pride in things they consider more beneficial to them. And having sex of course which is normal undecided
"things they say to console themselves" this kinda statement is obviously from a teenager grin cos a matured lady should be way intelligent past that statement.Cos I don't understand why you feel that a non virgin needs to be consoled grin Why does it always boils down to the female?? I have worked with guys lately and there's not just one time that they insulted themselves and rub something as virginity in face of one another, rather they gist about their sexcapades, even guys above 30 o so don't think m talking about teenagers.
I have come to understand that when it comes to issues like this females are usually the first to insult and shade each other. This is 21st century, you're still a woman whether or not you're a virgin. It will not remove or add a thing to your womanhood.
Our virgin preachers needs to stop making girls believe that the totality of a woman is between her legs cos that is where the proudness and the need to insult non virgins springs from.

Before y'all come for my head and vagina I stand for sexual faithfulness cheesy

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Re: My Take On "Getting Married As A Virgin" by VickyRotex(f): 11:52pm On Apr 18, 2017
They're coming! undecided

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Re: My Take On "Getting Married As A Virgin" by Nobody: 11:55pm On Apr 18, 2017
VickyRotex:
They're coming! undecided
I dunno what's wrong with nairaland. I can't even open the thread again. I had to create another one cry

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Re: My Take On "Getting Married As A Virgin" by Olanrefront3355(m): 11:57pm On Apr 18, 2017
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Re: My Take On "Getting Married As A Virgin" by VickyRotex(f): 12:21am On Apr 19, 2017
classicB:

I dunno what's wrong with nairaland. I can't even open the thread again. I had to create another one cry

cheesy cheesy Mods don dey sit ontop your matter. grin
Re: My Take On "Getting Married As A Virgin" by Fuckshiit: 9:43am On Apr 25, 2017
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Re: My Take On "Getting Married As A Virgin" by Nobody: 9:47am On Apr 25, 2017
classicB:
We are black so is our mind and mentality. The thread that girl created about virginity is all shade of wrong angryBut why romancelanders chose to attack her personality instead of her message is what is surprising me.
This is what happens when the discussion has to do with virgins and non virgins. How is this any different from rich kids that rubs their wealth in face of poor people just like davido's brother did??
I have not for once seen this kinda thing on an American site, adults dishing out insults on each other cos of a broken/unbroken hymen. Is that what is next for this country??
Some guys even went as far as calling her names, how do u know her vagina is wide?? If this was created by a man am sure he would get a thumbs up rather than insulting his penis! A thread made FP yesterday and the guys were hailing themselves, of course it was about having sex with whoever u claim to love. What if a girl posted that? Having sex with guys so long shes emotionally connected to them.
We may have been thought that our pride as girls lies between our legs but then, some girls have moved past that, taking pride in things they consider more beneficial to them. And having sex of course which is normal undecided
"things they say to console themselves" this kinda statement is obviously from a teenager grin cos a matured lady should be way intelligent past that statement.Cos I don't understand why you feel that a non virgin needs to be consoled grin Why does it always boils down to the female?? I have worked with guys lately and there's not just one time that they insulted themselves and rub something as virginity in face of one another, rather they gist about their sexcapades, even guys above 30 o so don't think m talking about teenagers.
I have come to understand that when it comes to issues like this females are usually the first to insult and shade each other. This is 21st century, you're still a woman whether or not you're a virgin. It will not remove or add a thing to your womanhood.
Our virgin preachers needs to stop making girls believe that the totality of a woman is between her legs cos that is where the proudness and the need to insult non virgins springs from.

Before y'all come for my head and vagina I stand for sexual faithfulness cheesy


wats ur point because I Ayam nt understanding
Re: My Take On "Getting Married As A Virgin" by Nobody: 9:54am On Apr 25, 2017
VickyRotex:

cheesy cheesy Mods don dey sit ontop your matter. grin
Lolzz.
Re: My Take On "Getting Married As A Virgin" by Nobody: 1:08pm On Apr 25, 2017
Randy91:



wats ur point because I Ayam nt understanding
You're a guy, so I don't expect you to understand tongue
Re: My Take On "Getting Married As A Virgin" by Nobody: 1:18pm On Apr 25, 2017
Galatians 6: 5 - So let each man bear his own burden

At the end of the day Virginity comes down to being your singular choice. Will you keep it or no? Forget how bad Society will paint you if you lose it; forget how Society will extol you if you keep it. It's your choice alone... Not the Society's, not your Boyfriend's, nor Religion's. You own your sexuality; do with it as you may.

Don't let the noise of others drown out your inner voice.

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