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Protagonist:
I have tried severally to end the relationship, but she won't stop coming. Before you know it, we are on again. Last night's trouble left me with terrible injuries that I couldn't go to work today.
She has left, but I'm sure she will be here tomorrow, when she feels things have settled. And beg

If all you said is true, for how long do you intend to continue enduring such abuse Is this the kind of life you wish to live in marriage? My advise is that you end that abusive relationship as soon as possible, because you also deserve to be happy.

Protagonist:
Thanks for your help. I have deviced an arrangement. Since my rent will expire next month, I intend to quietly pack without her knowledge. Sounds childish, but that's all I've got. All the same, Thanks

Good idea, but you will still need to make good use of your power of will and made-up mind if she knew your office, because she will definitely come looking for you. So it's still about you putting your feet on the ground for yourself ( your life).

If you don't see her worth, then don't let her stay. Kick her out for your good.

limamintruth:
If all you said is true, for how long do you intend to continue enduring such abuse Is this the kind of life you wish to live in marriage? My advise is that you end that abusive relationship as soon as possible, because you also deserve to be happy.

Thanks Limamintruth. Couldn't have gotten better advice anywhere. Thanks Nairaland

Fadamant:
Good idea, but you will still need to make good use of your power of will and made-up mind if she knew your office, because she will definitely come looking for you. So it's still about you putting your feet on the ground for yourself ( your life).

If you don't see her worth, then don't let her stay. Kick her out for your good.

Thanks Fadamant. Your advice is priceless. I won't let the house down

Protagonist:
Thanks for your help. I have deviced an arrangement. Since my rent will expire next month, I intend to quietly pack without her knowledge. Sounds childish, but that's all I've got. All the same, Thanks

You can't always run away from your problem, what happens when you marry. I sense you are a shy and someone who hates confrontation guess what you are going to be confronted one day. So wait for bae(whatever this millennial call it ) and tell her babe I don't like your attitude and am thinking of leaving you, I don't want to say Man up but at least voice your concerns some babes need such stance once in a while and stop allowing people walk all over you. You can't always run away from your problem

pcguru1:
You can't always run away from your problem, what happens when you marry. I sense you are a shy and someone who hates confrontation guess what you are going to be confronted one day. So wait for bae(whatever this millennial call it ) and tell her babe I don't like your attitude and am thinking of leaving you, I don't want to say Man up but at least voice your concerns some babes need such stance once in a while and stop allowing people walk all over you. You can't always run away from your problem

Thanks for your advice Pcguru. But if I told her that she won't leave. I have try such severally before now. All the same, thanks

Purelady:
Op, pls your life is more important than this relationship that is not heading to any where. kindly flee this toxic relationship is not worth it. I have a girlfriend whose boyfriend was very volatile threatening bodily injury every time they have little disagreement, do you know that, one day he beat her to the extent that she lost an eye, pls, pls and pls let her go, to avoid stories that touch, Peace.

Op, pls your life is more important than this relationship that is not heading to any where

pcguru1:
You can't always run away from your problem, what happens when you marry. I sense you are a shy and someone who hates confrontation guess what you are going to be confronted one day. So wait for bae(whatever this millennial call it ) and tell her babe I don't like your attitude and am thinking of leaving you, I don't want to say Man up but at least voice your concerns some babes need such stance once in a while and stop allowing people walk all over you. You can't always run away from your problem

. kindly flee this toxic relationship is not worth it. I had a girlfriend whose boyfriend was very volatile threatening bodily injury every time they have little disagreement, do you know that, one day he beat her to the extent that she lost an eye, pls, pls and pls let her go, to avoid stories that touch, Peace.

Purelady:
Op, pls your life is more important than this relationship that is not heading to any where. kindly flee this toxic relationship is not worth it. I had a girlfriend whose boyfriend was very volatile threatening bodily injury every time they have little disagreement, do you know that, one day he beat her to the extent that she lost an eye, pls, pls and pls let her go, to avoid stories that touch, Peace.

Thanks purelady. I will consider your advice

@ Protagonist, good to know that you are resident in Abuja. Kindly call the number on my signature.

Protagonist:
Thanks gbegemaster, the stupid thing is that I love her and can't stay away. And she knows that.

just listen 2 urself..."i love her. can't stay away n she knows that"...then stop complaining...until she stabs u 2 death....ok now tell me...u can stay away...so what do u wnt us to do 4 u?...since you've made up ur mind nt to walk away....No offense bross...u r so 4kn weak...n she knws that...that's why she'll continue 2 treat u like a trash until u start acting like a man with 2 balls...HuH...
i hate brothers like this...

bigcp:
just listen 2 urself..."i love her. can't stay away n she knows that"...then stop complaining...until she stabs u 2 death....ok now tell me...u can stay away...so what do u wnt us to do 4 u?...since you've made up ur mind nt to walk away....No offense bross...u r so 4kn weak...n she knws that...that's why she'll continue 2 treat u like a trash until u start acting like a man with 2 balls...HuH...
i hate brothers like this...

Thanks for your advice bigcp

You men don't like good,and nice ladies,you people treat them like trash as if you are doing them favour so bro enjoy but try talk to her

My maths teacher in Pry school was married to a violent and crazy woman. The woman would come to the school....embarrass him...tear his clothes and throw all sorts of things at him even on the assembly ground o. I'm glad the man later walked out of the marriage and remarried few years later.
Op,you may not be lucky next time. Before she takes your life,leave the toxic relationship. Man up for once and don't look back.

Protagonist:
Thanks for your help. I have deviced an arrangement. Since my rent will expire next month, I intend to quietly pack without her knowledge. Sounds childish, but that's all I've got. All the same, Thanks

Jesus!!! I can't believe we still have these kind of men! Now i know why your girlfriend treats u like that....u are a whimp...a weak man. U aren't even bold enough to call it quit & move on...rather u wanna escape like a criminal....damn! i have read all of your posts on this thread & i must say u are a disgrace to men...Shame on u... whimp

JerryTemi:
You men don't like good,and nice ladies,you people treat them like trash as if you are doing them favour so bro enjoy but try talk to her

Try talk to her? Tell her what? Would you give this advice to your brother and not storm that house and kick that girl out?

johnson232:
Jesus!!! I can't believe we still have these kind of men! Now i know why your girlfriend treats u like that....u are a whimp...a weak man. U aren't even bold enough to call it quit & move on...rather u wanna escape like a criminal....damn! i have read all of your posts on this thread & i must say u are a disgrace to men...Shame on u... whimp

Guy, take a chill pill. No make matter worse pass as e dey.

Fadamant no vex for me but you am right but as for the girl in question, let him be a man and seat her down,talk to her,tell her you are not enjoying her attitude towards you and the relationship that you want peace in your affair with her.Bros all the best.

JerryTemi:
Fadamant no vex for me but you am right but as for the girl in question, let him be a man and seat her down,talk to her,tell her you are not enjoying her attitude towards you and the relationship that you want peace in your affair with her.Bros all the best.

Do you really believe that that kind of girl will change with talk? This guy hasn't got what it takes to talk her into doing his biddings. He is even afraid of her. So, methink, the best option is to show courage for once, throw caution to the wind and end it all at once.

I no vex for you sha. How was your day?

You should grab her by the neck very hard and put her out of the house. Tell her that her behavior will change or she will be put out of the house forever. Then don't speak to her for several days. She needs to fear you at least a little bit

JerryTemi:
You men don't like good,and nice ladies,you people treat them like trash as if you are doing them favour so bro enjoy but try talk to her

Thanks for your advice JerryTemi

johnson232:
Jesus!!! I can't believe we still have these kind of men! Now i know why your girlfriend treats u like that....u are a whimp...a weak man. U aren't even bold enough to call it quit & move on...rather u wanna escape like a criminal....damn! i have read all of your posts on this thread & i must say u are a disgrace to men...Shame on u... whimp

Thanks for your advice Johnson232.

JerryTemi:
Fadamant no vex for me but you am right but as for the girl in question, let him be a man and seat her down,talk to her,tell her you are not enjoying her attitude towards you and the relationship that you want peace in your affair with her.Bros all the best.

Bros, I've tried severally, just didn't work out

JerryTemi:
Fadamant no vex for me but you am right but as for the girl in question, let him be a man and seat her down,talk to her,tell her you are not enjoying her attitude towards you and the relationship that you want peace in your affair with her.Bros all the best.

I've tried severally, just didn't work out

baibrown:
You should grab her by the neck very hard and put her out of the house. Tell her that her behavior will change or she will be put out of the house forever. Then don't speak to her for several days. She needs to fear you at least a little bit

Violence? never. I don't have that impulse. It will just deteriorate the situation. Anyways, thanks for the advice

I didn't say hurt her but you need to show her your a man not a mouse if you want respect. Sad way about it but your ways are not working. Some women understand nothing less.quote author=Protagonist post=55941068]

Violence? never. I don't have that impulse. It will just deteriorate the situation. Anyways, thanks for the advice[/quote]

The situation could not be worse
quote author=baibrown post=56085934]I didn't say hurt her but you need to show her your a man not a mouse if you want respect. Sad way about it but your ways are not working. Some women understand nothing less.quote author=Protagonist post=55941068]

Violence? never. I don't have that impulse. It will just deteriorate the situation. Anyways, thanks for the advice[/quote]

I agree. I say grow a pair already

bigcp:
just listen 2 urself..."i love her. can't stay away n she knows that"...then stop complaining...until she stabs u 2 death....ok now tell me...u can stay away...so what do u wnt us to do 4 u?...since you've made up ur mind nt to walk away....No offense bross...u r so 4kn weak...n she knws that...that's why she'll continue 2 treat u like a trash until u start acting like a man with 2 balls...HuH...
i hate brothers like this...