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| Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by hushshinani(op): 5:14pm On Apr 20, 2017*. Modified: 5:59pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
Good day my fellow nairalanders! I've always got this orientation that it's better to have at least one child before marriage to avoid being a baby hunter after marriage... If you could not hold yourself as a virgin before marriage, I guess it is not also bad to have a child before marriage because not waiting till your wedding day is a sin in some religions. You that could not hold yourself before marriage (people that they have sex before marriage) can not say having a child before marriage is a sin... Though, man does not make babies but at least it is good to be wise enough as a man... There are several cases of childlessness through out the globe... Some cases may be as follow. 1. several abortions 2. incompatibility 3. medical reasons etc. My option though! what do you guys think... feel free to express your opinion...
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| Re: Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by dingbang(m): 5:17pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
Are u trying to tell God he ain't competent? |
| Re: Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by Tallesty1(m): 5:19pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
Lols |
| Re: Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
It all depends on trust, if you don't trust, then you can go ahead, but having a bastard is not cool. |
| Re: Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by ikp120(m): 5:26pm On Apr 20, 2017*. Modified: 6:43pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
Spirikokos go rush ya head o. Hehehehehe  . Most of them forming holy are dumbass hypocrites who fvck like crazy before marriage but are like "God doesn't like giving birth before marriage o". Hehehe Funny people.But I'm not into all that child bearing stuff. I'm not ever gonna get married because of procreation; NEVER. I will simply fvck my wife like crazy and if she gets pregnant in the process, good; if she doesn't, we simply go and adopt. Shikina!  Things are not really as hard as we make them look. 1 Like |
| Re: Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by Davash222(m): 5:37pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
MhizTenderly:Trust or no trust, its just bad before God and Man. |
| Re: Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by Tallesty1(m): 5:40pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
MhizTenderly:No child is a bastard. Abeg no vex me
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| Re: Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by FelixFelicis(m): 5:45pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
dingbang:Oga goan hibernate your church mind, this isn't religion section, only secular discussions allowed  |
| Re: Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
With the stigmatization that goes with having a child out of wedlock you're asking this question. Can you stand the baggage of marring a single mother?. 1 Like |
| Re: Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by Quinn22(f): 6:08pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
It depends on the understanding between two partners. If both of you can come to an agreement, why not?  |
| Re: Isn't It A Good Idea To Have A Child Before Marriage? by hushshinani(op): 9:31am On Apr 21, 2017 |
Quinn22:ok |
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