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lmao.... ..... I'm not married o, at least not yet!! I'm not just single

Toks2008:
WOW! never knew you are now married...good one..and wishing you the best.

Toks2008:
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How una dey?

SPEEDEPITOME:
You call it 'Forming', I call it conforming to the society's standard. Some guys think it is bad for a lady to put herself out there, she's just supposed to wait, make no move until she's 'found'.

And most ladies cannot handle rejection the way guys can, so we'll rather not walk down that path because you don't know if your target (guy) is one who'll make a big news out of the fact that you made the first move on them.
Forget what these guys say online, the whole 'I don't mind a lady talking to me first' thing is a lie. A Lady sends them a PM, they already have thoughts in the head.
Until guys learn to handle this part correctly, more ladies will keep to themselves.

Toks2008:
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How una dey?

darbeelicous:
Toks2008 egbon mi...... I'm cool o....... good news.... I'm no longer single, I was at the time this thread was created, but right now I'm taken, and he's a nairalander too! Now I know that people do find love on nairaland.....


And I'm not 25 yet...... Lolz!!

haaaahh..... Nooooo...... Aunty, I'm not ready for that kinda commitment yet o


Hello....

NotOfThis:
Congrats. Do I hear wedding bells soon?

snakebeat:
Lets be honest with ourselvses...How many screenshot have u seen on NL?
If u are saying girls can't open up because of their level of boldness & inabilty to handle rejection, we would understand...because naturally women are more reserved, modest, and shy. Not using screenshot as smokescreen. Guys admire ladies who open up...because we know considerable number of ladies can't do it...

Toks2008:
Habba is it that bad? well boys are different from men.

SPEEDEPITOME:
A while back, I saw a guy on here that I thought I could be friends with because from his posts he stays in an area I just moved to. I sent him a PM, his reply was 'I don't do Nairaland girls'. I told him I just wanted to be friends. He asked how I got to know he stayed around that area, I told him I read his posts.
Guess what he said next? 'Quit stalking me, idiot'. I've never been more embarrassed my whole life.
so don't blame me if I don't send any guy PM on here or any platform for that matter.

snakebeat:
This is not true...

babake79:
There's a difference between going for a Boy and going for a Man... Only a Boy will do such a thing! Don't be scared to make the first move! Afterall the main goal is the "happily ever after" Will it matter that you made the first move in the grand scheme of things??

SPEEDEPITOME:
A while back, I saw a guy on here that I thought I could be friends with because from his posts he stays in an area I just moved to. I sent him a PM, his reply was 'I don't do Nairaland girls'. I told him I just wanted to be friends. He asked how I got to know he stayed around that area, I told him I read his posts.
Guess what he said next? 'Quit stalking me, idiot'. I've never been more embarrassed my whole life.
so don't blame me if I don't send any guy PM on here or any platform for that matter.

Nomfanelo99:
I'm 25 and this post is scaring me

FelixFelicia:
Okay, I can see girls 22 here also

SPEEDEPITOME:
(A while back, I saw a guy on here that I thought I could be friends with because from his posts he stays in an area I just moved to. I sent him a PM, his reply was 'I don't do Nairaland girls'. I told him I just wanted to be friends. He asked how I got to know he stayed around that area, I told him I read his posts.
Guess what he said next? 'Quit stalking me, idiot'. I've never been more embarrassed my whole life.
so don't blame me if I don't send any guy PM on here or any platform for that matter.

alexialin:
Smiles thanks.
I would say I was picky and still am.. Due to my past experiences.
And talk about my past experiences, I strongly feel it's destiny I didn't get married way back.. Cause if I were married way back? I wouldn't have achieved some level of career success and comfort . I have now.. Due to demands of husband. Children, in-laws, I will never be able to kick start a biz. Cause my strength to succeed comes from Inner peace. If my inner peace is gone or shaken or distablised? My enemy will be useless to even achieve anything.
So inner stability and inner peace is paramount for me.
But I don't regret not getting married earlier.
Cause I wasn't ready for the whole package, called Marriage. I saw it as Stressful with loads of drama lol. Back then
Although it's still stressful but now I think am matured emotionally to handle whatever comes my way.
I talk with married women who have kids and are close to me. Most find it difficult to juggle the home front and their carreer /buisness together . At the end, for the weak ones? Their career or buisnesses simply dies off, and they stay rooted in one spot looking for a way out or stay resigned in the marriage and with no other purpose of becoming better or adding something worthwhile apart from kids in the union.

Venom247:
Jeez. Couldn't hold myself from laughing at this. looolz.

NotOfThis:
Aww, I'm sorry that happened to you. You were brave for PMing a guy, tho.

xqzytchyca:
2 major things! 1. get my M.Sc in environmental toxicology 2. have my MBA

Rayton:
Hi
Strength of a woman.

SPEEDEPITOME:
A while back, I saw a guy on here that I thought I could be friends with because from his posts he stays in an area I just moved to. I sent him a PM, his reply was 'I don't do Nairaland girls'. I told him I just wanted to be friends. He asked how I got to know he stayed around that area, I told him I read his posts.
Guess what he said next? 'Quit stalking me, idiot'. I've never been more embarrassed my whole life.
so don't blame me if I don't send any guy PM on here or any platform for that matter.

Toks2008:
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How una dey?

UjSizzle:
And this is supposed to help you? Sorry, I'm confused.

I888:
lol. U sef help ursef. Upload ur Pic. Most girls who do that are not stupid.

kowalsky:
your job cannot fvvck you.

sorry for being so profane, but there's no better way to say it

Elsielex:
Couldn't you have read through and pass or better still close your eyes. This wasn't posted to either impress you or anyone. pls mind your business

dingbang:
try and put a dp

SPEEDEPITOME:
A while back, I saw a guy on here that I thought I could be friends with because from his posts he stays in an area I just moved to. I sent him a PM, his reply was 'I don't do Nairaland girls'. I told him I just wanted to be friends. He asked how I got to know he stayed around that area, I told him I read his posts.
Guess what he said next? 'Quit stalking me, idiot'. I've never been more embarrassed my whole life.
so don't blame me if I don't send any guy PM on here or any platform for that matter.

FTBOY:
i'm 52, no fiancee, no wahala...life continues.

SPEEDEPITOME:
A while back, I saw a guy on here that I thought I could be friends with because from his posts he stays in an area I just moved to. I sent him a PM, his reply was 'I don't do Nairaland girls'. I told him I just wanted to be friends. He asked how I got to know he stayed around that area, I told him I read his posts.
Guess what he said next? 'Quit stalking me, idiot'. I've never been more embarrassed my whole life.
so don't blame me if I don't send any guy PM on here or any platform for that matter.

Elsielex:
And fvcking is supposed to be paramount in life.
Pls buy yourself some brain with the fvcking you've had since you started fvcking.

Guy park well abeg