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When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Omotayor123(f): 3:54pm On Apr 21, 2017
I just witnessed a scene where a woman is sent packing from her matrimonial home because she's allegedly "using her husband STAR"
A Star that couldn't buy him a Bicycle before the Marriage.cheesy

Even if she was using the Said Star isn't it just better for her to Continuegrin

Jokes Apart,


This is the Gist:
The couple both work in a Big company But the wife is more financially stable compare to the husband. she's currently building a house with her husband supervising the whole thing. she got a car of recent in her husband's name but the family and the Society won't have any of these.

Her kindness have been turn to wickedness and she's being sent packing in a humiliating manner. (They have a kid)

Now, my question is:

When you were using your own star you can't afford a bike.
When your wife bought you a new car,you and your family said she is spiritually using your star.


Isn't it a Low self esteem If your wife's income and financial status is affecting your confidence as a man

If you Make her life miserable and not make her happy just because she's richer than you, does that not mean you were never in love with her.

Love is peace,not competition. Whoever makes more money shouldn't
be a problem as long as we knows and respects each other as husband and wife.....


What's your Take on This

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by DannyJ19(m): 3:57pm On Apr 21, 2017
the man needs flogging..





Star ko ORIGIN ni

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Presh900(m): 3:57pm On Apr 21, 2017
I rather die than be poorer than my wife... [url][/url]

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by generalbush(m): 3:58pm On Apr 21, 2017
mtcheewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww......

Here we go again!!

Broke girls and complaints sef angry undecided

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by INTROVERT(f): 3:59pm On Apr 21, 2017
Questions is, who sent her packing?

LET ME SPEAK FOR THE GUYS before you answer the above.
First of all she, like many others may have lost respect for our husband because 'richer' than them. She suddenly becomes proud and pompous to do household chores etc because she dishes out more dough.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by babyfaceafrica: 3:59pm On Apr 21, 2017
Not impossible..but this your story get k-leg...for traffic purpose abi?....okay

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 4:01pm On Apr 21, 2017
Whats wrong with the woman being the rich one
Shebi na same thing

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by slimthugchimee2(m): 4:02pm On Apr 21, 2017
Which nollywood producer did you steal his script undecided

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 4:03pm On Apr 21, 2017
I used to think I wouldn't be comfortable with my future wife earning more than I do, but due to all this feminism bs going around, I'm starting to have a rethink undecided

I mean men and women are equal right

As long as I have my money, I really can't give 2 fvcks about what my wife has.

I buy her a car, she buys me a car; and I think to myself, what a wonderful world smiley

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Omotayor123(f): 4:26pm On Apr 21, 2017
Bumbae1:
Whats wrong with the woman being the rich one
Shebi na same thing
Abi ooo. Especially When all will be passed down to the children eventually.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by ikp120(m): 4:27pm On Apr 21, 2017
Which kind mumu family be that sef? undecided undecided undecided
But Omotayo... hmmmmmmmm

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by firstking01(m): 4:29pm On Apr 21, 2017
Bumbae1:
Whats wrong with the woman being the rich one
Shebi na same thing
Everything is fvckingly wrong.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Omotayor123(f): 4:30pm On Apr 21, 2017
INTROVERT:
Questions is, who sent her packing?

LET ME SPEAK FOR THE GUYS before you answer the above.
First of all she, like many others may have lost respect for our husband because 'richer' than them. She suddenly becomes proud and pompous to do household chores etc because she dishes out more dough.
I already answered that. it was basically the man's family.

And from the story above, the woman wasn't pompous at all.
Many people blame her for not building the house and enjoy her wealth in secret.

I wonder if the Man would have been satisfied with her keeping everything from him.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 4:33pm On Apr 21, 2017
firstking01:
Everything is fvckingly wrong.
Bet y dont u guys wanna rest ni

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 4:35pm On Apr 21, 2017
Omotayor123:

Abi ooo. Especially When all will be passed down to the children eventually.

Yh same thing its all for the kids to have better future so if the wife if rich support her never know two of them go just rich together as God will bless a man who supports his wife dreams and vice versa ...
cc Mynd44 why don't guys like a rich wife ?


Wait is this tayo tayo like real real tayo shocked. U friends with twaci ??

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Omotayor123(f): 4:35pm On Apr 21, 2017
ikp120:
Which kind mumu family be that sef? undecided undecided undecided

But Omotayo... hmmmmmmmm
Not at all. check me out. I hardly create thread.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by firstking01(m): 4:35pm On Apr 21, 2017
Bumbae1:

Bet y dont u guys wanna rest ni
UntiL we enter there we shaLL never Restcheesy.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 4:36pm On Apr 21, 2017
firstking01:
UntiL we enter there we shaLL never Restcheesy.
Enter where grin after u go talk say i dey talk too much
Make i no even reply u seff grin

Hope u cool cheesy

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by firstking01(m): 4:39pm On Apr 21, 2017
Bumbae1:
Enter where grin after u go talk say i dey talk too much Make i no even reply u seff grin
Hope u cool cheesy
I 've been ontop of ma qame since mawninqgrin...And wbutongue.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by ikp120(m): 4:40pm On Apr 21, 2017
Omotayor123:
Not at all. check me out. I hardly create thread.
I was just pulling your legs. I wonder if I really saw anything between those legs. Hehehehehe grin grin grin grin

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 4:41pm On Apr 21, 2017
firstking01:
I 've been ontop of ma qame since mawninqgrin...And wbutongue.
Ontop so money don land how we go share am grin

Just been in and out light work today so a bit free .. just on my way out

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Mynd44: 4:49pm On Apr 21, 2017
Bumbae1:


Yh same thing its all for the kids to have better future so if the wife if rich support her never know two of them go just rich together as God will bless a man who supports his wife dreams and vice versa ...
cc Mynd44 why don't guys like a rich wife ?


Wait is this tayo tayo like real real tayo shocked. U friends with twaci ??

Part of the reason why men dont like when their wife is richer is because they want to dominate the woman but the more financialy independent a person (male or female), the less possible it is to doninate that person. So they say a richer woman will be proud but it is that she will not agree to be subjugated.

They also seem to think a richer wife won't have time to take care of the home. They want a maid as a wife who will be in the kitchen or in the bed.

Personally, if I have a wife that's richer, better for us as the family have more disposable income and the standard of living rises. I dont see the need to control my wife as we are partners, we can just be ourselves.

And on the issue of taking care of the house, my wife is not a maid. I will rather employ a maid and pay the maid to do that. Heck, aint nothing sexier than your wife going for a board meeting and coning back to "thank" you for supporting her prepare for it.

But then again, what do I know? I dont even have a GF.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by firstking01(m): 4:51pm On Apr 21, 2017
Bumbae1:

Ontop so money don land how we go share am grin

Just been in and out light work today so a bit free .. just on my way out
Wow, wish yua in ph woulda come take yhu owttongue...Btw, yhu got kiLLer curvestongue.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Splinz(m): 4:59pm On Apr 21, 2017
Mynd44:

But then again, what do I know? I dont even have a GF.

Yes, this is an advert

For your mind now, you think sey OUR girls go send you PM? undecided

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Mynd44: 5:03pm On Apr 21, 2017
Splinz:


For your mind now, you think sey OUR girls go send you PM? undecided

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Safiaa(f): 5:15pm On Apr 21, 2017
The fact of the matter is that MOST men will NOT be comfortable with their wife earning more than them. There is a sense of masculinty that men get being the main financial support for their familes. Now that doesnt mean a woman should take advantage of the fact that she earns more. But hey, such is life.

When i talk about not dating 'broke men' it falls back to this. You cant tell me this is the 21st century, and women are the financial providers these days. It takes a very strong emotionally stable man to withstand his wife making more than him. Women want to naturally feel like their being taken of regardless of their own financial status, so in the end it may cause problems. Its the truth, and i dont care what anybody has to say.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Splinz(m): 5:17pm On Apr 21, 2017
Omotayor123:
I just witnessed a scene where a woman is sent packing from her matrimonial home because she's allegedly "using her husband STAR"

Sounds like Nollywood story lines.

But then, if there's any shred of truth in this seeming work of fiction, then the culprits must be ferried back immediately to the stone age.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Pearl005(f): 5:27pm On Apr 21, 2017
Mynd44:

Part of the reason why men dont like when their wife is richer is because they want to dominate the woman but the more financialy independent a person (male or female), the less possible it is to doninate that person. So they say a richer woman will be proud but it is that she will not agree to be subjugated.

They also seem to think a richer wife won't have time to take care of the home. They want a maid as a wife who will be in the kitchen or in the bed.

Personally, if I have a wife that's richer, better for us as the family have more disposable income and the standard of living rises. I dont see the need to control my wife as we are partners, we can just be ourselves.

And on the issue of taking care of the house, my wife is not a maid. I will rather employ a maid and pay the maid to do that. Heck, aint nothing sexier than your wife going for a board meeting and coning back to "thank" you for supporting her prepare for it.

But then again, what do I know? I dont even have a GF.
Just saying!
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angry angry Oh! I also don't have a BF grin grin grin


This is not an advert cool coolIt's a declaration tongue tongue
BTW, Can we be GF and BF? cry

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by DukeNija(m): 5:54pm On Apr 21, 2017
Bumbae1:
Whats wrong with the woman being the rich one
Shebi na same thing
It's supposed to be the same thing but that's not the case sometimes.

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Omotayor123(f): 6:07pm On Apr 21, 2017
Mynd44:

Part of the reason why men dont like when their wife is richer is because they want to dominate the woman but the more financialy independent a person (male or female), the less possible it is to doninate that person. So they say a richer woman will be proud but it is that she will not agree to be subjugated.

They also seem to think a richer wife won't have time to take care of the home. They want a maid as a wife who will be in the kitchen or in the bed.

Personally, if I have a wife that's richer, better for us as the family have more disposable income and the standard of living rises. I dont see the need to control my wife as we are partners, we can just be ourselves.

And on the issue of taking care of the house, my wife is not a maid. I will rather employ a maid and pay the maid to do that. Heck, aint nothing sexier than your wife going for a board meeting and coning back to "thank" you for supporting her prepare for it.

But then again, what do I know? I dont even have a GF.

Yes, this is an advert
You raise nice points. If only all men could think same.
But that Ego ehn:"(

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by tosyne2much(m): 6:26pm On Apr 21, 2017
Most Nigerian men feel intimidated and they don't like to see women top them or excel more than them in all ramifications. This is very evident in our tertiary institutions and even place of work, etc

I think most men suffer from insecurity issues when their wives earn more than they do, and this is due to the fact that most ladies throw their obedience and humility to the wind the moment they earn more than their men

However, it's not that men who don't want their wives to be richer than then are enemy of progress, it's just that they don't want their ego to be shattered cheesy

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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 6:26pm On Apr 21, 2017
firstking01:
Wow, wish yua in ph woulda come take yhu owttongue...Btw, yhu got kiLLer curvestongue.
Its like everyone is PH whats there seff
Never been there

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