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Splinz:
Nope, only your lunatic mother.

Oyind17:
Work hard, marriage is another name for bondage

optional1:
please let it end.. Stop the insult i hate it..

And you already derailling my thread..
Please stop

Are you naturally bias or just playing dumb? Who is derailing your thread?

optional1:
ok dear
thank you..
Sorry for the insult it was on called for..
Please forgive him i hate insult.

Splinz:
Are you naturally bias or just playing dumb? Who is derailing your thread?

Oyind17:
C'mon, you don't have to apologize, I'm good

optional1:
sorry

i'm not bias nor dumb.. Just pleaded u and oyin should stop d insult cos u using it to derail.

Thank you

Splinz:
You can asslick for all you want, I'm not in for shits! What I gave her was only necessary and right.

And, you seems to have a very bad sense of judgment. SMH

optional1:
i know what you did was necessary but calling her mum wasn't necessary at all..

I don't have a bad sense of judgment.....


I'm Sorry all the same.

optional1:
i know what you did was necessary but calling her mum wasn't necessary at all..

Oyind17:
It was not necessary cos I didn't stop him from saying his mind concerning the topic

Splinz:
You see why I adjudged you the way I did!? Who brought mum into the scene?

optional1:
i rest my case to your lordship..

optional1:
Case adjourn till another hearing...

optional1:
Blessed day sir.

optional1:
VickyRotex dacovajnr

babyfaceafrica:
Nope...lots of single individual are successful e.g Seun and Linda. marriage is good and should be encouraged..but people should get married on their own time..not to be pressured by folks and society.. There are lots of people in unhappy marriages,there are also people who marrying the wrong person has destabilize their life's,we also have happy marriages. God and your personal hardwork decidese your happiness,not any man or woman

Splinz:




There wouldn't be another hearing over a trivial issue. Nemesis has passed his judgment already.



Have a nice day too.

Oyind17:
Marriage has nothing to do with success.

I HATE MARRIAGE

optional1:
mynd44 please ejo biko abeg release oyind17 biko unban her.. That ban is too much.. A woman who is pregnant would have given birth before she returns ejo..

She won't be able to even comment on my pre-wedding photos by next month not to talk abt d wedding photos itself nd post wedding photos, she won't be able to even wish me happy birthday nxt month. Ejo e'ma binu sir mynd44. Lalasticlala you can also help out biko.

Oyind18:
remove the under name

optional1:
u remove d post

LadyAimy:
Was banned

optional1:
again

ah eleyin gidi gan oh

LadyAimy:
you shouldn't have mentioned d18. I deactivated

optional1:
In the African system (I won't say globally because I know a lot of successful people in the white world who ain't married but stay relevant), it appears that regardless of how affluence and successful you are, you can never be marked completely relevant.

For the ladies, approaching the age of 25-30 without a matrimonial home, you're already considered done and a failure. And for the men, at age 35-40 without a wife, you're seen less relevant.

Take Miss Linda Ikeji as a case of study, the most popular blogger in Africa, a self made lady has received a lot of backlash from critics due to her inability to get married despite her level of success. Same goes to the Marvin's CEO, Don jazzy, the bangalee, Dbanj, Mr incredible,MI, Mr capable,Bankole Wellington(BankyW)...to mention a few.


Now my question is, must one get married in Africa to stay relevant? Does marriage determine a complete man? Can't one just remain single, stay out of marital issues and enjoy life as a bachelor or spinster?






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