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If I can be committed to a man...then you too can.

Years back,I was really scared of marriage/commitment not until I met him.
No doubt,I had a lot of male friends then but I never saw myself having anything serious to do with them.
It got to a point where I told myself that no man is worth my kind... In fact,apart from getting a lady pregnant what else can they offer?
But today it's a different story.
Just pray you meet the right one.

cococandy:
hey lady

Hey sweetie, how are you doing?
You look beautiful as always.

OP,your life,personality and destiny is different from that of your parents,they have lived their lives,so don't let their lives influence you or mould you into believing that you will repeat their mistakes or live
their lives,you can make a different,try and change your mind set,it will go a long way in shaping you and your relationship with women

You will never know the importance of a good marriage until you hit 60, 70+


Family over financial dreams bro. When money eventually comes, you will end up spending it all on your nieces and nephews. I know a man that currently begs his nieces and nephews to spend their holidays with him. They may love him as an Uncle but trust me, no Uncle can take the place of a good parent.

Do not complicate life further for yourself... find a good woman and marry her.

MARRIAGE AND CHILD BEARING are very important dreams everyone should pursue. It is not good for a man to be lonely.. that's the first thing the Bible said when a partner was prescribed. Do not let anyone confuse you or encourage the path you've chosen. Loneliness is a terrible thing, it will lead to depression and death; it kills faster than poverty.

Our best moments were those days when we had nothing. You can never imagine the fun we had drinking garri on campus with those watery beans. Today, people only try to spend some money on fun events after series of insults and pressures from bosses and customers. You can be broke, happy and happily married, but I don't know a happily single old man or woman, I don't know ANY because they don't exist.

You wouldn't want to experience the consequences of loneliness, trust me.

GET TO GOD IN PRAYERS
HE PROMISED TO HELP
GOD IS UNDER OBLIGATION TO KEEP HIS WORD OF HELPING US OUT ESPECIALLY IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS
BECAUSE OF HIS FAITHFULNESS NOT BECAUSE SOMEONE WILL BEAT HIM IF HE DOES NOT DO WHAT HE SAID
THIS IS WHAT HE SAID
"CALL ON ME IN THE DAYS OF TROUBLE I WILL ANSWER YOU" {PSALM 50:15}
"CALL TO ME, I WILL ANSWER YOU AND I WILL TEACH YOU GREAT AND MIGHTY THINGS YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT" {JEREMIAH 33:3}
MAY THE HOLY SPIRIT OUR HELPER ENCOURAGE YOU AND UPLIFT YOU FROM THIS TRIAL MOMENT IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.

Mindfulness:
Hey sweetie, how are you doing?
You look beautiful as always.

Fine. Thank you

And how are you?

cococandy:
Fine. Thank you

And how are you?

I am good, full of appreciation.
Can't wait for the weather to change though. It has been chilly lately.

How is your little princess doing?

Mindfulness:
I am good, full of appreciation.
Can't wait for the weather to change though. It has been chilly lately.

How is your little princess doing?

She's doing awesome.

Cold weather? Tell me about it. Arghh. I've had enough! Summer can't come fast enough right now

Acidosis:
You will never know the importance of a good marriage until you hit 60, 70+


Family over financial dreams bro. When money eventually comes, you will end up spending it all on your nieces and nephews. I know a man that currently begs his nieces and nephews to spend their holidays with him. They may love him as an Uncle but trust me, no Uncle can take the place of a good parent.

Do not complicate life further for yourself... find a good woman and marry her.

MARRIAGE AND CHILD BEARING are very important dreams everyone should pursue. It is not good for a man to be lonely.. that's the first thing the Bible said when a partner was prescribed. Do not let anyone confuse you or encourage the path you've chosen. Loneliness is a terrible thing, it will lead to depression and death; it kills faster than poverty.

Our best moments were those days when we had nothing. You can never imagine the fun we had drinking garri on campus with those watery beans. Today, people only try to spend some money on fun events after series of insults and pressures from bosses and customers. You can be broke, happy and happily married, but I don't know a happily single old man or woman, I don't know ANY because they don't exist.

You wouldn't want to experience the consequences of loneliness, trust me.

Pastor Acidosis....

Marriage is not for everyone.

We have our dear Apostle Paul.

However, I agree that most people need the companionship a wonderful marriage provides.

Mindfulness:
I am good, full of appreciation.
Can't wait for the weather to change though. It has been chilly lately.

How is your little princess doing?

cococandy:
She's doing awesome.

Cold weather? Tell me about it. Arghh. I've had enough!

How are you two?

Longest time.

bukatyne:
How are you two?

Longest time.

Good good
You?

cococandy:
Good good
You?

Splendid

bukatyne:
Pastor Acidosis....

Marriage is not for everyone.

We have our dear Apostle Paul.

However, I agree that most people need the companionship a wonderful marriage provides.

Paul is an Apostle who spent his life serving God. He did that in an era where women are not allowed to take the front seats.

These days where Pastors are surrounded by slay mama queens, it would be disastrous for anyone to take that path. I think it is better to follow the instructions of God who had seen the future even before the days of Paul.

But on a second note, marriage isn't really for everyone (even if everyone desire to get married).

cococandy:
She's doing awesome.

Cold weather? Tell me about it. Arghh. I've had enough! Summer can't come fast enough right now

I am sure, she is. You are her mother. That's a blessing.

bukatyne:
How are you two?

Longest time.

I am fine. Are you? Nice to read from you.

Mindfulness:
I am sure, she is. You are her mother. That's a blessing.

you're too kind

Acidosis:
You will never know the importance of a good marriage until you hit 60, 70+


Family over financial dreams bro. When money eventually comes, you will end up spending it all on your nieces and nephews. I know a man that currently begs his nieces and nephews to spend their holidays with him. They may love him as an Uncle but trust me, no Uncle can take the place of a good parent.

Do not complicate life further for yourself... find a good woman and marry her.

MARRIAGE AND CHILD BEARING are very important dreams everyone should pursue. It is not good for a man to be lonely.. that's the first thing the Bible said when a partner was prescribed. Do not let anyone confuse you or encourage the path you've chosen. Loneliness is a terrible thing, it will lead to depression and death; it kills faster than poverty.

Our best moments were those days when we had nothing. You can never imagine the fun we had drinking garri on campus with those watery beans. Today, people only try to spend some money on fun events after series of insults and pressures from bosses and customers. You can be broke, happy and happily married, but I don't know a happily single old man or woman, I don't know ANY because they don't exist.

You wouldn't want to experience the consequences of loneliness, trust me.

Do you know how many elderly people end up lonely even though they have kids? Quite a number.
Besides, who said you will live to become 60 or 70?

cococandy:
you're too kind

Sometimes and only to those I like.

Mindfulness:
Sometimes and only to those I like.

hehehe

cococandy:
hehehe

I saw your chicken recipe. Looks delicious. I will try it out some time soon.

How is life in the US of A?

Do you miss home?

Mindfulness:


I saw your chicken recipe. Looks delicious. I will try it out some time soon.

How is life in the US of A?

Do you miss home?

Post pictures when you do

Nah. I don't miss home.

USA is okay but I'm sorta kinda done. I want to move so bad. Or at least to a warmer state if we can't leave to another country. With Donald trump in power, it's becoming everything I hated about nigeria.

cococandy:
Post pictures when you do

I have a recipe for you for a salad. It's easy to make, healthy and delicious.

Nah. I don't miss home.

USA is okay but I'm sorta kinda done. I want to move so bad. Or at least to a warmer state if we can't leave to another country. With Donald trump in power, it's becoming everything I hated about nigeria.

Donald will fall deep. It's a matter of time.
Come to Europe. I recommend Spain, Andalusia in particular. It borders on Africa. It's hot and the people there are lovely.

I considered moving there a few years ago but business here is going quite well and I do not want to leave friends and family.

Mindfulness:
I have a recipe for you for a salad. It's easy to make, healthy and delicious.



Donald will fall deep. It's a matter of time.
Come to Europe. I recommend Spain, Andalusia in particular. It borders on Africa. It's hot and the people there are lovely.

I considered moving there a few years ago but business here is going quite well and I do not want to leave friends and family.

Tag me in the kitchen thread for the recipe.

I wish we could just move anywhere we want

cococandy:
Tag me in the kitchen thread for the recipe.

I will.

I wish we could just move anywhere we want

You have options.

Mindfulness:
I will.



You have options.

I do have options. I'm just momentarily stuck. It's the waiting that's hard.

You just have to get over these fears.your background,financial status...should not deter you...