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Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? - Romance - Nairaland

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Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by excessmon(op): 5:10pm On Apr 30, 2017
A man is suppose to love and a woman is suppose to respect the man......but my question which one comes first.......is it the love or the respect?
Re: Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by madridguy(m): 5:11pm On Apr 30, 2017
The love from the man. My opinion though.
Re: Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Apr 30, 2017
If you have no respect for someone how can you love them?
Re: Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by menxer: 5:26pm On Apr 30, 2017
Hhhhhmmmmm

Submission by the woman means submitting the cookie jar (especially) for the man to do as he pleases with it.

Love by the man means not abusing the woman before, during or after taking his fill of the cookies, in this case.

Either one can come first it doesn't matter.
Re: Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by anitapreeti(f): 5:42pm On Apr 30, 2017
Love should come first.
Love makes the first move on respect.....
Re: Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by Nobody: 5:50pm On Apr 30, 2017
anitapreeti:
Love should come first.
Love makes the first move on respect.....
Nah, love often stems from mutual respect. The relationship will definitely last if the Girl respects you as her Man.
Re: Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by anitapreeti(f): 6:30pm On Apr 30, 2017
iamadonis2:
Nah, love often stems from mutual respect. The relationship will definitely last if the Girl respects you as her Man.
A man approaches a woman he loves. Whether you accept it or nah! Love goes first....
Re: Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by shestrong(f): 6:34pm On Apr 30, 2017
love then respect if u love someone den ul respect dem
Re: Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by Dret: 8:17pm On Apr 30, 2017
How can you love someone you don't respect? In any case, if the man approaches you, it often signifies he loves you. So, the next line of action without questioning then be to reply with respect.
Re: Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by boiz2men(m): 11:04pm On Apr 30, 2017
this love topic is vague.. i have been looking at relationships and marrriages with an open mind and i am almost certain i know how this works. Most girls do not marry who they LOVE, they marry who LOVE them.

see this..


suppose i pick one of this NL gals and send them a pm... and the girl isnt by chance one of those larger than life kind of girls and replies my PM.... Note here that she doesnt know me how much more like me (not to talk of love). I, on the hand, already know what i want from her.
With time, we become good friends and i make her see the contents of my hearts.. with quite some degree of persisence, she succumbs and finally agrees to date me.. Then, i propose and shes my wife.. yes, just like that...


my point is ... why i already had the babe in mind for marriage before i even sent her a PM, she didnt even know i existed b4 then.. her supposed LOVE was nurtured and grown after i profess LOVE to her...


so you see, women do not exactly marry who they LOVE, they marry who LOVES them. this is how it is in the real sense when you are old for marriage

this is what this young gals dont know... they would keep drooling over a boy they claim they LOVE and waiting on chance to make that guy woo them.. As far as marriage is concerned, ladies marry who love them and no the otherwise.. as for dating.... anything goes
Re: Which One Comes First......the Love From The Man Or The Respect From The Woman? by babyfaceafrica: 11:43pm On Apr 30, 2017
Ambiguous topic..you better rephrase!!!
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