Every guy loves a slay queen but am not sure if there is a guy that loves an insubmissive lady. Attended a conference in Nairobi where the speaker demystify feminism as an agent of insubordination. Every lady claims that they can do it all ( including sex) on their own and therefore proving to have equal right with their men in a relationship.
Am not an antifeminist but I feel women are taking it a lil further no respects anymore for their man no honour or whatsoever... Gone are the days where culture had it that a woman had to be submissive a good example our parents... now the trend is we both have equal right ....if the guy shout the ladies screams if he stays out pate and comes home at12 the lady locks the door and doesn't open until next day if he doesn't have money no food for the poor dude.. this got me thinking what happened to culture ... or is it me just leaving in the past or do ladies now tag submission as foolishness.

Some men abuse this submission. Dat a girl is submissive to a guy don't mean he should toss her around.. He should have respect for her as well..


I have a friend who just cried to me she "submitted" to this coward of a guy who had nothing when she came into his life.. When he managed to get a 70k job, he started feeling like as if d world is his footstool and began ordering her around.... Although she would obey just because she liked him but he foolishly took advantage of it and it got out of hand.. She has broken up with him now and has decided not to be submissive anymore...


I think submission isn't a problem for the ladies since they know that . but the problem most times come from the men... They don't appreciate a submissive woman..



Thanks and God bless

I hope I marry a cool woman. One that tries to take away the stress of life, not one that adds to it.

For most Nigerian women, yes. But a Nigerian man will always love a woman who submits more, no matter her other traits.

MrSavage:
Every guy loves a slay queen but am not sure if there is a guy that loves an insubmissive lady. Attended a conference in Nairobi where the speaker demystify feminism as an agent of insubordination. Every lady claims that they can do it all ( including sex) on their own and therefore proving to have equal right with their men in a relationship.
Am not an antifeminist but I feel women are taking it a lil further no respects anymore for their man no honour or whatsoever... Gone are the days where culture had it that a woman had to be submissive a good example our parents... now the trend is we both have equal right ....if the guy shout the ladies screams if he stays out pate and comes home at12 the lady locks the door and doesn't open until next day if he doesn't have money no food for the poor dude.. this got me thinking what happened to culture ... or is it me just leaving in the past or do ladies now tag submission as foolishness.

marriage is all about fulfilling PURPOSE. and until you understand that someone must play the lead role,you are bound to fail. SUBMISSION is not a sign of inequality, its a sign of FOCUS,on the PURPOSE. Two captains cannot sail a ship, it will soon go aground.

dingbang:
Some men abuse this submission. Dat a girl is submissive to a guy don't mean he should toss her around.. He should have respect for her as well..


I have a friend who just cried to me she "submitted" to this coward of a guy who had nothing when she came into his life.. When he managed to get a 70k job, he started feeling like as if d world is his footstool and began ordering her around.... Although she would obey just because she liked him but he foolishly took advantage of it and it got out of hand.. She has broken up with him now and has decided not to be submissive anymore...


I think submission isn't a problem for the ladies since they know that . but the problem most times come from the men... They don't appreciate a submissive woman..



Thanks and God bless

I agree but knowing is a thing (submission) is right and not doing it because you were mistreated doesn't justify the actions

EnigmaticEnigma:
I hope I marry a cool woman. One that tries to take away the stress of life, not one that adds to it.

we all hope for that bro

we (men) love humble ladies not "dunces", ,,,,show me your worth and i'll become the nigga with the highest bid


#positivevibes

MrSavage:
I agree but knowing is a thing (submission) is right and not doing it because you were mistreated doesn't justify the actions

look its simple.. Wen u treat a woman right she will be submissive.. U just don't expect it to come on some platter of gold..


Respect ur woman and she will be submissive..

Ajinoride:


marriage is all about fulfilling PURPOSE. and until you understand that someone must play the lead role,you are bound to fail. SUBMISSION is not a sign of inequality, its a sign of FOCUS,on the PURPOSE. Two captains cannot sail a ship, it will soon go aground.

hmmm deep insight .... professor ajinoride

dingbang:
look its simple.. Wen u treat a woman right she will be submissive.. U just don't expect it to come on some platter of gold..


Respect ur woman and she will be submissive..

the word **RIGHT**varies for different ladies

MrSavage:
the word **RIGHT**varies for different ladies

hmmm. Am tired abeg

dingbang:
look its simple.. Wen u treat a woman right she will be submissive.. U just don't expect it to come on some platter of gold..


Respect ur woman and she will be submissive..

Please will you be my husband ?
The father of my unborn children?

Rukkydelta:

Please will you be my husband ?
The father of my unborn children?

am shy

dingbang:
am shy

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