tommyken:
There is a new mental poison giving to young men of today telling them money is all they need to have women, if you subcribe to this line of thought then be ready for a rude awakening when your girlfriend, wife or mistress leaves you when things are not financially stable for you.

Money has never been a factor for love by any woman on earth. A Womans love goes beyond what you can explain, its a deep seated inner feeling and money has never been a decided factor for it. She may pretend to love you when you can provide her needs and wants but its not you she loves but what you posseses and the moment you lost that possesion she moves on because it was never about you in person.

The best time for a young guy to find or know who to marry is when he is still struggling. Being broke should never stop you from dating because thats the best moment to find love. I know people who were still struggling when they got married and today are abundantly rich And I also know people who waited to be rich before they married and today are nothing with wife divorcing them and their life shattered.

While you hustle to make money dont forget to build your character, wisdom and knowledge to handle life because at the end these things will sustain your relationship more than money.

TheDevil666:
They have no brain naw. It's as simple as that!

AstroG1:



See this One
Goan hustle ooh,make ur Junior no Use Benz take carry your Ex

AstroG1:




Na all their Brains them pack give you na..
Don't go and Hustle.

pansophist:
Security (colloquially described as money), is but a component of what attracts a woman to a man. From time immemorial, a man must embody the ability to confer security to his spouse, dependant and if needs be, his ascendant. To make a woman naturally submit and revel in her femininity, she has to feel safe from danger and subsistence.

In the past security comes in different ways, such as gladiatorial and muscular looks, as tribes and society lived with the ever present fear of contending invaders. Presently, having financial capabilities will afford you a safe neighbourhood, provide for your subsistence and a relative proof of a man that is reaping bountifully from his purpose.

Though, the aforementioned should not preclude his responsibility of developing his wisdom, inner strength, and all other components of qualities that is required from a man. Security is only a slice in the whole pie. Look around you, most of the broken home is a result of money, it is the number one cause of dissolution. Regardless if women earn their own money, a man must be able to demonstrate his ability to confer security, as without it, what will it benefits a woman to be with him?

vikkimimi:
Right on point...
though this doesn't change the fact that some individuals (ladies) have different standards.

seankafor:
No manuals to these shiits bro.

It can go both ways...but the koko be say.

As a man,u gats make money and live comfortable.

Love is sweeter when money dey involved.

condemn:


Make una when be men get sense and stop this money is sweet when there is love talk. Na foolishness oh

condemn:


Make una when be men get sense and stop this money is sweet when there is love talk. Na foolishness oh

seankafor:
u be full time olodo

No make money naa, make u and ur wife dey for leaking roof dey make love..fool

Blazebond:
Wetin you sef come dey write here,oya remain poor nau,make your family and friends use you make yeye,dem tell you say one man go carry all the women for earth before,listen all men,u better work smart and honest to have money o,money stops nonsense oooooooooooo,nor follow dis yeye write-up ooooooooooo,if you get money many women go run follow you ooooo,even d werey when be they style since say she get class would not be able to resist anymore o,bleep all this so called over-sense write-up ooo,make money make your family and friends nor dey hiss anytime dem see your phone call.

condemn:


I'm 34 and in my own 3 bedroom flat rented and furnished. I have an uncompleted building in warri and I live in Lagos. Yes, money is needed to make life better but don't make it look as if it is all you need to keep a woman. You call me olowo? My brother if you see me in person, you nor go fit talk oh

condemn:


I'm 34 and in my own 3 bedroom flat rented and furnished. I have an uncompleted building in warri and I live in Lagos. Yes, money is needed to make life better but don't make it look as if it is all you need to keep a woman. You call me olowo? My brother if you see me in person, you nor go fit talk oh

pansophist:
Security (colloquially described as money), is but a component of what attracts a woman to a man. From time immemorial, a man must embody the ability to confer security to his spouse, dependant and if needs be, his ascendant. To make a woman naturally submit and revel in her femininity, she has to feel safe from danger and subsistence.

In the past security comes in different ways, such as gladiatorial and muscular looks, as tribes and society lived with the ever present fear of contending invaders. Presently, having financial capabilities will afford you a safe neighbourhood, provide for your subsistence and a relative proof of a man that is reaping bountifully from his purpose.

Though, the aforementioned should not preclude his responsibility of developing his wisdom, inner strength, and all other components of qualities that is required from a man. Security is only a slice in the whole pie. Look around you, most of the broken home is a result of money, it is the number one cause of dissolution. Regardless if women earn their own money, a man must be able to demonstrate his ability to confer security, as without it, what will it benefits a woman to be with him?

Ariza:
I had the intention of giving you a mention when I opened this thread but here you are already. Will anything convince you otherwise that making money isn't really the principal factor that makes one relevant or loved?

lilwetdick:


the way you write make it seems like all men will have abundant of security...aka money

look at the world around you and see the big picture, 90% of men of marriageable age are either average or poor and many of them working 9-5 with an intact family only 10% of marriageable men are rich or have that security

so basically, if we have to go through your theoretical principle, then no woman will get married since all of them are looking for men with money.

pansophist:
Security (colloquially described as money), is but a component of what attracts a woman to a man. From time immemorial, a man must embody the ability to confer security to his spouse, dependant and if needs be, his ascendant. To make a woman naturally submit and revel in her femininity, she has to feel safe from danger and subsistence.

In the past security comes in different ways, such as gladiatorial and muscular looks, as tribes and society lived with the ever present fear of contending invaders. Presently, having financial capabilities will afford you a safe neighbourhood, provide for your subsistence and a relative proof of a man that is reaping bountifully from his purpose.

Though, the aforementioned should not preclude his responsibility of developing his wisdom, inner strength, and all other components of qualities that is required from a man. Security is only a slice in the whole pie. Look around you, most of the broken home is a result of money, it is the number one cause of dissolution. Regardless if women earn their own money, a man must be able to demonstrate his ability to confer security, as without it, what will it benefits a woman to be with him?

lilwetdick:
anyway, not all men will be rich or wealthy, if you like say go and hustle, not all hustling lead to riches, many men will be average and many women will marry the average men whether they like it or not only few women will marry the rich men.

And your statement

I know people who were still struggling when they got married and today are abundantly rich And I also know people who waited to be rich before they married and today are nothing with wife divorcing them and their life shattered.

your statement is pure survival bias.

there are plenty struggling couples and few rich couple,being rich has nothing to do with being married or not.